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  1. #181


    Yes ualadys is working, I just used my sign in from CC and I got right on to read all my letters from the girls that I have been talking to so if you do not know this log onto your account with the username and login that you had from CC and you will se for yourself, that is if you haven't done it yet!!!!! Here is a letter from Valyusha B. that I just received today.....

    The letter was translated for Valyusha by Diana

    Hi, dear Anthony!

    I am so glad that you feel refreshed after holidays. Well, I am fine as well - I do feel like all the troubles are left in 2006.

    So, today is the last day before the Christmas Eve. I am waiting with impatience for the mystery Christmas brings. Well, tomorrow I am going to gather with my close people, my family and sit around the table talking and eating. Well, we are not allowed to eat anything fat and rich tomorrow ? that is why it is always not easy to invent something to cook which would be both tasty and Lenten. So, it is going to be meager dinner and I will think today what to cook. Besides, there should be 12 lenten dishes including drinks (Jesus Christ had 12 apostles). Well, last time my mom helped me to cook but this time I want to do everything by myself.

    Well, now our entrance door doesn?t close ? kids go from the door to the door and sing ?kolyadki? (special Christmas songs). So, they sing and then they throw some seeds to the floor ? it is some symbol of fertility and wealth in the house. Then the hosts of the house give those kids candies or money. They say, such kids who sing songs bring happiness to the house ? so it is not allowed to prevent them from singing if they want to do that.

    And it is not allowed to drink alcohol this holy evening ? they say that one would spend the whole year like he spent Christmas ? so the atmosphere between people gathering at the table should be peaceful and friendly.

    Well, I am looking forward for Christmas and now I should go ? I want to drop to the market to buy some food for the holiday. I wish you good luck! Hug you!

    Sincerely, Valyusha

    Now tell me, how many received this same or somewhat same email?


  2. #182
    Join Date
    Jan 2007


    Cut and paste correspondence from CC now UALADYS.COM. See any you recognize?

    you are right - friends shouldn't be concerned with money. THough very often people need troubles with money and first people who could help - are friends. By the way what do you think about it? I like the words Epicurus, who said that "Of all the things which provides to make us entirely happy, much the greatest is the possession of friendship...". A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart, and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words. A friend is someone who reaches for your hand, but touches your heart... Do you have many friends? We have the saying that it is better to have "100 friends than 100 rubles". Do you believe in it? As for me - I think that we can have a great number of friends, but only few of them are true friends, best friends. Best friends are like rainbows, they are bright, beautiful, and you feel a smile when they appear...My best friend is the one who brings out the best in me. Can you say the same about your best friend? What is a good friend for you? Because for me - a good friend is the one I can count on, as well as being so much more. A friend is someone with whom we can relax and just hang out, have fun and share our innermost thoughts - deep dark secrets, lofty and noble goals, or our hopes, joys, and fears. My best friend allows me a safe space to share my deepest thoughts and needs without worry. Can you say the same about yourself?

    By the way I thought of some questions for you. I?m very interested in your answers, dear. Do you have a desire sometimes to be someone else? What are you proud of the most in your life? Are you satisfied with the place where you are living now? Have you many close people that you can rely on? What is the person who is the most interesting for you in your life? I?m really very interesting in your answers, dear. And I do hope that you will reply me as soon as you can.

    You know, dear, I want to share some of my thoughts with you today. When I went to bed yesterday I had really many thoughts in my mind, I thought of living in another country, about my life, about possible changes? I?ve understood that I?m tired to go with the stream of life and I feel that it is time to change something completely! But there is always some ?but?? it is frightful to make the first step in uncertainty? Well, may be I would be more secure financially if I lived in another country but I?m afraid of homesickness and to be around of people that speak another language? It is nice when a woman has her beloved man in a foreign country and she can always rely on him. But in spite of it I had some fears yesterday? It is difficult to explain everything that is in my mind. It is a mixed feeling. When you want something very strong and you are afraid of it at the same time. I hope you are not tired of my rambling. ;-( But I think it is quite natural to be afraid of changes in life. Do you agree or not? You know I?m used to live in my country in spite of many difficulties here. So as you see my thoughts are just mixed up! I think I have to prepare myself for changes and I should overcome my fear of uncertainty. But well, I will not bore you any more with my thoughts. I?ll be looking forward to receiving your next letter. Have a nice day, dear!

    I know another joke about fishing. " A man phones home from his office and says to his wife, "I have the chance to go fishing for a week. It's the opportunity of a lifetime. I have to leave right away. Pack my clothes, my fishing equipment, and especially my blue silk pajamas. I'll be home in an hour to pick them up." The man rushes home to grab everything. He hugs his wife, apologizes for the short notice, and then hurries off. A week later, the man returns and his wife asks, "Did you have a good trip, dear?" The man replies, "Yep, the fishing was great... but you forgot to pack my blue silk pajamas." His wife smiles and says, "Oh, no I didn't... I put them in your tackle box!

