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    Hello everybody,

    this is the start of my travel report to Krasnodar where I date a lady from ruladies.com. This weekend the first booked meeting will take place. I have serious intentions with this lady so that I only dated this one lady and nobody else there, after 3 months of correspondence.

    My travel is an individual one. I did not book a travel package of the agency. I only had to mail them my passport copy and pay in advance with creditcard for this first meeting 30 minutes with translator.

    As I speak basically the Russian language the communication problem with her will be a not so big one for us. I made sure in the correspondence that I am not interested in expensive nightclubs or shopping centers, but I want to see the town and may be surroundings and her family if she agrees with me to do that. She made sure that she would take care of me in any case.

    I prepared some little surprises and bought some gifts ... she likes sweets so I bought such stuff and a mp3 player with some good songs for her and a picture of me and her pictures on its display. I will take my handycam and my camera with me and keep my impressions then. My hotel room has been booked by a travel agency, it is not cheap there (70 Euros per night / breakfast incl.).

    She proposes first to meet me in tea cafeterias there where we can discuss and get to know in person so that she checks if she loves me or not ... I understand that a young lady needs a bit time to develop her emotions and feelings and then she will take her ultimate decision.

    I will report more in detail here in this thread.

    Goddiejens

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    Hi guys,

    I am here in Krasnodar. I arrived last Saturday at around 12 am. My first trip to Russia ... and what an experience!

    First, be careful when you arrive here on a Saturday because banks do not work on Saturday as usual and so it caused a lot of stress to me until I could change my Euros cash in roobles (at the 3rd bank after 45 minutes...). Some bankomats (automates/cash machines) work but many are only linked to the national Russian banksystem... . And if anyone travels in the winter time please wear warm clothes when you have to do the transfer in Moscow Sheremetyevo from 2 to 1, I stood more than 1 hour in queues in very low temperatures there... .

    Second, the office in Krasnaya Street 124 A is real and located there on the 5th floor of a high office building. You find it at the entrance where also a tourist agency publishs its availability there, the agency"s name is only marked at the office door upstairs and not at the entrance of the building.

    The staff there is very friendly. So I had the official intro-meeting just in the evening of the day of my arrival because my favorite lady Marina (the blondy one, 20 y/o, massager/nurse) worked this day in the beauty and massage shop for ladies and she could not come in earlier. I signed the fair agreement with the agency about this meeting. After half an hour we terminated the meeting because my Russian skills are good enough to continue the conversation with her without translator. I was surprised because Marina is indeed a very beautiful lady, I was deeply impressed to see her.

    Until this time my experience was a good one. Then I enjoyed the presence of my favourite lady only extremely limited. I needed to have some dinner. She went more than a kilometer with me to find a small restaurant which offers typical Russian food and had been recommended by the office people to her. But every 10 minutes ... it was unbelievable but real! ... every 10 minutes somebody called her on her cellphone and she went out to reply the phonecall. After half an hour sitting in the restaurant with her and all these breaks I asked her who calls and she said her dad who would not like that she extends our being together. So I took a taxi with her to come back to the hotel and left my gifts (chocolates because she likes chocolates very much, a mp3 player with her and my pictures to watch / new sony branded one, a nice laptop case and mouse for her and well, in total around 15 kilograms) to her. As I know that Russian ladies are shy I did not push anything with her and did my very best to show me with my best image. She came out of the taxi and said goodbye to me with a small kiss ... so I was glad to see her on Monday after her exams again, and on Tuesday she would have time for me all the day she had told me in our conversation... .

    In reality on Sunday here happened nothing, I only used my unlimited paid mails with her to send her a mail how much I wait for her and how much I would love her and so on. We had agreed that I create a nice movie dvd with her because I have a camcorder and laptop and so on here with me.

    It was hard to find an internetcafe here! Guys, you find a cheap one at the main post office glabpotshtamt, 15 minutes to walk from the office of the agency downtown the Krasnaya Street and then right and left at the post office building to find it after the 2 entrances of the big post office building at entrance 3 "kyberpost" marked at the housedoor! If it does not work first, please wait up to 30 minutes, they repair the connections... .

