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Ihearmytrain
05-05-2007, 08:38 PM
This is a general question to anyone and everyone. After my last dead end relationship with an American girl who was a scammer in her own way(seven long years of lies and BS) I litterally stumbled onto a Russian dating site. I met a girl who displayed non of the "RED FLAGS" I heard about, until a few months into things when a real meeting became a topic and the request for money came. I got her to give up her address because I told her WU needed the info. I paid for an anti-scam background check using the info she gave me and her photos and she turned out to be blacklisted on several sites including this one. For fun, I continue writing to her promising money, but always having an excuse why I couldn't send it. I continued my search and found her on another Russian dating site. I openned a new AOL address and changed my name from Bob to Rob and began a new correspondence while still writing her on my other screen account. It's fun messing with her since I know the more time and effort she wastes on me may save someone else. I found she goes back at least 2 or 3 years. She's very good! No nude pics or "Glamour Shots" so she seems real! Although as I look with fresh eyes, some pics do look posed for. As all of this is going on, I kept up my hopes of finding a real girl. So far, another I found in this site's data base, one that fell in love with me and wants money so she can fly to me after less than a month and 5 e-mails and 2 that are so obvious that I have sent them the most graphic, pornographic descriptions of what I plan for our first meeting that I should be arrested, but they still want me and have answered not 1 question I have asked!
Now to my subject...ARE THERE ANY REAL SITES WITH REAL GIRLS OUT THERE??????????????I almost believe that this is all a scam by the Russian government to soak money from western men so they can rebuild the USSR!!! Seriously, if anyone knows of a legitamite site, please pass the site info on to the rest of us. Thanks guys!!!

Train

josy
05-14-2007, 12:40 PM
I think it is impossible to find good site. The main reason is that there is a limited number of good-looking girls and hundreds, better-said thousands of various agencies trying to make a living. The fact is also that "supply" of fresh girls is declining. Living conditions in FSU are improving and it is more and more difficult to find suitable girls who would be willing to move abroad. On the other hand there are a growing number of scammers who are attracted by easily earned money. Agencies have realized that they cannot survive on their own so they formed alliances. Some of these alliances are very innovative. Like for example http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com If you check this forum you will think "oh, finally forum where you can exchange experiences with men like myself". Wrong. Forum is just another way to advertise their sites and services. And I think they are very successful. Word of mouth advertising is still the cheapest and the most effective way to get customers. So which sites are good? The one who do not belong to this alliances, have their office address and owners/managers name clearly stated, do not charge for corresponding, do not organize massive ?tours?, offer private attention and prefer to see that you personally come to their office. Now it is up to you to find them:)

Ihearmytrain
05-14-2007, 09:14 PM
Hey josy! 1st I'd like to thank you for an honest answer!!! There are a lot of sarcastic people on this site. I joined to exchange ideas and info about scammers etc... not to shoot others down for what they may not know or understand. Unfortunately, I'm finding what you said to be more and more true. I see the same girls with new names on various sites that link to each other. I've been cautious and have so far only given up money to the background checker. It's frustrating, but if no one has heard of a "safe" site, I guess I'll just keep trying and keep my eyes open for the "red flags".

Train

Ihearmytrain
05-14-2007, 09:14 PM
Hey josy! 1st I'd like to thank you for an honest answer!!! There are a lot of sarcastic people on this site. I joined to exchange ideas and info about scammers etc... not to shoot others down for what they may not know or understand. Unfortunately, I'm finding what you said to be more and more true. I see the same girls with new names on various sites that link to each other. I've been cautious and have so far only given up money to the background checker. It's frustrating, but if no one has heard of a "safe" site, I guess I'll just keep trying and keep my eyes open for the "red flags".

Train

josy
05-15-2007, 07:48 AM
Hi Ihearmytrain! I totally understand you. You have to be aware that marriage business is very lucrative, so many agencies employ people only to participate on various forums and get them potential customers. So do not be surprised if almost every member on site attacks you when you disagree with something;) The fact is, that they look for foolish men who are willing to pay a lot of money for corresponding, trips, gifts etc. Do you know how many men who correspond actually come to Russia? 5%!!! Unfortunately I do not know how many of them actually get married and how high is divorce level of these marriages. I would like to give you honest advice. If you have opportunity, come to Russia. You will see how people are like and if you like what you see, then look for a girl. I bet you will meet more nice girls here than on Internet. And yes, girls like foreigners;) Oh, one more advice: look for a girl who is similar to you (age, education etc.) and you will have a wife for a lifetime:)

josy
05-15-2007, 07:48 AM
Hi Ihearmytrain! I totally understand you. You have to be aware that marriage business is very lucrative, so many agencies employ people only to participate on various forums and get them potential customers. So do not be surprised if almost every member on site attacks you when you disagree with something;) The fact is, that they look for foolish men who are willing to pay a lot of money for corresponding, trips, gifts etc. Do you know how many men who correspond actually come to Russia? 5%!!! Unfortunately I do not know how many of them actually get married and how high is divorce level of these marriages. I would like to give you honest advice. If you have opportunity, come to Russia. You will see how people are like and if you like what you see, then look for a girl. I bet you will meet more nice girls here than on Internet. And yes, girls like foreigners;) Oh, one more advice: look for a girl who is similar to you (age, education etc.) and you will have a wife for a lifetime:)

ham
05-17-2007, 10:43 AM
http://stop-scammers.com/forum/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=759

most commercial forums are a DAMN J O K E.
I used to get letters offering me (and i still have to know why) to sponsor them, or honey-dew letters from middlemen urging to join agencies pimped by the clique running them.
Once it appeared i was no game, they all turned against me like a tide.

ham
05-17-2007, 10:43 AM
http://stop-scammers.com/forum/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=759

most commercial forums are a DAMN J O K E.
I used to get letters offering me (and i still have to know why) to sponsor them, or honey-dew letters from middlemen urging to join agencies pimped by the clique running them.
Once it appeared i was no game, they all turned against me like a tide.