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    quote:Originally posted by PeopleSmoks
    [br]Hopefully, the next "devil" won't be worse!!! But, yea, avoid the "needy" ones at all cost!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Amen. I've told you a little bit about my options at this point, but it just amazes me to no end the incessant IM'ing, phone calls, emails, you name it some of these women throw at you. Then they get upset that I'm being "withdrawn!" I'm like, "You sent me fifteen emails today, and I wrote you back twice... that's not being 'withdrawn' that's called trying to earn a living." You can only imagine what a relationship with that would be like! Blech! [xx(]

    I honestly think that I deserve a partner who wants to share a life with me, and not "own" me for her own personal needs. Let's give each other some fun times and friendship, bump our uglies when the mood strikes, and then get on with living.

    My FSUW feels I am beholden to listen to a half hour description of every little thing she did since leaving the house in the morning, but if I say something about *my* day, I'm immediately interrupted, or talked over, or simply ignored. I don't mind it, but I sure as hell don't appreciate being subjected to the daily log of activities involving people I don't know and things I don't care about. I've told her, "you need to learn the difference between talking *with* someone, and talking *at* someone." [xx(][xx(][xx(]

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    Hey Prometheus! Fifteen e-mails while she knows you're at work is just a tad too much. To me, an a.m. "I'm thinking about you" and an afternoon "Call me tonight" is plenty during work hours.

    What you seek in a partner is pretty much what most guys really want. Small variations here or there, but it's the basics. All guys like you, me and our M.I.A. buddy swede just want a basicly good woman.

    Where are they? I'm still looking toward the FSU, but in all honesty, if things don't work out with my Olya, I might just cash in my retirement fund, buy some porn mags and move to Alaska!!![:0]

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    quote:Originally posted by PeopleSmoks
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    Where are they? I'm still looking toward the FSU, but in all honesty, if things don't work out with my Olya, I might just cash in my retirement fund, buy some porn mags and move to Alaska!!![:0]
    I forget, but does Sarah Palin have a sister? A soccer mom who can dress a caribou sounds pretty good right now!

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    Hey Prometheus! Palin has a sister, but she's no "Miss Alaska". Then again, after 6 months in an igloo with a bunch of porn mags, which after 6 months would probably have all the really good pages stuck together... [:0]

    As for FSU/MOB hunting, I guess I can always look on the bright side? I've enjoyed my two trips to Lugansk and I can now order a beer in Russian! But, it's not quite over yet for me since things seem to be going okay with Olya and me so far. Time will tell of course. At present, I plan to take another trip to Lugansk later this year, but there are a few things that I have to work around.

    I'm already going to be taking at least a month off from work during March when I finally have the surgery on my knee, so vacation time will have to wait a while. I hope to go in September, which is when I wanted to go the last time, but had to put it off until November. I wish I could go in the summer. I'd love to see Olya in a bikini![][}] With luck, it'll be warm in September.

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    Dude,

    I have been offered sexual servitude, another child ( that I have requested for a decade), even an offer to adopt the stepchild she despises. I am withholding final judgement, but it is good to be the king for a change. I took her bowling tonight. Nyuk, nyuk, nyuk. The only Prada bag in the whole place.

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    Hey Prometheus! Sexual servitude sounds great, but will you be the only guy she's serving? Toward the end, I made my ex, the dirty little heroin junkie wh@re, sleep on the sofa and locked the bedroom door. But, if I want a piece, I took her in the bedroom, got what I wanted and usually sent her out of the room when I was done because I knew she would be going out later and giving it up to another guy.[V] Oh, she served me well and whenever I wanted, but I knew it wasn't an exclusive deal at that point... which is why I finally gave her the boot!

    As for having another kid with her, I'd be damn certain she is YOURS and ONLY YOURS before taking that ride. The wh@re and I discussed getting married having kids together, and almost got hitched on the way to visit her grand parents in NC. She had her tubes tied after squirtung out her second and we never put together the cash to reverse it. At this point, I'm glad neither ever happened!