    Today us Monday and I received a letter from Marina saying that her dad prohibits her to see me and she would be sick at home because it would not work out with us ... so I am in a desaster here now because I only came to Krasnodar because of this girl. I would be too old she writes, but her profile says

    "Marina M. #204
    Age 20 years old

    Age range of man: 30-60 y.o.
    My Languages: English with vocabulary.
    Religion: Christian

    Education: Student
    Occupation: Massager, nurse
    Appearance: Striking
    Smoke: Sometimes Drink: Socially
    Birth Date: 11/21/1987 (mm/dd/YYYY)
    Height: 5 ft 10 inch (177 cm)
    Weight: 125 lbs (56 kg)
    Build: thin I am left-handed
    Eyes: blue Hair: light-brown
    Glasses or contact lenses: No
    Marital: Single and No children
    Do you want to have children? Yes
    How many would you like to have? 2
    Krasnodar branch

    so I am far below 60 y/o and I do not get the point of her excuses, these excuses are really wrong and not acceptable. Be aware of this lady, guys!!!

    So far my first report part here. The translators work between 10 am and 7 pm in the office. They are friendly and welcome every guest with coffee. I have not the impression that they would be gangsters or people who falsificate doing kind of fraud with guys like me. Of course, ladies cannot come in to the office to pick up letters everyday, ladies live far away in other districts of this large town ... Marina has a pc at home but many others do not have pc at home and there are not so much internetcafes here in this town, for sure a lot of messages goes via phonecalls because they all have cellphones here ... . But the translators do their best to execute a serious job!

    So long for now, guys! I am still frustrated and furious, but well, also girls in other countries are like that ... they damage and wound their admirers ... we have to face such risks wherever!

    Good and better luck for you, guys!

    Goddiejens

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    quote:every 10 minutes somebody called her on her cellphone and she went out to reply the phonecall.
    +

    quote:20 y/o, massager/nurse
    =

    [:0][)][)]

    quote:Today us Monday and I received a letter from Marina saying that her dad prohibits her to see me and she would be sick at home because it would not work out with us ... so I am in a desaster here now because I only came to Krasnodar because of this girl. I would be too old she writes, but her profile says
    yes, sugar daddy or pimp...
    Two hours later she was scheduled to attend a "oral" interview with Jamal, a 300 pounds African guy on parole who just arrived from Harlem...
    What a joke...
    [)][xx(][)]

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    Hi ham!!! Hi @all!!!

    Marina has really damaged me very much here, ham. She took my gifts (15 kgs) and ran home without leaving me her address or whatever, only a little kiss is what I received from her and the agreement that she would take of me from latest yesterday ... a broken promess!

    But well, in the pics she looks really like a prostitute, in that we agree, ham. But as I experienced via mail correspondence this lady is very sensitive and well young and so she is not aware of how the receiver would understand what she says. She has no clue that any serious western man watching such pics must come to the conclusion "What a prostitute is this one?". Ham, I go around here in Krasnodar in these days. And I see all the nice young ladies here in the streets, very many of them look super sexy but are super shy!!! It is only show, girls like that!!! This is the big issue.

    She has no pimp, Marina, otherwise there had been a request to pay service fee or whatever to her for a hot night ... this really has never been the case here! Pimps want money, they do not want to cause trouble to "interested clients". She never asked money or anything.

    After this negative experience the translators (Diana) discussed with me in the office last Monday evening. They proposed me not to waste my time but date another person, they would help me as good as possible.

    So yesterday I dated another one. And she was indeed much better to me than Marina. She allowed me from the beginning to use the more familiar form in Russian language to communicate with her. She is not student anymore but has started to work. I recorded my own movie on our first meeting in the office, and in this movie there are also to see all the translator ladies (but they have just boyfriends, guys!). She was a bit shy with me, but on the other hand she smiled a lot and always knew something nice to say to me. After only 15 minutes the translater proposed to finish the meeting and pass over to any restaurant only the lady and I. Then we went to a restaurant, and within 5 minutes I catched her address details and private mail address and so on.

