Letter(s) from Julianne Chamness to Kevin (Canada)

Letter 1

Hello Kevin,

Its nice to hear from you, I'm glad you were able to figure out my riddle, How are you doing today??I hope are fine and enjoying all the wonders life has to offer? if yes tell me about it? I am Julianne, 29 years young…lol, I'm single, never married, British Canadian lady. Born in Vancouver but grew up in England. I would describe myself as confident, very easy to get along with, honest, warm hearted, and considerate of others feelings. I like to laugh and have fun. I'm well mannered, well traveled and haven't dated in a while.
I joined the online dating scene in search of a faithful, honest, long lasting relationship with a special man, I believe in honesty and I seek a relationship built on a foundation of trust, I would really appreciate it if you tell me about yourself and what you are looking for in a woman and also share more photos of yourself with me.

I have an independent personality, hard working lady who puts in a lot of hours into work but it's time to work less and start enjoying the good things life has to offer, I believe having a partner will bring everything more in to balance. I actually enjoy communicating within a relationship,I’m not afraid of commitment and I can engage in an intelligent conversation. Based on your profile, you seem quite interesting and i would like to know you better and see where that leads, I'm ready for this and i hope you are as well and also physically fit with an outgoing personality and hopefully you are someone that wants a wife ?? I mean are you ready to A man that looks at the woman in he's life as the person he wants to escape with rather than from…

I'm currently in Southeast Asia(Philippines), which is where i run my business from. I come down here twice a year, I'm Self employed and i major in the Manufacturing,import and export of fabrics such as the Ad-ire lace, Real dutch Wax and so on…
I'm a one man lady,I stay faithful,loyal and devoted to my man but men have often proven to be wolves in sheep's clothing and you and i know that's no news, I've gone through quite a pitiable ordeal in the hands of men but i have moved on and ready to settle down, Just so you know, my crave is not for a man with a fleet of cars, an escalade, a posh, or some exotic collection of cars but for a man that's is ready to build a happy home. I'm looking for a warm, thoughtful, loyal, caring, reliable, understanding and romantic man to share my life with hopefully you want this same. I would like you to share with me more about yourself and also some pictures as well.

I am delighted and would really like to know more about you and see where that takes us.

Julianne

Letter 2

How are you doing today Kevin? I'm so sorry for just getting back to you, I have been super busy over here because i would soon be leaving here, Work sometimes can be very hectic and i get back to my apartment really tired, thanks for the swift response...What are you plans for the rest of week??
Judging from your picture. .i must say you are quite a handsome guy :)I really do appreciate you making out time to write me and also sharing your pictures with me, My full name is Julianne Chamness, As you know already,I'm self employed and currently away on a business trip to return soon, I love what i do even though it involves a lot of risk, Did you know that Importing and exporting is a great way to expand your business and take part in the global economy. In fact, companies that do business internationally grow faster and fail less often than companies that don't.Import export businesses, also known as international trading, are one of the hottest commercial trends of this decade. I got into the import and export industry after i lost my aunt in 2010, she founded this textile enterprise back in the 1998 and like i what am doing with it right now as it's productive and fun but also stressful…However, I've been thinking of going into the antique business or preferably open up my own child day care center as i have always wanted to do something that involved taking care of Children . I love who i'm now even though some part of my childhood was ugly but its all past now, Losing my parent at age 11 was tough, so many things changed but staying with my aunt helped a lot because she is the best. I was taught how to be a good and loving woman by my aunt. May her soul rest in peace, She died in 2010 and she was not so educated or eloquent enough to instruct me by words, instead I learned by watching her interact with the man she interacted with for the years that I lived at home. I know no other way to treat a man other than to show him all my love and affection.

