Letter(s) from Deborah Angelica Statham to Joseph (USA)

Letter 1

Hello ,

Thanks for getting in touch with me ...i am very willing to chat with you one and talk to you on phone day so that we can talk more.......i am a cool and shy girl ..I hate cheating and lying and fighting ...my ex boyfriend cheated on me so since then i have to be single and i love to meet someone that is honest,open minded,caring, romantic and i love to meet someone special ok..

and I truly appreciate you sharing so much about yourself..it's not often you find someone who is able to express themselves so eloquently.Now, more about me...I'm straight forward, honest to a fault, and very easy to get along with. I'm funny, strong when I need to be, but soft heart most of the time. I have a great sense of humor, and a very definite romantic side. love to kiss and hold hands, but I especially like to share...big things, little things, everything...most things are better shared.
I'm emotionally balanced and stable, I have a lot to teach...but a lot to learn...I believe that the day we stop learning is the day we die. I have a lot to give emotionally...but yearn to find someone that can give as much in return.
I may not be able to leap tall buildings in a single bound, I'm not faster than a speeding bullet, and I'm not as powerful as a locomotive...but I can cook, and I'm pretty darn handy at fixing things.
I'm looking for someone who realizes that the very essence of a good relationship starts with being "in like" before you can ever be "in love". If two people can't be friends, how can they develop into something more?
I'm a cool heart woman and I'm looking for someone who realizes that being a gentle heart woman and being chivalrous are not synonymous with being a chauvinist. Well its nice that you are interested in getting to know more about me and i am glad too that its time for me to sit and write to you everyday and see what future has for us,I have been scared to date for the past 8 years because of what my ex husband did to me,but when i sit down and think about life i see that all men cannot be the same and that is the reason why i registered on the site and yesterday was my first day on the site and i am also happy that i meet someone i think we can be good match with time because we need to take our time and get to know each other better,I am kind of woman that like man that date only one woman if you can do that with me then we will have more time to concentrate on each other,I am a computer civil engineer/ contractor and the nature of my work gets me around the world my work base on contract and project so i do travel a lot and i always travel with my son mark because i have no one to take care of him,I am the only child of my parents and i have lost both of my parents on the same day in a car accident on there way coming back home from church i have not relatives here in Miami but i have family in Italy,Right now i am not in the state i am working on a contract in WEST AFRICA and i will be coming back to the state in two to three weeks,I will like to ask you some question and i will be glad if you can give me honest answer,How long have you been on the dating site and how many women have you meet,I am new to this online dating stuff and i have heard that many men and women play games please i want to tell you that i am tired of getting hurt and i will be glad if you can tell honest answer,If you have someone else you are dating presently kindly tell

I will love to meet someone cool and caring person trustworthy..honest and cool person that can take care of me and i will be with him till the rest of my life and i will be caring and lovely to him if you only he can promise not to cheat on me ok

DEBORAH ANGELICA STATHAM
49 Homestead Park
Newark,NJ 07108-1213
E-mail Address: sthdeb@outlook.com


PERSONAL INFORMATION:
Date of Birth : Oct 20 1978
Place of Birth : Milano in Italy
Age : 36 years old
Civil Status : Divorced
Occupation : Assistant engineering DMC Communication enterprise
Religion : Christian
Height : 5 ft. 10 inches
Weight : 130 lbs.
Citizenship : Italian White/Caucasian
My sons name : Mark Rafael Statham
My sons Age : 12 years old...
Father's Name : Kelly Banitex Alvis
Occupation : Contractor
Mother's Name : Helen Banitex Alvis
Occupation : Retired Nurse (Matron)
LANGUAGE SPOKEN OR WRITTEN:
:English
WORK EXPERIENCES:
I have been in school for ages my first work is in west Africa where i am now.
EDUCATIONAL BACKGROUND:
Elementary : Mt. Matutum Christian School
Housing, Cannery Site, Polomolok, South Milan
Year Graduated: March 1990
Secondary : Mindanao State University
Laurel Street, General Santos City
Year Graduated: March 1995
Tertiary : Olivera National School of Engineering
in London England.
Course : Computer Engineering
Year Graduated: March 2000
: Computer Training Center
Laurel East, Italy
Course : Computer Engineering and i went for a vocational course for good 6 years as a masters degree.
Year Graduated: April 2006
SKILLS AND INTEREST:
Cooking, Dancing, Flower Arrangement and Sports Enthusiast.

My favorite food(s):
American, Chinese/Dim Sum, Fast Food/Pizza, Japanese/Sushi

My favorite music:
Blues, Disco, Hard Rock & Metal, Jazz, Soul/R&B
Favorite Color & Flower
Blue Color... Rose Flower

I hate to be cheat and fighting and disobey .I love to meet good person and trustworthy honest ,caring good person and i will care for him and will also do that ..

As at now i am in west Africa(NIGERIA) on my final year project so i will be back as soon as possible to the state so i will like to meet you in person ..But here is my pager number where you can get in touch with me through text and can receive calls because its a pager..+1 (646) 397-6254...You can also call me on phone but you need to let me know when you are calling so i can be with phone and where i can receive it.

