Letter(s) from Tatyana Osokina to Stefan (Sweden)

Letter 1

Thank you for your warm letter, I was happy to receive it and your true interest in me.
I am also very interested in you and want to know more about you.
Unfortunately I can't chat with you because I have no access to any kind of msn but I hope you won't mind to know more about each other through the letters.
So to tell some words about myself and about my expectations:
I live in the eastern part of Ukraine, in Alchevsk, I am looking for a man to be my one and only love of a lifetime.
I have waited to marry because I wanted that one man upon whom my heart could rest and be content for eternity. My heart reaches out, hoping to find that connection that will feed it and give it warmth and health and energy to sustain it and me - to find that happiness that can only lead to a life of two soul-mates truly merged, complete, and fulfilled for the first times in their lives. I am looking for a companion who shares all of his soul with me alone, and who I trust so much that I also divulge all of my most private secrets to. I'm looking for a man whom I could take care of in any unfortunate times and share in the glory of the good times.
I am hoping for such a man. Could this be you? I think yes.
All we have to is to find this out so let's know each other better.
I think we can do a lot of good together.

But I am not only looking for a person, I live my life and try to make it full of joy and little pleasures. It is pleasure for me to go to the institute and to get knowledge, it is pleasure for me to go with friends to the gym and to play there volleyball or tennis. I can't help living without sports! They give such energy and I feel better when I had a hard game, though exhausted to the end, but so much excitement! I like swimming very much, though i do it mostly in summer when we go to the river, and have much fun together, but I am lonely then, though I am not alone, I am with my friends, but I lack some special person, with whom I want to share all the pleasures of my life, cause all the joys shared, double pleasure from them.
I am hoping for my only and ever half ....
I'll be ready to leave my country for my beloved to live with him andbuild strong and happy family.

About my family,I must say that I live with my father who is a builder and mother who is a technical engineer,we are a very friendly family,and we surely have quarrels sometimes but the reasons of our quarrels are always trifles. I have no brothers or sisters,but I have cousins. I study at the state University,where I study literature,both foreign and native. Plus some general subjects as politics,psychology and etc.
I am still studying and I am going to be a teacher of Russian language and literature, but I also can teach history, when I finish my education. And I should tell you that I also work as a teacher of Russian literature in the school. My pupils are not small children and they are not adults, their age about 12-13 years old....

I like listening to music very much! I like most of up-to-date music such as Mariah Carey,Sting, Mobi, Whitney Houston,etc and I like creating something new in the kitchen, I like to make surprises to my parents...

I like to play tennis and volleyball very much.

I adore reading books about love and watching films, and I don't mind having a friendly gossip with the girls from my group.
So many things that I even don't know how do I manage to do them all.
And what about you? What do you like to do? And what is the color of the sky you would like to have over your head?
Hoping to your letter with a photo soon

My tender hugs and kisses,Masha

Letter 2

Thank you for your warm letter with nice photos and wonderful rose, I was happy to receive it,it told me more about you, it was interesting, I like you very much and happy that I met you in this life,I think we can build strong and happy relations together,I like that you are so serious,honest, sincere, caring and responsible.

I want you to know that I am serious and honest with you and I really want to be happy and to love.

thank you for that you began to teach me Swedish,it is very interesting for me and I'll try to learn those words that you sent me.

Unfortunately I have no voice mail. I liked your house very much and I think it is excellent for building strong and happy family there. Now I want to tell something about me and my inner world. I hope that this can help you to know a bit more about me, and my interest as well as my personality, I have to say you made a great impression on me, and I am doing all I can to impress you. but I also want to tell you, that as tender and loving as I can be, I can also be a bit of a difficult person to sometimes, and I tell you why ?May be that has something to do with my Zodiac sign , and these are some of the things that other people tell about me, and I have noticed a lot of truth in them, as well as my own description of me:

Creative, Passionate, Loving, sensitive, affectionate, determined, hard working, funny, active, a great Dancer, a magical chef in the kitchen, wonderful with kids, great sense of humor, easy going,straight forward, honest, well balanced right brain and left brain, intuitive, swimmer, tennis player, ambitious, always striving for better, perfectionist, warm, make people feel comfortable at once, interesting conversationalist. Self sufficient, appreciative, realizing the best moment in life, and try to enjoy every second of it.

I hope you don't mind if I was carried away a bit , but these are some of the smallest elements that make me , a person ! But I am also a very overly sensitive, stubborn, no tolerance for stupidity, and I don't like to settle for less in life!!!!! I am very easily bored with uninteresting people that have nothing to offer , share or talk about. I need to know that he is thinking about me often.

I want to make my new relationship to last a life time.

Never compromise for some one you do not love, never marry a person that you are not a %100 in love with, thinking that love will come later. Cause once you are married you better make sure that your partner, your soul mate, and your lover is the # 1 person in your life.

He or she should get treated better than any one you have ever lived with or been friends with, you should never do any thing to make him or her feel less than a Man or a Woman. You should treat that person with Love and respect, and to stand behind that person through any thing in life , a one hundred percent.

To be so close to each other that no one can even dare to come between the two of you. To be so comfortable with each other that he or she does not have to find comfort some where else. To satisfy each other's needs physically and sexually that he or she does not have to look else where. Compliment each other on daily basis and tell each other how much that person means to you and your life., and constantly appreciate every minute of your life together.

I can go on and on and perhaps even write a book about relationships and about how I really think two people should treat each other, and to help their marriage last a life time, but the truth is that non of us are perfect and that is the time in our lives that we get to actually practice our knowledge, patience, tolerance, and understanding, coping with problems, and communicating to each other, family values and so on...... Only then we can perhaps make an almost perfect match to an absolute Love and happiness.

I hope you are not bored with my long letter. If you have any questions, you can ask them directly.

My tender kisses,Masha.