I graduated from college with a BA in Marketing in May of 2009. I believe in working hard and not only did i graduate, I graduated with and overall GPA of 3. 9, but i finished my undergraduate degree in two years as opposed to the usual four!
My family move to the Canada from Croydon,England but My aunt sold the house after my parent passed I was only 9 years old, So whenever i'm in canada i stay in a serviced apartment, but once am done with work from here, I'm looking to settle down for good in but i have decided where yet, Well tell me about more about yourself and also your online dating experience so far? have you had any dates? I believe in today's world there are growing number of people who work extremely long hours or work weekends, people travel for work more now than ever, and there are a ton of people who are not into the traditional club/bar dating scene. Does this mean that these people should be punished in the romance department? In my opinion absolutely not! It means that the world and the people in it are finding new ways to meet each other and meeting online is one of the best ways to meet and talk to people in a short time that's one of my reason to try it out but to be honest with you i'm yet to be comfortable because of the negative energy surrounding. I have been contacted by several other men on the website before my membership ended, i just shutdown by my profile because most of them were just total perverts and guys with different ideas about life who tried to cajole me into believing their concept of true love, but I must confess that the little or perhaps much that I've learnt about you suggests to me that you aren't like the other regular guy. My veneer indicates independence and strength, but I can be fragile underneath. My emotions are at surface level all the time, which can leave openings for disappointment and pain. But I just cannot build walls to hide behind - - my soul would die there. I love nature and all that it presents each day - - I love road trips and camping. I enjoy camping, swimming, water skiing, fishing, music, reading and I enjoy outdoor activities generally - - just cannot swim like the fish I was in my childhood. Animals hold a very place in my heart and soul - - second only to children. I have a Yorkie and her name is SUKI and she keeps my company.

I'm continually looking to improve myself and I would appreciate a man that possesses this same quality.I'm direct and I'm not afraid to share my thoughts and feelings.I'm looking for a man who can appreciate this attribute and is willing to openly share his feelings with me… None of the following is embellished, fabricated or untrue. My favorite pastime is writing and spending time with my special man as i believe with the right person in our lives, life can be rid of blue days. Yes! How do you explain a life time filled with fun, pleasure and memorable moments? What word can qualify going to the movies with that special person, probably watching some old movies together? What else can replace traveling, going on holiday resorts, clubbing occasionally and taking a late night rest time garnished with a romantic bathe in a Jacuzzi with that loved person in one's life? All these and many more can actually replace the stress, pains, and disappointments of life with glimmers of endless hope and faith. I do not smoke and do not drink alcohol as.i love listening to music,reading magazines,hunting,fishing,dancing,cooking.my favorite color is Green, but i also love white, red ,pink and blue. I love cooking a lot and my favorite actor is Tom Hanks and my favorite actress is Meryl Streep… Simple acts of profound intent aimed at putting smiles on someone's face can be linked to the strings of a violin which remain attached forever, whether or not the violin is being played. It's like the gentle, soul-soothing, currents of wind that blows along the ocean coasts tranquilizing the turbid ocean waves without disturbing the cool serenity of the atmosphere of the coast. I really want us to get to get to know better and see where that leads us. I have an extremely sarcastic sense of humor which I will slowly introduce to you…

I look forward to hearing from you, again and again ...

Julianne

Letter 3

Hi Kevin,

How are you doing?? I hope everything is in accord on your end? As for me I'm doing excellent as usual, I want to share with you a couple of my favorite quotes that sum up the core of who I am. I possess an unquenchable thirst for knowledge and i respect good values and hard work, I enjoy late night talks and believes waking up in the middle of the night and knowing you can roll over and hug someone during a thunderstorm is the best!!!!Do you agree with me?I enjoy touching fingertips, Sitting on a park bench and just staring at the water.I appreciate a full moon and eating an ice cream cone on a hot summer night..I enjoy dining out but would really enjoy to have an intimate dinner for two at home.

This quotes is about how I tackle everyday life and This should give you a better glimpse of how I view the world.

"I'm awesome" - Julianne Chamness

"My concern is not whether you have failed, but whether you're content with your failure." - Abraham Lincoln

“As I look back on my life, I realize that every time I thought I was being rejected from something good, I was actually being re-directed to something better.” -Steve Maraboli

"Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance you have to keep moving" - Albert Einstein

"Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!" - Audrey Hepburn

"A superior man is modest in his speech, but exceeds in his actions." - Confucius

“Watch your thoughts; they become words. Watch your words; they become actions. Watch your actions; they become habit. Watch your habits; they become character. Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.” ? Lao Tzu

"Choose to be happy! The amount of happiness that you have depends on the amount of freedom you have in your heart."- Thich Nhat

"What surprises me most about humanity is man. He sacrifices his health in order to make money. Then he sacrifices money to recuperate his health. And then he is so anxious about the future that he does not enjoy the present; the result being that he does not live in the present or the future; he lives as if he is never going to die, and then dies never having really lived." - Dalai Lama

This last quote is from Aristotle and it talks about how to achieve success in life.
" We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, therefore, is not an act but a habit."

