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  1. #61

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    hello forum:

    happy new year...

    I found this site by accident and after reading all your post I do not know what to think and I will tell you why?

    I have been using confidentialconnections for about one year

    I am 38, corresponding with a beautiful 26 blonde girl from zhitomir.

    I am ready to make the trip with confidentialconnections for march and spend over there all the time I could need to find out if this girl is my mate but after reading all your post I make my self a couple of questions that I never thought before and I do not why? I feel so stupid because of this.

    1.- is she the person who said to me she is?

    2.- is she really interested in get marriage with a foreign guy and relocate to another country.?

    how to know it.?

    I always thought all girls I was in contact with in the past they were real because CC told me "Real ladies for real men" it is what they say in their home page.

    I know very well in my own experience that everything in this life has a cost so, I do not care if it expensive to fly to the other side of the world or weather confidentialconnections is expensive or not.

    what I really want to know is,
    what of all this is real and what is not.?

    it would be worthy to make a long trip to meet a woman of whom I do not have proofs that she is the person who said to me she is.

    maybe she works in the night club of the owner of confidentialconnections and in that case it would be better to look for a beautiful Ukrainian or Russian lover in a stripper bar in my city.

    I will appreciate any comment.

    Thanks, Silver.




  2. #62
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    Silver, I would be very wary of CC. Just go to this forum http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/ and you will find a lot of horror stories about CC. That forum is filled with a lot of knowledgeable people who have gone through the process of finding a wife. I don't want to burst your bubble, but there have been cases where the women did not even know they were writing those letters, with that agency doing it behind their backs.

  3. #63

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    hello, wxman2001

    thanks a lot for the link, but I know she is real,
    she looks by cam even better than in her pictures

    but you know,
    I am looking for a well balanced woman who become the mother of my children not just for a beautiful lover to get my bed warm, so...

    what if she is not a designer.?

    what if she is not the person who said to me she is.?

    I do not care if I have to pay and over price for a confidentialconnections trip or from another company or service to get some proofs, but,

    how to get them?... that is the point.

    everything is very subjective I just know what she has told me about her and...

    I stop believing in Santa Claus long ago, this is very serious because I am looking for a life partner,so, again...

    how to know what is real, what is not from all this.?

    how to get some proofs about what I am getting in to before my trip.?

    any idea will be very welcome, Thanks


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    There are many problems with doing what you are doing. Write one visit one (WOVO). The odds are that you will fail. First, you should be meeting several women, not one. Thowing all your money in one basket is not a good way to have success, especially since you have never met her. For all you know, she could be working for the agency, and when it comes time to meet her, she may not have much interest in you, or she may suddenly be ill, etc, and you are left paying for your flat through the agency, with no women to meet, expect by shelling out more money to have a few introductions. If you choose to use an agency, then stick with the more legit agencies. I sense you will come out of this trip very very dissapointed.

  5. #65
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    quote:Originally posted by Silver

    hello, wxman2001

    thanks a lot for the link, but I know she is real,
    she looks by cam even better than in her pictures

    but you know,
    I am looking for a well balanced woman who become the mother of my children not just for a beautiful lover to get my bed warm, so...

    what if she is not a designer.?

    what if she is not the person who said to me she is.?

    I do not care if I have to pay and over price for a confidentialconnections trip or from another company or service to get some proofs, but,

    how to get them?... that is the point.

    everything is very subjective I just know what she has told me about her and...

    I stop believing in Santa Claus long ago, this is very serious because I am looking for a life partner,so, again...

    how to know what is real, what is not from all this.?

    how to get some proofs about what I am getting in to before my trip.?

    any idea will be very welcome, Thanks

    Mr Silver, have a look at confidentialconnections.net !
    Do that before you decide anything. Also, did you have a look at Russianwomendiscussion.com ? I know how difficult it is for you, its one of the most difficult things in life, to find a great young girl and get excited about her only to find that you have to reconsider her authenticity. ! If you send me her ID number on CC I will have a look and see if she is one of those that I have corresponded with. Might help you. ?

