Letter(s) from Natalia Beseda to Bj (Norway)

Letter 1

Hello.

First of all I want to thank you for your nice letter and your interest in me. I truly hope that we can develop a good and stable relationship which will grow with time. I hope that our virtual communication will bring us to a real meeting, because we will know each other fully when we see each other in person.

I know that we have a lot of things to write about ourselves, our lives, etc, so I will begin by telling you more about me.

I am 29 years old, my birthday is July, 11, 1977. As for my appearance, I have long brown hair and brown eyes. My height is 170 cm, and I weigh 50 kg. I am from Ukraine. I live in a Southern city Melitopol. After I finished school I attended courses to become a secretary and I have been working as a secretary at the administration of our main post office since then. I don't have a big family, I live with my mother. My dad passed away when I was 12 and those times were very difficult for me and my mom. But we had a great support from the rest of our family as my mother has a lot of siblings and they are very close. And as you can understand I have a lot of cousins who are like real sisters and brothers to me.

When I was a child I liked to go in for sport which was athletics. So I can run very well. If you would like we could have a competition and see who is faster. :) Now my hobbies are very numerous and depending on my mood I like to do different things. I like reading books, watching interesting cognitive programs, preferably about animals or foreign countries (it is a pity that I haven't ever been abroad), dancing, going out with my friends, swimming, playing pool sometimes. I am also fond of nature and I like camping, biking, hiking and everything connected with our beautiful nature. I like to travel when I can. I like to be outdoors. The sea, laying in the sun. I like to grow flowers. My favorites are pink lilies. I love to shop. I like music from classical to rock. Music depends on my mood and who I am with. I also like cooking a lot and I enjoy doing it for my family and friends.

There are a lot of different types of food which I like. I like Ukrainian dishes but I also enjoy Chinese, Japanese and Mexican food. Unfortunately we do not have much cafes or restaurants of those types and I can rarely afford to go there but when I do it with my friends it is a real festival for us.

I like different colors and I cannot really say which is my favourite because I like most of them. I can say that I prefer white and black more, but I often like to dress in bright clothes as they rise my mood and make me feel better.

I am a simple woman. I'm understanding, funny, I like to make everyone laugh, kind, loyal, I will never betray you, respectful, I have a great deal of respect for a man and what he wants, I value what my man has to say. I'm sensitive, romantic, very passionate and much more.

I'd love to spend time with my man. I am a romantic woman and like to do romantic things for him. I like to sit on the porch at night when there is a storm and watch the sky light up from the storm. I like to sit there and snuggle with him wrapped in a blanket so he will be warm. I am a woman who likes to touch. When we are together I like to touch his hair, his arms, his face, where ever I can touch. It makes me feel closer to him. I also can give good massage for him.

I truly hope that we already have a lot of things in common and I will be waiting for your next letter. I hope that you will let me know more about you, your personality, your life, your family, likes and dislikes. I will be glad to hear from you and read everything you have to tell me with pleasure.

My best wishes to you,
Natalia.

Letter 2

Good day dear.

I want to thank you for your letter. I am very interested in knowing more about you. And now please allow me to tell you more about myself.

Let me begin by saying to you that I am very serious about finding my best friend, my love, my second half, my Prince. A man that I can be together with for all time. A man who will be the father of our children. Family is very important to me and I wish to have children. Do you? But if you do not think that you want to have any children I will respect your decision and make you happy in other ways.

I am not here to play games with you and everything I say is the truth. I do not lie and I want for you to know truth about me. If you are serious about finding a woman who will make everyday of your life feel special, about being loved, respected and enjoy what life has to offer us then I am who you seek.

I believe 2 people can fall in love no matter how far apart they live from each other or the difference in language and culture. I know it would not be easy for us at first because of the culture difference but I am ready to except this and do my best to help us. I also want to let you know that I do not know English yet and I am using the Internet and translation service for the moment but I am ready to learn your language with the first given opportunity. I know that I will do my best to adjust to my new life but I have a lot of patience and will use all my time for us to understand each other. I know it can be difficult when 2 people are from different cultures. With some things in common, respect and communication the love will become stronger. We already have many things in common, so learning each others languages and cultures will be a fun road to travel down together, and a journey I am very much looking forward to take hopefully with you. The best part of a relationship is growing together and falling more and more in love as each day passes. I am a woman that can fall very deeply in love, so deep I would catch the moon and give it to him. All my heart and my existence will be just for him. I know these are just words in a letter to you but I tell you the truth. I am a woman that wants and will give my life to my beloved man. This is how I feel. My partner is and will always be the most important part of my life.

You know I look at a couple as a team. What happens if a team is divided? That team cannot win the game. So it is the same in life. When a husband and a wife do not work together, they lose the game of life. Unfortunately, in many instances children are involved, and in turn they lose out as well. A couple needs to have true compatibility. Their love also has to be genuine and real. It is so beautiful when a husband and a wife share such intense love. They are more than just a couple, they are friends, they are partners and they are lovers. It is so beautiful to know that no matter what happens in this cruel world that there is always someone there that loves you, someone who will be there for you, someone to hold you, someone who you can tell your most inner secrets and feelings too, and someone who will always be there no matter what mistakes or problems might happen. This is the type of love I wish for. I want a love that knows no bounds, a love that is unconditional and a love that is intense and passionate.

Physical love is important, but emotional love is perhaps even more so. When there is emotional love - love that you can feel to your inner most soul, physical love can then begin to blossom. In essence, without true emotional love, physical love is flat and repetitious, but when there is real connection of two people from one heart to another, from one soul to another, physical love is then so explosive, passionate, deep and intense - two people truly become one.

I do not care about age difference much. I am sure that older men are more responsible, caring, appreciative, mature and loving. I think it is not important how many years you have, it is important how you feel inside. A heart and a soul don't have any age, they always remain young.

I would also like to speak to you but my phone has been recently stolen and I don't have an opportunity to get a new one yet. I will let you know when I have a new phone so we could talk. I hope you are still interested to know more about me. I would like to know you better. I want to know how you imagine a perfect relationship. Would you like to let me know what happened to your last relationship? But if you do not want to talk about it I will understand. Why you decided to try the Internet? I want to let you know that I am open with you and I want you to know me better so I will write you about my last relationship in my next letter. Please ask me anything you want.

I hope to hear from you soon. I send a kiss to you. I am waiting for your letter.
Natalia.