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    After some initial doubt, I've for several reasons decided to start this topic. Most likely it will die a silent and unmourned death. We shall see.

    First I want myself and the closet-sextourists to get out of each others' hair. I can't abide the fourletter words, the bad spelling, braggings and "I almost made it" stories, spiced with expressions like "hot babes" etc. On the other hand the !!!!WOW!!! types do not like words with many syl-lab-les, so here such is concentrated in one place, which they can avoid. In other words, the contributers to this topic can, without interference, bore each other to death, if we wish to.

    Next: Having a soft spot for conspiracy theories I'm convinced, that not only anti-scammers read anti-scam sites, a lot of other groups do it also. The scammers themselves, agency representatives, ultrafeminists (just-hating-men-on-general-principles), chatters (having nothing to say, but doing it with many words) and those just curious. The possibilty of disinformation is real, but maybe it's possible to suppress it by being longwinded and circumstantial.

    And last, the most important. Internet-dating is after all only one aspect of the the eternal "war of the sexes". To understand net-dating, I believe it's necessary to paint a broader background canvas. Say, are we just a bunch of grumpy querulants or is there really a difference between not being able to get along with your next-door childhood love and a FSUW? Where and what is the difference? Even without a computer, a different cultural background or alcoholism, Sue-Ellen could still be a conartist or pro-dater. Especially if she's good-looking.

    I'm not completely sceptical about FSU dating (internet or not). In the last app. 18 years I've had three longer relationships (in the biblical sense) with SFUW, lasting alltogether 14 years. These relationships broke up for the same personal reasons, as any other relationships do. And I've had my share of scandinavian psychos. For me the question is the PROBABILITY of meeting "straights" or "bends" in each group.

    So I invite for wievs on this. And I have a few proposals for background-basics:

    I believe, that we like all other animals fundamentally are biological robots. We have a digestive system with two openings, a need to reproduce and to fight for a place in a predatory system. That's our startingpoint. But compared to other animals, we also have rather complex emotions and intellect. We have a possibility, individually or culturally, to be more than just reptile-brained. And different individuals/cultures/subcultures use this possibility in various degrees.


    And I also suggest to sort out the differences between women and men. For the present bunch of probably half-machos it's maybe an idiotic question. But believe me, in this time of unisex, feminism, equal opportunities and so on, the issue has seriously, repeatedly and heatedly been raised, if there IS any difference (in spite of different plumbing and men's inability to get pregnant). I strongly support the idea, that women and men are almost different species, and as in any other contact with ETs, we need a lot of diplomacy to establish peaceful contact.
    Female Scammers from Nigeria, Ghana, Russia, Ukraine and Philippines

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    Hey swede! I agree totally with your assessment. Toooooo much toooo soon isn't good either. Sure their was a loss of some freedoms under Putin, but the country is doing better than is was before he took office. Gotta fly!!!!!

    Train returns

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    "Gotta fly!!!!!",

    that's all?? Hope it means, that you have better things to do.

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    Hello Smoks and Swede!

    I Hope all is Well with both of you!

    I am Glad to hear Smoks is so far kind of maybe enjoying his vacation in the Ukraine!! Sorry about option B maybe turning into another version of the Titanic voyage, Humm, Too Bad!! Well Smoks, do not forget-alot of photo's, Hehehe! Well, my view's re politic's are of course mine and numerous people I know and also people I chat on line with which are by the way not only from America but other countries too! I simply see Russia as a growing Democracy and this will take time for the Peoples Government to adjust However every article I have read that has been posted by a Russian National expresses the same view's and opinion's, they all want Democracy!!!! I have watched the news media from many sources these past few day's and when I see People exercising thier Freedom of Thought's and Speech being arrested and Harassed this tell's me alot about a countries back bone and how thier Government Act's / React's to various Freedom's!! Well, we will see what the PP in Russia does as time Passes and again I say I Hope he will act in Good Faith and Ethic's for all of the Russian People, not simply the Political Elite!!!
    Humm, we shall see-Action's alway's speak louder than Word's!!


    Tone

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    Hi Tone,

    Rome wasn't build in one day. Remember the poor guy in Russia has a lot of powerful groups against him. Both the remnants of the socialists/communists (it's far from completely dead yet), the new capitalist bosses (who also are influential), the maffia/former KGB constallation, the lack of money and the unbelievable corruption and inefficiency in the administration, and not least the average FSU person's belief, that everybody will have a swimmingpool very soon. (Saw that in Poland. People started getting really greedy a year or two after
    the fall of Sovjet).

    It's a difficult position to work from. And ofcourse the western attitude doesn't help very much. The east is usually seen as a place, where you can grab.

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    Hi Swede!

    I understand all of this, a person would have to be closed minded or an idiot to not know what you have pointed out! Of course Rome was not built in a day, Hehe, my ancestor's are from Italy on my Father's side and my Mother's side from Germany, England and Ireland!! Well, I am second generation American and my Son therefor is third and my Grandson is fourth, Humm, many of American's are from another country's who Wished to Live a better life and in freedom, even though freedom has many prices to pay!! So I also say that America was not built in a Day either but as young as America is as a society it work's, not perfectly, but what country is or can say it can compare? I still say that I Admire and Respect Deeply the Russian People and Swede you are correct that the various Politican's have thier work in front of them and True Democracy will not be easliy acheieved, Never has been because No Dicatorial or Tyranical Regime want's Democracy, they Fear it to be simple and factual!! Sooo, do I have a short cure to the World's problem's, Especialy in FSU? No, I do not and simply because the People have to take back thier countries and thier government's and thru Democracy govern them selves but this takes time and alot of courage and commitment!! I mean look at America for example, we are the Freeist County in this World yet our government is all screwed up!! So, even here in America we have alot to do to get our country back and on it's intended course, Simply said yet not easily done!!!![V]


    Tone

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    I think Goddie did a much better job of reporting then PeoPles is doing? This is good however!! Hopefully this means that things are working out great for him in the Ukraine! His Olga's or going to be upset.

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    I think Goddie did a much better job of reporting then PeoPles is doing? This is good however!! Hopefully this means that things are working out great for him in the Ukraine! His Olga's or going to be upset.

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    I must admit, that I also am looking forward to a lot of information, when PeopleS comes back. It seems, that the situation changes quickly both concerning scamming and the culture in FSU.

    I saw this explosive change in Poland in the nineties, both at the individual level and economically. The amount of money being poured into FSU and satellite states was impressive, and once the traditon of stuffing your own pockets with such money was damped a bit, the wheels started turning. Not always to the better as some of the less attractive parts of western economy are taking over. So PeopleS, we're waiting.

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    I must admit, that I also am looking forward to a lot of information, when PeopleS comes back. It seems, that the situation changes quickly both concerning scamming and the culture in FSU.

    I saw this explosive change in Poland in the nineties, both at the individual level and economically. The amount of money being poured into FSU and satellite states was impressive, and once the traditon of stuffing your own pockets with such money was damped a bit, the wheels started turning. Not always to the better as some of the less attractive parts of western economy are taking over. So PeopleS, we're waiting.

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    Hi Swede!

    I Agree, stay tuned to this International Station for new updates!!:-)

    Tone

 

 

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