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    Cit. Brunods:
    "But you're right I might look silly trying to actually discuss psychology issues here and bring some light to things you want to believe nobody knows and are misteries for every man."

    Having studied psychology at university some years, and later worked professionally in that area 10-15 years, I personally fail to see what light and demystification, you bring to anything. Your never-ending biography, with it's many juicy details of the stunners, you sometimes refrained from being seduced by, can hardly be described as a revolutionary step forward in psychology. But as the above cited sentence is difficult to interpret, I maybe got you wrong.


    Cit. Brunods:
    "At the moment I don't really care to find or not the "perfect" woman, if she shows up fine, if not its also fine."

    You seem to be using a considerable amount of time and energy on a subject, you don't care about. Or is it the venerable zen-master speaking here, having reached total equilibrium and non-attachment?


    Cit. Brunods:
    "I decided it was best to focus on other things and along the way we'll eventually meet. Thinking too much about it isn't good for my emotional health! "

    Well, for every boy there is a girl. And may I propose, that you change your last meaning to: "Writing too much about it, isn't good for my emotional health".
    And for that matter, for everyone else's.


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    LOL... OKie, I wont be posting anymore.

    BTW I got a reply from Nadja today!!! OMG I AM SO INLOVE! :P

    Good luck to you all.

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    After having re-read Ham's merrily multi-layered "snake-oil" contributions a few times and comparing them to my own ruminations about reality and sociopathy, I will, inspired by Brunod's enlightenment crusade, share my conclusions with all you wisdom-seekers out there. A bit at length, I'm sad to say.

    Some years ago I had a kind of relationship with a 20 years younger (western) girl, a former Playboy pinup (believe it or not). Unfortunately she was also deeply alcoholic and would have pinched my last penny, if she'd had the chance. But we both knew that, and as I kept an open eye on my credit card and the silverware, when she was staying at my place, we never had any big problems about it. Even through the mists of her daily pint or two of vodka, she would be good company; witty, intelligent and in good communication with the surrounding world.

    And the last point is exactly, what made her different from her FSU-sisters-in-trade (alcoholics or not). The average FSUW does not have an inner reciever picking up Radio Reality. Reality defined as the ability to understand and react to such concepts as cause/effect, consequence, respecting personal space, social awareness, responsibility etc. Instead they have a constant inner dialogue or inner theater going on. To call them daydreamers would be a gross understatement, and the usual description "enigmatic" is just a diplomatic way of saying "planet Fantasia".

    At best this manifests in inability to walk down a pavement without bumping into people, exaggerated consumption of soap-operas, talk shows, women's weeklies
    and overpriced fashionclothes and a flexible attitude to "truth".

    At worst they are what scammees tell about.

    In both cases they totally lack the inner compass-needle, which my alcoholic friend after all had. She had, in her own crooked way, some limits, some pride and some essens. In the FSUW you generally meet emptiness and confusion mixed with some caricature-version of the american dream. It's impossible or at least very difficult to
    communicate with pink candyfloss-stuffed vacum, and no matter how intelligent, humouristic, well-educated, feminine or pretty the wrapping is (and it often is), it will drive even the most desperate wimp to despair eventually.

    So, if you're not a sex-tourist, the western equalent of the scammers, only the other way round ("Wow, first I met this HOT girl, and then this, and then ten more, and
    wouldn't I have liked to .....!! ... her knickers, and I almost made it, ......every time. Wow again"), I recommend a self-betterment course in "How to live together with emptiness". Maybe Ham has some suggestions as to a booklet on the subject. Personally I think, that a few years in a buddhistic monastery could possibly prepare you..

    Ofcourse there's a slight chance, that you end up in Realityville and meet miss Right. In that case, it's your duty as a citizen to inform everyone here. And if possible, to arrange for her sisters, cousins and divorced mother to go west also. I remember, when I first time saw an Okapi (they were considered extinct, when I was a child).

    Brunods, I'll see your "retirement" as oracle, before I believe it. But I shall miss you (for once I'm not being sarcastic).

