Letter(s) from Shela Rae to Curtis (USA)

Letter 1

Hello there,
How are you doing and how is everything going ..I hope you cool ..As i am here ..I will like to start by telling you something about my self ..First of all my name is Maria. I'm 33years old single and never married female with no kids, 163 cm - 5 feet and 6 inches tall , 63kg - 139lbs.Eye Color: Blue , Hair Color: light brown complexion : White .
I come from a small family,dad is from America and mom comes from west Africa, i was born in west Africa and raised in the States,Idaho. I lost my parents in a serious car accident , i now live with my uncle in West Africa, Ganna. At the moment i am a student studying Nursing but I do teach kindergarten children after school as a part time job to earn some living because i do not want to depend all my life on my uncle.
I generally try to live a somewhat healthy lifestyle, exercising and some sort of jogging, 2-3 days a week and eating healthy, (trust me, I love sweets and pastries, but try not to over do it).
I am a very open minded person, someone who accepts people as they are, I am a fair individual who adapts to changes in life and enjoys life to the fullest and looking to meet a man that i can spend the rest of my life with.
I love to travel and would love to meet someone to shares my rest for life, fun and adventure. I am stress free and fun to be around, I love to laugh and I am also a great cook who enjoys a variety of foods.
I like to do things with the other significant person in my life, but I also encourage him to go out and spend time with friends and pursue his own interests and hobbies as well.
I have several hobbies (and wish I could find more time to pursue those) such as swimming, playing computer, dancing, and reading,etc i would like someone to share that with, as well as their sharing their interests with me.
I am an avid reader and a great conservationist. I also like to have social functions and entertain friends.
I am a very private person who enjoys the comforts of home relaxing and listening to good music.
I like sitcoms,drama,family and friends,comedy,action & adventure,anything that's funny i like Harry Porter and Will Smith they are really cool.
I like country,r & b,rock n roll,jazz,classic blues,etc anything that will just sound good.
I pride myself in being honest and most trustworthy, I seek that in a mate, someone who is compassionate yet understanding who has a calm demeanor and a great personality.
I am generally an optimistic person with a sense of humor, fairly easy-going, and I don't think that I'm too critical about things, but I also believe that it takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work...... ..
I'm Caring,Faithful,Loyal,Truthful,Loving,Generous,Goals Achiever,Honest,Spiritual oriented,Future driven,Confidential,Understands the ups and downs of life,Committed to relationship,Reader,Visionary,Conservative,Passionate,Romantic,sexy and loving.
I'm a good cook,I can prepare delicious meals like fried rice with Chicken,Can prepare beef burger,Can prepare pizza,Italian sea food,Can prepare red red boiled beans with fried fish and fried plantain,Can prepare Samosa and etc.
I don't smoke or drink alcoholic beverage,But i like to taste wine or champagne with good flavor.My favorite colors are white,pink and green.
I am seeking to meet some one caring, faithful, communicative,loyal, generous, understanding, future driven, honest, truthful to be with in a long term relationship, Courtship or marriage ,Some one with Good life principles to set an example to our children in the near future,God fearing person.
Some one who knows what to offer in life to a woman,Ready to share poverty,richness,failure and victory together,is whom i have always been dreaming to meet in my life.
I am some one who spent most of her daily 80 percent activity reading inspirational books,Motivational books, Ficts ,Journals,like writing poetry,love letters. I am new to this internet dating because i was recently introduced to it by a friend who has been successful in it.
I will like to end here and hope to hear from you soon .I will wait for your reply and will write to u more about me later hope to end here with much love.
Need to know more about you as well You,

Letter 2

Good morning i can believe this God is so wonderful i had a dream me and you having fun on boat you are riding so speed i hold you very well and we later came to some beach very nice people are there and you bough an 2 ice cream mine was white and yours was red and we are eating the ice cream then you met one of your friend then you introduce me to him and i say hi to him and he say hello back and ask my name and you told him and then he said am pretty and got a nice eyes you called him Micheal so tell me do you have any friend called that name..? My birthday is on Thursday okay!!!

