Letter(s) from Kelly Bates to Patrick (USA)

Letter 1

How you doing? and hope everything is moving fine over there so this more about me and i will like you to tell me more about you also so we can start things outover there and i will also like you to tell me more about you also so i will notlike to hang around the bush like monkey i will quickly go straight to my point..Im going to tell you a little info about me and some of the things I'm into,so let me tell more personal about myself.. Well i am 30 years I have seen a lot, i am Originally from Los Angeles, California..Am in University studying Banking/finance but i am basically here in Nigeria since i lost my parent and am here with my grandma she is the one that is taking care of me but i am going to be back very soon because i only have few more time to spend here,iam only waiting for my school certificate which will be available immediately i am through with my final year. Hope That doesn't bother you??. .i stay with my parent all my Life but unfortunately i lost them in a car wreck I would have to say that my best overall quality is just simply my personality.. I can say that I don't know too many people if there is any that do not really like me. I attribute most of that to my parents because I think they did a pretty good job with me. Of course I would hope so being that I am the first and only child. My mom is from Ontario, Canada while my dad is from Ohio, USA..Its so painful that i lost my parent but i still thank God for the position i am now and will always thank God cos He's always there for me. I am just a really nice person who will help anyone who needs my help. I could go on, but you may think that I am some kind of crazy girl.i am very fun to be with, i am easy going, passionate and Open Minded, i basically Joined the site to see if there are still reliable men out there,i know there are lots of different people out there on the site, some are worth to be Trust and Loved why some are not worth it..but all i just want you to know is that i am a young lady who has lots to offer but i am only willing to give my love to the right man who wins my heart

i am looking for a passionate,Loyal,Caring,Honest,Open minded,Humble,Fun to be with,Easy going,Loving,Trustworthy and God Fearing man who is ready to love,Cos i want to start a new family,I will move with him and stay with him if things workout between Us.i want a man that i can Live not a man that i can'tlive with,a man that is willing to start new thing

Here we go. Let me know of one of your most embarrassing moments that you have had. It doesn't have to be the most just one. Oh and maybe some info on yourself as well. Talk to you later.I will send some of my pictures in next email.Bye for now.

Letter 2

Thanks for getting in touch with me ...i am very willing to chat with you one day so that we can talk more........i am a cool and shy girl ..I hate cheating and lieing and fighting ...my ex boyfriend cheated on me so since then i have to be single and i love to meet someone that is honest,open minded,caring, romantic and i love to meet someone special ok......

I will love to meet someone cool and caring person trustworthy..honest and cool person that can take care of me and i will be with him till the rest of my life and i will be caring and lovely to him if you only he can promise not to cheat on me ok

My favorite physical activities:

My favorite food(s):
American, Chinese/Dim Sum, Fast Food/Pizza, Japanese/Sushi

My favorite music:
Blues, Disco, Hard Rock & Metal, Jazz, Soul/R&B
Favorite Color & Flower
Blue Color... Rose Flower

I hate to be cheat and fighting and disobey .I love to meet good person and trustworthy honest ,caring good person and i will care for him and i will also do that ..

As at now i am in Nigeria writing my final year project so i will be back as soon as possible to the state so i will like to meet you in person ..

About my last relationship..
My ex boyfriend went to marry my best friend one day i was going to check on my ex boyfriend and i met both of them in my boyfriend's room and i fainted and i was rushed to the hospital that was so painful But i have to forget about it and start a new life.and this is one of my most embarrassing Moment.

Tell me more about yourself

Letter 3

How are you doing?thanks for getting intouch,...Well am looking for a caring,honest,trustworthy man that'll love,respect and be faithful to me with all sincerity's,so have you got all that?That really matters to me allot coz i've been through a lot and have had both bad and good sides of relationship,so i know and i wanna be sure,coz i don't wanna get hurt anymore...Am seeking for a very serious relationship,not here to play games..Hope you know what am saying?Talk to you soon..

Letter 4

It's me Lola again . I want you to know that I believe that the most important 'key' to a successful relationship would have to be 'trust'. I believe that with trust, love will follow. However, what I have noticed is that many people think trust, or expect that trust is to be earned by the other person, when in all actuality it is something that comes from within yourself. All too many times people will say they don't trust due to past experiences. What they don't realize is that they have built up those proverbial walls to protect them from the very thing they are searching for... yes, there is a risk in trusting someone, but when you finally find that 'right' person, it makes all the past experiences and lessons learned very much worth the risk. All of life's little lessons do not have to be painful... even when they seem so at the time. You just have to chalk it up to experience and move on. Nothing is worth closing your heart. Nothing is worth living in a world of fearing what bad 'may' come to you. Without trust, you close your heart to the happiness and joy that true love brings. It's only my experience... and it's what I believe has given me the wonderful gift of 'true' love. It's a hard thing to do, a scary thing, but very much worth it. This is not to go without saying that some people may betray your trust... that's the risk... but why allow past betrayals to prolong the pain by building a fortress around your heart that not only protects you from pain/betrayal, but also denies you the ability to experience happiness and joy? Most have been hurt enough by one person, why allow them and their actions to stop us from finding what we search for? I say open your hearts to trust and bask in the beauty, happiness, and joy, of the true love that will follow. For everyone there IS a someone, you just can't find them if you hide away all your life. How about u?