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  1. #1
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    Default Divorced men and young never married FSU girls

    [8D]I think a topic needs to be started about being involved with a young FSU girl that has never been married (be it from Russia, Ukraine or other countries) if you are a divorced man.
    I think extreme caution needs to be exercised in such a situation.
    Learning the hard way age difference does matter!
    A young girl under 30 years who has never been married has no concept of marriage or concept of divorced men and there problems and issues (yes..all divorced men have some kind of psychological scarring and issues from there divorce which are life long ).
    Such a relationship is doomed to fail..don't start one.
    I now think age difference should be no more than 5 to 10 years maximum, the women should have been previously married if you as the man have been previously married and divorced...this combination has the best chance of working.
    Don't believe this marriage agency crap that 25 year old girls from FSU would seriously want to marry a 40 to 50 year old man.
    Avoid such profiles on marriage agency sites where a young girl wants to marry anything older than 10 years its senior..definitely stay away from young 20 year pluses that want to marry 50 year old men.
    The 30 years plus class of FSU women who have been previosly married and divorced offer the best chance for older divorced men.
    Young girls are for young men!
    Be realistic here! Dont waste your time with young girls if you ar an old man!



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    [8D]Just a foot note here..some men are right in this forum.
    Often you don;t realise what you are involved in until well after it starts and then you know it was a mistake.
    As I have said in this forum I was in regular correspondence with a young 24 year old, never married FSU women for 8 months before it died.
    I am 40 years old.
    It was a mistake to get involved with such a young girl..age difference was too much and the fact she had never been married, made it all an unsuitable mix to ever have a successful relationship with this lady and what happenned with her, turned out to the best..contact terminated and I woke up from fantasy land!.
    There now appears another lady for me..she does not write often because she can't but she does write me and she is 34 years old..now this is realistic..only 6 years age difference..say no mre!

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    Hey mate,I know many of us "oldies" and you are only as old as you feel,who have married and are still happily married.One of my friends here is 74 and is married to a lovely young asian girl.They could'nt be happier.Janet is 30 and we have some great discussions about this very topic.She says that age is not a factor.Some young women do want and love older men.They have been married for 15 years and even on the street they hold hands.They are really patient and understanding of each others feelings and needs.When it comes to sex,they enjoy it immensely and with the advent of viagra her husband can do most things and she would'nt have it any other way.

    My mate in Wollongong(NSW)has a wife 20 years his junior and they lead happy and fulfilling lives.

    I hear what you are saying but young women are far more experienced these days and know what they want from life including what to expect of their older partners.That is not to say older men don't have expectations as well from their younger partners.Older men,I would say appeal to alot of women for many reasons and I guess the first is stability.They are more experienced in sex and are more likely to be more considerate in each others feeling, because we've been there and recognize some very obvious pitfalls.

    Older women can be just as treacherous and can spot an asset a mile away.If one enters into a relationship with a younger woman at least we have time to guide them.It is here where she decides what her partners expectations are and can adjust accordingly.I think an older woman would be too set in her ways to make that adjustment.

    I don't know much about young men and their feelings but if you look at statistics I would bet the higher rate of divorces would be in the younger age group.Ok,I'm 54 and divorced since 1996 through no fault of my partner.I really could'nt give a toss how old the lady is as long there is some compatibility.Granted,we have to be careful
    and your experiences about all this is great.You should change your handle to Aussiepathfinder mate.Cheers!