    The truth is cheap, lies are expensive.

  6. #66
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    Mr. Silver,

    Please post the ladies ID to who you were writing to. We are actively trying to prove that CC is not honest. I am traveling there and in a month and will definitely post the results of what I find when I get there.

    We do not want to dampen your spirits about this possible woman, but we do not want you to lose money for soemthing that does not exist. Many guys on here have honest intentions and everyone here is trying to communicate with each other to find out if these ladies really do exist.

    I am willing to travel there to find out and let every one know what really happens. Dublin Devil has been a GREAT help and he wants to know just as much...if not more...then everyone else.

    Please post the ladies ID so anyone else can let you know what they know about her. It is for your own protection.

    Thanks,
    jim

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    I had a very frustrating experience with Confidential Connections. I corresponded for several years with a woman from the Zhitomir office named Lyudmilla #4001. Despite several requests to meet with her, or pay to have her meet with me, she always demurred. I would quit writing to her and a few months later, she would write how she missed me and wished to resume correspondence. I have no doubt that there is a real person associated with her profile, but I had deep suspicions that her letters were written by someone else. Her replys would be completely off topic, and over time, I found that she was telling the same stories to me that she had already relayed to someone else. She even called me by the wrong name. I finally came to realize that I had invested several hundred dollars and a lot of time in a pipe dream. I did a check in the galleries of ladies, and discovered that she was the oldest profile for the entire Zhitomir office. This would seem to confirm that there are certain profiles up on the site solely for the money that correspondence to these women generate.[:I]

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    Hello guys...

    thanks a lot for all your comments, I really appreciate them.

    Dublindevil, I took a look at Russianwomendiscussion.com and confidentialconnections.net by the way all the links at cc.net do not work...

    Glimmertwin34, I do not know how posting the ladies ID could be helpful, so, I wait for your comments.

    Elena G. # 1586
    Irina K. #3757
    Elena M. #3229
    Yana K. #3903
    Valyusha B. #4287 (this is the girl that I have plans for visiting her in march)

    wxman 2001, I know in my own experience that the service of www.confidentialconnections.com is really bad in some aspects and I have a lot of stories about their services but that is not the point.

    the point is...
    that I am not interested in meeting several women, I know several women in the place where I live but not any women can become my wife it does not matter how beautiful she could be.

    for example I exchanged letters for several months and chat by ICQ with Elena Gracheva # 1586 and I know for sure that she is far way from that special woman I am looking for.

    I subscribed to CC because of the advertising (((the lady members at confidentialconnections are carefully selected on average 70-75% of the ladies applying for a membership are granted this privilege))) they suppose to interview each one of the ladies at their site.

    and know, after reading all your post I do not know what to think...
    which one is a legit agency.?
    how could I know that.?

    I suppose that I have to wait until Glimmertwin34 come back from Ukraine and share with us his experience.

    by the way Glimmertwin34 I have an idea...
    if you go to Ukraine and find the girl of your dreams you can invite me to your wedding and for sure I can meet some real women there...LOL

    have a nice guys I wait for you comments...

    Thanks.











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    Silver,

    Many of those women are very familiar. I can tell you the ones that I have written to or have received emails from:

    Elena G. # 1586
    Elena M. #3229
    Valyusha B. #4287

    This is the last one I got from Elena M. #3229
    This letter was translated by E. Reshetnyak for Elena M.
    Hello, my dear Jim! I do not know if you have this holiday in your country but here St. Nicolas day is like a prelude to New year and then Christmas) maybe this year I was a good girl because I got a nice present from this saint And even though it was just a small box of candies, which I pout there by myself, it is still nice. I know that it sounds a bit strange that I make presents for myself) But still if we will not cherish ourselves it will take a long time to wait) Ok, I hope that you also will have a chance to cherish yourself with something this day and I also hope that my letter brought at least one smile to your face Please take good care of yourself, Lena

    The Elena G is always at the top of the list and I am pretty sure that she does not write everyone individually. I don't think I would if I got as much mail as she probably does. She did send me pictures of her before...not the type that were taken by a professional, but home type photos.

