Letter(s) from Elena Anna to Eric (USA)

Letter 1

I'm usually shy and quiet until you really get to know me. I tend to be too trusting and very sensitive so I am easily hurt. I'm very kind and loving and being loved back is the best thing in the world And I am very dedicated to those who are closest to me. I am passive and I generally do not like to lead but I am a loyal follower! I'm easy going and I avoid arguments and disagreements whenever possible. I am low maintenance and I am not afraid to get dirty

I'm single and I'm very serious about finding a good man for long lasting relationship, open mindedness, willingness to compromise. If single are you open to long term relationship?

If you don't mind me asking, how old are you?

Well I'm 33 but people I've met used to tell me I look like my early 20s

What do you feel about the age different?

I believe age is relevant and just a thing, it is the feeling that are developed between TWO people that count

Have you ever been committed in relationship in the past and do you have kids?

I've been in a relationship in the past but not married and no kids. We were separated, because he turn me down with lies and cheated on me sleeping around with different ladies and the painful part of it my very best female friend

Would you still like to have kids, if you find the right woman?

Letter 2

I believe age is relevant and just a thing, it is the feeling that are developed between TWO people that count

I don't know your intentions about me but I count you different from other cause you are honest sincere and ready for long term relationship and I guess the most important thing is being honest with each other

I want you to know I have been in a relationship in the past, I was cheated and it really hurt me so much because i trusted my ex with everything that i am but he turn out to be a liar a cheat and a betrayer. I know what it mean to be hurt and i will not want a fellow human been to go through the same. Please let be honest to ourselves if you are really serious and interest for long term relationship

I've had loads of bad experiences in my past relationship and i wouldn't want to fall into the same situation anymore that's more reason why I'm scared of falling in love again. I want to count on you as a respected and honest person with sincerity heart trust and confidentiality so far you have being so caring loving and serious about me

Letter 3

My family history can be traced all the way back to the early 1600's. We were one of the first families to settle in United State of America and live in Maryland. My father originates from England my mother was born and raised in Scotland before she moved to the States with my father in the year 1975 August to be precise she settled down with my father in the States after there marriage. My mother was pregnant 5 years after she married my father and gave birth to me. i lost my mother when i was 4 years old my cousin came to took me with her to Singapore. I spent most of my years with my cousin there cause she used to live there single and with no kids my father agreed I should moved with her so that I can have a proper care and because of the nature of my his job traveling around the world for his contract. After many years I lost my cousin in a crash car accidents when I was 21 years old and that was the same year I finished my study in LASALLE College of the Arts Singapore. After my cousin's death my father told me to prepare myself to come back to the States cause I'm through with my study. So that I can start working with him. So I came back to the States 12 years ago and started working with my dad the same year March 2003. While working with my father I asked him many time to let me know his family but he used to tell me soon he didn't till death took him away

I used to work with my dad as his secretary and auditor before he passed away, and we used to move around for his contracts wherever is awarded anywhere in the world. My father works with Oil Contractors in part of Europe countries like Germany and England

As a woman, I want a man that I can share the pleasures of love with a man who's willing to teach and learn. I want my man to be romantic affectionate fun loving trust worthy serious minded kind and always ready to make me happy on bed. I believe its very important for both partners to be satisfied completely sexually and to maintain a high level of attention to the sexual needs of the other partner. I'm supportive and also I want my man too be supportive. i want a man with enough experience in life to see both of us through am not ready for mind games and i don't want my match too be the same

I was born in Johns Hopkins Hospital, based in Baltimore, Maryland January 1st 1984

Letter 4

Good morning Eric i do believe in destiny if things are meant to be it will be..I live for today cause yesterday gone and tomorrow's not here yet

i always want a man that will surely knows what life means to a woman and I am relocate to where this man live to start new family

I believe there are lots of people out there but finding that special someone is not easy and I believe relationships are all about seriousness open mindedness and willingness to compromise which lot of people out there doesn't really understand that's why there relationship end up been divorced separated and complicated i am tired of games I'm very serious about finding a good man for marriage if I find the right man also i wan a man who is needing a companion friend lover and someone they can have confidence in. i have a kind and big heart that is full of love that I would like to give to a man who could appreciate it

I have a kind and big heart that is full of love that I would like to give to a man who could appreciate it like I've said before. I am affectionate also and i have no trouble showing it for the right man in public or private. I really don't want to be hurt again i want a long lasting peaceful and happy family for myself with sweet and lovely kids. for a long lasting relationship I will like to ask you some question about raising of the family for peace and till death do apart

What do you do for a living?

What are your favorite fun things to do?

Letter 5

I have been single since i had caught my fiance red handed in my room sleeping with my best friend in my room and on my bed but i have erased there path from my heart we took to meet in life.Now am looking for a true love and serious relationship. i have learned many lessons and gone through so many problem in my past relationship but i need a guy to be with all time and be with for the rest of my life. i will like to ask u some questions below :-

1..what do u like in a lady ?

2..how many girls have you met on that site?

3..whats your favorite color?

