Letter(s) from Kelly Bates to David (USA)

Letter 1

Good morning David.,
How are you doing over there today?I Hope everything is going On better for you there and Thank you so much for your nice message you sent me and i know you would want to know a little about me.... Well I'm new to this Online dating stuff, i Just want to give a try if i could find the right man that i will Trust because i have been Hurt in past before and i don't want to be hurt any more that is why i joined the Site maybe i will see someone that i can Trust, My Name is Sarah James i am 26year's Old living in Jacksonville FL .. But right away in London with mom for missionary work and i am the Only child of my parent, i have lost my Dad many years ago everything seems to be very difficult for me and my mom after we lose my Dad,all my dad family Member sold all his properties and they never left anything for mom,even me the Only child of my parent they push us away because of the properties, well as u can see the situation i am Right now and i Hope this won't bother you but i would be greatful if you can try to be honest and faithful with me so that we can learn more about each other, and after some month my mom plan to joined the Church of Jesus Christ Member Missionary so that she can work with them, and she decided to make her own decision to travel and work with the missionary and since no one to look after me she decided to take me along with her too, and we have Only been to china, and from china we went to span, from there we move to London for Missionary, Right now in London with her and she as been working for this missionary for so Long... and i thank God i am alife with my mom now and I'm very Caring Loving honesty Faithful.Kind Open Mind and Good sense of humor Beside i Like golfing,dancing,camping,fishing, and am Hoping some days i Could Hold that man hand in my arms and we could walk Out to the beach together.. I'm always impressed with men who are considerate, understanding, Honest ,Kind, trustfully ,Open minded,Caring and a man that will Love me for whom i am and confident but not arrogant, family oriented and in touch with his feelings. Someone who has the ability to swallow one's own pride when appropriate and is able to communicate in a civilized manner. Someone I could be proud of and him of me. Friends first and see where this lead us too that why i am searching for the right man to be in my life because i want to be loved again.. and i will be attaching some of my picture for u too see if u do love them and hopefully i will be looking forward to get back to the state by ending of this month as soon as i found the right man to be in my life be cos the loneliness is really killing me and i didn't want it again anymore in my life that is why i want to give a try maybe God could provide someone that i can trust ,so i need to end it here for now and it will be my pleasure to get to know more about you and I am putting this questions to you.....

I'll hopefully want to know what your consent is about these questions.
I want to get to know you more better and see where life would take us too...Well i have to leave right now and i will be waiting for your next message....Have a nice day may God Bless You

From Sarah!!
p.s i have attached 3 pics

Letter 2

How are you doing there and how was your day? I Hope everything is going On better for you over there and I am so pleased to read from you,it has warmed my heart and I am hoping to get to always hear from you.I do understand everything about yourself and my Spirit always tells me what to do and thats why I had to message you on the dating site. I am very much interested in you and want to know more about you. I hope this will take us to the next level and we could build a relationship that will last forever.Distance between us does not bother me as I know we could meet ,I liked your profile and all I read about it was awesome,it will be my pleasure to get to know more about you. I want to get to know you and meet you if possible.I would like to get to know you better, well i hope we can start as friends and possibly to true love and have our own family and be together as a couple for the rest of our life, then we can let our trust grow, well am looking for one that can be there for me, one that can be my back bone, i think for us to know each other we will need to be emailing each other every day and sit on a table and talk personally, i look into your heart cos beauty fades and the mind is in tact,I am looking for a Man that can make me feel happy again, i am looking for one thats down to earth, i think have said enough now, hope to get a mail from you soon, what are u looking for in a girl, what are your likes and dislikes, whats the saddest day in your life, who is your mentor, and what turns you on when down, what are your hobbies, please when you mail i want you to get back with answers and here is my own answer about the first question i put on you.What a good response to the questions.I adore you and I am opening my heart to you.Just need you to be ease with it.I feel so safe and secure in you.Can you be the man you have illustrated in your written,I hope you can.Since the question is reciprocal,my answers are below here:

What do you do for a living?
i dont work right now just came down here with my mom on missionary work but i will set up a super market when i return to the states
What do you seek for in a relationship?
I seek trust,honesty,understanding,sincerity,love and sharing,sharing the good times and bad times together with no fear of what the world might put upon us.
What sort of relationship you seek for?
Well,well, the relationship I want is one to be build on the solid foundation which is love and trust,I do believe with this 2 ingredients of relationship,so many relationships has come to success unlike ones built on falses and pretencies.
What are the basic qualities you seek for in a guy?
The basic qualities are Honesty,Love,Trust.
What interests you?
Wow,God interest me,all the things he has created interest me,the nature really do.
You ever been married?
No,I am very much single,never been married
Got kids?
No,never had any.
What do you do for fun?
I like playing basketball,camping,boating,fishing,bowling,swimming,dancing,writing,reading,watching movies,listening to music and dinning out....
Do you like public intimacy?
Public intimacy is my thing.I miss that though.I like to held and to walk while holding hand still,it's fun I guess.
How long have you been single?
Been single for about a year back.
How old are you?
I am 26 years
What's being single like?
Being single is the dullest and lonely thing that has ever happened to me.
How do you treat your guy?
I treat him with respect,loyalty,adore him,treat him like the King.
Why do you need a guy?
I need a guy because I feel 2 people can make things...it always good to have a shoulder to lean on.
Can you love this guy?
Yeah,most definitely,I will love him.
What is love to you?
Love to me is everything,everything that has made up this world is love.
Would you hit your guy for any reasons?
I won't do that,I will rather discuss it over than fighting.

I hope I have answered the Questions to your satisfaction and if not bring on more....well i believe in a relationship what matter most is that the person must be very honest and loyal so that u could just have a long term relationship with your soul mate, i believe talking through mail would never be like meeting in person and getting to know each other better so i would advice we meet and get to know each other more better..I can't wait to hear from you soon again with all my heart i am telling you this i will never do anything to hurt a man in my life because that is what my daddy told me before he die so Please be Honest and Faithful with me so that we could gain it in our future if god said you are the right man and i have to end my message right now because i want to go and cook for my mom so have a nice day may God Bless You From Your's Truly Sarah!! Stay Bless

Letter 3

Hi Baby,
Thanks for the mail,well if really are still single then why ain't you getting a woman in your life? any way tell me again now what you really looking for in life? date, relationship, friend, business partner, or you came to play games here because i really need to know your mind before going further with you.

I am still on my knees begging for love, not to a stranger but to one I wanna know ... since you did reply me back. I've been in love with and know it's not a fun. Each night and day I hope and pray that i found the rite full man that will be mine forever . I know it's hard to fine man and trust a man - giving your heart, body and soul, but know it's me that's on my knees swallowing my pride, begging you, please ... once again I say please, If you really serious about me because am badly in pain in the pass and i want it to go always ........i really need to be loved and not to be disappointed.

I hope you understand were am coming from and were am going. hope to hear from u again. Sarah

Letter 4

I miss you. I'm just here thinking about you, like I always do.I miss you every second of my life. I knew I found someone special. I will always remember how sweet you are Honey, you have changed my life completely. You're the one who makes me beautiful. You're the one who makes me strong. You're the one who makes me feel so important; you're everything to me.

You show your love to me every day when you email me . I thank God that I have found a man like you. Please forgive me for not giving you enough time to chat with me. do you have yahoo messager? but I promise I will make up for it once we are together.

All that I can offer you is a family. I can offer you a family that will stick together through the good and the bad. I can offer you a family that will support each other every day. Honey, that's all I can give...I hope that’s what you want.

I really wish that you were near me. I wish that I could just call your name when I needed you and that you would be there. However, knowing that you love me so much is enough for now, and if I can be your wife and a mother to your children, then I would wait forever to be with you. You're the only one that I want.

Love Always,
p.s do you have a cell phone so i can text you

Letter 5

hello honey....when will you be able to chat on yahoo messager?

Letter 6

I will love to meet someone cool and caring person trustworthy..hones
t and cool person that can take care of me and i will be with him till
the rest of my life and i will be caring and lovely to him if you only
he can promise not to cheat on me OK

My favorite physical activities:
Basketball, Dancing,swimming,listening to music, Jogging/Running,going
to beach

My favorite food(s):
American, Chinese/Dim Sum, Fast Food/Pizza, Japanese/Sushi

My favorite music:
Blues, Disco, Hard Rock & Metal, Jazz,
Favorite Color & Flower
Blue Color... Rose Flower

I hate to be cheat and fighting and disobey .I love to meet good person
and trustworthy honest ,caring good person and i will care for him and
i will do the same to him also i will always make him happy and care
for him.....just let me know if you are really interested in me and you
must stop going to dating sites okay....

About my last relationship..
My ex boyfriend went to marry my best friend one day i was going to
check on my ex boyfriend and meet both of them in my boyfriend's room and
i fated and i was rush to the hospital that was so painful But i have
to forget about it and start a new life..Tell me more about yourself and
do send more pictures if available....

