Letter(s) from Tina Curtis to Josh (USA)

Letter 1

Hello Josh,
I presume you are doing great over there. I went through your Match Profile and I was very Intrigued by It, Knowing that there are still quality men like you In the world. I stand 5ft’8 and about 130 lbs. Black hair / brown eyes. I was born In CARROLLTON Texas.I'm mixed race, dad is from CARROLLTON Texas, while my mom is from west africa thats why i came on a vacation to visit her because of her surgery operation. I’m very laid-white and down-to-earth. I'm also very old-fashioned when it comes to my respect and treatment for man. I’m an occasional wine drinker but a non-smoker, have a great sense of humor and like to spend time with people and make them happy especially people that I mostly love.I have been hurt once and I will never want to be hurt again in my life,the only man I trust treated me very bad the way I never excepted, but I believe I have everything that any man would want from a woman know that but am not saying that am the best woman on earth, but I still believe in me, and in God, I believe that one day my soul mate will come for me.

It is my prayer that I get to meet the man in my life whom I can love for the rest of my life and beyond. To enjoy sunsets all over the world. To enjoy sunrises from mountain tops and river streams. It is my deepest prayer to know love, real love... heart to heart, soul to soul.

This is my deepest prayer of all. Someone I can love and cherish, fuss over in a good way... hold in my arms, hold in my heart every minute of very day... Someone who loves my cooking, I love to cook... Someone who loves to laugh and be silly and sing along to radio when I can't sing at all.... Someone who is happy and loves being happy... Joy-full...someone who can share a joy-filled life with me. Believe me, this has been my deepest prayer for ever and ever... I'm the eternal optimist... I believe that God has someone for me... he's very special and that's why it's taken a long time for him to come into my life... But, I believe. (Sometimes I begin to wonder if I am right to have this belief.... but then I just pray and then I get this feeling that I am right.) I believe the right loving hearted man is out there looking for me and someday we will find each other.

I’m open, sensual, kind, gentle, romantic... a different lady, I’m a very family oriented, sensitive and tender person, I want to give all of my tenderness and care to my special man, I enjoy nature, seeing the stars at night, listening to the sounds of nature, being near the water, swimming, as I love the ocean and sea, I like travelling, dancing, drawing, skating and bowling, billiards.I enjoy music so much, classical and modern.

As a woman, I can always find little things I would like to be better in my appearance, but my everyone think I am very attractive... I am more concerned that I glow from the inside out and that the first thing you notice about me is my heart, and my eyes, the window to my soul. I am a hopeless romantic. I believe in Prince Charming, I believe in falling in love forever after, I believe in wishing upon stars, I believe in rainbows and magic, I believe in knowing with the first kiss... I am also very persistent. I do not give up.

My life has groomed me well in this area. I know when to quit... but I do not give up., I am very understanding, open minded with a heart of forgiving, loving and caring with sense of humor, hard working with cheerful character,honest,sincere,kind, warm and intelligent with good look as sportswoman,affairs,People can't believe it when they see my photographs because I look like my mom, I am a girl that like running on saturdays,I was raised with a strike Hughtian background and taught from a young age to always respect myself and other people.

My favorite foods are Sea foods, Mexican,I also do like to eat French Pizza and Pasta,meats,Fruits,And I eat plenty of Fruits and Vegetables, , I never speak negatively about people, I take less and listen more to people and does not jump into other people's affair. I am a giver when I have it I give, because I so much believes in the Multiplied returns, I have fully decided to be a role Model to my children and a good, loving and caring wife to my husband, But I don’t want to mess myself with the wrong Man. Basically I decided to settle with a nice, good loving and caring Man.

A man with a loving, kind, gentle heart... Heart is everything. He must love himself, his family, his friends, and his life. If he does not love himself, he can not love me. If he does not have self-respect, he can not respect me. If he can not honor those he loves as well as himself, he can not honor me. A man who is available for commitment and understands that it means that life isn't always easy, living with another isn't always wonderful, but the commitment to work together to keep the energy between us alive, passionate, sweet, kind, respectful and generous with spirit is essential. But a willingness to communicate, honestly, gut honestly, without candy-coating the truth of one's feelings is critical for building a strong lasting relationship.