Letter 3

Well my dear friend i will like you to know that you except the Lord build the house, they labor in vain that build it."The Holy Spirit reminded me of that as it applies to marriage. Only God can so meld two hearts together so that only the love He can give may be experienced by both toward each other. When we can totally surrender to His will, even in love...when it's not forced or planned or manipulated, that is when marriage will really honor God. When the union is for His Glory...and not our own, then it will flourish and be the example that God intended it to be .I am a Spirit-filled believer in the Lord Jesus Christ, and He is the source and strength of my life. The desire of my heart is that I meet and grow to love the man with whom I hope to spend the rest of my life. He is also a GOOD and faithful friend who is AVAILABLE (physically and emotionally), is able to be a prayer warrior, and is an encourager and supporter. I am compassionate, loyal, friendly, and love to encourage others. I have been a single woman i want a man like you to share my whole life with and i know and believe deeply inside my heart that God sent you to me to come and but a smile and joy on my face, and love that role because God has entrusted me trust, loyalty and respect are a must for eternal happiness. No matter how much you love someone if you dont have these ingredients you will never succeed. To be in love means being patient but to be patient you must trust him/her first.You can never find love through the eye or ear, so you must trust the only thing that will never fade until you die, your heart.Love is like trust, when you find your special someone it is as if you're trusting them with your heart.Trust is what you put in someone's hands. Faith is what you hold on to.Trust is what makes everyone realize that you are always there for them. Faith is what makes everyone realize that you are always there to help them in case they need some helpLove makes not everyone, but the only one in your life who is special, think that you are always there for her, to be with her, to make her realize how much you really love her. Without honesty, love gets unhappy, and without trust, love gets unstable.Love is a wonderful gift; trust in it, believe in it, give it, and it will be returned to you to give again and again.You can get advice from family, friends and strangers, but the best advice comes from your heart; it never lies trust it.There may be many people that are trustworthy, but only a few are worth trusting with your heart; choose wisely.To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved. For you can love many, but without trust you have nothing.The heart already knows what the mind can only dream of. Trust your heart.Distance cannot,they are on the inside, but when he or she betrays your trust, they become the ugliest person in the world.Love is patient. Love is kind. It does not envy. It does not boast. It is not proud..... It is not rude. It is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered. It keeps no record of wrong doing. It does not delight in evil, but rejoices in the truth. It always protects, trusts, hopes, perseveres.Love takes many things: trust, hope, wishes, dreams, and everything you've got, even when you know it's not going be enough.Love is not always fireworks and shooting stars; sometimes it's a simple understanding and trust between two people......


Letter 4

Thank you and i really want you to know that relationships have some adjustment periods, but being hurt shouldn't be part of being in love. Loving relationships have good qualities, such as support from your partner, a willingness to communicate, a desire to compromise, and open an honest communication. When you do not have these fundamental qualities in a relationship, that relationship isn't likely to grow, and become something that you desire. We all turn to our loved ones for support from time to time. When your loved one does not offer you their support it may be time to look at your relationship. As we all want to nurture those that we love. We want the best in life for those that we care about. If your partner is unwilling to listen to you, and to your problems, they are not meeting your needs when you need support. Support can come in many forms, someone lending an ear, someone going out of their way to help you, or something as simple as a phone call to cheer you up. Make sure your partner gives you support when you need it. When engaging in a relationship with another person there is always going to be things that you do not agree upon. You want to have the ability to compromise so both partners are getting their wishes met. This may mean one night you watch football, and one night your partner watches a movie you enjoy. It might mean that your partner can agree to try a dish that you enjoy cooking. In any organization with more than one person in it, there will be more than one opinion, work with your partner to see that both of you can compromise on different subjects. If someone isn't willing to compromise, they are not willing to acknowledge your wants and desires. If they can not acknowledge your wants they are likely not emotionally developed enough for you to have your needs met. Open and honest communication is one of the more desirable qualities you want to have in a relationship. Watch to see that your partner is not secretive, nor are they willing to tell lies to avoid certain subjects. For example, if a partner is married, and fails to tell you that, you can rightfully assume if they can lie about big things, they can lie about small things. While you may not like everything your partner may say, freedom to be honest should be there in your relationship. Likewise, you need to be open and honest with your partner; a relationship based upon false truths is not likely to be successful, because both partners do not have the correct frame of reference in the relationship. There are many qualities that make relationships good support, compromise, and open and honest communication is just a few of these qualities that you may desire in a relationship. Engage only in relationships where both partners can openly discuss their wants and needs, this can take practice. Remember loving relationships grow and only become better, eliminate those who do not meet your needs when they continually fail to support you, will not compromise, and will not be honest. These three qualities alone will help you nurture and develop a deeper relationship with your partner.