Letter(s) from Quarshei Steven to Patrick (USA)

Letter 1

Hello Dear..
I'm a Quarshei 32 years old , single , no kids, 5-7 ft tall, 128 lbs., black hair and white colour., I have been in the states befor in Cali in yuba city,after my father death then i come back to Ghana West African and have been studying accounting full-time student for 3 years at the University of Ghana. I generally try to live a somewhat healthy lifestyle, exercising and some sort of jogging, 3-4 days a week and eating healthy, (trust me, I love sweets and pastries, but try not to over do it). I would also like to find a like-minded male where we can participate in activities together and encourage each other to pursue their interests as well. I have several hobbies (and wish I could find more time to pursue those) such as swimming, playing computer, dancing, and reading, and more,and would like someone to share that with, as well as their sharing their interests with me... I am generally an optimistic person with a sense of humor, fairly easy-going, and I don't think that I'm too critical about things, but I also believe that it takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work. As I mentioned earlier, I like to do things with the other significant person in my life, but I also encourage him to go out and spend time with friends and pursue his own interests and hobbies as well. I believe that time spent apart helps keep things fresh in a relationship and makes the time we DO spend together even better. I'm not one who cheats in a relationship; one man is enough trouble ; I don't have the time or energy to juggle 2, 3, or 4 at the same time - haha. But I also want to be in a relationship where I can totally trust the other person and not dwell on how the relationship is NOT working... I DO NOT expect a man to be a servant to me, spending all his time working and and cleaning; I believe there is give and take in a relationship, and I realize that at times it's more convenient for me to do laundry, cook, clean, and I have no problem doing that. I consider myself to be a fairly honest and truthful person and expect the same in return; I'm not wealthy and don't expect someone to attempt to deceive me or "play" me. Everybody makes mistakes and I usually give people the benefit of the doubt, but if the same pattern keeps emerging, it's over. I do not want to meet someone who may think that they will take advantage of me or lie to me and cheat on me under false pretenses. Sorry if that sounds harsh, and I'm not accusing anybody of any wrongdoing, but I'm being upfront and honest about that, so you know where I stand from the beginning. With all due respect as well, I hope that you are upfront and honest with me, as well.we'll see how things go after we get to know each other. Well, I hope that this lets you know a little about me, and I hope I don't come across as being too cynical, harsh, or meansounding. I will give anybody the benefit of the doubt (we're all human, we all make mistakes), but I also don't like being taken advantage of. I'm just asking you to keep it real and be honest from the beginning; that way, nobody is wasting their time or getting their feelings hurt. I also realize that at times two people are just too different to be in a relationship together; it doesn't mean that it's anybody's fault, it's just that they're too different to be compatible. Hope this finds you in good health and that things are well with you. Until next time (and I hope I didn't scare you off), if u are still interesting to know more about me my email address is christianalove2g5@yahoo.com so u can contact me through mailing or u can im me on the yahoo messenger so that we can talk and get to know each other more May the good lord bless you for having enough time to read all this about me Thank you and waiting to hear from you...Take Care...

Letter 2

Hello Patrick.
Thank you so much for that intresting mail that you sent me to day and to be honest with you, that mail let me thinked so much about you today and i have never thought i will thinked that much about someone that i have never seen or meet face to face before but you make me feel that way and i am glad that you have putting that smile on my face thank you for that and wanted you to know that i also care so much about you and with you my life is complete.....I missed you and wanted you now in my life....Patrick....I...Love you.
I am not happy from the begining that you did not tell me how much i do really mean to you and how much you do have your 100% trust in us about this relationship.....I will like you to know that i am really serious about you and can't wait for that special day to come for me and you to meet in real person...I care so much for you and wanted you to know that you are whom that i dream off when i am liitle girl and now here you are with me in my dream and wanted it to come reality betwee me and you.....I do love you Patrick.....You are my world and i do care for you in my life....But i dont wanted you to hurt me in this relationship we are going to build up together from time to time to come now...I am really greatful that i met you in my life and i am sure you are here to fullfil my desire of being with the right man.

Letter 3

My Dearest Patrick,
I’ve been a lot of places and I’ve seen a lot of things. I have seen handsome men everywhere that I’ve been, and I honestly have to say that I have never in my life seen anything as beautiful as you. You are absolutely captivating, and I consider myself very blessed to have met you. I never knew that I could think this way about anyone, especially someone as far away as you are, but I know my thoughts about you, and I’m aware of what I’m feeling. Every part of me longs to know you better, and every day I grow more and more anxious to meet you. Sometimes I have to stop and think to myself. The distance between us is aggravating. I wonder what it’s like to sit and talk to you, and I imagine in my mind how wonderful it must be to hold you. I would cherish you every day, and I would be careful to let you know that nothing would be right without you in my world,Bcos i care so much about you and needed you in my life as my one and only lover.

Every day I look at your picture and I realize it’s your eyes. I can tell that your skin is soft and smooth and that you take very good care of yourself. Your figure is pleasing to the eye and I love the clothes you wear. Your smile lights up any room that you walk into, but it’s your eyes that speak to my very heart. Your pictures help me to understand things about you. But nothing can replace being able to sit with you and talk with you. I understand that you want to get to know each other better before we meet, but I’m so curious about you that I know I’m ready to meet you right now or later if that is ok with you. This is not an easy thing. You are on the other side of the world and it would take a lot to get me there, but if you’re not afraid and willing to meet me then we can start talking about meeting each other but it will take us up next month to be together. I’m not afraid. Somehow I know you and I don’t understand how. Still, I know that we have to take our time. You want to be sure and I do too. I’ve missed talking with you today and I’m going to do whatever it takes to be able to get online and talk with you ever day. I’m going to take more pictures and send them to you so you can see every side of me. I want you to understand my fears and my doubts. I want you to know what makes me happy and what makes me sad. I want you to know what makes me angry and how to deal with me when I’m angry, and I want to understand those same things about you.

If I could I would come to state right now. I don’t know what your culture would say about you seeing me while I’m there since we’re not married, but I would hope to be able to spend time with you and talk with you. I would want to take me to lunch and maybe sit down and have dinner with your family. I would want you to teach me your culture and I want to understand how a woman conducts herself in your country. I want to meet your family and get their approval to have a relationship with you, and I would want to meet your mother and your grandmother so I could know them too. Am I asking for too much? Am I talking too much?
Let’s make this work. There is no distance that should keep us from each other. We can overcome distance if we decide to have each other in our cloths..I missed you so much and can't wait to talk to you online soon today...With much love and care.............Princess Quarshei.....Love always...Kisss and Hug..Hahaha