    Do you want one more situation for brainstorming? You are driving in your car on the worst night of the year. It is raining and blowing and is just terrible outside. You can barely see out your window when you drive up slowly by a bus stop. You see your best friend that you've had since the first year of school. You also see a little old lady who is sick and the rain is making her worse. The third person you see is the woman of your dreams. When your eyes meet, it is instant love. You see in her eyes your soul mate and the person you have waited for all your life. There is a problem though. You can only fit 2 people in your car. What will you do? If you don't take the old lady she may get sicker and die. If you don't take your friend he may never speak to you again and as we both know, true friends are hard to find. if you don't take the woman of your dreams, you may never see her again and will have missed your one chance for perfect and true love. What will you do, dear []... what will you do?

    want to write you something interesting too. I just recollected a puzzle I have heard several days ago from my doctor. He tried to raise my spirits up for me to feel better. This is a real psychological test (used a lot by psychiatrists) to know if you've got an assassin mentality: A lot of serial killers have answered correctly to the question!!! Also it's better if your answer is wrong. If yours friends find the good answer, go away ) Here is the story and after the question - and please answer quickly for the successful of this test: ? It?s the story of a young woman. At the mother's funeral, she looks at an unknown young man. For her, he's fantastic; it's the man of her dream indeed! She?s in love of him very much. Some days after, this young woman kill her own sister." The question is : what is the reason of this murder?

    I am glad that you have a nice fall day today. Though we have the oppsite here. It is a very wet and foggy morning and I could hardly get up from the warm bed. Besides, I saw such a wonderful dream at night ? I saw beautiful mountains and blue streams running everywhere. And I stayed on the top of the mountain and had such a feeling that I could fly if I just wanted. And guess what? I flied finally! Do you think I keep growing up? They say, if a person flies in the dreams ? he is growing up. Do you think it is true? I wouldn?t like to be higher ? I like myself as I am now. By the way, I think that to like people you should like yourself first of all. Do you agree? If a person doesn?t respect himself, how can he respect others?

    Do you believe in the essence of auto-suggestion? We want to be in love so much that we fall in love with the concept of love and project it onto a fantasy, usually something exotic like a foreigner. We tend to idealize them. And I thought you just idealized me! It?s easy to imagine they have all the attributes we desire because we are not physically with them. Sometimes the fantasy bubble is burst when they actually meet. Other times their fantasies meld into reality. So it is possible for fantasies to sometimes come true! )) The advantage of the internet communication, like we are using, is that we slowly become acquainted with each other. I think over time, it is possible to fall in love. Do you agree? Actually, the internet has made possible situations that would have never occurred otherwise. Think about us, for example. If we were to pass on the street somewhere, your country or mine, what would be the likelihood of us meeting, talking and developing a relationship?

    I ask myself if it is a passing fancy or the real thing. Psychiatrists say if you don't ask, you may be heading for trouble. There are many kinds of love -- divine love, brotherly love, puppy love, sentimental love, mature love. And the kind which excites the fancy of most men and women, romantic love, has many faces. Love, moreover, affects different people in different ways. How you love depends on whether you are a man or woman. Age, emotional stability, and character also influence the development of love. Is it possible, then, to distinguish between sentimental love and mature love? To man and a woman, both look and feel the same: You think about the person all the time. You wait for the sound of his or her voice; you mark the best of everything to share with the other person. You are frightened when you see strain in their face. You mark time by when you last saw him or her. You never tire of hearing that person talk. You are dashed by his failures and glow with her successes. All of these could be sure-fire signs of love or nothing more than misguided infatuation. If you are more interested in being loved than in loving, you are probably not at the point of wanting mature love that is distinguished by the need and desire to reciprocate. Infatuation is where the individual falls in love with a fantasy of his own making.

    You seem to know traditions of many countries! You are so popular among slavic women! By the way, there are plenty of strange customs all over the world. I heard that a woman can kill her cheating husband but only with her bare hands. He can use what ever he wants. There is an Asian island country where the mother of a daughter pays a man to have sex with her virgin daughter because a virgin can not marry. I think men like that job ) A man can have sex with an animal as long as it is a female. It is ridiculous.

    In the Norse religion when a king dies they send a virgin with him to the afterlife. Of course they get her drunk first and six men have sex with her first. Egyptian royalty was sent of with sometimes many women and male slaves. Along with horses and dogs. ;( Native Americans when they died their woman would cut their hair and chop off a finger in mourning for them. All these things people did with honour. There are a lot of things that go on in this world that we don't know of. Pretty cool I think:-)) And all I want is a man that would love me as strong as I love!!!!! What a world:-)) Who is to say who is right and who is wrong?

