Letter(s) from Yinka Smith to Grant (Canada)

Letter 1

Hi Matt!!!
How are you Doing Overthere, How was Work and Family? Well I wanted to say thanks again for your interest in getting to know me. I'm sure that you have many questions you would like to ask me. I would be more than happy to answer any question you might have. I'm a very open-book type of person. I thought that I would take this time to tell you who I am as a person. I was very sincere when I wrote my description in my profile. I'm very serious about finding someone to spend the rest of my life with. Of course, it all has to start somewhere and that why we're all here...to find the one that we were meant to be with. As for me...I like to think that I'm a great catch to the one that really is looking for a life time companionship. I'm a very passionate, caring, honest, loving woman and there isn't anything I wouldn't do for the man that I was "In Love With". I have never laid a hand on a man and never well. Matter of fact, all I can do is to cherish a man for what he represents (for he love, caring and thoughtfulness). I'm a very open minded type of person with a huge heart. I don't play games, I don't cheat, I won't ever put someone down for their ideas. Matter of fact, I encourage the idea of hearing someone's ideas and thoughts. I understand that communication is a big factor in a relationship. To make a long story short, all I want to do is be the best Wife and Mother that I can be. I love kids and being around kids. I hope to someday maybe have a child or two of my own. I know in my own heart that my family would always come first, no matter what. men (in general) say that all the good ones are taken. I'm here to say that I'm one of the good ones that haven't been taken yet. A good match for me would be a man that had a lot of the same qualities as I do. That looks at things in the same way as I do, someone that wants to work out the problems when they come along from time to time (as they do in ever relationship). I want to fall in love with someone over and over again each and everyday. I want someone to feel the same way about me. Is this to much to ask for? I don't think so...the last thing that any one should do is to just settle for someone. I believe 100% in my heart that there is someone for everyone. In other words...their soul mate. I truly believe my soul mate is looking for me as much as I'm looking for him. What can I offer him ? That's easy...unconditional love. Other things about me are; I'm a very outdoors type of a person. I'm also a good Girl at heart and everything. I stand up what I believe in and protect the things that are most important to me. Of course that would be my better half and family! I love to go watch movies, going to the lake, working on in the yard, cooking and many more things. I also believe when it comes to house work. You do what you have to do to help out the other person. I guess what I'm looking for is a total comment in all areas of a relationship. So, in a nut shell...there you have it. I do want to say that there's soooooooo much more to me than just what I had written here. This letter is "ONLY" the tip of the iceberg. As I said before, I can show you the door but, it's up to you to walk through and take the time to discover the person I truly am. As a final note, I do want to say thank you for taking the first step by contacting me. i will like to read back from you.Till then Take Care.BYe
Your's Shelley

Letter 2

Hi there Matts!!!!Your words are so sweet and reach me too. I wanted to say thanks for your message,well i want you to know that am real and i dont want anymore to brake my heartanymore, bcos i have been betray and hurt by men that pretened to me that he love me,but i dont know that all what is looking is just for him to had a sex with me and drop me bcos of my beauity. I want you to know that with all what i have pass through by men he make me not to trust any men But my GrandPa let me know that all men are not the same that is why i want to try you, and i know you will be the rigth man that will make me happy in my relationship life also love me and not for who i'm or my beauity. Well i know my duity is to make you happy and make you feel like real man on the bed as well, if you act like the rigth man to me,I want you and me to make this Relationship real. What do you Think? Do u know that in everything we do in life there is always a reward, so to get what you love so much you need to work for it. Am looking for a man i can always wake up to see in the morining the man i will live with for the rest of my life ..kiss anytime i wish too..but i dont want to get hurt and i will never hurt the man i call my husband and i also love having kids ,do u know that in every relationship there most be truth, i need a man that willing to love me and make my days happy cos my old days was bad and sad to me becos i went through alot of pains just to get thing working but everything ran away, that why am looking for a passionate man someone that is going to be there for me when i need him and i will be there when he needs me too,someone that can go any miles to get together and i'm ready to be loved , if you really want my loving i can give it to you just the way you want it.Sweetie i want you to know that no distance of place or lapse of time can lessen the lover of those who are thoroughly persuaded of each other's worth and A true lover is someone who will walk the long way when you don't want to hop the fence. I will like to let you know that Money and power only last the hour, but True love and Understanding withstand the sky above.Pls i really want to know if you really have interest in me and you want to plan together with me bcos am looking for 100% True Love.I would like to know your mind bcos i like open minded people so let me know your mind by reply me back soon. What future do you plan to have with me also do you want me to have a kids for you ?
Your's Shelley.