    So this lady is really interested in me and she is not dependent in her decision on what daddy says or mom thinks. She also touched me sometimes a little, after 2 hours. So I am glad that I am in contact with her now. She suggested me where to spend my time today and visit some interesting sights. We agreed that this evening I will show her pics on my laptop (which means that we need to go to her apartment, she lives alone there ...). She is really sweet and a natural good girl, as I see it in my first impression.

    Marina will be married with any guy her daddy will choose for her. I am sure about that. Her parents who have some business do wash her brain now. The candidate must be a rich one and bring money in. I have my opinion about this way of handling, and it is a very negative opinion. But well, I could not help her because she did not want me to help her at last. So I leave her to the dogs now ... no tear for such a dependent chick!

    When I was there in the office last Monday evening I could also see Ekaterina or Jekaterina or Yekaterina there filling out forms with a younger prettier girlie. The manager put me on a place behind a screen so that I could not observe both ladies so good. They are all very friendly there. So I left some chocolate to the translators and they offered me coffee and had some smalltalk with me. Diana is a bit strict sometimes, but well.

    Last evening I saw Ksenia first time there. She is also a beautiful lady, much more beautiful than in the movie, in her video. I would change this video in her case!

    I found a computer club (cybercafe) on the other side of Krasnaya Street (where a shoe shop is located) directly in front of the hotel KAVKAZ where I have accomodation now, open from 10 am to 10 pm ... but sometimes internet does not work because of connectivity problems. Main biz of this club is gaming, but sound is not provided and smoking not allowed inside and this is very nice for surfers like me! The price is a bit more than 1 Euro per hour, well payable.

    Also nearby the Hotel Kavkaz there is a cafeteria (bakery with tables and service), only 5 minutes to walk from the hotel in the direction where the office of ruladies.com is located. So my lady will be at the hotel this evening at 6:30, I will take a coffee and cake with her in that bakery and then we go to her to check (hopefully not only) the laptop contents ... that's my plan. Wish me good luck, guys!

    I keep you updated.

    Goddiejens

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    quote:But as I experienced via mail correspondence this lady is very sensitive and well young and so she is not aware of how the receiver would understand what she says.
    hmm
    they are selling a product & fooling suckers.
    As young as she might be, I bet you are only sucker N+1 she has fooled.
    So her "daddy" is possessive, but allows her to join a MOB agency & to see rows of horny westerners...
    Please...

    It might be you were not "wealthy enough" or whatever, so she met you (not to leave you angry over being stood up ), took whichever gift you could give and goodbye.


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    Hi Ham,

    I see it the same way. As her dad is a business guy here he want to make her successful business lady too. So there is indeed a lot about money.

    On the other hand she mailed me that there was a Russian rich guy here in Krasnodar who put her a letter in the mailbox with a key of a super expensive car in and the car in front of her house door so that she please should use it. But she commented that she would not be a person anyone could buy with money or a car or whatever.

    Well, as just Einstein said ... who understands women???

    Now I dated the next one but she only explained me a lot of rules and procedures how it works here with ladies ... the admirer needs weeks and weeks to have meetings only in public places and friends would never share a kiss or touch each other or hold hands ... it would take a long time to come closer and also involve all the family members and especially the parents of the lady and so on ... .

    Our meeting last night took place in a cafeteria and was finished after one hour. Interesting to know that Natasha is a friend of the translator Diana who works in the office of the agency. She would look for an apartment in Krasnodar because now she only is a bedspacer in a place of her friends. And as she has to help out last night when guests come to that family and she needs to cook and so on she would have no more time for me last night ... I brought her to the bus and bye! I asked her how to arrange that she can see the video on my laptop. Well, she would ask Diana if we could arrange that in Diana's apartment tonight and I might get a phonecall ... . You can imagine what I think, it makes me really perplex here how they treat people like me... .

    On one hand here the ladies go around weared like elegant hookers, on the other hand inside they are as cold as the ground of Northern Sibiria now. What to say about it?