Building a relationship takes baby steps. Each person learning what comes up for them as they get closer to another. Can I trust this person? Are they worthy of my trust? Which brings me to my second criteria, Someone I can trust my life with? After all, that's what entering into a relationship is all about. It isn't about the sex, or the fun, or the image. This is my life, my being; can I trust this person to care for me in a safe and loving way?

I'm seeking a man (open, kind, serious, confident, cheerful, and responsible) who is ready for marriage. I'm looking for a friend and partner, who is really looking for a long term relationship! I want to meet the right, special person, a serious man, who wants relationship! I want to meet the right, special person, a serious man, who wants to create a strong and nice marriage, I don't play games and don't want to waste my time and the time of other people, I’m a woman who has a very strong desire for a Long term relationship. It's so great to be together and love and I hope, someday we'll meet and we will be happy in our souls and hearts!

An open, kind, serious, confident, cheerful, responsible man, who is ready for marriage, I hope to create a happy, cozy, secure marriage with a nice man, I would love to have a loving family in a nice house where everyone feels good to come home to, I think a woman must take care of her husband and children (family) first, I have a dream to meet the person with whom it is possible to live my life.

Hope I haven't bored you with this long email. I just felt within myself that: "What's worth doing is worth doing well" I will be looking forward to read from you and all about you plus what you want in a woman. And I hope I have been able to express myself in telling you the type of woman I am to the fullest while I wait to get to know more about you and your lifestyle!

Your's Faithfully,

Tina

Letter 2

Hi Josh, how are you doing? it's nice meeting you...so how long have you been on match.com?i am down-to-earth, fun, smart, driven, and successful woman looking for a good-looking, smart, outgoing man who will treat me the way I deserve to be treated. I'm brand new to the dating scene and certainly to online dating...please be gentle with me :)...Phone call would be fun i have my mother's cell but be patient i will let you know when you will call alright.

I have only ever been in two long-term relationships and both ended with cheating, so I am a little jaded, but that doesn't mean I'm not willing to open my heart again for the right man. When I am dating someone exclusively, I am always faithful and I truly believe honesty is the foundation of any successful relationship. I am a fun-loving gal who treats my man like gold and appreciate the same in return. Nothing is better than a person you can feel totally comfortable with and enjoy in the company of one another, whether it is a night out on the town, or wrapped in a blanket drinking wine with a good movie. Tina

Letter 3

Good morning Josh,

I think I'm your typical easy-going lady. Much more of a listener than a talker. But can speak my mind when its needed. I like to have fun and I'm always up for trying something new. I think life should be taken somewhat serious, but at the same time you shouldn't worry and take it too serious or you will never make it out alive. There is a time to have fun and a time to get stuff taken care of. Finding the equal mix is the best way to live life. Looking for someone to have fun with whether it be something that could become serious or something short term, doesn't matter to me. One of those people that believes if things are meant to be then they will be. You can't force things and you can't turn people into what you want them to be. I think we all meet many interesting people in our lives and I think that we should take the time to get to know them, because you never know when you will meet that special someone.I got your words and it really impressed me so much,well, I just wanted to let you know the kind of person I am, I am a lady that is in need of real and perfect love, I need a man that can take me through, see , like i said before i have been hurt so many times by different men and wouldn't want that to happen to me again.....that's the reason why I said that I need love.... I'm not here for anything but love from someone. Having someone that loves you and supports you in your life through good and bad times and won't give up on you is what I am looking for. Honesty and trust are what makes a relationship work.I prefer to watch a movie or attend the theater rather then read a novel.I also enjoy travel, experiencing different geographies and people. I do not smoke. I do drink on social occasions. Concerning sexuality, I am not a promiscuous woman. My desire is to be sexually faithful to the man I marry. If two people love each other and will communicate what they like and do not like about their partner's sexual behavior, am new to this online dating things,and what am looking for is real love,someone i can cuddle with someone that can bring out the best in me...i need someone who can care about me and give me all the best of love...someone who knows what a woman deserves...

Tina

Letter 4

Hello Josh,
How was your weekend over there? I hope you are doing well. I am Tina Curtis by full name that was an energetic and sociable person. I appreciate decency and sincerity in a relationship between a man and a woman. The inner beauty is more important for me than the beauty of appearance. I wish to open a new world in the world of your soul.. And if I understand you are the Only whom I am seeking, I share with you all your sorrows and joys, i will be your best friend and life partner i like to travel.