    I feel myself a bit dizzy. I had a rather nice Saturday ? I met my friends and we had a great rest in the park ? the weather was great and it was pleasant just to walk. But yesterday I went shopping and spent the whole day doing that. It was something terrible! I ran around the entire city and wasn?t able to find anything I wanted! All the clothes seemed to be so similar in all the shop and I wanted to find something noone would have. Well, I was so upset and my head was aching and I came home so exhausted! And then I just lied in my bed all the evening and didn?t have a wish to do anything. But I think yesterday was just not my day ? I hope I will be more lucky to find what I am looking the next time. How much time do you usually spend for shopping? Does it take much time for you? I know that men think all the women are crazy when it concerns shopping ? they think women are able to browse through the goods the whole day and even night if it would be possible. But I am not one of them ? I am down when I spend much time shopping.

    Well, people are strange! They do many weord things it it is concerned love! Well, today I read a strange fact about how many women are inexplicably attracted to bad men! The more notorious the criminal, the larger his following of women! They are almost like pop star groupies! The article said that the worst and more famous the male criminal is, the more letters and visits he gets from women while in prison. Women will even line up and wait in lines just to visit them! So, why are so many women attracted to bad men? They say such men are thought to be more thrilling, exciting, and dangerous and this makes them more interesting and attractive to women, both sexually and emotionally. One idea is that some women want to reform or tame a bad man, so they like the challenge. Another idea is that bad men are perceived by women as more fun to be around because they are risk takers. They are seen by women as more adventurous, dark, mysterious, and edgy and they like this. Maybe "bad" men are just more charismatic on average? In contrast, nice men are simply good guys and seen by women as more plain, boring, more predictable, and stodgy!! By the way, I heard an expression that nice guys finish last. Maybe you could explain it to me? Do you think that nice guys finish last?

    As for love - I would prefer to love than be loved. it is a wonderful feeling though it brings pain very often. But I hope love will never make us suffer. It reminds me of an old Lakota Indian legend about an Indian warrior who met the woman of his dreams while trading supplies with another tribe. They instantly fell in love. He was able to spend most of the summer together with her. When he went back to his tribe, he was saddened to learn that he could not marry her because his tribe had already arranged the wife for him. When he went to tell his beloved, he learned that her tribe had done likewise and she was to marry someone else. They were both very sad. They both married the persons selected for them and lived honorable, happy lives but there was still an emptiness in their hearts for each other even though they did not talk about it. Both of their spouses were aware of this situation. I think it was twenty-five years later that the wife of the Indian warrior contacted the other couple and spoke with them. They arranged for the two couples to get together for a hunting trip. The two lovers had not seen each other for many years and they were very happy to see each other again. Their spouses then gave them a surprise. They said that they have been honorable and perfect partners but they were not their true love. They released them from their wedding vows and told them to go to their true love. They were very surprised and very happy!

    I could go on and on... but you get the point.

  3. #183
    Join Date
    Oct 2006


    [quote]quote:Originally posted by dadepfan

    Hello everyone.

    I just called the CC New York office, and they told me the problem was that they were changing hosts, and an unexpected technical problem occurred. They say that they will be at a new address (ualady.com), which is partially up now, and should be back fully functional tomorrow.

    They also said that they sent letters to all members about this, but I did not verify if that was email or snail mail. I also cannot connect with ualady.com.

    So, is this all BS as well? Why would they even answer the phone if they were going out of business??

    Anyway, here is the number 1-201-984-3158. Everyone give them a call and report here what you learn!


    Originally posted by Jackspades


    Yes you and I are similar, I am not some old guy, I am 31, good looking guy, the evidence for Fiancess Connections (FC) being a sham is not as overwhelming as Confidential connections. The girls I talk to at FC, I know are real, when I wrote to the Ukrainians it was all bull****, you could tell it was crap.

    Based on what Ralf said, sure, if FC still exists, I would book a trip, it is like going to the Casino, you know the House always wins, but I don't know, it's exciting. And yes, anything is better then dating or marrying an american woman......I am willing to swim to Buenos Aires, if given the option of Dating/marrying an american woman or swim in shark infested waters. I was married and then got divorced, luckily I have no kids owe no money, but I am sick of american women.

    Also the Jim's list is very helpful.....

