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  1. #1
    isuccess Guest

    Default Are you being scammed?

    I know they are beautiful. But most are trying to get out of Russia and they see Americans as "dumb" Don't prove them right.

    If they are asking for money, even small amounts, move on. That's your red flag. This whole thing is turned into a business in Russia.
    The chances of any of these ladies falling in love with you are pretty dim. To most of them you're a free green card and ticket to America. That's the reality. Now, to avoid being scammed, you need to find the exceptions. First rule is, find someone who has at least enough money to pay for their airfare and entry into the U.S. Tell them you will pay them back AFTER they arrive here. Don't send any money. Be smart. Think with your right head or your will be another statistic.

    There are sincere ladies in Russia but you can count on the fact taht a good 80% are just trying to get out. If you're 50 and your lady is 21, red flag. If you're 65 and your lady is 30. Red flag. 10 years apart is where you should probably draw the line.

    If they claim they are physicians, etc. verify it. Verify everything they say and never send any money.
    Spend some time in Russia. Russians are pretty smart people and if you snooze on sharpening your B.S. detector, you will lose.

    Only use reliable, genuine dating sites. If the girls sounds too good to be true, she probably is. Quit thinking about how beautiful she is and the fireworks during your honey moon with her. Think about what she's saying to you and what she's asking for.

    IF you're calling her more than she's calling you, trouble.

    Put yourself in their place and ask: If I were a beautiful russian woman, what would I tell these American guys?"
    Answer: what you want to hear. Psychology 101.

    I hope this helps you avoid not only a broken heart, but also protect your wallet. Remember: if they can't afford a plane ticket, they can't afford to have you. Most sob stories are just that, sob stories. DOn't fall for it. Offer to refund any money they invest to come meet the man of their dreams. You will notice that the cons will not answer your emails anymore and they will realize they are dealing with a smart guy. End of story. Only Fools rush in, as the song goes.

    Female Scammers from Nigeria, Ghana, Russia, Ukraine and Philippines

  2. #31
    isuccess Guest

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    I see. You stated you and your friends weren't looking for Love...OK. thanks for being honest. You said you just wanted to get married. Thanks for being honest again.
    Now we're talking. The truth is that people want to bail out of Russia and many American males are fed up with what's available here. Now Love...well. love may happen or may not happen. I guess there is no written rule that to get married you have to be in love. Sometimes just good sex will do. But in the idealistic world, marriage and love are supposed to "go together" or it can happen later.

    I know your friends and others like them want to bail out. You said that yourself. That in itself doesn't make you a BAD person or even a scammer. Scammers take your money and run or cheat and dump you.

    There is nothing wrong with bailing out. Hey, If I were a pretty Russian woman - sex change required - I would want to bail out too. Why be stuck in Chernogolovka with no future?

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    Don't tell me that you think that the girls on the pictures are actually the ones who are conducting the scams!?!?!

    Oh, my God. We got a virgin here!!!

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    Don't tell me that you think that the girls on the pictures are actually the ones who are conducting the scams!?!?!

    Oh, my God. We got a virgin here!!!

  5. #34
    isuccess Guest

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    A virgin? Ha, that made me laugh!

    No, i don't think the girls are conducting the scams. Males are. The girls are just the product, capisce?

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  6. #35
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    A virgin? Ha, that made me laugh!

    No, i don't think the girls are conducting the scams. Males are. The girls are just the product, capisce?

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    quote:I guess there is no written rule that to get married you have to be in love. Sometimes just good sex will do. But in the idealistic world, marriage and love are supposed to "go together" or it can happen later.
    I think I have heard it somewhere... wait... yes, here it is...

    LOVE AND MARRIGE
    LOVE AND MARRIGE
    GO TOGETHER LIKE
    A HORSE AND CARRIAGE...
    [)]

    In ideal word many things happen. But we live in real life. That's why there is a Walgreens on every darn corner.

    But if serious, I gave up on love when I saw my best friends's marriages (with love bigger than the sky) all fall apart, one by one. ALL of them.

    I wanted a marriage that would last. So I decided to never marry anyone I am actually in love with.

    My frieds (the one married to AMs right now) all have been through the "love marriage". All they got out of it was kids and an occasional child support.

    I am not saying love is bad. (and I wouldn't make fun of anybody in love... I respect that feeling, and I respect people who are in love with others). I just think that you don't need to proclaim that ladies looking for marry someone without love are scammers. They could be scammers. Or they could be not. So, keep that in mind and do not make absolute statements any more.

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    quote:I guess there is no written rule that to get married you have to be in love. Sometimes just good sex will do. But in the idealistic world, marriage and love are supposed to "go together" or it can happen later.
    I think I have heard it somewhere... wait... yes, here it is...

    LOVE AND MARRIGE
    LOVE AND MARRIGE
    GO TOGETHER LIKE
    A HORSE AND CARRIAGE...
    [)]

    In ideal word many things happen. But we live in real life. That's why there is a Walgreens on every darn corner.

    But if serious, I gave up on love when I saw my best friends's marriages (with love bigger than the sky) all fall apart, one by one. ALL of them.

    I wanted a marriage that would last. So I decided to never marry anyone I am actually in love with.

    My frieds (the one married to AMs right now) all have been through the "love marriage". All they got out of it was kids and an occasional child support.

    I am not saying love is bad. (and I wouldn't make fun of anybody in love... I respect that feeling, and I respect people who are in love with others). I just think that you don't need to proclaim that ladies looking for marry someone without love are scammers. They could be scammers. Or they could be not. So, keep that in mind and do not make absolute statements any more.

  9. #38
    isuccess Guest

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    quote: I just think that you don't need to proclaim that ladies looking for marry someone without love are scammers
    Did I say that?
    http://www.stop-scammers.com/scammer.asp?profile=1255
    Yep...I agree. Look at the American female. Do they marry for love?
    Maybe in the 70s,80s and possibly the 90s. Today, it seems, and I could be wrong, most marry for convenience or maybe there is a control issue. Some girls like to be in charge of "everything" and finding a male who's controlling spells "trouble" - In fact this is a typical trait for many women in this country. They'd rather marry a doe they can control than a successful doctor they can't deal with.

    What's love anyway? Two old people holding on to each others' arms walking down the street are not in love! They are just preventing each other from falling down and breaking a hip.



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  10. #39
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    quote: I just think that you don't need to proclaim that ladies looking for marry someone without love are scammers
    Did I say that?
    http://www.stop-scammers.com/scammer.asp?profile=1255
    Yep...I agree. Look at the American female. Do they marry for love?
    Maybe in the 70s,80s and possibly the 90s. Today, it seems, and I could be wrong, most marry for convenience or maybe there is a control issue. Some girls like to be in charge of "everything" and finding a male who's controlling spells "trouble" - In fact this is a typical trait for many women in this country. They'd rather marry a doe they can control than a successful doctor they can't deal with.

    What's love anyway? Two old people holding on to each others' arms walking down the street are not in love! They are just preventing each other from falling down and breaking a hip.



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    I don't know... when my hubby and I walk together we hold hands... (can we be considered an old couple? I mean, he is 54.. but I am only 26.. can we ba "half-old"?). Not because we are in love, but because it feels good.
    But God, i am not going to argue about attributes of love anymore. Got work to do.
    See ya. was nice chatting after all

 

 

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