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  1. #21

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    Another one bites the dust. Thanks for your comments and I agree with your strategy! Sorry you had to go through this!

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    quote:Originally posted by Amerikanski

    I have had the high maintenance Russian "step daughter." She is 27 and I am 45. She's at at Gwen Stephanie concert with her Russian girlfriends at the moment, and I am home caring for the children. Spare yourself the sorrow. Run for the exits. It is the best advice I can give. If you think giving the good life to someone from a third-world existence will buy you loyalty and faithful companion, think again. They have a word for you? "DURAK" (fool).
    amen!
    have your lawyer on speed dial & keep your fingers crossed.

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    quote:I have had the high maintenance Russian "step daughter." She is 27 and I am 45. She's at at Gwen Stephanie concert with her Russian girlfriends at the moment, and I am home caring for the children. Spare yourself the sorrow. Run for the exits. It is the best advice I can give. If you think giving the good life to someone from a third-world existence will buy you loyalty and faithful companion, think again. They have a word for you? "DURAK" (fool).

    Your wife (?) is neither loyal nor faithful? Then don't simply be idle and wait for her to screw you over, which you know she will. Maybe she will get an AVO against you, and you'll lose your home. Maybe she'll gradually poison you. Plan now to sever the tie with minimum loss to yourself.

    Don't just be "dead man walking".

    However, your situation might not be quite as awful as you imagine.

    1. You are at home, caring for the children? This lady has given you children? Why would she tie herself down with children to you if she had less-than-honourable intentions?

    2. Did she forbid you from attending Gwen Stefani with her?

    3. She is out with her girlfriends, who are female, not socialising with other men. Aside from these outings with her girlfriends, does she get much other space away from you? With people who speak her language? We shouldn't stop growing after marriage.

    3a. What about yourself? Can you honestly say that you have minimal human interaction, outside of your wife? No workmates? No family?

    4. What demands does she place on you, emotionally and financially, that make her "high maintenance" compared with your local women?

    5. You metaphorise her as a "stepdaughter", suggesting... Well, does she deny you intimacy, without cause?

    6. Is she deliberately a neglectful homemaker?

    7. What makes you think that your wife considers you a fool?

    I reckon there's a slight possibility that other people have seen you the 45yo man with the 27yo woman. And the women are totally pissed and the men are totally envious. So they have been negative towards the idea, not enjoying seeing another person happy. And you've been suckered into their mindset.

    Can you be happy, with her or otherwise?


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    For the curious... we divorced a year and a half ago, and the court awarded me my house and primary custody of our son. She simply refuses to leave, and I don't have the heart to have the marshall pull her screaming out the front door. It is like the ill mannered house guest who refuses to leave. I sleep in the guest room and dread coming home.

    I am not alone. I have a friend who married a Russian girl 28 years his junior. She brought her teenaged son with MS to the states. She now works in Orange County in a very strange hotel arrangement with her employer, while her hapless spouse takes care of her Russian child in a wheelchair. They see each other a few days out of each month.

    My ex and her friends have a club that meets monthly at a local restaurant, to discuss how much they've sucked off their American victims. It's all about Gucci handbags and Channel sunglasses.

    All of us bought into a lie that you could meet a nice girl from the FSU that would be happy to be here and treat you like a prince. I rescued my Russian from a tenement and abusive father, gave her an expensive college degree, a car, a huge diamond, etc., etc. The more you give, the less they respect you.

    My advice would be just to drink as much vodka as you can stomach, slap your Russian woman around, and f**k her in the a** every chance you get. That is all they understand, and it is all they will ever respect.

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    Your story makes sense, in that I have seen examples of such marriages in Australia, albeit with women from Phillippines.

    You might want to reconsider the prudence of having your ex still living in your home. Presumably, you went the FSU path to find a partner. Having this woman in your house will compromise any future relationships, which you might pursue with a local woman.

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    quote:All of us bought into a lie that you could meet a nice girl from the FSU that would be happy to be here and treat you like a prince. I rescued my Russian from a tenement and abusive father, gave her an expensive college degree, a car, a huge diamond, etc., etc. The more you give, the less they respect you.
    cut your losses.
    girls nights out, especially with these parasites, mean f-ckfests.
    Yes, agencies sell huge lies and men end up in huge financial/emotional trouble for believing them.

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    Having this woman in your house will compromise any future relationships, which you might pursue with a local woman.