    The CC website has been down for 4 days now right? Do any of you have the telephone number to call them up at their New York Office to see what the F*ck is going on????
    Dave. Well done.
    I called them too, but did you realise that phone number gets redirected to Ukraine. I asked the guys name and he said it was EIMA. I then asked his second name but he would not give it. ! I insisted and eventually he gave it as: MEROVENI. Obviously spelt wrongly. !
    He told me the same as he told you, but I think its all bull**t.
    When you change a hosting company you do it properly, and you don't allow so much revenue to get lost. Why change the hosting company anyway. ? If it was absolutely essential to move then you put a notice on the site to that effect ! And, why change the name ? Surely the CC name is of paramount importance. ! Unless you have so many chasing you for money that you are forced to change it. ? Here is the 'whois' listing for UALady.com
    KHAVRUK, ALEXANDER ** 1625 Garland LN N Plymouth, MN 55447-2726 US Domain Name: UALADY.COM Administrative Contact : KHAVRUK, ALEXANDER ** ak@uaprincess.com 1625 Garland LN N Plymouth, MN 55447-2726 US Phone: 501-641 6372 Fax: 501-641 6372 Technical Contact : Network Solutions, LLC. customerservice@networksolutions.com 13861 Sunrise Valley Drive Herndon, VA 20171.
    You will note the use of 'uaprincess' above so the Whois listing for this is as follows:
    Mikhajlivska street 24 b, office 80a
    01001 Kiev, Ukraine
    Office +38 044 278 83 63, +38044 496 0257
    Mobile +38067 508 8669info@uaprincess.com
    Mikhajlivska street 24 b, office 80a
    01001 Kiev, Ukraine
    Office +38 044 278 83 63, +38044 496 0257
    Mobile +38067 508 8669
    I checked UAPrincess and it does actually exist, although that means nothing as it might be totally unrelated to CC.
    So, CC is not going back up, and is being replaced by UALady, tomorrow
    !! It will be interesting to see if it does, but I have grave doubts. !

    The truth is cheap, lies are expensive.
    Power to the People is long Overdue

  4. #184
    Join Date
    Oct 2006


    Seems like you guys beat me to it. !!!
    Sorry for the post. ! I was investigating and came back here only to find I was too late. !

    The truth is cheap, lies are expensive.
    Power to the People is long Overdue

  5. #185


    Hey dublindevil

    I have just sent them an email in their support tickets and asked them why would they not have notified respectable clients that they were moving sites or changing names so it will be interesting to see what their answer will be after all we all know why!!!!

    Now I can get to all my letters and save them to my comp.........


  6. #186
    Join Date
    Jan 2007


    Sounds like this forum and confidentialconnections.net has caused CC to change to ualadys.com. I bet if confidentialconnections.net changed it's web address to ualadys.net the .com site will all of a sudden have more problems and then a new .com site. ualadys is distancing themselves from their previous name as quickly as they can. They are trying to stop the bleeding from the shot it took here and elsewhere. I have discovered if you go to www.confidentialconnections.com you will get a login screen and nothing else.

  7. #187
    Join Date
    Oct 2006


    [quote]Originally posted by Prometheus

    Dublin, I'll let you hedge on the hat eating, since CC did not reappear under its old name. Can I say "UALADYS.COM IS A SCAM!!!!", for the sake of future Googler's???

    Maybe you will allow me to put it into cold storage ? (The hat) !
    I am convinced I will need it at some time, so rather than it get smelly if its kept nice and cool it might still be edible. !

    The truth is cheap, lies are expensive.
    Power to the People is long Overdue

  8. #188
    Join Date
    Oct 2006


    quote:Originally posted by wxman2001

    Sounds like this forum and confidentialconnections.net has caused CC to change to ualadys.com. I bet if confidentialconnections.net changed it's web address to ualadys.net the .com site will all of a sudden have more problems and then a new .com site. ualadys is distancing themselves from their previous name as quickly as they can. They are trying to stop the bleeding from the shot it took here and elsewhere. I have discovered if you go to www.confidentialconnections.com you will get a login screen and nothing else.
    Have just registered: ualadys.net !

    The truth is cheap, lies are expensive.
    Power to the People is long Overdue

  9. #189


    Way to go dublin, let us see if they run for damage control again

    By the way I have a question for you dublin. What is the best way to save all my letters from my girls that I receieve? Right now I have been cut and pasting to my microsoft word program but is there an easier way?


  10. #190


    quote:Originally posted by Gumby

    Hi Silver,

    You will know Valyusha by many means:
    1. she does not speak or write English
    2. she writes in long paragraph form, like only two per email
    3. she is highly philosophical with her ideas and questions

    To me, your letter certainly does not look like it came from her.


    well Gumby there are some details that you did not think about it...

    I found her in another site so, she has another translator...

    she gave me the phone number of her translator...in her first reply...
    and since she agree to meet me in person that means this Valyusha has nothing to hide...

    anyway if some of you are still interested in get her phone number...
    look for her in a russian site where you can send the first letter for free...

    best regards...

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