Letter(s) from Sharon Debby to Ian (England)

Letter 1

Hello Ian,
How are you doing today good i guess anyway i'm doing fine here as well.You really sound cool to me and thats really makes me feel better will like to get to know you more and meet you someday And I want you to know that since I read your Mail and Profile..I can see all what i am looking for in a Man In YOU and Its seem you are the angel sent to me By God So That Make me Think Straight and I Deleted My Profile so that I can Focus my Heart to Only You cos I hate Double dating...Here are some more about me..I've accomplished everything I wanted to do as a single woman. My career has a right future and I don't anticipate no real issues in the immediate future.I am a lady that ready to meet the right man with trust,ready to care for You and also with Honest.I am ready for serious relationship but looking for a true love we could be the one of my heart after i recieve your reply...I have not been married before and I have no Kids yet but wish to have them someday....I was hurt by my past relationship that end up with broken heart,because I always catch my ex with so many Girls around which I hate and he always denied.Because I am one man who and I hate lies and cheating..I seek for a complete honest man,who will come home to me,love me,adore me,a strong man with a strong heart who will want our relationship to last forever,a comppassionate man,one with good heart and know how to handle matters,I want a lover not a fighter,lol I am committed life to living to the fullest and in growing as a person....

But Do You come from a large family?My family has always been very caring and supportive of my dreams and ambitions that I have challenged myself with..I have Granny since when I lost my parents..I am a Orphan,I was born in Ireland, My dad is from Polland and My Mum is from Nigeria, I dont konw the Relatives of my Father.I do Live with My Parent in United Kingdom and My Parent Do give me the Bigest Care in The World..Not Knowing I will Lost Them,,I am The Only child of my Parent..I am 10yrs when I do lost My Parent and Its always Bring Tears Into my eyes when I do remember my Parent..Since I Lost my Parent Things have been going hard for me and i do not have nobody to take good care of me then my Granny in Nigeria now came to United Kingdom to pick me up,,since then i have been with my granny in nigeria for a Proper care..i will be coming back to the United Kingdom anytime soon, just want to find someone nice before i come because im ready to sacrifice myself the right man not the wrong man and make me happy.Hope you understand my feelings about my childhood??..I just finish my studies though and i am seaching for a Job Cos..i do study an accounting in school and i do have a master Degree in it..but i want to become an accountant for Future..

I also tend to have a good heart with so much of Love to give You and take and I've been describe as the most Nicest lady You can meet by friend.But what kind of Books do You like to Read and What kind of Music do You Listen to?I like Mysteries,Thrillers and spirituality.And right now I am Listening to Enigma their first cd's but other than that I like reggae, Blues, Rock, Classical,rap and hip hop.I don't smoke also and I only Drink wine..But Tell me a little more about yourself, ( for example do you like to go camping, hiking, rock climbing, walks in the rain,cuddling by the fire, etcetera). Also what about some pics of you (so I can see who I am writing to)?I am looking for my special someone (I have not even kissed a man in a year and a half as a result). I have not been married before and I have no Kids yet but wish to have them someday.What Turns U on and Off?My turns on is Honest, Good sense of humor, Communication, Confidence,friendly,Respectful and someone who can make me Happy,While my turn off is lying, Argue, Jealous,Cheating,someone that Love talking dirty online,someone who is Just Looking for a Sex Online that was not serious. Are you living alone and what is your Hobbies??.Now I am wanting to find someone who would love to grow old with me as we share all that life has to offer (the ups and the downs, hopefully way more ups than downs).. I believe that Distance is Nothing But Love Matters Most to me....I am pretty good here in Lagos, Nigeria anyway but its a little bit sunny and I dont have Choice had to live here like that..I am picky about who I open myself up to. I have a good feeling about you!!! , upon your request and respond to you how ever often you like.Hmmmm I guess enough is being said about me.Thats all what I can say for now and I will be Looking to hear back from you.

