Letter(s) from Oksana Bozhinova to Hamid (Denmark)

Letter 1

Hello, my dear Hamid:)!

How are you doing today? I hope you are ok and in a good mood:) As for me I am all right but it would feel much better if I had my soul mate by my side... You understand, I am lonely and all my efforts to find the man of my life here in my town were in vain:( I am so frustrated about it:( And I wonder if you are lonely or not?? If yes and your heart aches of being lonely please please write me!!! May be we have a chance to be together and may be God has plans for us who knows...

I am a common girl whose mind is busy not only with her job and having fun but also with dreaming about her only man to create a family with... May be it is you?:) I want to know it and the only thing I pray you now to do is just to write me a letter and tell me more about your life... But only is you are serious of course. Will it be ok for you?:) I hope for it... I am 28 years old and I am so lonely if you could know... There was a man here in Ukraine who broke my heart into millions of pieces and I need a man who will help me to pick them back up in one whole... In spite of this bad experience I still believe in love and ready to trust a man again... I was told that Internet is a good place to meet your second half so I have a great expectations about it! I am just so tired also of all those men in Internet who looks only for fun and have nothing serious in their minds. I am not for games here and don't want to waste my time with such kind of men.
Please write me only if you are serious about such a girl like me!!!
Please write me... I just hope you like blonds?:))) Because if you prefer brunettes I am not for you:( Here is my e-mail: podsolnuh@1expressbox.com

I am waiting for your answer... Oksana.

Letter 2

My dear Hamid, hello!!!

Thank you so so much for your letter! I really appreciate your attention to my person:) I really don't know where shall I start from!

First of all I want you to know that I'm not here to find someone to live with, I'm here to find the one I can't live without... It is very important for you to realize that I am not one of those girls who are just to play with somebody's emotion and feelings, who are just looking for fun and sex. I am not here for that, sex is easy to be found anywhere, money can be earned but I need something more than it, I need my only man to be close to me. He will be the one I will love and the one I will want to make love with... If you are as much serious as I am so you are welcome to write me a lot of letters:) I will gladly read them and answer you immediately! Than we can start planning our meeting, what do you think??? I don't want endless correspondence I want a real meeting!!!

I like your photos a lot you are such a nice man!!! I will be happy if you will send me more of them!! It is good that you told me something about your life, it is so interesting for me!!! And I will be waiting for you to tell me even more in your next letter ok??? It is hard I think to live between to countries? But it seems you plan to settle in Germany? I wish you to buy a nice house there! How is your project going? In 5 years I plan to be married and have kids! I can't talk to you online because I have not a personal computer:((

So I guess it is time to tell you something about myself:) My name is Oksana my friends call me Oksanka:) I was born on the 8th of June 1983. I am 28 years old and I am full of life and energy!!! I live in Barvinkove town Kharkiv region, can you take a look at the map?:) My native languages are Russian and Ukrainian. I have sent you some photos, you can see my mom on one of them and me with my older sister Natasha, it is my family!!! I grew up without a father, my mom brought up me and my sister alone:( She is a strong woman I think. My dad left her for another woman when I was one year old and my sister three years old. It is a sad story, but unfortunately here in Ukraine it is a common situation:( Most men are not interested in getting married and don't want to take a responsibility for kids. I guess it is the main reason why I am looking for a husband abroad and why I am writing this letter to you now!! I understand bad people there are everywhere but I have heard that men abroad are mostly more serious than here and foreign women on the contrary are not family oriented!!! Is it true???

Now about my work. Do you know that I adore kids???? I love people in generally I guess that is why I entered the medical university to be a nurse, but kids I really adore! And to combine this two passions of mine (kids and medicine) I work as a nurse at the local school!!! I take care of kids here, I make injections, medical examinations and also I work as a child's psychologist here too. The school is small only 1000 pupils but I am always pretty busy and there is a lot of work for me!! I really like it!!

I work at a school for three years already. But during my studies at the university I combined my studying with a work at the local cafe, I was a cook!
I had to earn money to pay for the university, the education is very expensive here and my mom had not an opportunity to pay for it:( So for three years I worked at the cafe every day after my lessons. I am almost a professional cook:) May be this fact will make you happy:) I know that most men like to have a good home made meal and also I know that not all the women can prepare a nice dinner for their families:) But it is not my case!!! My husband will always eat his favorite dishes! By the way what are your favorite dishes:)?
If we will get married I will gladly cook for you!

My free time I like to spend with my friends and have a lot of fun, but not to drink or smoke, also I have never used drugs.

My dear, I want to be honest with you and I want to tell you in the beginning of our correspondence that I don't speak English unfortunately:(
I know it is a big loss for me but I promise you to do my best to learn it in the next several months!!! And now I have to use the translational firm, I hope it is not a problem for you?:) I want you to write me in your next letter as more about yourself as possible! I am waiting impatiently for your answer... Kisses!

Letter 3

Hello, my dear Hamid!

How are you doing now?:) Thank you so much for your letter!!! I am glad you want to continue our correspondence because I am interested in you!! It is so nice to see your photos! I like them a lot thank you very much for them!!! I am really sorry for your previous bad experience in Internet. I have heard that there are a lot of cheaters here but time will show you how much I am serious in my intentions!!
Don't give up on me!! I don't know how is it in big cities but in my village nobody speaks English is it my fault?? I didn't say that I have not an access to phone at all, I can give you my working number if it is so important but how will we understand each other?