I must say that i really appreciate the fact that you've made me feel as if have known you for long,Since my last relationship ended i have lived a lonely life and it got to a point where i find it very difficult to mingle with guys because i did not know how or where to start from,But i am really ready to give this a try,But i really would like to know if YOU ARE DATEABLE?

Here are some questions that I would like to ask to back my email up

(1)Are you an happy person?
(2)Do you say "my ex" more than 5 times a day?
(3)Are you financially stable?
(4)Do you have future goals, dreams or desires?
(5)What are you doing for you?
(6)Do you know what went wrong in your past relationship(s)?
(7)Do you know what you want in a new partner?
(8)What are your thoughts!
(9)With the little that have told you about me,Do you wish to pursue this?

I'm sorry if my questions are much,Power is not happiness,Love brings happiness...I am always happy and have lots to share! I hope you had a memorable valentines day?

Regard's
Julianne

Letter 4

Hi Kevin,

How are you doing today? I hope you're fine and had a wonderful weekend?I'm glad to hear back from you and honestly i didn't know you will feel comfortable answering my question but now i believe we are communicating...I'm not at all put off by your answers to the questions I asked.Here are my answers to the questions I asked this way you'll also know if I am DATEABLE?

Here goes:

1) Are you a happy person? - without question I am an happy person. I believe that life is a gift and part of that gift is making choices. I make a choice every single day to put a smile on my face and focus on positive things. One way I do this it to focus on the all the blessings I have. Don't get me wrong I have bad days like everyone else but I choose to not dwell on the bad things and change my focus to something that makes me smile and happy.

2) Do you say "my ex" more than 5 times a day? To be completely honest I never say "my ex"!Michael was my first love and he was taken from me without notice one day. Loosing him was very devastating to my entire world and he will always have a special place in my heart. With that said, I have accepted that he is gone and life with him as I knew it is over. I have accepted it and am looking forward to building a "new normal" for myself. I am not looking to replace him in any way. I am looking to find someone I can love and who will love me in return.

(3) Are you financially stable? - Yes - I work very hard to have what I have. I am not materialistic but I do like to have nice things. I love to travel and enjoy the finer things in life. I have grown so much over the past couple of years. I enjoy nice things but I never loose sight that they are just "things"!

(4) Do you have future goals, dreams or desires? I would love to open up a center for the young people to go to and just have fun. I am tired of hearing about all these children either dying from drug overdose, or killing each other, or something. I feel our young people don't have the opportunity we had to actually enjoy their life because of all the things that are going on in the world. I would love to open up either an activity center or something where they can come and hang out, and basically enjoy themselves.. Along with offering a mentoring service for those youths that need the inspiration to make it through their life..Am sounding old already???lol

5- I have told myself that it is OK for me to be me, once again. A large part of me has lain dormant for many years - - my passions, my desires, my happiness, my direction in life. I am re-reading "The Final Lecture" which was such a life-changing read for me, the first go-round. It is not about death and coping - - it is about grabbing life and climbing the highest mountain you can find and reveling in LIFE. I am surrounding myself with my things - - and now creating my memories and history. My soul greets each morning with excitement, and says good night with contentment.

6. Yes.

7- Oh yes - - a compassionate, passionate partner totally committed to our lives and whatever it takes to help each other be complete.

8- My thoughts are overwhelming to me, right now - - wonderful, happy tears are streaming down my face. I knew I liked you the moment I saw your face and read your profile. I am in the business of "reading" people - - and the meter went off the charts as I have explored and learned more and more about you. I cannot get you off of my mind - - i hope we get to meet someday soon, (hope I am steamrolling - - just have to express my true feelings or I will burst - -

9- Absolutely, positively, ecstatically YES, YES, YES. And just so that you cannot mis-interpret my answer - - - YES, I want to spend time with you and continue this wonderful exploration of each other.

