any "woman" going along the lines of " all russian men beat their wives" should be dumped immediately:
a) s-he's just trying to live up to agency led myths (you know, 1950's styles submissive women VS drunk evil local men= that's why you, Barney from the west can "rescue her" and live happy ever after ).
b) s-he means it.
In both cases men are ready for a big disappointment; in case of a) is a charade to sort an effect; in case of b) you'll sooner or later do something to piss her off badly, and with words like "beating" or "abuse" easy in her mouth, any divorce lawyer and friendly liberal hippie court will have plenty of questions to ask you.