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07-05-2004, 10:10 PM #1imported_admin Guest
Thank's to Ray for the story below. These comments will help many single men.
I subscribed to a well-known agency. And found about 7 Scammers in 9 replies. I got a lot of time wasted, but being astute stopped me from being scammed for money. I saw them coming. Here's some things to ask those women (likely that it's not a woman but a group of mafia) and things to spot. These comments may not show for definite that she's / they are trying to scam you, but cumulatively, you'd be wise to back off.
1. The big come ons (ok, she could really be in need and love you)
"I don't like the men of my country, they want only one thing" (that's to dupe you)
"I'm studying at university, I had a full day of seminars today" (but it was a weekend - dork)
2. Says she speaks and writes English very well - she did it at school (if she's young and it's that good - no way)
3. The photos:
One scammer had a range of age photos, one showed "recent51" (wow she's really been at the camera, but she said) "the Internet is new to me"
She had a great tan in all of them.
She had great clothes and fantastic shoes, handbag - $100 - 200 (honey, I don't have money)
4. "Only You" (Jeepers, I must be a great guy, I'm 3 times older than her and after 2 letters she wants only to write to me)
5. "Visit you" "Darling, I'm hungry for you, I can't wait to see you" is a typical blah, blah, (then she'll ask for money for something) but this one was a little crafty because "it" knew that I might be on to them...
...I have realized that you become a great part of my life and now all I want is to meet you soon. Please don't think I'm too spontaneous. This is not so. I was thinking a lot about it. I will not rush you into anything as I want us to feell a real happiness together. I'm thirsty to see you because I miss you much. And I do want to know you in a real life! This is my dream and my fairytale which I hope will come true soon. Will you do this for me? If your working shedule will not let you go to the europian country I will come to your place." (crafty, tried to show how willing she was) "I have told you many times already that I would like to spend the time together someday and I'm sure we don't have to wait long for this day. If we like each other so strong we should try our best in order to arrange the meeting in the nearest time" (but she's studying - remember). "Please be open with me and tell me wether you want to begin planning our meeting or maybe you want to wait more?" (good phrase, to ease the pressure and try to dupe me)
"Though our correspondence is not very long but I feel like I know you good as I'm completely open with you and I want to share all my feelings when we meet. I want to touch you, to feel your kiss and to give you mine and not only by letters.
Ok,my dear I'm finishing this letter but I will look forward to get your reply soon!
I'm ready to start all the necessary arrangements in order to come to you soon! I'm not afraid of the long distance......kissing you
PART OF MY REPLY TO TEST FOR HER SCAM without making a clear accusation: (if she didn't answer = guilty)
...Oleysa, I would very much like to find that you are the real woman. So please do not be offended by me, it is because I had the same kind of letters from other women, and the next thing that I found was that they were not real people - they were only photos - so please do not understand me in a bad way. It has happened before, that a nice woman was wanting to see me - and then I got the real news.
Guess what: she didn't answer. Because the thing behind the computer screen knows that no money is coming.
Here's some useful probing questions which they can't easily get answers for if they are not real.
Q1: Where are you studying? (then get the establishment to confirm it)
Q2: Ask for a home address, and check it with the establishment, if you can
Q3: Ask for a photo of her with family (then you'll know that the photo's not stolen by copying)
Q4: She said she didn't have a telephone at home - but she could send e-mails after midnight! Ha, Ha, Ha!
Q5: If she's writing only to you now - tell her to remove her Profile
Q6: Ask something like this:
Now, I have to talk about something, I hope that you will not be offended by it. I do know about Lugansk, it is a place where exist many criminals who use women to make money by Internet, you heard about it. I know that many girls are used by criminals, even some girls were hurt, and some photos are stolen and the girls do not know that their photo is on the Agency. So you can understand it is so very bad for these things happening to true and honest women.
Olesya it is for your protection that I need to be sure that no person is writing and translating false information. Lugansk region is a very bad region. I do not want to add to the list of bad things. What I want is to give you the chance for a new life, so I be very careful to find that no person is using you and you do not get used by criminals.