Letter 7

Everything you do for me reassures me that I am appreciated.i miss you online honey..i have been busy sorry for not being online . I want you to know that you mean so much to me. From the first day we met, you were determined to get to know me. At first, I was skeptical about you because of your persistence, but you quickly grew on me. I want you to know that every moment we’ve spent together since that first day holds a special place in my heart. I was afraid at first that if I let you in I’d regret it, but I haven’t regretted a single moment. I trust you, and I know you’ll be there for me no matter what. I trust that you’ll be faithful to me and that you won’t hurt my heart. You tell me how you want only the best for me. You tell me how beautiful I am. You tell me how you love every curve of my body. You just make me feel extra special; make me feel a sense of warmth inside. I want you to know that I love you for this! I love you for being so caring and genuine. I love you for everything you’ve done for me. I love you for the happiness and joy you bring to my life. I love you for you! We don’t even need to talk to communicate with each other. By just being together, holding hands, or cuddling, we can sense each other’s thoughts and inner feelings. I want you to know that I want the best for you as well. I want you to succeed and I want all your dreams and fantasies to come true. I know that in me you see a young woman full of kindness, understanding, and compassion. A young woman with an open-heart. A young woman who puts a smile on your face everyday. I will be that woman who’s there for you just as you’re there for me, the one who encourages you through life’s ups and downs. But ultimately, I want to be the woman who is your everything. Not an hour goes by that I don’t think about you. You have brought so much joy to my life and you give me so much to look forward to when I wake up every morning. I want you to know that I sincerely appreciate you and I can never tell you enough that “I LOVE YOU!

Love always,

Letter 8

you dont need to insult me ok.......or call me such names because i was online and not talking to you...you should use your common sense that i should be on bed.....i was on bed and my messager was on ...anyway thanks for the insult

Letter 9

Dear David,
It's the middle of the day and I was thinking about you, as usual. I want you to know how much I sincerely love the countless hours we spend talking. It means so much to me. It truly seems like I've known you forever and I honestly can't imagine life without you now. There will be no looking back, no second thoughts and no regrets. I love you and only you ... and that love will only grow stronger. Sometimes life hits you with unexpected things that take you totally by surprise. All I can say is you're the best surprise life has given me and your capacity for love, caring, and understanding never ceases to amaze me. I've truly been blessed by finding you and I'll never let you go.

Love always,


P.s honey what is going on.........you don't care to talk to me as before why?

Letter 10

hope you are alright?

Letter 11

How are you doing??i was just planing of settling down with the right man and start my own family i think its you .?how was your night baby??I was just thinking about you baby,Well my day is going fine and I'll be back home hopefully next week. How do you want us to meet?Hope i can trust you and rely on you?Well Am still backing on the word "Trust" i believe by the time we will both agreed and accept that the word trust is very much important in our relationship...then we are going to live a peaceful and prosperous life together with our family to come. I believe that the most important 'key' to a successful relationship would have to be 'Trust'. I believe that With trust, love will follow. However, what I have noticed is that many people think trust, or expect that Trust is to be earned by the other person, when in all actuality it is something that comes from within Yourself. All too many times people will say they don't trust due to past experiences. What they don't Realize is that they have built up those proverbial walls to protect them from the very thing they are Searching for... yes, there is a risk in trusting someone, but when you finally find that 'right' person, it Makes all the past experiences and lessons learned very much worth the risk. All of life's little lessons do Not have to be painful... even when they seem so at the time. You just have to chalk it up to experience and Move on. Nothing is worth closing your heart. Nothing is worth living in a world of fearing what bad 'may' come to you. Without trust, you close your heart to the happiness and joy that true love brings. It's only My experience. It's a hard thing to do, a scary thing, but very much worth it. This is not to go without Saying that some people may betray your trust... that's the risk... but why allow past betrayals to prolong The pain by building a fortress around your heart that not only protects you from pain/betrayal, but also Denies you the ability to experience happiness and joy? Most have been hurt enough by one person, why Allow them and their actions to stop us from finding what we search for? I say open your hearts to trust And bask in the beauty, happiness, and joy, of the true love that will follow. For everyone there is a Someone, you just can't find them if you hide away all your life...Honey, you ave become part of me…cos i ave give to you the key to my heart and that’s to say i ave given you my Trust...cos i need yours in Return...God has blessed us to bless others....am so glad we met. I love you for everything you are to me. ave a pleasant day...May God bless you!!!!
Your Sarah.

Letter 12

I miss you so much and i will be online around 5 to 6 my time Ok