Letter(s) from Racheal Carter to Steve (UK)

Letter 1

Am happy to read back from you Steve, your age and the distance is not a problem for me all I want is man who will be mine forever I have another pictures attached I hope you get it this time...Anyway i still think there is more u still need to know about me, I'm my own lady and I am comfortable with my own life.. I'm beautiful, kind and respectful, well-spoken, and. I am extremely passionate and affectionate...I'm just an everyday, ordinary, average, normal lady. Nothing special about me.

I consider myself to be very simple. I believe that women need to be treated with respect and as a equal partner in a relationship, but all I seem to find is the ones that does not know how to respond to that or is untrusting to it. I feel like u should treat somebody with respect and like they are a person not a piece of meat or whatever. I am the type of person who wants somebody to feel wanted not just as a trophy. I am a very affectionate person and I love to cuddle, I like to show somebody how I feel not just telling them. I love to be close to somebody whether it is in the bed on the couch or wherever. I guess my dreams would be is to be happy and have a family my goals in life I want to go into business for my self one day but that will be a while from now. I guess I want to work on my love life and be happy first and to have a family, but I guess when the time is right it will happen.

I like to play sports just as much as I do watching them. Most of all i like to spend time with who I am with, and cuddle up and watch a movie. It is my opinion that we all want the same thing in regards to a partner, and that most of us either do not know how or is scared to and sabotage themselves from getting it. Ok, I like the outdoors, but I don't care about hunting or fishing, well I will fish with an un-baited hook if it means I will get to spend some time with someone I care about. There are a lot of things I like doing as in dancing, cooking, camping, etc. My ultimate goal and what I think would make me happy is to get back on my feet and have a woman by my side that I love and loves me.

I am very relationship oriented and I believe life is too short to waste. When I am in a relationship I am committed, honest, and loyal. I think that falling in love is always a good thing, even if it doesn't work out. There is always something to learn from being with someone, and happy times and memories should be cherished. Friendship comes first for me. That is not to say I never get hurt because I do. I have been burnt so bad. My last relationship ended on a very sad note for me but I do not believe in regrets. I tell you this because I cannot predict the future. For some people a relationship has to be all or nothing...I don't feel that way.

But I never in the past nor do I intend to intentionally hurt someone by cheating, mistreating, or abusing them. If there is something you want to say but you think you might be rambling or it is not important, it is ok, to me it is important. Well...I see I wrote a novel here, I am looking forward to getting to know you better. I guess I will go for now hope to hear from you soon.

Rach

Letter 2

Hello

Steve how have you been? Sorry have been busy with my 30th birthday plan, Steve you seem like you are very down to earth and laid back man, and that is good. I believe that partners are 100% equal in a relationship and both should be able to feel they can trust each other 100% at all times. I feel that any Man who ever disrespects a woman is not a man at all.. I am affectionate also and I have no trouble showing it for the right man in public or private. I love to cuddle while watching a good movie, when were in bed, I love to hug and kiss my man at anytime and anywhere it could be a store,mall or just on a sidewalk... I am looking for a very serious and long term relationship, I am looking for something permanent :-) and I know it takes time and a lot of good effort to form a good relationship. I want a man to be my best friend at all times, my sweetheart, love of my life, my partner and my soul mate all wrapped up into one lovely man. I have been burned before and I know how it feels, the feeling is not good at all.... and it is one i never wanna experience again. Distance is not a problem to me because I know we will meet soon..

At this point of my life,all I am looking for is that wonderful and special man to love completely and unconditionally, and who will love me too. I am very committed, a good listener and I give all in a relationship. I want to meet that man to share my whole heart with, to share my ups and downs with, I want to treat him like a king for the rest of our lives because I want to get married and settle down with him. I will be very supportive to him and be by his side all the time. I would love him a 100% and give my whole heart to him. Like I said earlier, you seem so much Like a wonderful man and I would really love to know you more that's why I am putting these questions to you:

What do you do for a living?
What do you seek for in a relationship?
What are the basic qualities you seek for in a woman?
What do you do for fun?
Do you like public intimacy?
Would you hit your woman for any reasons?
How do you treat your woman?