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    I come to this forum from time to time just to read what is going on only recently I had to register just to get my worthless bit in as most others have.
    This forum is to let others learn and beware of scammers but should include men like willsy because they are predators as well. It would be interesting to be able to get his photo's and list them on Scam sites.
    Hopefully ladies read these postings as well then to be on guard for you and others like you.
    I would agree with others who say this forum is out of hand, mainly because of Aussieman You must be an outcast in life with few friends so you come here looking for attention. Does your private Email not work? It would be non attentive to write such nonsense directly and in private?
    I also remember reading here in the forum you were leaving and not coming back, that did not last long what happen did you get lonely?.
    Aussieman you should write a book on what you don't know it would be a best seller.
    What does sending packages - What Internet costs - dial-up or cable - rather a girl has an Interest in you - -
    Have to do with "Scamm or Not"

    I agree with FlyToRussia on a few points as it pertains to older men like Aussieman an Willsy wanting much younger women. Although Aussieman had a change of heart.
    The kind of man who would chase or try to pursue a lady 20-25 years younger is nothing but a sick individual.. an outcast from society a man with a weak mind who wants to show his strength and superiority. He is not able to show it with people near his own age.
    Although legal, they will prey on much younger and vulnerable women who knows nothing about family values only to satisfy there own weakness. Only to destroy another life later.
    No Mr. Willsy your a potential pervert and a loser as well. I read you have a psychology degree. I would be interested to know what web site you bought it from and you work around children? that should be a red flag in itself.
    And its not to say a marriage arrangement with a younger women would not ever work.
    My brother won a lottery jackpot a few years ago, what do you think the odds were that would ever happen?.
    So you see its not all about women scamming men.
    I enjoy getting men like you all in my court room for any infraction.

    Thanks for the time.

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    quote:Originally posted by Prosecutor


    I come to this forum from time to time just to read what is going on only recently I had to register just to get my worthless bit in as most others have.
    This forum is to let others learn and beware of scammers but should include men like willsy because they are predators as well. It would be interesting to be able to get his photo's and list them on Scam sites.
    Hopefully ladies read these postings as well then to be on guard for you and others like you.
    I would agree with others who say this forum is out of hand, mainly because of Aussieman You must be an outcast in life with few friends so you come here looking for attention. Does your private Email not work? It would be non attentive to write such nonsense directly and in private?
    I also remember reading here in the forum you were leaving and not coming back, that did not last long what happen did you get lonely?.
    Aussieman you should write a book on what you don't know it would be a best seller.
    What does sending packages - What Internet costs - dial-up or cable - rather a girl has an Interest in you - -
    Have to do with "Scamm or Not"

    I agree with FlyToRussia on a few points as it pertains to older men like Aussieman an Willsy wanting much younger women. Although Aussieman had a change of heart.
    The kind of man who would chase or try to pursue a lady 20-25 years younger is nothing but a sick individual.. an outcast from society a man with a weak mind who wants to show his strength and superiority. He is not able to show it with people near his own age.
    Although legal, they will prey on much younger and vulnerable women who knows nothing about family values only to satisfy there own weakness. Only to destroy another life later.
    No Mr. Willsy your a potential pervert and a loser as well. I read you have a psychology degree. I would be interested to know what web site you bought it from and you work around children? that should be a red flag in itself.
    And its not to say a marriage arrangement with a younger women would not ever work.
    My brother won a lottery jackpot a few years ago, what do you think the odds were that would ever happen?.
    So you see its not all about women scamming men.
    I enjoy getting men like you all in my court room for any infraction.

    Thanks for the time.

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    That was sick!!!!!!


    quote:Originally posted by Ben-Hur

    quote:Originally posted by Prosecutor


    I come to this forum from time to time just to read what is going on only recently I had to register just to get my worthless bit in as most others have.
    This forum is to let others learn and beware of scammers but should include men like willsy because they are predators as well. It would be interesting to be able to get his photo's and list them on Scam sites.
    Hopefully ladies read these postings as well then to be on guard for you and others like you.
    I would agree with others who say this forum is out of hand, mainly because of Aussieman You must be an outcast in life with few friends so you come here looking for attention. Does your private Email not work? It would be non attentive to write such nonsense directly and in private?
    I also remember reading here in the forum you were leaving and not coming back, that did not last long what happen did you get lonely?.
    Aussieman you should write a book on what you don't know it would be a best seller.
    What does sending packages - What Internet costs - dial-up or cable - rather a girl has an Interest in you - -
    Have to do with "Scamm or Not"