I hope my answers are good enough for you??Well i would like to know what are your thoughts about "chemistry" between two people? I am eager to get to know more about you and willing to share things about me with you. Getting to know you is a journey that I am excited about!

Regard's
Julianne

Letter 5

Hi dear,

How are you doing today ?I hope this message brings love, happiness, and joy to you. I know have said this before but i just cant stop wondering how possible it is that we a lot in common,God is good...This seems to be too good to be true. but the good news is that i have always believed that God never shuts a door unless he has a bigger and better one to open for you. It feels to me that you may possibly be that door in my life. It seems that we fully agree that a successful relationship depends on both partners giving themselves totally to a relationship, communicating, and never giving up on one another.That is the kind of Man that I am looking for, one who is willing to give until it hurts and then give some more to make a healthy home. That is what I am willing to do and even more. I hope you can see from our email conversation that i am a well mannered lady and also understanding.I understand that "Actions Speak Louder Than Words" so until you are around me and see my walk, it is only talk. No matter what happens, I want you to know that you have given me hope and reason to be happy.

Thoughts of you,
Julianne

Letter 6

Hello Kevin,

I'm very glad we met and I must confess, We have come a long way and shared so much and i really respect you. I can't wait to meet you in person.I know when we meet in person we still have a lot more to learn about each other because i know that people who are not around make less mistakes, Well from how i see things now everything seem great BTW us and i believe we can keep things on a good pace until we meet, Am i right?? When we meet we would agree and disagree on things and i believe we would be able to any sort of conflict that comes up because its only normal for every Friendship/Relationship to experience that so be prepared....I perfectly understand the content of your messages and i want you to know that you're such a great writer and i can't wait to meet with you in person,I have more photos of myself attached with this message and i want you to know that the way you express yourself is very wonderful and breath taking.

My imagination on our first meeting goes does, I see us meeting at a quiet restaurant, overlooking the beach. Where the waves crash on the shore, calming the sounds of traffic. You would be sitting in a lounge, anticipating my arrival. As we finally meet, I would gently embrace you as two long lost friends would do. I would kiss you on the cheek, to let you know that I have been patiently waiting the day we would meet.We would sit down for dinner, next to a fireplace where we can look into each others eyes and smile.CHEMISTRY would intensify. As time stands still, we enjoy each others company by talking the night away. It couldn't be more perfect. By the end of the night, we cuddle next to the fire and let the moonlight illuminate the ocean. Now open your eyes...can you picture it?Its amaze me that in this short time we have connected so much and i believe that we have a lot in common and i am really glad about that and i must let you know that i have been able to put together words to express the way i feel about us,There are many things I want to be to make you happy and glad and if you’ll let me, I’ll be them all and give you the life you’ve never had.

Let me be your angel
So I can chase away your fears
I’ll conquer your demons and fight your monsters
And when they’re gone I’ll dry your tears

Let me be your sunlight
So I can brighten up your day
I’ll warm your heart and make you smile
And you’ll laugh and dance and play

Let me be your quiet time
So I can calm your restless soul
I’ll comfort you and give you hope
And make you feel whole

Let me be your lullaby
So I can sing you to sleep each night
I’ll give you wonderful magical dreams
And make everything in the world seem right

Let me be your lover
So I can hold you close and say
I’ll love you forever, you’re the Man of my dreams
And I’ll never stop feeling this way

There are many things I want to be
To make you happy and glad
But above all else, just let me be yours
And give you the life you’ve never had

I must confess that it has been a wonderful experience exchanging emails with you, You have made me develop more in my writing skills and i really want to thank you for that, I'm happy and i hope this union has affected you positively.