It is very interesting to get more knowledge about the new countries, new people and traditions. It's great to have such a possibility I'm a quiet, kind, loyal. A great meaning for me is a human's soul. Circle of my interests is various. I like the literature, music, and cinema. Personality traits are; calm, honest, kind, loyal, flexible, elegant, sociable, sensitive, gentle, cheerful, optimistic, romantic .

My perception of an ideal, I would like to see near me clever, intelligent, and reliable man. Which would require my emotional heat, capable to like and respect the woman. I have to let you know as well, that am an honest person as I have said, and I have to be honest with that, I don't have any boyfriend at present now and am not in any serious relationship. Is a great giver because I so much believe in the Multiplied returns and that's why I don’t lack anything? I never speak negatively about people.

I take less and listen more to people and does not jump into other people's affairs..
Am very understanding, open minded with a heart of forgiving, loving and caring with sense of humor, cheerful character, honest, sincere, kind, warm and intelligent with good look. Have fully decided to be a role Model to my kids and a good, loving and caring wife to my husband. But I don’t want to mess myself with the wrong Man. Basically I decided to settle with a nice, good loving and caring Man in any country.

Tina

Letter 5

Hello Josh,you sound great and i promise i will never play games because i am not use to it, i like a man to be honest and faithful ones Because am honest, loyal, faithful, trusting, kind, caring, loving and fun, with a compassionate and generous nature, i need you to do this for me, if you really like me and want to share your life with me and you want to be my life partner can you please remove your profile on Match.com? because i don't want any other Woman to contact you on there anymore. I will do the same for you. I like everything about you, don't you realize that we have something in common.I have been thinking of you and i can't wait to meet you for a cup of coffee and dinner.

Do you go to Church,how often do you go to church,

What's your view on religion?

Tell me the most memorable moment of your life and tell me the saddest times of your life too(if you would love to share)
what will be your ideal first date with the woman of your dream?

What's do you like doing when it's raining outside,

What's your view on Politics?

Do you like to watch the sunset.

Do you enjoy road trips??? ever had any fantasy??

How do you spend your holidays?

Do you smoke or drink?

What makes you laugh?

How old were you when you first fell in love?

Do you like adventure?

I guess i have asked more than i should... so please forgive me if some of the questions are just too personal... just trying to know
you is that's all... have fun and hope to get answers.gotta hang it here..hope this won't scare you away from getting to know more about me.

As you know i am in west Africa taking care of my sick mother who has cancer, she's going in for surgery operation sometime this weekend and i will be planning on flying back to the states and i hope we can meet and have a wonderful life together like the Adam & Eve did in the Old Testament in the bible, but we would do our best in the relationship so we won't sin against God and when we do we get down on our knees and ask God for forgiveness...I love life and all that it has to offer and still believe that there are so many things to learn and experience. God didn't create us to merely exist but to appreciate every day that is given to us and live it to the fullest. I am passionate about life and love, and I strive to be honest. My family knows me to be loving, indulgent, affectionate, supportive and strong. My friend say I am trustworthy, tolerant, compassionate, dependable and non-judgmental. In my relationships I am faithful, passionate, adventurous, and genuine. Hope I don't sound boring. I don't like messes, even though I'm messy sometimes. Clutter gets to me after a while. I like to plan, but I'm just as able to pick up at the drop of a hat and take off for a weekend adventure. Write how you feel about me, i am patiently waiting to hear from you.

Hugs & Kisses,

Tina

Letter 6

Hi Josh, i can't wait to meet you...my mother will be going in for a surgery operation Friday and i will have my way back to the states on April 9th, you seem to be a great guy and i hope we can make a strong relationship together in person...

