Letter(s) from Lea Pelarios to Brian (UK)

Letter 1

A blissful morning to you! Thank you once again for being open to communicate with me it is always an honor and pleasure to know you. I was quite emotional every time we are chatting I feel the world is so unfair. There are many bad people who plays the emotions of others but in return they are more fortunate and blessed. They found a good and loving person who loved them faithfully but I think we cannot question God for everything happens for a reason.

I do not give my email address to anyone this is my first time because I discovered many fakes and unreal people in the dating site where me met. I became cautious for fear that I may be victimized I only gave a try to you hoping and praying that you are Genuine. I can say you are a man with character and substance that rarely you can find now because of the materialistic world. People became busy searching for Happiness but they can never find happiness in any material things for it is innate it is from within. You are right no matter how rich you are you cannot buy love and happiness. You cannot buy a person to love you because love is always a gift freely given to us we do not need to ask.

You are very lucky because your wife left you a precious jewel a priceless diamond. As a man you are the head of the family a woman is the light her rays will shine if she live her commitment and role as a wife and a mother. I am also very family oriented woman who value love and family than gold. I am very simple person who does not want a complicated life. I am homebody but adventurous too if I have time I like trekking, swimming, firing, cooking and my passion is fixing our home. I am very neat, hygienic and well organized and orderly woman.

Good family values is very important to build and to create a strong family it is the foundation. We have to learn from the past to slow down and guard our hearts not to be used and played again by insensitive and selfish people. I was wondering if there is someone in this world who is Honest, sincere and committed. It takes time for me to settle down because I want a lifetime commitment it hurts and it pains me watching broken marriages it destroys family and the most affected here and victim is the children. It happened here my sister itself is my concrete example. She got married after 10 years they parted ways because she found another man younger than her husband. Perhaps that is the effect and fruit of early marriages they did not enjoy yet their teens life. Now she has many partners it make me very sad but I can't do anything it is her choice. We cannot give her advice she plays a lot men even foreign men. She married a foreign man just for money at the same she has also filipino partner here. We are blood sister but I am not in favor and conforming to her acts it is not fair, unjust and inhuman.


I will write more later after my work it is almost 1pm here time to go back to my work. . Thank you so much for finding time for me know that it is very well appreciated. Take care and God bless.

Your friend,

Letter 2

My dear Brian,

Good afternoon to you! It is my lunch break here so I have one hour vacant to spend with you while eating.I would like to than you again for giving me your trust Trust is Earned we do not need to ask. As your friend I will take care of the trust you gave to me I would not abused your generosity for that is not my personality.

In life Bri you will realize that people you meet have a purpose. Some were put there to test you, some would use you, some would teach you, and some would bring out the best in you. Some may cause you pain but you'll learn to move on. So let go of the people who can't treat you right and hold on to those who love you back and see your worth.

Always remember that you can never find a perfect partner to love you the way you wanted.Only a person who is willing to love you more than what you are.Someone who will accept you for what you can and can't be. And that is even better than perfect.

In life Brian we always search for an answers cause we want to prove to ourselves that we have made the right decisions.But the truth is things happen because it's meant to happen. That is why we forgive people even if they hurt us. We love people who don't love us and we smile after every painful breaks of our hearts. At the end of the day the lessons you will get are the answers we were searching for. Thank you always for the friendship I am hoping that we will continuously enriching and giving life no matter what happen. A friend is never a coincidence in your life. They are once a stranger meant to come into your life to bring priceless lessons and funny memories. Learn to trust the perfect time so that you may discover that all the pain found in waiting has a significant and awesome purpose...make sense Babe?

In our life we do not need to explain how much we love the person, it depends on them how they appreciate the efforts that we do for them to be contented. When you truly care for someone you don't look for faults, you don't look for mistakes instead you forget the mistakes you accepted the faults and overlook the excuses.

Let us live a worthy life because if you leave something wonderful with those who come to your life they will find it hard to erase you from their hearts. Little things matter most!

Let us value everything we presently have for someday you might realize that the thing you threw away might be the very thing you would need when it already belongs to somebody. Have a blessed day ahead oh...I am very hungry now hahahaha. Let us live in peace with honest and sincere intention....I miss you and I care for you my friend!

Always here for you,

Letter 3

A wonderful morning Brian,

Just wake up quite late I arrived home last night late I had an overtime again. Today I will stay at home I have one day break every month. I will do laundry, gardening and fixing our home my parents cannot do it due to their age and health issues. As their daughter I have the responsibility to look after them though I am not oblige but it is only out of love, gratitude and respect for my parents why I am doing this Bri.

One of my greatest achievement and fulfillment that I considered is having a comfortable home for my parents. I can afford and give them foods that they want everyday before their lives comes to an end at least as their daughter I have given the best I can to make them happy. Admittedly nothing left for me but they Joy and the unexplained feelings that I have deep inside my heart cannot be payed by money.