Letter 2

Hello Ian,
I am Glad to hear back from you and I have probably rambled long enough with so much more to talk about. I have lived a great life and looking forward for my Guy!!!I must admit its been great writing to you!!!! I can't remember when I talked so much about myself and to have the chance to read it back, it might sound weird but I am proud of myself and hoping for the day I can make more and better memories to share with someone special!!! I Think i can told you more about me and i hope this leads us to a Good way...I can see that this is the better way to get to know more about each other... I will like you to tell me more about you by Answering this Questions...
1) How Old are you?
2)What do you seek for in Relationship?
3)What type of relationship do you seek for?
4)What interest you Most?
5)What type of Lady are you Looking for?
6)What do you do for a Living?
7)What do you for fun?
8) What are your turn on and Turn off?
9)Can you Love this Lady?
10)Would you hit your Lady wth any Reasons?
11)Do you have a Kids?
12)Do you want some Kids in the Future?
13)Like How Many Kids do you want?
14)Why are you single?
15)What is have you experience when U have been single?
16)Does Distance and Age Matters to you most?
17)Are you Looking for a Tug or someone who Loves going to Club,and
who as tattoos?
18)What is Love to you?
19)How do you treat your Lady?
20)Do you Have faith?
21)Are you religion?
22)What Church do you attend to?
23)Do you Love Public Intimacy?
24)What do you Like and What you dont Like?
25)Whats your Favourite Food and whats your favourite Movies and Colors?
26)When do you Start this Online Dating Atmosphere??

I hope you are a spirtual Man....I mean I am not a "Bible thumper" it would be nice to go out on a Sat. night and live it up from time to time togerther and still have the chance to find myself in church on Sunday!!!!! It's important to me that he has spirtual belief and some values like that willing to grow!!!Do you have faith trust,With Trust we are going to make our Dreams come true.


Letter 3

Hello Darling,
How are you doing today? What a Good responds, You sounds Great and I will like to keep talking to you in other to know more about this stuffs... here are My Answers also Just to follow up each other and know more about each other...

1) How Old are you? I am 26years Old
2)What do you seek for in Relationship?What I am seeking is a man as laid out in Proverbs 31. A man who is strong (but not overbearing), loyal, respectful, kind and sweet. That carry himself like the king he is in all situations. That arouse my intellect as well as physical desires. Looking for a that somebody that I can share my entire self with. Somebody that is not afraid to be loved as well express love..I seek for a Serious and Long term relationship,Someone I can spend the rest of my Life with.
3)What type of relationship do you seek for?Well I will like to tell u that am a Sensitive WoMan,Am Honest,Kind,Caring, and Truthfull..I seek for a true and Serious relattionship that will last forever..You r so Handsome....I don't play games and I am looking for a serious relationship with marriage being the ultimate goal!
4)What interest you Most?Wow..I have God Interest, have interest in Kids. and also have interest with the man I Love with My Heart!!
5)What type of Guy are you Looking for?I seek for a complete honest man,who will come home to me,love me,adore me,a strong man with a strong heart who will want our relationship to last forever,a comppassionate man,one with good heart and know how to handle matters,I want a lover not a fighter,lol
6)What do you do for a Living?I Just finish studies I am searching for a Job
7)What do you for fun?I Love reading,singing,Watching tv,going to beach,Sports,Swimming,Outdoors,Camping,and Fishing
8) What are your turn on and Turn off?My turn on is someone who is Honest,truthfull,friendly and someone who can make me Happy, My turn Off is .. I dont like someone who lies,someone that Love talking dirty online,someone who is Just Looking for a Sex Online that was not serious..
9)Can you Love this Guyy? Yeah Definiatly I will Love Him till the end of my Life.
10)Would you hit your Guy wth any Reasons?I will never Hit my Guy and I will never Hurt His Feelings. I will never Argue with Him. But work things out fine with each other and understand each other better.
11)Do you have a Kids?Nope I dont have a Kids But I wish to have some in the Future.
12)Do you want some Kids in the Future?Yeah
13)Like How Many Kids do you want?2 or 3
14)Why are you single?I am single cos I havent meet the right man and I Just broke Up with my Man
15)What is have you experience when U have been single?Being Single is the Most Dullest thing I ever Seen
16)Does Distance and Age Matters to you most?Distance does not matter to me,Everything as to do with Trust and true Feelings and Emotioners and also Age is Just a Number But Love matters Most.
17)Are you Looking for a Tug or someone who Loves going to Club,and who as tattoos?I am not Looking for someone like that in My Life.
18)What is Love to you?Love is Not About finding the right person but creating the right relationship and also Love is the Good thing in Life..
19)How do you treat your Man?I treat Him with Respect,Care,Honor Him and I treat Him Like a King
20)Do you Have faith?Yeah I have faith and Believe that with God everything is Possible.
21)Are you religion?Yeah
22)What Church do you attend to?I do attend to Catholic Church
23)Do you Love Public Intimacy?Yeah, Public intimacy is my thing.I miss that though.I like to held and to walk while holding hand still,it's fun I guess.
24)What do you Like and What you dont Like?I dont Like Liar, I hate dirty things Around the House. I Love Singing,Reading and I Love cleaning the House in other to have a Good Soroundings
25)Whats your Favourite Food and whats your favourite Movies and Colors?My Best Food is Pizza and My Favourite Movies is Titanic and Passions My best color is Blue.
26)When do you start this Online Atmosphere?I start this Online Scene In a Couple of days
I Hope I have answered all the Questions and I wil Love to Answer Any One you ask me with Honesty and trust. Please Be Honest with me and Never Let me Down.
I cant wait to hear back from you..
Your Sweet Baby Gurll

