Letter(s) from Sharon Boatemaa to Ron (USA)

Letter 1

Hi, my name is suley, Its a pleasure to get in contact with you, i decide to send you this message after reading your profile which caught my attention. Anyway i will like to give you my personal email address so that you can contact me direct for us to know more about each other. Below is the address: comingafterlove07@yahoo.com

Letter 2

Hello .This is Suley .I decided to email you telling you about my self.Even if you are not interested just email me back and tell me something.
This is something about me and hope u will love it...... I'm a 32 year old Black African female, single , no kids, 5-6 ft tall, 128 lbs., black hair and fair colour.I live in a refugee camp in the capital city of Ghana - Accra, which is along the coast of Ghana, and have been here since the civil war of Congo and i have been a refugee in this country for five years now ..I lost both parents in this civil war,I am not working at the moment and i live some how a bad life here but trust me i am not a prostitue as some of my friends are since this is the only way we can survive we since we dont have a working permit. I generally try to live a somewhat healthy lifestyle, exercising and some sort of jogging, 3-4 days a week and eating healthy, (trust me, I love sweets and pastries, but try not to over do it). I would also like to find a like-minded male where we can participate in activities together and encourage each other to pursue their interests as well. I have several hobbies (and wish I could find more time to pursue those) such as swimming, playing computer, dancing, and reading, and more,and would like someone to share that with, as well as their sharing their interests with me... I am generally an optimistic person with a sense of humor, fairly easy-going, and I don't think that I'm too critical about things, but I also believe that it takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work. As I mentioned earlier, I like to do things with the other significant person in my life, but I also encourage him to go out and spend time with friends and pursue his own interests and hobbies as well. I believe that time spent apart helps keep things fresh in a relationship and makes the time we DO spend together even better. I'm not one who cheats in a relationship; one man is enough trouble ; I don't have the time or energy to juggle 2, 3, or 4 at the same time - haha. But I also want to be in a relationship where I can totally trust the other person and not dwell on how the relationship is NOT working... I DO NOT expect a man to be a servant to me, spending all his time working and and cleaning; I believe there is give and take in a relationship, and I realize that at times it's more convenient for me to do laundry, cook, clean, and I have no problem doing that. I consider myself to be a fairly honest and truthful person and expect the same in return; I'm not wealthy and don't expect someone to attempt to deceive me or "play" me. Everybody makes mistakes and I usually give people the benefit of the doubt, but if the same pattern keeps emerging, it's over. I do not want to meet someone who may think that they will take advantage of me or lie to me and cheat on me under false pretenses. Sorry if that sounds harsh, and I'm not accusing anybody of any wrongdoing, but I'm being upfront and honest about that, so you know where I stand from the beginning. With all due respect as well, I hope that you are upfront and honest with me, as well. I realize that I am 32 years old and that you are somewhat older than me, if you would still like to correspond, that's fine...we'll see how things go after we get to know each other. Well, I hope that this lets you know a little about me, and I hope I don't come across as being too cynical, harsh, or meansounding. I will give anybody the benefit of the doubt (we're all human, we all make mistakes), but I also don't like being taken advantage of. I'm just asking you to keep it real and be honest from the beginning; that way, nobody is wasting their time or getting their feelings hurt. I also realize that at times two people are just too different to be in a relationship together; it doesn't mean that it's anybody's fault, it's just that they're too different to be compatible. Hope this finds you in good health and that things are well with you. Until next time (and I hope I didn't scare you off), Please i will like for you to also email me back telling me about your self.What you do for work, your family and other things..
A Picture is Attached Under this Message

Letter 3

Hi Ron,
Good to hear back from you too. How are you doing? Hope things is ok with you as i am also fine here. I am interested in getting to know more about each other as i am also single and looking and hope you are that man because you have all the kinds of character i want in a man who will be my husband for life. As i said before age is just a number and i don't have any problem with that. I hope you learn more about me through the message i sent you about my self and also its hard for a girl of my age to lost a parents in a civil war. Right now i don't have any one execpt me and my little brother and also we don't have any family here in ghana so we are both in a refugee camp until the time god will answer my prayers to leave this camp. Anyway you sound very good to me and hope you are the one i am looking. I will be looking for your email again later and also this are some more of my pics hope you will like them. Have a nice day

Letter 4

Hi ron,
How are you doing? Its nice to hear from you. Well i agreed with all your important questions and also sex is very important for me in a relationship as you know. It make us know about each other in many ways and also it will keep us company. I will end my letter here and will be looking forward to hear from you.