    But, use her while you can and keep your eyes and ears open. You know if things are going in the wrong direction!

    GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!

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    Well, finally I got around to write. I know the following is a digression from the main theme of the site, but I thought I would give an explanation for my silence.

    It seems, that I'm 'psychic', as I at the end of november for almost a week had a quite extraordinary experience of something outside the 'normal'. This would ofcourse have been cute, if it had been contact with flowerfairies, seeing auras or other new-age favorites, but as it is, I had a close encounter with beings of a very hostile and aggressive character. It's not my intention to go into detail, (unless anyone is interested and then only to a certain degree), but only say, that it's the most scary thing, I've ever experienced in my whole life. Something between living in a horror movie and the more sinister parts of the x-files.

    As in the case of Whitley Strieber ('Close encounter' etc), I have been examined by the highest local medical authorities, and I don't have any braintumors, epilepsy, schizophrenia or other illnesses of any known kind. I don't do drugs, and nothing exceptionally has happened in my life recently to initiate any breakdown.

    So I can only conclude, that I either suffer from some new and unknown mental illness, or that I have upheld the tradition of shamans, religious persons etc by experiencing another dimension of existence.

    As our former contributor 'Ham' many times remarked, anybody can say anything on the net (and often does), so I do not expect anyone to just trust my words. It's up to the reader, and I won't be offended by being met with disbelief. It certainly does sound weird.

    But to connect to scamming in very general terms, I can associate to my former ruminations here on the character of life. As longtime readers of this thread know, I have stressed the phenomenon of predation as a basic part of complex life (as opposite to symbiosis). I have developed a rather personal cosmological theory, and in this I postulate predation as a general principle of universal existence.

    My recent experience seems to support this opinion. These beings I met behaved just as predatory as the average human alpha-(fe)male, and apart from the highly frightening aspects (e.g. I was threatened to my life), it also has a gloomy consequence: To expect or manifest decency, honesty, responsibility etc IS really an uphill activity everywhere. It's not only humans, who are demonstrating predation in spite of having a relatively well developed intellect.

    Personally this had led me to speculate on the value of a public discussion on moral issues. It looks as if the whole cirkus of life (in all its manifold manifestations) mainly consists of grabbing what you can, and to get out of that threadmill is a personal decision, which very few want to make.

    It's not, that I feel indignant about other complex beings not liking us; possibly even being hostile to us. I've always agreed with 'agent Smith' in the Matrix movies, when he said that humanity is a virus destroying its host (our planet), but sofar I've had the hope, that we humans after all represented an extreme. That hope has evaporated now.

    This post isn't very fluent or coherent, my only excuse is, that I've been totally drained of energy for the last two months. Maybe, or maybe not, I will eventually return to a more functional level and be able to formulate myself better.

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    Hey swede! Welocome back!!! I must say that your experience is quite extraordinary as you describe it. Seriously, are you sure the ex-wifey didn't spike your fruit punch? But, anything is possible I guess.

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    She wasn't even around.

    In any case, there was nothing hazy about what I saw, felt and heard. It was with a definite inner logic and causality, way beyond night-dreams or drug-induced visions/hallucinations. As clear and distinct as 'normal' life.

    In my youth I had my share of chemical experimentation with mind expanding drugs. This was nothing like it.

    If I start doubt my senses concerning this, I might as well start them in ordinary situations. Which is ofcourse an option.

    'Everything is an illusion'.

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    Hey swede! Seriously, tell me more about this. You know that I try to keep an open mind, despite my basic social programming. I won't crap on you, it all sounds strange, but as I said... it's the basic programming that limits us all.

    Are you talking ETs? Or some other kind of encounter? Again, not to belittle anything you say, just trying to formulate some sort of thought on this.

    Have you had a chance to catch up on the incoherant babblings that Prometheus and I have been wandering off into? Prometheus in his tumultuous battles with his FSU bride of several years, and my continuing hopes of finding one that won't follow her basic socio-genetic programming by evolving into a Prada loving, swimming pool worshiper![B)]

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