    I will leave this country tomorrow. I have been here first time. I will go next time to one of the southern countries. It is much cheaper there regarding the travel expenses and the people are more open-minded and easier to handle. That's all! I think the best is never repeat a mistake... .

    Goddiejens

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    Cit goddiejens:
    "Hi Ham,

    I see it the same way. As her dad is a business guy here he want to make her successful business lady too. So there is indeed a lot about money.

    On the other hand she mailed me that there was a Russian rich guy here in Krasnodar who put her a letter in the mailbox with a key of a super expensive car in and the car in front of her house door so that she please should use it. But she commented that she would not be a person anyone could buy with money or a car or whatever."

    If her father owns a newspaper-stall, he's a "businessman" according to the way language is (mis)used there. There's a 95% chance, that's the story about the car is just so many words.

    "On one hand here the ladies go around weared like elegant hookers, on the other hand inside they are as cold as the ground of Northern Sibiria now. What to say about it?"


    It's just the way FSUW dress, even respectable and faithfully married wives. I once had a niece of a former polish girlfriend visiting us here, and she definitely shocked the neighbours with her dress (though she was a shy and nice girl). In Poland you'll sometimes see 60-70 year old women dress this way. If they have the proper shape for it, it's a pleasure for the eye. But it doesn't mean a thing.


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    quote:On the other hand she mailed me that there was a Russian rich guy here in Krasnodar who put her a letter in the mailbox with a key of a super expensive car in and the car in front of her house door so that she please should use it. But she commented that she would not be a person anyone could buy with money or a car or whatever.
    sure...
    [)][B)][B)]
    and my cousin squeezes watermelons with his butt-cheeks...
    Please...

    quote:
    Now I dated the next one but she only explained me a lot of rules and procedures how it works here with ladies ... the admirer needs weeks and weeks to have meetings only in public places and friends would never share a kiss or touch each other or hold hands ... it would take a long time to come closer and also involve all the family members and especially the parents of the lady and so on ... .

    Our meeting last night took place in a cafeteria and was finished after one hour.
    ...
    and she's still virgin & saving herself for you, right?
    [)][)][)]
    True was the Barney, 71yo wealthy western accountant, had arrived the day earlier. He is all alone in the hotel, just took five tablets of viagra and they have to meet him within the hour. Next there is Akeem, a 500 pounds African guy nicknamed "brass knuckle" for his macho attitude.
    They must think you are really stupid to tell you all this nonsense.
    Ask her why she traded her cherry with packs of cigarettes when she was 12...
    [8D][)]

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    Hello ham and swede,

    I do not think that Marina lies. She has really a striking outer appeareance, this lady is a very beautiful one indeed!!! So it might well has happened that such a rich guy was very interested in her.

    Second point, I only want to stress here this really giant contradiction between the prudence of the ladies (they are really untouchables and behave in that way!) and their outfit which must make every guy horny.

    Today I am still in Moscow because Aeroflot has not arrived at Krasnodar yesterday, so also I went by bus to Anapa City and from there the aircraft brought me to Moscow where I arrived at midnight and used this day now to see also the Red Square despite of snow weather.

    I hope to come home at midnight... .

    Good luck,
    Jens

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    Hey Goddiejens! I've been following your updates, but haven't commented 'til now. I'm sorry to hear that things didn't work out so well. It's a bit depressing for me as I'm getting closer to my trip every day. I admit, I've heard similar stories about the girls dressing in somewhat tight clothes, short skirts, push up bras, etc (what we might almost think of as basic stripper atire), but maintain a strictly hands off attitude toward their western suitors. It seems they enjoy teasing???

    Even the girls that actually write their own letters and may be quite suggestive retain that untouchability at real meetings. As I always try like the dickens to find something good in everything (I live by the motto, "That which does not kill me will serve to make me stronger."), I tell myself that having heard about this "hands off" attitude, I am sort of prepared for it and hopefully won't be as shocked by it when I find it to be part of my FSU visit.

    Thanks for all of your reports. Good[:X], bad[}], or ugly[B)], I plan to do the same when I go, if not on the site updates, at least a full report when I get back home.

    Train returns

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