Each night and day I hope and pray that i found the rightful man that will be mine forever . I know it's hard to find man and trust a man - giving your heart, body and soul, but I am giving it a fair try. Please I beg you .I've been badly hurt in the past and i want it to go away.....i really need to be loved and not to be disappointed,I hope you understand were am coming from and were am going. I really wanna meet you when I get back to the Swansea, maybe we could go out for dinner (my mom always say a good conversation always makes a good meal) or go to the movies. My Favorite color is blue, fav food is French fries and chicken, I love all kinds of music but favorite is Gospel music. Write me back soon and tell me more about your likes and dislikes.

Stay sweet,

Rach

Letter 3

Hello

I am happy to hear from you again and I was so touch by your answers and I wanna take my time to let you into my world. I am so pleased to read your answers to my questions and seriously i think i am opening my heart to you because i just can't resist your words. They are so touching. Steve i like the way you treat your woman and we are both looking for exactly the same things out of a relationship.. Steve I would never deceive you for anything, I don't play games and my major turn offs are lies an deceits.. Steve I am not a materialistic person, i love the little things in a relationship. I want someone i could take trips with, talk a walk with holding each others hands, watching the sunset and so much more...

Steve I want to answer the same questions for you and I am going to write you from the bottom of my heart
.What do I do for a living?
Am a fresh graduate from a nursing school.
What I seek in a relationship?
I seek trust, honesty, understanding, sincerity, love and sharing, sharing the good times and bad times together with no fear of what the world might put upon us. Someone who enjoys kissing, cuddling, holding hands and surprises.

The qualities I seek in a man. First of all I want him to be Honest with himself. he should know what he really wants out of a relationship and I need him to be 100% honest with me. he should be very communicative with me and I can talk to him whenever I want to.
What do I do 4 fun?
I love swimming, reading and going to the movies. I have never been married and I don't have kids. I would date a man with kids, and I would treat his kids just like mine.
As far a public intimacy goes. I love to be held in public by man and for people to know that we are truly in love.
I have never hit a man and I never will. I don't believe in fighting or arguing. I would rather walk away and come back to talk to him when he is cool.
How do I treat my man? I treat him with respect, loyalty, love and like a king, I would cook for him and run is bath water.

I am looking for my soul mate. I would love him with all of my heart and have nothing but good feelings for him...he should be a very caring and loving person. I am looking for the "One". What does that mean to me? he is the person that you can't wait until he comes home from work so you can kiss him and sit down and relax in front of the TV or go out and spend an evening together. The person that just calls to see how your day is going and makes your day much better because you are talking to each other. he gives you a lift when you are down and can always make you laugh because you know each other so well. The person that can simply lay in bed with her head on my chest and our legs interlocked for hours and talk about what's on your mind. I want him to be my best friend, lover, and if lucky my husband . If I didn't scare you by being so serious and this sounds like something that would interest you then we could probably hit it off if you are up for it. I'm not afraid to go for it because this is what I want from life because I know that I deserve the best.

Rach

Letter 4

Steve, I understand how you feel but I can never hurt you back even though you had hurt me.. I have made my findings and I noticed you went to the wrong place.. I told you a Money Gram and not a post office... Check from google and search for western union or Money gram outlet nearest to you and submit the info I gave to you then you will see am right and that you are the wrong... Steve am not blaming you... I understand the fact that you went to a wrong place...

Letter 5

I will be happy if you send me your number so we can talk this better on phone

Letter 6

Steve why would I ever wanna make you cry? You are very nice man and am willing to give my heart to you... I guess Money Gram is having issues... Check western union Steve... Can you talk to me on GTALK now? Attached is a picture of me this morning... How do I look?

Letter 7

Steve, I understand how you feel but I can never hurt you back even though you had hurt me.. I have made my findings and I noticed you went to the wrong place.. I told you a Money Gram and not a post office... Check from google and search for western union or Money gram outlet nearest to you and submit the info I gave to you then you will see am right and that you are the wrong... Steve am not blaming you... I understand the fact that you went to a wrong place...