Letter 7

Dearest Josh
Hey, there is so much I want to tell you, a lot has been running through my head lately. I'm having trouble putting my thoughts into words so you will have to bare with me through this.I want to hold your hand and let you scream at me while you bring our child into this world
I keep thinking about the future, about life, and what I want out of it. I keep thinking about us and what this relationship means to me. I keep thinking about these things and I realize they go hand in hand. This relationship is my future; it's what I want out of life. I want to grow old with you. I want to experience this crazy love forever and ever, and I really think I'm going to get to. I want us to walk through new houses picking the one that would be just right for us. I want to see you walk around our house in a big t-shirt with your hair down and catch me staring at how gorgeous you are. I want you to pull the covers off me at night and then I have to get even closer, if it's possible, to you to keep warm. I want to see you laugh like crazy at me when I do stupid stuff. I want to rub lotion all over your body because you laid out in the sun too long. I want to have a child with you and go through the experiences of parenthood with you. I want to see you and me chasing our little kid around the house, all three of us laughing our heads off and having fun. I want to hold you when you cry and smile with you when you smile. I want to fall asleep every night with you in my arms. I want you to fall asleep on my chest listening to the beat of my heart and know it beats for you I want you to be the first thing I see when I wake up and the last thing I see when I go to sleep. I want to see your bad morning hair; I think it will be so cute. I want to sit on the beach with you and watch the sun set, and I want all the people who pass us to envy the love that we obviously have for each other.

I want to see you walk down that isle and I want to take your hand for the rest of my life. I want to spend all night, and maybe the next day, making love to you with an undying passion (sorry to be so blunt). I want to be thirty years old and still make out with you like a little schoolgirl. I want to cook a meal with you and us totally ruin it and end up doing take out. I want to sit there talking to you for hours about nothing at all but in the same time everything or maybe we won't talk at all and just grin at each other realizing how lucky we are. I want you to get mad at me for doing something stupid, and I want you to bust out laughing when you try to yell at me. I want to lay with you in front of a fireplace and keep the heat going long after the fire goes out. I want to take trips with you to places we've never been and experience them together. I want us to go skinny-dipping in a hotel pool and get caught and streak back to our hotel room waking everyone up because we're laughing so hard. I want us to go and pick out the hot tub we want with the biggest grins on our faces the whole time. I want the sales rep to get embarrassed when we sit in them and make sure we have enough room to do the things we want to do. . I want our friends to come over and get totally jealous because they don't share a love like we do. I want to be walking into a store with you and trip and fall on my face and turn around to see you rolling on the ground laughing at me. I want us to run outside in the rain and act like total kids getting completely soaked, and when we come back in stripping down to nothing as we stumble into the bedroom, or the kitchen counter, or the balcony, or the dining room table, or an office desk, or the shower, which ever one we feel like at the time.
I want it to take your breath away every time I say, 'I love you' because you know it's coming from the heart. I want us to be sitting there and watching our child take their first steps from my arms into yours. I want us to sit down with a box of strawberries, a bottle of chocolate syrup, and a thing of mint chocolate ice cream; well, I'll let your imagination finish that one. I want to love you and be with you for at least forever if not a little longer. I couldn't really express in words what I'm feeling right now so I decided to share with you SOME of the images and thoughts that have been running through my head.

Yours Forever,
Tina Curtis

PS: Thanks for the prayers you are so sweet and caring, i can't wait to be with you soon.

Letter 8

Hi Dearest Josh ,

How are you doing today?I hope you all are alright. I missed you baby, i have been thinking of you alot and i can't wait to be with you soon, i took my mother to the hospital she was rushed to the emergency room and the doctor told me the cancer have damage her heart, that's why i am here to write you, the doctor asked me to pay $2,450 for her surgery all had was $1800.00 and they still won't go on with the surgery,i have been up and doing looking for the money but i can't find it from anywhere,i wish my dad is alive to save mom, dad died 10 yrs ago, am sorry if i didn't tell you in my emails.The Dr said they will take her stomach and cut 90% of it out then they will explore to see if the cancer has went to her precancerous and spleen., dearest Josh that's about that, am crying and writing you this letter..i really don't have anywhere else to get the money and mom is in pains.I am in the hospital with her now she can't talk, if the doctor go on with the surgery and she recovers i will come home to you i promise,get back to me please. Sweetie the rest of the money needed for mom's surgery is $650.00 and they will go on with the surgery successfully once the money gets here.Josh i will really appreciate it if you get the money for me and i promise to pay you back when i get back on my feet.Thank you and God bless you....

Love Always,
Tina