4..tell me more about yourself ?

5.. What"s your bad and good experience in meeting a lady on the internet?

6..how do you treat your woman?

7.. what state and city do you live in?

8..What do you do for a living?

9..What do you expect each partner to provide in the marriage for a long lasting and happy home?

10. What are your views about the distribution of power inside the family?

11. What are your views on the care of children?

12. What is the quantity of the privacy in the marriage?

13. What is the role of conflict and how to resolve conflict in marriage?

14. What is the best way to handle anger?

Like we both agreed, communication is the key and help to understand each other if we're both truly ready and serious. Lastly, what are your views about smoking, alcohol and drugs?

Attach are few pictures of me,i hope you will like them and hope to read back from you soon

Elena

Letter 6

Eric let me make a contribution

I believe God made the man primarily to provide the income and the protection for the home and the family and I think that the woman is made to control and guide the matters of the house and to provide the instruction of the children but each partner can help the other person in their family responsibilities

I believe God made the man to be the leader in the family but there are many areas where the woman can have more comprehension and understanding than the man so she contributes her ideas to him and he listens to her reasoning

As parents I believe we should be the primary influence for our children not the school neither the friends neither the television nor the movies. I believe that children should respect adults and children should help in the matters of the house. The children and the parents should be close to each other with good communication each day

Privacy in the marriage I believe many things of the marriage should be private to people outside the marriage but the people in the marriage should be capable of sharing all with one another

I think conflict is a time when 2 people can speak their opinions and understand one another better but the conflicts should be discussed peacefully sometimes in a different environment. There should not be the conflicts in the bedroom because this is a special sanctuary of love and harmony for the marriage

At times it is good to have a period of reflection and meditation before discussing the themes of anger, at times it is good to write down your feelings to discuss with your companion

I think smoking, alcohol and drugs are generally negative because in high volumes they damage the body, but I like to drink sweet iced tea or Coke especially vanilla Coke and I want to enjoy this with my husband

If you don't mind me asking, before you get off line. What are your faith and beliefs and spiritual preferences?

I have been a student of the Bible since I was a child. Communication with God should be a daily priority for each person, and also the couple can share in their devotion to God with one another. Although I do not attend church service every week, I would like to do this with my husband. I am a Christian and I want a God fearing husband

Letter 7

Eric I strongly believe we were destined to be together. It has been so long since a man has captured my attention so fully or made my heart beat the way it did. your smile lights up my entire spirit. your laughter fills me with joy and your mere presence will warm any room. I have no doubt you are the man Heaven has made especially for me.

Thank you for the comfortable conversations and for asking me to be yours. Most importantly thank you for sharing your love and wanting to make me your wife. No matter how slowly or at what distance our courtship develops I know standing before God and our future family vowing to be your partner for life was the easiest decision I could have ever made.

Each day that passes makes our love for each other grow stronger. Although I know it's somehow delaying for us being together I know there is nothing that can keep us apart forever I am sure of that. Our desires will continue to stretch across any distance over every mountain and ocean between us. Nothing can stand between us and nothing will stop me from meeting you soon.

You are my future and nothing can ever keep us from our destiny. I miss you more every day. I know you are there with open arms where I will some day finally arrive and right where I belong to you

Letter 8

How are you,how was your night? Thank you for the email, really appreciate it. its my great pleasure to hear back from you it really made my day with the lovely email you sent and i like the way you answered my questions

Eric I believe age is relevant and just a thing it is the feeling that are developed between TWO people that count

I've been in several rapports where I was not fully appreciated. In fact, many times I felt I was taken advantage of and that hurts I'd like to meet someone who recognizes the little things I do for him and knows how to be appreciative. For instance, if I were to make breakfast in bed or draw a bath for my man he could thank me by giving me a hug or a kiss. Or perhaps sending me a card for no particular occasion just to tell me thank you. I'm very appreciative of what people do for me and Ill reward them in my own little ways. To me, it's the little things that mean a great deal to me what does it really mean to be affectionate? I love a man who can display his affections for me anytime and anywhere without having to be shy and a person who knows how to be affectionate is a big plus. I love being affectionate This may be an odd one but I've learned that there are many man out there that are set in their ways. They have one way of doing things and are never open to suggestions or advice. Stubborn man are a major turn off for me. I like a man who is open to ideas thoughts and basically open minded

I think being receptive brings about sensitivity as well. A man who is ignorant mean and just plain insensitive is difficult to get along with i would say that I'm not afraid to display my emotions I'd like someone who is sensitive and caring If I'm sad I'd like for him to be able to comfort me and cheer me up he doesn't has to do much but just knowing that he's there solacing me is more than good enough. Have you ever had someone not stand up for you? I was deeply hurt when someone I once knew wouldn't not stand up for me even after he told me he loved me. I would never allow someone to hurt my boyfriend or my husband and I would always stand up for him. One thing I will always do for my man is to protect him