Letter 4

thanks for getting back to me and i am Glad to read your message.. baby i am very new to this and i am happy to hear back from you.. Baby i want you to know that age is just like a Number to me and All matters is true love baby and i want you to know that most of the guys of my age would not know much about how to care for a woman than to hurt them at a young age and i am not looking for the kind of relationship i want a relationship that will be very serious and honesty and someone i can spend the rest of my life with and always happy together and someone that will cherish me and Love me.. all matters is true love and distance and age does not matter in a relationship and i would love us to continue and have faith baby and I believe we are both angel sent to each other by God and also my pretty and beauty is meant to be given to you and i cant wait to meet you Ok and i am glad i am getting to know everything about you..tell me what you feel about me..and tellme more about

Letter 5

Thanks, I am so pleased to read your reply,it has warm my heart and I am hoping to get to always hear from you...How are u doing and your family? Am still backing on the word "Trust"i believe by the time we will both agreed and accept that the word Trust is very much important in our relationship...then we are Going to live a peaceful and prosperous life together with our family to come.I believe that the most important 'key' to a successful relationship would have to be'Trust'. I believe that with trust, love will follow. However, what I have noticed is that many people think trust, or expect that trust is to been arned by the other person, when in all actuality it is something that comes from within Yourself. All too many times people will say they don't trust due to past experiences. What they don't realize is that they have built up those proverbial walls to protect them from the very thing they are searching for...yes, there is a risk in trusting someone, but when you finally find that right person, it makes all the past experiences and lessons learned very much worth the risk.All of life's little lessons do not have to be painful... Even when they seem so at the time. You just have to chalk it up to experience and Move on. Nothing is worth closing your heart. Nothing is worth living in a world of fearing what bad 'may' Come to you. Without trust,you close your heart to the happiness and joy that true love brings. It'sonly my experience. It's a hard thing to do, a scary thing, but very much worth it.This is not to go without saying that some people may betray your trust...that's the risk... but why allow past betrayals to prolong the painby building a fortress around your heart that not only protects you from pain/betrayal, but also Denies you the ability to experience happiness andjoy?Most have been hurt enough by one person, why allow them and their actions to stop us from finding what we search for? I say open your hearts to trust and bask in the beauty, happiness, and joy, of the true love that will follow.For every one there IS a Someone, you just can't find them if you hide away all your life...Honey,you have become part of me…Bcos i have give to you the key to my heart and that’s to say i have given you my Trust...cos i need yours in return...God has blessed us to bless others....am so glad we met. I love you for everything you are to me....One day..........I promise Dearest ....You have changed my life completely. You're the one who makes me beautiful. You're the one who makes mestrong. You're the one who makes me so important; you're everything tome.How lucky I am to find a man like you. Thank God above us! Honey, I promise I will compensate you one day with the thing that you want the most.All that I can offer you is a family. A family that belongs to us; a family where we can share our ups and down and stay together till the day we die. Honey, that's all I can give ... I hope you like it,because I really wish that you were near me.if I can be your wife and your children's mum then this would make me proud for the next 50 or 60years. Remember, you need to take care of me for 50 or 60 years and so you've got to take good care of yourself to do it.Dear ....., you're the only one that I want.