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    LOL I didn't retire, just will let you guys talk now.

    I hope I inspired more people to participate and tell their stories.

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    quote:Some years ago I had a kind of relationship with a 20 years younger (western) girl, a former Playboy pinup (believe it or not). Unfortunately she was also deeply alcoholic and would have pinched my last penny, if she'd had the chance. But we both knew that, and as I kept an open eye on my credit card and the silverware, when she was staying at my place, we never had any big problems about it. Even through the mists of her daily pint or two of vodka, she would be good company; witty, intelligent and in good communication with the surrounding world.
    A 20yo Playboy pin-up alcoholic??? Man where can I find this girl???
    What you said about FSUW's goes to something I had before. I have heard that the scammers are consider to be no more than business people in these countries. They "sell" a fantasy to western men, and if the guy is willing to buy it, okie dokie then.

    Also that "real" girls live in a fantasy word created buy western TV, and actually expect what they see to be real when they get here.

    As for "sex-tourists", I think they're sh!t that needs to be flushed right along with the scammers!!! I feel that they help to perpetuate the scamming in many ways and scare off some poor, honest girls. Unfortunately, these low-lifes apparently "score from time to time.

    brundos, I'm glad you didn't retire. You're fun to play with!!![8D]

    ham, I gotta see you squeeze those oranges buddy!!![)]

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    quote:In the FSUW you generally meet emptiness and confusion mixed with some caricature-version of the american dream.
    well, although taken to the extreme (for need of "bailing out" or money ) in the FSU-MOB case, this best epitomizes WWW/LD dating. A "dating advice" page with a roster of many famous junk dating farms candidly advised that "people online tend to experiment with their identities".
    [)][B)][:0]
    What does ANYONE expect when visiting a Shakespeare workshop, no matter how provincial or poorly funded?
    Do people wearing capes, daggers, garters and collars, speaking funny language and throwing gauntlets at every offence look out of place?
    Of course not: it's a theatre workshop after all.
    If people dressed, behaved and talked like that in real life, they'd soon enjoy public welfare in a padded cell wearing a straitjacket.
    Internet dating is mostly the same.
    One might not end up in a padded cell claiming that the next million will be the eight in his bank account; or that she is a traditional woman with 1950s values (while she's known as "cherry forever fifty cents" to the football, volleyball, basketball, hockey & polo teams...ah, and the fire brigade, too [)] ), but they'll end up as the joke in town and people will consider them mere entertainment.
    internet dating is no different.
    "honest used cars salesmanship"?
    as honest as you want it to be, there'll always be flat tires, rust, mileages, weak batteries and unpaid street tax you might want to avoid emphasizing, right?

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    Like Peoplesmoks, I'm also glad to see you back from your VERY short retirement, Brunods. If I'd been to a new-age course in "Finding my inner woman" (which I haven't), I would have felt motherly protective about you. As it is, I just agree with Peoples, that you are fun to argue with. But I think, that an estonian woman would do you good. As far as I know, they are a lot like the finnish. Very reality-oriented, no-nonsense types. So try to keep your OMG-love-attacks under control, such comes and goes like a hooker's drawers.

    Peoples, it's possible you can find my young friend in a shop for kitchenware; reincarnated as a corkscrew. You don't drink a daily pint of vodka for 10 years without terminal consequences.

    As for the sextourists and the worst commercially oriented scammers/gold diggers, I can only hope, that they will find each other at the "adult sites" eventually; where the FSUW will learn to behave like any decent lady of negotiable affections, with fixed prices, deliverance as agreed and possible sleeping pills in your drink, and the sextourists will stop consider FSU as a discount-bordello.

    Not being quite as sceptical as Ham, it would be strange if a few miss Realityville (l950 morality recycled) don't exist in a population of several hundred millions. My late father once had a pittbullterrier, which actually didn't feel the need to make compostmaterial of anything living around. So everything is possible.