Hugs and Kisses
Julianne

Letter 7

Hi Sweetheart,

I'm happy and joyful that we met. I do appreciate your open, genuine, warm heart and sincere answers to my questions. We have come a long way and i can't wait to meet with you in person, I have so much going on over here with work and i have been so busy trying to resolve the situation, I'm so sorry not to have messaged you, I didn't want to make my problem yours and i know you have so much going on for you as well daily, Well i would truly love no more than to get to know you better as in person and i hope that happens soon because you do possess all of the qualities, morals,values and ethics that I’ve ever looked for in a man.Your outlook and your decision making skills are truly astounding to me which is why I'm so comfortable with and feel like i should let you know about my situation here, I'm a bit reluctant in sharing this but we have come to far for me to hold back anything from you, I can't even do that because i know how much you care about me, The thing is I'm not sure of when am going to leave here not that i don't want to but I'm having some serious business related issues to resolve, I really want to leave here as to come settle down as i believe it's high time i did that and also because of the current unrest in the Philippines caused by the unfavorable weather conditions and political factors.

Recently Philippines has been tagged as the smuggling capital of Asia and the Commissioner for Bureau of Customs and Department of Trade and Industry (DTI) has intensified their efforts to counter the accusations and stabilize the sector.
They came up with a new Tax scheme to generate Revenue stabilize the sector. The new tax rate has affected the CIF (Cost, Insurance and Freight), Duty charge etc, Its not strange for changes like this to happen in my line of work, all i have to do is to give out the goods to my customers with the new rate but i can't ship out the goods to them yet because of the additional cost, Everything seem to be under control until i took the money orders i have with me to the Metro bank and they told me the money orders are not Cashable here, They said if they were traveler checks they would cash them but this ones are valid but they are domestic payment and not international worthy to be cashed then offered me and option to deposit them and they could take about a month to clear which is bad news for me as i need to have this goods shipped as soon as possible to meet up the demand of my customers and also leave here.I have been to the embassy to see if i can get some help and they told me that there are no facilities for cashing checks at the Embassy or Consulates. I was advised to contact my relatives or friends to help me or get an investor, As you know my parents are late and my aunt as well and i don't have any relation that can raise the amount i need because I'm the one that practically take care of myself and support my cousins sometimes when they need support. So i'm stuck right now but i call my friend Veronica and she has promised to help me raise $1500 but am still short of $2789.00 lets say approximately $3000. i need that to quickly sort everything things out here so i jump on the next available plane so as to come cash this checks before things get out of hands.

I'm so unhappy right now as I'm stuck and i hate been in situation like this, I don't how to relate this to you but i sincerely need an assistance from you and i would appreciate your support. I want you to know that I'm not in anyway taking advantage of what we have, I just think its only right for me to share this with you as believe the essence of a relationship is to find love, companionship and to find a helper, a partner, a brother, father and a friend, now with all these roles comes trust, without which we have nothing, For me to open up to your about my difficulties is due to a level of trust i have in you already and i believe i can confide in you. I also believe that for any relationship to work, we must work together through anything we experience. Regardless , When one of us is lacking in one area, I believe the other one is there to assist the other or pick up the slack for a time. This doesn't mean we do it forever, but just while the other person needs help with money problems, stress, feeling, worries or even doubts. For us to work as well as our feelings we have for each other are we must compromise. I cherish everything we have shared so much and you know i value you so much, and i know you care about me as well so much and once i get there i know it will be so much easier for you to know how i feel about us…I have never done this before and I'm worried on how you will take this, I really wish i don't have to do this, but I need to sort this out and i promise to pay you back without delay,I pray you are have this funds available and able to lend me. If you have please kindly find a place in your heart to assist me as i know this is a short notice, but i promise I'll pay back once i arrive.

Sincerely,
Julianne

Letter 8

I really don't know how to address this issue at this point, I have heard from you since and i don't Feel complete...But i would say this,if you are not comfortable or you feel you don't trust me enough to assist me in my times of need, then i beg you not to bother about it .
I took sometime time out to think deeply on what's been going on in my life. It seems like due to the fact that i developed feelings you , i have been so vulnerable to the point that i have let my guards down totally . I am still trying to understand how i let it get to this point. if i didn't need this assistance i won't even talk to you about it, before i asked you to help me, you have been so sweet, you were so nice to me and made me feel so special .I felt we had a connection between us and since we were both aligned in thoughts and we both knew exactly what we wanted in life . I thought it would be best to give it a shot and see where it headed . So far so good,everything was going fine till my troubles emerged. All of a sudden, the so called connection which i thought we seems to be turning out to be just another pipe dream . but since i asked for your sincere assistance for days now you have ignored my message like we never exist.