    I agree with FlyToRussia on a few points as it pertains to older men like Aussieman an Willsy wanting much younger women. Although Aussieman had a change of heart.
    The kind of man who would chase or try to pursue a lady 20-25 years younger is nothing but a sick individual.. an outcast from society a man with a weak mind who wants to show his strength and superiority. He is not able to show it with people near his own age.
    Although legal, they will prey on much younger and vulnerable women who knows nothing about family values only to satisfy there own weakness. Only to destroy another life later.
    No Mr. Willsy your a potential pervert and a loser as well. I read you have a psychology degree. I would be interested to know what web site you bought it from and you work around children? that should be a red flag in itself.
    And its not to say a marriage arrangement with a younger women would not ever work.
    My brother won a lottery jackpot a few years ago, what do you think the odds were that would ever happen?.
    So you see its not all about women scamming men.
    I enjoy getting men like you all in my court room for any infraction.

    Thanks for the time.

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    This is a scam avoidance forum; that's what we discuss. So in this forum's context, this topic is about two possible red flags:

    1. An unconventional age difference, and
    2. Emotional scars, from previous relationships.

    Both may bring relationship challenges. Man and woman must explore each other's soul, to make sure they are right for each other. In the process of doing that, hopefully each other's true motives will become manifest.

    Here in Melbourne (Australia), I know two happily married couples where the forty-something Australian male is 15-plus years older than the [u]Australian born female. And neither man is rich or influential. The couples are simply very compatible.

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    [8D]Listen prosecutor and other dickheads in here ( who talk like dickheads), I do know what I am talking about.
    I can only talk from an Australian viewpoint about foreign brides, immigration and the problems and pitfalls.
    I have done this!
    I found a foreign girl at a marriage agency after a search of nearly 2 years, wrote to her for for 6 months, then went on the personal visit to her country and it worked out and we got engaged and then I bought her to this country on a fiancee visa and enjoyed a long 12 year marriage, got divorced and now I am back single again thinking about repeating this process.
    Only things that have changed since I first done this is the internet came along making communication a lot quicker and along with the scams as well which were unheard off 15 years ago.
    Because of the amount of scamming going on, bringing your FSU girl to your country ( particularly US, Australia, Canada, UK ) has become a lot harder..far more stringent checks and requirements.
    The 24 year old bitch I was writing to from Kiev has turned out to be a scammer..she asked me for money to help a sick relative ( aunt ) drug treatment for cancer of $250usd yesterday.
    I have sent her details to stop -scammers admin and I hope she will be posted in the near future..she had me sucked in for 8 months and I sent her gifts and all told I spent over $500 on her..$500 on a woman I will never meet.( this included 3 hours of personal phone calls which she invited from me )She made it look so serious but it was a sham... F.cken Ukraina bitch!
    I must be f.cked in the head for doing this..I really have learnt my lesson.
    So much scam..so disappointing..too risky..I need to stop f.cking around with internet mail order brides.

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    I meant of course, the "prosecutor" have a sick opinion about relations between older men and younger women. Maybe he can't get one himself.....?

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    Age alone is not a reason to end a relationship.

    Cultures are different; the age difference is more accepted in Russia, but some men cannot understand.

    Notice the comments of ComingToU have been deleted, probably for vulgarity and incoherence.

    Dennis N. (ComingToU) has a problem with me, 35, meeting a 19 year old. She and I are perfect for each other and age is not even a question.

    ComingToU is 55 with a middle 30 woman, around 37. His age difference is more than Aussieman, so D. Newman (ComingToU) is simply a hypocrite.

    "Prosecutor" has a problem with math because the only person with a 20-25 year difference is ComingToU, but that information was at a different topic.

    If you do not see...ComingToU, FlyToRussia, and Prosecutor are one man: Dennis. Strange how he writes with three names to support his weak writing. Aussieman was attacked by one man using three names!

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