    Being a weirdo myself, believing in bleeding-heart stuff like vegetarianism, environmentalism, being nice to animals, not kicking children (at least not too often, or when their parents can see it), .......well, you know.... I know a couple of datingsites specializing on people like me. All at very reasonable prices (or even free).
    One is slightly new-age oriented, and the worst you'll meet there, are women taking this with crystals, horoscopes and mothergoddesses a bit too seriously. For the benefit of the younger, unmarried generation reading this, I took a peep at the age-group 20-35, and they looked very nice. Though it's a neighbourhood site.

    The other site is for vegetarians, and the disadvantage there is, that you'll have to accept living together with a hoard of pony-sized dogs, dog-sized cats or varied other unspecified animals, if you want their owner.

    But still, that's to prefer to being stepfather to a FSU teenager. I would say 10 badly trained, not housebroken, irish wolfhounds to one FSU teenager. I've actually tried both. Wolfhounds and FSU teenagers. I would take my chance with the wolfhounds any time.

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    quote:I would say 10 badly trained, not housebroken, irish wolfhounds to one FSU teenager. I've actually tried both. Wolfhounds and FSU teenagers. I would take my chance with the wolfhounds any time.
    swede, we can forget the FSU part and just say teenager!!! And yeah, I know the deal. I actually had an un nuetered, male, 50/50 dog/sable wolf. My infamous heroin junkie, wh@re ex-b!tch brought two kids with her. My wolf/dog was more disiplined than the kids, but that was the
    b!tches fault because she let them run wild.[}][}]
    quoteo people wearing capes, daggers, garters and collars, speaking funny language and throwing gauntlets at every offence look out of place?
    I wear that stuff all the time... and the tights feel oh so good![)][8D]
    quote:while she's known as "cherry forever fifty cents" to the football, volleyball, basketball, hockey & polo teams...ah, and the fire brigade, too
    Gather 'round my children and let me tell you a little story. Once, a man was so tired of his new FSU bride lounging around all day that he demanded she find a job, totally forgetting that she didn't fully understand the American wage scale, spoke very broken English, and was dumb as a stump anyway.

    She was eager to please her fine western snuggle bear, so she thought long and hard about what skills she could bring to the work force. Eventually, having realized after just over three or four hours of her pondering that the degree she spent six years earning in "The social-economic disadvantages of being a pigmy head hunter in the 21st century" at the Pediological University of Kharkov, left her with no true marketable skills, she looked in the mirror at her pretty face, large round breasts and tight tushy and decided to become an escort. "Eureka!" (A new word she learned on TV that week... maybe watching "Green Acres" on TVLand?)

    That night, the man asked his FSU hottie bride if she found a job, to which she responded by pulling a wad of crumpled up money out of her already over stuffed bra, and dropped it on the bed. "What's this?" the man asked. "I earned $301 at my new job." the FSU smokin' hot arm candy wifey replied. "What job?" the man asked. "What did you do to earn $301 in one day? That's more than I make in a day!"

    "I work as independent escort girl!" the buxom slavic babe stated proudly as her excessively pronounced buxomness proudly heaved and began to overflow from what appeared to be her little sister's push up bra.

    "WHAT!!!!!!" exclaimed the man angrily. He fumed for almost ten minutes before realizing she made double his salary for the day. He calmed down and they talked about it. Then he aksed her, "But tell me malyshka, who was the d!ck that gave you the dollar?"

    To which the bountiful bubble head responded, "All 301 of them!!!!"

    Ouch!!!!!!!!!!!

    Hey ham, what about those oranges buddy?[)][)][)]


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    Cit PeopleSmoks:
    "I wear that stuff all the time... and the tights feel oh so good!"

    But you ride a Harley. You're EXPECTED to dress strangely. If you had a real bike, you'd never get away with it.

    Thanks for your story, I enjoyed it immensely. I hope all the scammers, their pimps and the agency representatives lurking around here in the vicinity, did the same.


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    quote: If you had a real bike, you'd never get away with it.
    What do you mean if I had a REAL bike??? It's only because of my former club status that I am able to wear the tights you know!!! It's the probates that have to wear the "boy shorts"!!!![)]

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