Darling, may I call you "Darling" by the way?:) do you realize that life is too short to be unhappy or to stay alone... I understand it even sharper now... I want to find my soul mate and I ask myself again and again: may be it is you??? What do you think about it, honey? May be we are meant to be together,to re write Shakespeare? Who knows...
To answer this question we have to tell each other about ourselves as more as possible! Are you agree? Honey, I know that there are a lot of cheaters in Internet and I made a special photo for you with a piece of paper. I don't want you to think that I can be a cheater!!! I am very serious in my intentions!!!

Darling, how can I describe myself? It is very difficult:) In four words I am nice, hardworking, family oriented and very serious girl.
But when I am in a good mood I am very funny and like to make people laughing:) And what about you? How will you describe yourself? Which words will you use?

I like dogs as you know but also I like cats. In my free time I try to play some music on the piano, you can see it in my photo. I am not sure that I am a good player but I do my best!! At least I like it because I like music a lot. Also I like to spend time with my friends.

Darling, as for my family I live with my mom. I also have a sister but she lives in another town for work. I see her only once per month unfortunately.
My mom is a teacher and works a lot. I have no father unfortunately:( It is a bad topic for me to talk about by I feel that I can trust you and can talk to you about anything!!! I almost don't remember my father he left my mom when I was one year old but I guess I told you about it already:( It is really sad that some men can be so dishonest. And my mom is afraid that a man will do the same thing to me one day... She worries about me so much!!! But I am sure that I will meet a decent man!!!

Honey, tell me more about women in your country. I have heard that women abroad have nothing common with Ukrainian women. They say they are not family oriented and the only things they are interested in is just their career and money. Is it true? If yes poor men abroad! I can't understand how a woman can not want to be a wife and a mother??
It is the first thing she was born for, are you agree with me, my dear? I feel that I was born specially for it...

I will be finishing my letter for today. Hope you liked what I told you:) Waiting for your answer!!!! Yours Oksana.

Letter 4

My darling Hamid, hello!!!

Thank you so much for your precious answer!!! I would feel very bad if I did not received any letter from you today:(( I have not web cam sorry. Please try to tell me more about yourself in each of your letters it is very important to get to know each other good enough before meeting.

You know today to our clinic brought a dog who was run by a car:(((
She was in a very bad condition, she had such a sad and scared eyes if you could see!! And we could not save her:((( I still can not forget that shock, I cried for her and it was a very sad day for me:( On my work such a things happen sometimes but I still can not get used to it:(( Very difficult...

I have a good friend Katia, we met yesterday for a walk after job and I told her about our correspondence and she was happy to hear about you:)Also yesterday we had a nice evening with Katia and some more of our girlfriends watching a nice movie at one of my friends' place:))
It was a comedy and we had a lot of fun!!! But somehow my thoughts returned to you again and again I don't know why:( How was your day, sweetheart? May I call you this way?:)) I hope you don't mind!! My day was ok today I just feel that I miss you a little bit:(( I don't know what is going on with me but it seems that idea to find my soul mate in Internet is not so crazy as it seemed some time ago:)) I think I start to feel something special in you and I am so happy because of it!! My mom always told me that I have to listen to my heart first of all and and everything in my life will be ok!! So my heart says me that there is something in you I was looking for... May be I am a little naive but hope you will not laugh on me:)

Darling, for the last months I seriously think about creating a family and may be you are that man? What do you think of it, darling? I feel in some way that you will be a good husband... I need a man who will be able compatible for me. I need a good friend, a reliable partner and a VERY passionate lover!!!! Can you be that man, sweetheart??? I want our nights to be extremely hot and passionate and I will do my best to satisfy my man in all the possible ways... I will not have any taboos in making love with my husband!!! I am a one man woman and my husband will be the only man for me whom.
I will belong to completely... Good sex is extremely important in marriage are you agree?? But the most important things are love and respect surely.

I want you to know that I am happy to have a correspondence with you!!
I can not even think about the millions of people around the globe that post images to each other everyday. And in this sea of cyber space we found each other... That means a great deal to me and makes me believe that it was much more then just a casual meeting:)

Honey, I hope you will have a wonderful restful evening, I am going home now and I know that the only thing I will think about will be you... I will fall asleep with thoughts of you... Hope you will write me soon, darling!!! I am waiting for your reply very impatiently...
Yours Yulechka.

Letter 5

My dearest Hamid!

Thank you for your letter but I can not translate it today and give you a proper reply. I am sorry, darling, but it seems that it will be my last letter for you in the nearest future:( I am really so so sorry for it, my love, but I have been using the translation service and it got too expensive for me:( I did my best to pay for it but the money I earn is not enough for it:( Now my account is over and I can not pay any money for the translations now. Will you forgive me, honey?... I truly hope that you will understand me right, from my side I promise to learn English as sooner as possible but till I will learn at least something the only way for me to keep the contact with you is through my private translator!! I have not a computer at home and even if I had the automatic translations are horrible and we would not be able to have a proper correspondence through Google for example. I tried to translate but it failed.

Honey, may be you will help me a little with money for the translations till the time I will be able to pay for it again or till I will learn at least a little bit of English? I feel that I can't live without your letters and will feel very lonely without them! I am sorry for this situation, darling, but I can't do anything at this moment, I am sorry... I am very shy of my request but I have not choice, I truly hope to hear from you again... Also from my side I promise that if we will not lose our contact I will do my best to come to you sooner for a personal meeting! From your side I need only patience and understanding, and may be some support if you don't mind of course. My intentions are very real and sincere and the only thing which is left for me to do is to hope for your trust...Yours forever Oksanka.

Letter 6

Dear Sir.

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The information about the receiver:

name of the receiver: Oksana Bozhinova,
address: 64709 Lencoma street, 5,
city: Kharkiv region, Barvinkove town,
country: Ukraine.

Yours faithfully
private translator
Svetlana Markina,
"Barvinok" translational company.