    The one byproduct of a relationship with a FSU woman is that there will be no "future relationships." "Vampira" is the Russification of vampire, and she is one. These FSU women suck the blood out of their victims to the point that you will honestly have nothing left to give another woman.

    My brother calls her "your 'sort of' wife." I have had other women interested in me, but best to waive them away from this train wreck. Ms. FSU has sent them text messages, emails, and voicemails saying things like "he's s**cking my pu**y right now," or "stay the f**k away from my husband." Discovery Channel should do a movie about it. She is every bit the brood parasite that lays her eggs in another's nest. She's thrown one laptop in the pool and two cell phones. I'm just focusing my energies on keeping a job and taking care of my kids.

    Why do I put up with it? Hard to say. She is my young son's mother. She has no job, no income, few prospects. I will literally have to put her out on the street with the help of law enforcement, and it will be a very, very ugly scene (The police have been to our house at least three times in the course of our relationship. She spent a weekend in the County Jail for domestic violence). I keep hoping she'll meet a bigger fool that me, like her friend did.

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    quote:Originally posted by Amerikanski

    Having this woman in your house will compromise any future relationships, which you might pursue with a local woman.

    The one byproduct of a relationship with a FSU woman is that there will be no "future relationships." "Vampira" is the Russification of vampire, and she is one. These FSU women suck the blood out of their victims to the point that you will honestly have nothing left to give another woman.

    My brother calls her "your 'sort of' wife." I have had other women interested in me, but best to waive them away from this train wreck. Ms. FSU has sent them text messages, emails, and voicemails saying things like "he's s**cking my pu**y right now," or "stay the f**k away from my husband." Discovery Channel should do a movie about it. She is every bit the brood parasite that lays her eggs in another's nest. She's thrown one laptop in the pool and two cell phones. I'm just focusing my energies on keeping a job and taking care of my kids.

    Why do I put up with it? Hard to say. She is my young son's mother. She has no job, no income, few prospects. I will literally have to put her out on the street with the help of law enforcement, and it will be a very, very ugly scene (The police have been to our house at least three times in the course of our relationship. She spent a weekend in the County Jail for domestic violence). I keep hoping she'll meet a bigger fool that me, like her friend did.
    We may know each other? Maybe not California is a big state, and one of my "bros" told me of a situation very much like yours, almost TO THE LETTER.

    Here is a piece of advice:

    Be sure she is bared from all your assets, if you haven't already.

    Get sole custody of your child (how old is your child?)

    If your child is very young:

    Cut your losses: Put her butt on a plane back to Russia!

    Or you can be a miserable wreck, until you "off yourself", in that case she wins!

    I hate to be so cold, but man, you have got to handle this! She isn't a citizen, and if you don't cut your losses now, you will really be screwed!

    Sorry, dOOd I know it hurts!

    Peace

    ItTechy


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    I'm not from California, but there are men in this predicament all over. I even know a guy from England, who is my FSU victim twin. I think the State Department should issue a moratorium on fiancee visas from the FSU. Fraud is rampant.

    I've got all the legal ends sewn up, including custody. Just a shame really.

    I have written some on-line articles about this. There are vast cultural differences between the West and most FSU states. We are taught that "love conquers all" in the West. They are taught "only fools fall in love."

    An FSU woman will rip your heart out as you watch, then eat it while it is still beating. That's about the best I can sum it up.

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    quote:Originally posted by Amerikanski

    I'm not from California, but there are men in this predicament all over. I even know a guy from England, who is my FSU victim twin. I think the State Department should issue a moratorium on fiancee visas from the FSU. Fraud is rampant.

    I've got all the legal ends sewn up, including custody. Just a shame really.

    I have written some on-line articles about this. There are vast cultural differences between the West and most FSU states. We are taught that "love conquers all" in the West. They are taught "only fools fall in love."

    An FSU woman will rip your heart out as you watch, then eat it while it is still beating. That's about the best I can sum it up.
    The old saying goes: PR-NUPTIAL. Of course you will always get "well if you love me...bull SH*T, but it is one way to protect us. Sorry I thought you were from Calif. my mistake, but you are right, 80%+ will screw an other dOOd while you watch!

    You have got to be SO careful.

    If there is anthing I can do email me or post a message.

    Good Luck!

    I like what your said: "drink as much Vodka as you can stand and f**k them in A** every chance you get".

    The gal I was seeing, well she was just a space cadet, don't need that, had two American ones! <g>

    Peace my friend,

    ItTechy

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