About my last relationship..
My ex boyfriend went to marry my best friend one day i was going to check on my ex boyfriend and i met both of them in my boyfriend's room and i fated and i was rushed to the hospital that was so painful But i have to forget about it and start a new life.and this is one of my most embarrassing Moment.

Tell me more about yourself and do send some pictures if available.
Deborah

Letter 2

Hello ,
How are you doing?thanks for getting intouch,...Well am looking for a caring,honest,trustworthy man that'll love,respect and be faithful to me with all sincererity,so have you got all that?That really matters to me alot coz i've been through a lot and have had both bad and good sides of relationship,so i know and i wanna be sure,coz i don't wanna get hurt anymore...Am seeking for a very serious relationship,not here to play games..Hope you know what am saying?Talk to you soon..
Deborah

Letter 3

Hello Hun,
Before I met you,I was badly hurt from relationships that fell apart,I didn't wanna live no more I just wanted an end,I thought nothing could cure me,My heart would never mend.But getting happy at ur consistency and simplicity....in short i love the way u talk and i guess we could get to see as soon as i get back,i just want to be sure you are really serious about me,i am very scared about suffering another heart break because it really hurts a lot and i believe you understand where i am coming from and where i am going to...one thing i want u to note is that i want you to be faithful because that is what can make things work out for us.I am always committed to the man i give my love to ex boy friend does not know how to respond to True Love and that hurts a lot,please and please if you are really serious about me because i don't want to look back and i don't ever regret ever falling In love with,i want you to be the last person i will ever fall in love with,one thing i just want you to do now is to take off your profile from the site and lets get serious with each other,...anyway am getting over the recent heart breaks that i have suffer.I have not been with any man for 8years since i broke up with my ex.I am giving you a chance to see how things will work and see if u will not treat me like rob did ...I guess we could get to see when i get back home lets just keep in touch this way,one more thing i just need to tell you is that,will you always be there for me?,its just a matter of thinking tell me what you feel about that. Am feeling u are something very new and i guess your coming into my life will be a plus.I hope we'll never part,because I know a strait forward man will always treat His woman with love,care and Passions...I wrote your name in the sky, but the wind blew it away.I wrote your name in the sand, but the waves washed it away.I wrote your name in my heart, and forever it will stay,i promise i will always Love and Adore you if you are serious about me,my love for you will be like a golden chain that links our heart together,if you ever break the chain that means you break my heart,i believe you wont because i know you are serious about me......I really want to see u someday.i should be home as soon as i finish my work here and get paid,i will be here waiting for you to get back to me with your pics as promised,have a nice time at work..
With Love.
Deborah
+1 (646) 397-6254

Letter 4

Hello Darling ,
I am so happy to read your mail and i promise my reply to you will totally be honest because i have promise you that i will never lie to you because i dont want to hurt you.
My last relationship was very bad that i dont even wanna think about it again because my ex husband treated me so bad and i dont pray to have that kind of relationship again.He is abusive and drugs,I never know he was doing that when we meet each other we dated for 5 years before we got married.So it was after we got married that he stated showing his bad behaviour to me and my parents.
About the question you ask me...I am an american,My dad is from new jersey while my mum is from italy...I was born in italy but when i was 4 my mum took me to usa where she works and that is where is school,So if you see any mistake in my english please dont complain,I spent 15 years in italy before my mum took me back to new jersey when she retired from her work...When we get back to the united state my dad took me around the state and show me different places and i was so happy to visit many places in the state and after we get back home my dad ask me if i would like to travel to united kingdom to study computer engineer for 5 years and i told him that will be great so i travel to united kingdom to study computer engineering and when i completed the programme i came back home and i meet a guy who we dated for 10 years and we later got married but i never know he was a bad guy until we got married.
I am not planing to have more kids as i am okay with mark and think all i need now is to take care of mark and look for someone who is honest that can take care of me and mark for the rest of our life someone who will be honest and faithful to us and he will get it back in return...I am an honest kind i hate lie and cheating.
I know we are far away right now and if you are really intrested in me for long term relationship then the distance will not be a problem for you because even if we will be together we still need to get to know each other better and which i think we are doing right now by emailling each other...I am still in WEST AFRICA where i am working and i will be coming back to the state in few week time...We can build feelings for each other by chatting online and writting mails to each other if you agree with me...Well if you want me to move to you state there i can but you have to asure me that you will not cheat on me or hurt my feelings i think you are kind if man i am looking for.
Man about being together at home and making each other happy i think that is where we are good match...I like being with my partner in the room for at least 4 to 6 hours and 5 to 6 nights in a week which i think you also like to do that too,I wont like us to say much about that now because we are jsut getting to know each other i will like us to talk about that when we are together so that we can feel the passion inside our body.
I need to stop now and get busy with work,I will be online same time tomorrow and try and reply me back after you get back from work i will love to read your mail.Take care of urself for me.
Always Love
Deborah