Letter 5

Hi Ron,
I am really sorry for not answering your questions. I am very interest in you by then i don't have much time through the living that i am in now. The last time i write you by then i was in hurry trying to get some stuffs done thats why i did not get the chance to get it back to you on that same day. I am sorry once more but pls ask the questions again and just go straight to any question that you will ask so that i will reply you. Have a nice and sweet dreams RON.

Letter 6

Hello Ron ,
I want to express to you what I desire in a man, and what I do not desire. First of all,I am a serious Christian woman and I am Guided by my relationship with Jesus Christ. I say that up front because my faith is very important to me. I will touch on that more later. so I want a man Of faith who Has principles and values. We have all made mistakes in life but need to be guided by something. I want a partner in life, some one to care for, someone I can respect and love, LOVE makes life have a meaning, it is the essence of our existence, LOVE is what makes us human and It is the best feeling in the world. I want a Best friend someone I can share anything with. I need a partner not a judge or someone to tell me what to do. If I find the right man I will spend the rest of my life with him. I do not need a man to cook and clean if that was my desire I would hire a maid.I believe That household chores should be by a couple. I can cook and do laundry sweep mop and all that So if you are interested in a woman to respect you and share life with you let keep on talking and see where this takes us to.As you already know my living standard.

Let me tell you about my past life.Way back in congo i was a happy girl.My dad worked at a Gold Minning Company as a CEO,My mum owned a a Five Star Hotel with a restaurant.We were 4 Children in the Family and i was the first child.All my problems started when a civil war started in my country Congo.It was a war between two Political parties.My dad was also a politician but that was not his profession.The war started on 22nd July 2002.On 23 July 2002 a Military Gang cames to our neigbourhood.Break into our home and killed Both Parents of mine along with 2 other siblings of mine.I was very lucky to have survived because that very day were were at the Library studying with my little brother because i was about to write a promotion exams in the University that would have qualified me to Level 400.Because it was late and i was afraid to drive along the silent streets while comming back home so i asked him to escort me.While at the Libray we started hearing gun shoots and every body was scared togo out.It was around 7:30 Pm.At around 12:00 am every place was quit so i gathered courage to drive home.On the way there were several military road blocks but we were able to get through them because it was my dads car and it had a diplomatic sticker.

We eventually got home to find out that the rest of the families that we left behind was gone.Every body was dead.I am crying as i tell you this story.I remember the last word that i heard from my mum before she died.( Do not stay longer)I was angry when she said that and i am always sad to know that the last face of her surving face she saw was anger.I had to take a couple of my dads documents and the money we had at home so i and my brother could make it away to another country.Airports were closed down.Train Stations were all not working.Dead bodies on the streets.I was strong enough to hold on to my goals.I was really brave that i made it to Ghana.I passed through a lot before getting here.Can u imagine walking 13 Hours continuesly?We got to a place where we were able to get a ship to takes us Ghana.It took us 72 Hours to get to Ghana.You could imagine what i went through.I have really been through pains i was a change in life and i know that only a good and compassionate man can change my life.I know am a low class girl for you and if you are no more interested in me i will understand you.But please always keep me in your prayers that i will one day be a succesful person in life.

I have been able to tell you about my life.Please be bold to ask me any question that you want to know about me and i will give you honest answers.
I was born on the 21st of December 1975 so my birthday is 21st december and below this is my address , 114 Dzorwulu St, Accra-Ghana-00233.

Thank you again for your kind and i will be waiting to hear from you soon.

Letter 7

Hello Ron How are you doing dearest, I am really impressed with your message and i also have the same feelings as you do by then i will only like to tell you about my life story before we can continue to the next step. The name of my Father is Dr. Thomas Moumond Mohammed. Ron have been having a deep feelings about you and will like to be right next to you as your one and only woman cause i know being with you will be like before when i am living with my parents. Also do u stay home all day? I will like to know if you can get a yahoo messanger on your computer so that we can talk instantly on computer. I will be looking forward to hear from you.

Letter 8

Dear Ron,
I went to bed last night with a vision of you next to me. I slept like a baby all night, because I was not feeling alone. When I awoke this morning to see if it was real or if it was a dream, realty hit me that it was only a dream. Very soon, I know that you will be right next me, and that I will not have to dream of it again because you will be right there so we can hold, hug and squeeze each other tight. Baby, I long to be there with you so I can help build you and support you, so that we can accomplish a whole lot together as husband and wife. HAPPY THANKSGIVING.