So to help you, I do need to know where you study, and I would like your home address and photo with your family (you can take some time to do this, so please keep writing to me). Then I know that your identity is not stolen by the criminals and making copy of photo by Internet on the Agency. When I am happy about this I will be able to offer you a wonderful life. In this way I will be protecting all the other women who are trying to find happiness - so please do not be offended.
(She continued to write, but would then be quite careful, she / they were determined to get me, but I'd laid too many traps and finally she stopped writing - they are not going to waste their time - they can get money from some idiot)
F1: If they want money for the Internet - tell them to sell their fancy shoes - those ones they can't afford!
F2: HEY, DON'T SEND MONEY, Don't fall for woman until you've been steadily writing and not received inconsistencies. Be smart and catch THEM. I did.
03-24-2005, 06:35 AM #21Junior Member
quote:Originally posted by Raibeart
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- Mar 2005
To answer your question. I was looking for a woman that was willing to love me, not my bank account or credit card. And, I found her. It took work to do it. And, no matter where you look, it is going to take work.
Personally, I never accused any woman of scamming me. And I nver wrote the kind of letter you mentioned. But I am sure there were many that were written that way. Also, I have heard from friends that do translations like you did of the vulgar letters men wrote to ladies about sex and their perversions. So, the men are just as bad and in many cases worse than the ladies.
Guys, in general, they do not speak, read, or write a foreign language. To correspond with them, you will need to be a gentleman and pay for it. If you are not interested enough to spend a few dollars on correspondence, then look in your own country again and do not waste the lady's time and money.
Also, just some stastics for you to ponder...
Out of 100 men writing to ladies in Russia, only 10 EVER go there to meet them.
Out of those 10, only 5 ever go a second time.
Out of the 10 that went, only 5 - 6 ever follow through and bring the lady to his country.
And, out of those that do get married, about 40% end in divorce.
So, the divorce average is a little better than the general public, but, just because she is Russian does not mean that she will put up with an idiot for the rest of her life.
This is not for everyone. So, if you have any doubts, then think long and hard about it before continuing.
I am moving to Russia in October to be with my fiance and marry her. One of the things that I will be doing there is creating a men's scamming list to profile the men that write and don't go, are perverts, and accuse of scamming from the first letter. The ladies will be able to look for the men there before writing to them, just like you can at this site.
I wonder if any of the men here will be listed on it. ????
07-30-2005, 05:16 AM #22Junior Member
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- Jul 2005
Sometimes it is needed to be real. No matter where you look for a women you can get scammed in one way or another. I have none men to get married and lose everything. Is it really any different to get scammed for a few bucks.
You need some common sense.
1) never send cash
2)It is rare for anybody to fall in love with you in 10 days, even harder when you have not met face to face.
3) check the lists
4)use recommended agency's check the anti scam sites for recommends
5)Don't fall in love with a picture , that means look for someone that matches you not a hardbody 1 third your age.
A common sense approach.
I found out a person was trying to scam me for surebecause someone sent me info. I checked the scam list and lo and behold the letters she(?) had written me were identical
I thought i was being scammed but now I knew for sure. So do your homework and check and check and check
Another hard and fast rule is that in Canada / USA etc is that alot of women will decieve you about alot of things so maybe it is better to possible lose a few bucks then have your heart ripped out LOL
More cheap advice
I will tell her this when she requests money. IF she can borrow the money from her family and or friends etc. When she shows up I will transfer the money back to Russia or wherever. Generally after a few more letters she is gone.
This is because if the pics are fake and she is a scammer, she ,they ,it have to show up to get paid
09-20-2006, 03:26 PM #23Junior Member
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- Sep 2006
hello guys....hhhmmmpppttttt lets just say it in simple way...well if you meet a lot of scammers...means you have some bad luck and if you meet real woman in your life you are lucky...but now adays only few real woman left and that is me....lololol...just want ya all laugh...but its true my hubby so very lucky to have me...