Yours Dear

Letter 6

How are you doing??Thanks for the caring heart message you sent to me Everytime i receive message from you smiles comes to my face, My love I want you to know i cant really stop thinking about you an i thank God i found you, I want you to have the faith,focus in this relationship cos been faithful,focus,honest,trustworthy can only make our dream come true, babe i want you to have the faith,focus so we can make our dream come true, I want you to have the faith in me, I want you to believe in me, I don't want you to have a bad mind or think negative about this relationship,I want you to have a good thought about this relationship, I want you to give this a try and see what the future will leads to us, I promise i will do anything to make you happy, I promise i will never let you down and I promise you will be the happiest man on earth when we meet, My love i want you to have the faith,focus so we can make our dream come to true, I want you to know things is rough for me here and You know they have bad economic and bad government here,When i look at the way people are suffer here i shake my hear for them and believe if there is life there is hope, I want you to know my granny remain for me and she means a lot to me and she is aged,I take good care of her, Am looking for a man that will take good care of me and love me for who am i not because of beauty, I just want to know you can take good care of me and love me for who am i not because of beauty,I don't cheat lie,hurt another person feelings and i had to leave life on my own..doing what i know how to do best in honesty and living my life to the fullest..and i grew up to understand the principles of life and the truth that follows it and i have made a vow to my self and God that i will forever remain honest and truthfully to the things i say and do..cause truth and honesty is the only key to success..but its every hard to go about..but i still try not to brake my vow..and i do seek all i want with all my heart and the truth of it .Well,i am a very sincere and honest,am caring,kind,social,smart,intelligent,passionate,friendly,romantic,and i believe in the truth and honest of love..i am really a very sincere person when it comes to sharing feelings and emotions with that special person and i really am down to heart honest about the things i say and do cause i don't like hurting peoples feelings,cause everyone has a chance to laugh,so why do i make them sad..i am really very easy to get along with,fun to be with and am very adaptive and communicative when it comes to conversant conversation.and my life is based on the truth and honest of self personality...i would really like to get to know allot about you and learn somethings with you cause u seems to be kind of ready in getting to know my kind of person and hopefully we can meet in person soon..with time we will get to know each others feelings,motives and intentions towards each other and it will help us grow knowing each other and trusting each other.Can I Trust You With My Heart?I've found a new love full of passion Which has come to make me blind When I found a special someone In a love that's hard to find. You've swept off my feet From the very start, But before we go much further Can I trust you with my heart? With all this time we've had together I've learned to trust you completely, Before I've asked anything from you You've already given yourself to me. You've combined fantasy with reality Even though we're miles apart,But what I really need to know Can I trust you with my heart? Can I share my worries with you? Can you handle my fears I bestow? Can I count on you to walk with me Down a long a winding road? I don't want a promise Of which there's no guarantee Can I trust you with my heart, Without you breaking it on me? My heart's vowed never to fall in love again But it's weakened & has come to surrender, To be held in your tender hands And mended back together. But I hope you can understand That I don't want to go too far Without knowing just one answer . . . Can I trust you with my heart??? I cant wait tohear back from you... Take Care.

Letter 7

I have felt so wonderful today thinking about you. reading your letters make me so happy to know that an amazing man who believes in true love like I do actually exists. your words touch me so deeply I feel as though I have possibly found my true love after all. I also don't want to be hurt or played with anymore. I know a love that is shared between two people is the greatest gift imaginable and I dream of it. if you were so kind and giving as to share your love with me, I would share my whole love with you and I feel by sharing all of our love with each other it would grow more beautiful with every passing moment to become a love that connects our hearts and souls so deeply it will allow us to grow together and become a love that lives and breathes as one. I love the idea of marriage but I know it is much more than just two people living together.
I believe a marriage is the point in time at which our bare souls have grown so closely together and have created an unconditional love for one another so great that it joins us forever as one. that is what I believe a soul mate is and a soul mate is who I want to share my life with. if you share my thoughts and honestly believe in true love as i do i will promise to open my heart to you and all I ask in return is the same. I love the feeling of touch ~holding the one you love and being held is a wonderful feeling, whether it's cuddling on the couch watching a movie together, running my fingers through your hair, massaging your neck or back or feet after a long day, writing invisible I love you's with my finger on the palm of you hand, a warm hug and a loving kiss can be appropriate anytime ~anywhere. I would love to hold your hand in mine and walk anywhere with you. Those things don't embarrass me at all ~I would feel so lucky to be holding your hand knowing you're the one who truly cares for me. I also want you to know that I feel making love is only possible when two souls love each other so deeply and want to be as physically close as possible and it is the most intimate form of physical touch we can experience. I feel like I have never truly made love because I have never had someone who has truly loved me. as for you hypothetical question, if we were married I would all ways want to bathe with you. if you were my Husband I would want to take care of you in everyway possible because I would be your Wife and would all ready know you would do the same for me without hesitation,, Honey i really want to be with you before this weekend honey and I want to be with yu this week and I have told my granny alot about you and she really Likes you alot and i really want to be at your arms honey and my granny is ready to assist me get a Loan for my Plane Ticket but all delaying me is the fund to renew my Passport So my granny can used my passport renewed to get the Loan and i want you to assist me and be there for me oK.. do you have a cell Phone? Do you have yahoo messenger so we can Chat? I am missing you so much and i cant wait to be at yur arms and i realy do love you so Much Ok and i promise to be yours forever..