    Did anyone else get a letter from Elena M #3229 like the one above?

    Why did you say that Elena G is not the woman for you?

    I would post more letters from the others but the CC site is not working right now.

    We should all start posting their letters and see how many of them are the same. I have also gotten letters from Lydumilla S #4001 and have written her a couple of times. I have never tried to meet her, but I am going to ask her now about meeting in February and see what she (or they) say.

    Once the CC site is back up, I will post more letters...check back when you can.

    Jim

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    Found this on another board. Now I feel lucky I just walked away. A little poorer, but a lot wiser:

    Been lurking the board for several months and soaking info, and wanted to contribute a little from my trip last week.

    I have been to CC office in Poltava about 9 months ago. I had beeen corresponding with three ladies there and decided to make the leap and meet them, one in particular of course all 3 confirmed to meet me but when I get there only 2 have the time, and the one that I actually had the most interest and corresponded with the most only had time for a quick dinner. Now I know life can get busy but after all our emails and planning what to do that week i find it interesting that a person whole week would become booked.

    Any way we met for dinner. I recognized her right away, and tried to give her a hug. I have been in Artic winds much warmer and receptive than she was. I think, ok watch yourswlf this is a culture thing. well to make this short, our meeting was a first meeting. She did not know anything about me. She asked where I lived, if I had children, and all the ohter questions that a person should know about someone they had been emailing hot and and heavy for 4 or so months.

    So, the date sucked totally and the CC guy said that she was just nervous and under the weather, and I am like yeah right. So per someones advice here I had searched through some scammer sites and searched this womans name. Turns out she was on another agency in town. The next morning I went there and met with the manger there, andd told them I would like to meet this same lady. They made a phone call and wouldnt you know she was free for lunch. She was quite surprised to see me, but she did seem happy to see me. I got right to the point, and asked the reason for the artic blast the night before, and she did not understand. I explained to her the progression of our emails for the last months, and she got quite serious and quiet. She wouldnt answer but agreed to meet that evening.

    We had a nice dinner and after the second glass of wine, shemade me promise not to say anything to anyone. Turns out she is under contract with CC, as are all the women and if they meet anyone outside CC or discuss CC they will be kicked from the site and face legal action. What action I could not get out of her. She went on to say that she had no idea who I was, and had never received a email from me, or sent me one. So to say the least I am pissed at myself for getting sucked in by cc.

    It also turns out that one of the other gals was also listed on this second agency. The manager called her, and since she spoke enlish i was able to quickly verify that she had a date with me that evening, but was nervous because we had noth corresponded. ok, double pissed now

    fast forward to last week. So this is my third trip now and I havwe met a wonderful woman there. We are spending the entire week together and having a blast. Ok, maybe I need to do trip report Anyway I get a call from the agency asking if i would be willing to speak to this guy. I said sure. turns out he went the same roughly the same road as I did. I do not know all his details, but he was there to meet a woman he had been corresponding with for a year. It was his first time to the Ukaine, and boy was he stressed. Turns out his dream girl was happily married for a couple years now and had a child. She knew nothing of him and was surprised about the situation. He had no backup plan and didnt know what to do. I told him he found a good place and to go through the ladies there, meet a few and go home and write to them and get to know them. This guy did not take my advice, and was on the plane home the next day. I understand how he felt. He had fallen for a real woman, but was led down a false email road. He effectively had feelings and emotions for nothing. That is tough.

    So, I am a forgiving person, and give the benefit of the doubt, but in this case I must be firm in my opinion:

    Confidential Connections is a very good scam, no doubt in my mind. I have no doubt that all the ladies on thier site are real, but they do not receive your letters. They manufacture a very good story to you. So the only thing they may be good for is if you just go there and meet the ladies without emailing them, but then you must not use the site to communicate in the future. You will just waste money. By the way, it will cost you $50 to meet a woman from CC plus translation cost.

    Oh, and while I am at it this is not a plug for the other agency, I will do that in another message, but guys always have a BACKUP PLAN. Both happiness and dissapointment lurk right around the corner.

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