Let us never forget what is important in life. Material things can be replaced, but the important people can't. To be rich is not what you have in your bank account, but what you have in your heart.Sometimes the bad things that happen in our lives put us directly on the path to the best things that will ever happen to us. I have many realization in life Bri after those years of feeling lost and complete emptiness. I felt I was in the desert yearning for water but again we may lose the wrong person and cry over the wrong person. But one thing is for sure mistakes help us find the right person.

We cannot judge other people about their past because it is you own road and yours alone others may walk it with you but no one can walk it for you. I do not and never judge someone whatever they do in their lives even how unacceptable it is in the other eyes. Sometimes our weakness overpower us we are so weak and fragile that cannot resist the temptation. But at the end of the day we will come to realize that we are hurting so much ourselves by giving in to the temptations. We might lost everything if we will continue doing what is right and best for us and for our family.

Definitely you are a good man Bri you may have flaws and imperfections in the past but i does not hold nor stop you from doing good. If I could give you one thing in life. I would give you the ability to see yourself through my eyes . Only then would your realize how special you are to me.

Our main purpose on earth is not acquiring wealth, attaining status, achieving success or even seeking happiness these are secondary issues. Life is all about love with God and with other people. You may succeed in your endeavors but if you fail to learn how to love you'll miss the reason why God created you.

My you continue to be a blessing and the channel of God's love and peace here on earth. I care for you Bri and your happiness is my first and primary concern I want you to be happy and free from all any worries and anxieties of this world. You deserve love, happiness and care because you are a good and responsible father in some point maybe not a good husband but all in all you are a good person. Be safe and take care always!

Love and care,

Letter 4

My dearest Brian,

Hello there! thank you for the short chat this afternoon when you wake up in your morning as always everything is well appreciated. I feel more comfortable and at ease talking and discussing with you about all my dreams and simple wishes and aspirations in life. What I am longing is too simple Bri but it is so hard to find it a man who is willing to hold my hands and accompany me to face the storm.

I have to be frank with you what holds me at first is the thought that you wanted to have a children. I have trauma and maybe worries and fears of having children. My experienced having a big family completely changed my outlooks and views about having children. First we are 12 in the family but only me and my sister Venus who has compassion and heart to support and to help my parents. The rest are all problems of my parents and headaches due to different issues that made my parents suffered so much. I have friend who got married and they do not have child but they live happily ever after they can travel anywhere they want. I want that kind of life for I am too tired being alone working hard not for myself but for my family.

Most of the my brothers and sisters marriages are not successful except for my sister Venus. He found a good man with good values and she too is such a wonderful woman who lives a simple life but noble and dignified. My other sister was separated with her husband, the other live in so shameful to share with you. I want to live a life simple and not miserable for I am not materialistic person. All I want is not a partner in need but partner INDEED. Someone who is willing to take all the risk who knows how to reciprocate, to give to receive.

As the days went by I have discovered your hidden wealth that is your golden heart. It hurts me to see you being abused and taken for granted by your children. They haven't shown you a respect and love that you ought to received as a father. I was hurt when you shared to me that you were stressed of your sons attitude and mentality when it comes to money. There are nights that I was restless and sleepless I wanted to help you and to give you comfort. I want to alleviate your pain and your loneliness but our distance prevented me to do so. In my own simple way from afar trying to cheer you up and find time for you to make sure that you are doing well and in good condition. You do not deserve to be sad you are good person who needs love, care and attention from someone who is sincere. Someone who will treat you with the utmost affection and respect and would not dare to hurt and use you for personal satisfaction and glorification.

Mostly people cannot understand your simple needs because they are not attentive and perceptive. They are so busy and focus on themselves. We need to be selfless in order to be sensitive to the needs of others. We must be stripped of of our being self centered and egoistic nature to give Love and service to others. Given a chance Bri I want to show you how genuine and true is my heart. I will be here for you no matter what do not worry and bothered by your age if a woman truly loves you age is not an issue it is your heart and heart alone matters most nothing else. I care for you and I fully understand you do not be shy to me. You are free to open your pains and everything that bothers your mind I will be here willing to listen as your friend and who am I to judge for me is also a sinner not a living saint. Thank you very much smile Babe do not be frown for life is so wonderful. Time for me to prepare our dinner the 2 old are hungry now. Missing you always!


Letter 3

Bri, good morning it is 12 midnight here just arrive from work I have another overtime because I will be away for 5 days seminar. I am so worried about you how I wish I can take good care of you tell me immediately what is the result. I am going to bed now please relax and enjoy your life you only live once. Smile do not ever make your life miserable I care for you just open your heart do not hardened.Yang

Letter 4

Good morning! you know I was restless last night I was so worried of you thank God not pneumonia. Take your medicine on time and religiously. My seminar will be on Oct.28 we still have lots of time together next Saturday surely we will see each other on cam I am giving you the assurance. You must eat first before taking your antibiotics for it is so painful in your stomach and it may cause hyperacidity. I care for you a lot Bri until now we have strong winds many tress were collapsed as usual no electricity. I missed you Bri please get enough rest. Yang