A perfect date to me will be a dinner for two or we could go for a coffee and just talk and talk Am very new to this online thing you are the first i will meet that i really had a long talk with and i hope we can make it work. No i don't like sports but i love to watch tennis and golf lol. As i said earlier i don't care about looks i care about the inside of a man. A good heart is just what i want i don't have kids but i would love to have one someday soon. Romantic weekends away will be very nice guy like you. i just hope you don't let me down well i cant wait to hear from you soonest. Hope you are thinking about me ? Hope to hear from you soonest

Hugs and kisses

Elena

Letter 9

i have been doing good here just that i have been so lonely here all alone. I just hope you have been doing good there. You seem like the man that i have been looking for all my life i have been through a lot in the past i have been deceived a lot and i would not want to deceived anymore

What is your favorite color or colors? RED

What is your favorite flower or flowers? Rose

What are your favorite foods? Pizza and Ice Cream

i always like a guy to be composed in everything he does, honest and straightforward i don't like beating around the bush lol i don't care about looks of a man i care about the inside of a man i will describe myself as a follower am always happy for others to include me and my opinion and then make a decision i would really love to meet up with you if you assure me that i will be welcome right there in your town after getting to know you more I had never been married but i want to get marry soonest and i don't have any kids of my own right now i like listening to RnB Blues rock and roll Pop basically i listen to all kinds of music i just need a song to lift up my spirit. Now i think you've known much about me and i too will love to know more about you ?

I love being with kids and want kids at least 1 boy 1 girl i don't know if that's what you like or want ? if you want to know anything about me,just feel free to ask and please tell me something that i don't know about you yet. Will be waiting to hear from you again.


Hugs and Kisses

Elena

Letter 10

why do you keep sending same message to me always...? i have been thinking of you so much in the last few days. I should be meeting up with you in 2 and 3 days from now maximum but meeting with you is the first thing i want to do now

Here are a few things I wish to do with you at some point in this lifetime:
Be your best friend.
Get caught with you in the rain.
Dance with you in the rain.
Stargaze on a clear night.
Watch the sunset together.
Spend all day with you doing nothing.
Moonlit walks on the beach.
Be more proud of you than I already am at this very moment.
Go on a carriage ride through the park.
Do a crossword together.
Go to brunch.
Have a disagreement (it could/will only make us stronger).
Go for a twilight horseback ride.
Watch a bad movie together.
Spend the rest of my life with you.
Have our picture taken together.
Eat ice cream with you.
Make love to you passionately.
Go to a museum together.
Talk to each other using only body language.
Give you space when you need it.
Accept you totally and completely - flaws and all (I already do).
Discuss current events in a heated debate.
Have you see the error of your ways from aforementioned heated debate and make mad, torrid love to you, in the midst of all that passion.
Carve our names into a tree/table.
Go for a walk at dusk together.
Be one with you.
Send you a singing telegram.
Spend all night thinking of 101 sweet things to do for you.
Hold you and gaze into your eyes and realize how much I love you...and tell you.
Gently run my hand across your cheek and look into your eyes.
Blindfold you and take you somewhere romantic.
Spend my life making you happy.
Spend my life making our family happy.
Feel your heartbeat.
See our unborn child/children in your eyes.
Go roller/ice skating together.
Give you a backrub just because.
ALWAYS being honest with each other.
Go hiking/camping together.
Have our first fight, make up and feel a stronger bond because we very successfully weathered the storm - together.
Marry you.
Laugh at someone together.
Share a plate of spaghetti.
Give you a stuffed animal just because.
Go on a fun family vacation and bring back the kind of memories movies are made of.
Treat you like my Lancelot.
Go on a road trip across America.
Count thunder together during a thunderstorm.
Envelop you in my soul.
Cook your favorite meal/meals.
Know you better than you know yourself.
Go to a Renaissance Fair.
Plant a tree in our yard together.
Look over at you during an office/military/family party and have you know without me saying a word that I love you.
Be able to say 'I love you' in 89 different ways in 89 different countries.
Hold you when you're at your saddest and comfort you when you need it the most.
Be the one you come to for that comfort and holding.
Wipe away the days' stresses and issues, with just one hug/kiss.
Grow old with you.
I really cant wait to meet you.

Elena

Letter 11

Honey i want you to know that i have so much inside my heart that it keeps me from breathing sometimes. I know we just met but these feelings that I have for you keep glowing and growing every day. Now that I am with you I sleep thinking about you and the next morning I wake up smiling It's amazing how you got me and trapped me. I never thought I could love this much but I was so wrong I just thank God for having you we are meant for each other and no one can change that I love you with ALL my heart i want you to know that i love you so much and you just don't know it Sometimes I get scared to show it It feels like when you come around me my mouth becomes grid locked and all the words I want to say just stop. My lips clutter because my love is so strong and the words that I want to say just won't be said. Sometimes I want to open up to you and tell you how I feel i guess I am too scared to open up and be real. I know you love me and you have hidden feelings inside too. It seems like it is easier for you to express yourself to me than it is from me to you I love you and know that I will always have hidden feelings for you I will be waiting to hear from you and let me know how you have been doing

Love always

Elena