Letter(s) from Evelyn Ashamatey to Hans (Sweden)

Letter 1

I was going to sleep and I try to say good night to you.. Hope to talk with you soon.. Bye Evelyn

Letter 2

Hello Dear
Well How are you doing today how is life and everything Well am fine here to startI am Evelyn ,single looking without no children, 5-6 ft tall, 133 lbs., black hair and chocolate colour....I'm born and raised in Ghana since Ghana is my motherland living with my Mom and Mark now... I am an honest and good Christian who loves being surrounded by family, friends and holidays. I am ready for a serious relationship and I really look forward to starting that with the right person. I am an honest,loyal, passionate, generous, giving, affectionate, sexual, supportive, sensitive, and a good listener who is easy to get along with. I am outgoing and very spontaneous. I am someone who is comfortable in a pair of jeans, drinking a beer as in a black silk dress, sipping a glass of wine. I like the outdoors as I like to just stay at home. Hang around the house getting my hands dirty in the yard. Love to entertain.. I am generally try to live a somewhere healthy lifestyle, exercising and some sort of joggings, 1-2 days a week and eating healthy, trust me, I love sweets and pastries such as ice cream,biscuits,cheeps,fun ice,fun pop,yogurt and fun milk, but try not to over do it in my life and i do not smoke or drink .... I do also have some funs to such as fishing,boating,cooking,going to the beach and i do want to participate all this funs with the person in my life.. I am generally an optimistic person with a sense of humor, fairly easy-going, and I don't think that I'm too critical about things in my life, but I also believe that it takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work since we all do believe in Almighty God the Saviour ooops so you do? As I mentioned earlier, I like to do things with the other significant person in my life, but I also encourage him to go out and spend time with friends and pursue his own interests and hobbies as well. I believe that time spent apart helps keep things fresh in a relationship and makes the time we do spend together even better. I'm not one who cheats in a relationship; one man is enough trouble ; I don't have the time or energy to juggle 1, 2, or 3 at the same time - lol. But I also want to be in a relationship where I can totally trust the other person and not well on how the relationship is not working... I do not expect a man to be a servant to me, spending all his time working and and cleaning this are all responsibilities of a woman, I believe there is give and take in a relationship but in not here for one's funds or materials or other things since all this are not included in a relationship, But am here looking for some one honest,truthful,God fearing and i good listener, and I realize that at times it's more convenient for me to do laundry, cook, clean, and I have no problem doing that.lol I consider myself to be a fairly honest and truthful person and expect the same in return; I'm not too wealthy and don't expect someone to attempt to deceive me or "play" me.. Everybody do not want to meet someone who may think of taking advantage of me or lie to me and cheat on me under false pretenses,i do never lie,deceive,play games or cheat in my life and never wants to be cheated,deceive,lie or been played games with in my life.makes mistakes and no one is 100% perfect.. I usually give people the benefit of the doubt, but if the same pattern keeps emerging, it's over.I am sorry if this sounds harsh, and I'm not accusing anybody of any wrong doing, but I'm being upfront and honest about that, so you know where I stand from the beginning. In relationship i do believe there should be trustee,believe and understand because this are all the most important thing relationship have to go with and without all this between the two couples i don't think the relationship will work and last forever which i do always pray to Almighty God to have such a person who have all this in his heart in my life... With all due respect as well, I hope that you are upfront and honest with me, as well. I realize that I am 35 years old and that you are somewhere Older than me, if you would still like to correspond, that's fine...we'll see how things go after we get to know each other by Almighty God's name...and also Ages does not matters in Love and distance. Well, I hope that this lets you know a little about me, and I hope I don't come across as being too cynical, harsh, or mean sounding to you? I will give anybody the benefit of the doubt (we're all human beings with the same red blood in out bodies, we all make mistakes in life and i want to learn more about life in a relationship more and more),I'm just asking you to keep it real and be honest from the beginning; that way, nobody is wasting his Or her time or getting his or her feelings hurt. I also realize that at times two people are just too different to be in a relationship together; it doesn't mean that it's any body's fault, it's just that they're too different to be compatible.Hope this finds you in good health and that things are well with you.lol Have you ever felt loved before with anyone in your life before ? and can you tell me what love means to you? I think love is caring about someone in spite of their faults not just desiring the Yes I have loved, I am not really sure that i have been loved in the way people talk about though, I have always felt something was missing. love to me Is putting someone before yourself. It is desiring their pleasure more than your own. The bible says a man is to love his wife as Christ loved the church, to me that means he should be willing to give his life for her. As a friend used to say God said it, I believe it, and that settles it good. I think Love is trusting,I think Love is Kind,i think Love is listening and i think Love is giving. I think to be in love is to want to spend time with someone more than anything physically,mentally,chemically from heart to heart,soul to soul,body to body,mind to mind and everything in your life with him. I think being in Love is wanting to pleasure someone in the way you conduct your life and wanting to please them physically weather that be staring into their eyes or a long walk or an understanding touch or providing their material needs or satisfying their sexual needs. but most of all I think it is just being there no matter what good or bad... About The Person Am looking for I'm seeking a serious long term relationship and more. Someone who is responsible, respectful, can take care of themselves, and who is employed.special to capture my heart and knows how to handle it with care, one who will cherish me and be willing to share life's greatest joys and sorrows. Someone who's willing to spoil, pamper and love me unconditionally, whom is kind, sincere, honest, passionate, loyal, sense of humor, loving and wants a lifetime of passion.and also knows how to have fun but can be serious when needed., so only serious inquiries will be accepted.I hope to hear from you soon I'm looking for a soul-mate...a best friend for life! Someone I could talk to about anything....A good listener, smart and funny! I'd give the same to the ONE !! Who knows - may be you are my twin-soul What is your idea of the perfect first date..?? It is always good to meet in a neutral place like a coffee shop or a place with music in the background so you can chat. Ideas of a perfect date could be a romantic dinner followed by a stroll in the moonlight,have a night of bowling and go to a pub afterwards. Planning together a event or activities you both would like. These are just a few ideas to work with. What is your perception of an ideal relationship..?? Spending time together and when your apart you don't forget the other person. Being able to share your feelings and show your emotions freely. Being there to support and stand up for that special someone. What have you learned from past relationships..??? I have learned from past experiences that honesty and listening are very important. Communication is important. Never try and change that person but take them with all their faults. Be caring and thoughtful. Never go to bed mad or angry. Discovering new things together day to day helps keep the relationship alive. i will stop here Evelyn

Letter 3

Good Evenning Hans.
How are you doing there Today...I am just here doing nothing missing you so much, so i just came and write you email
I will be part of your whole. There's nothing impossible in love especially when we are meant to be by the grace of God. I will wait for you...because I really love you and I won't stop in loving you...it's a promised. Whenever we meet again it's really a destiny and the destiny is neither a choice nor a chance but it is written, should be materialized and blessed.

Always loving you,

Letter 4

You are the reason for all my happiness. I want to let you know that you mean more to me than life itself and I thank God for having a wonderful husband: kind, loving, honest, respectable as you are, my sweetheart. Remember that I will always love and adore you for the rest of our lives we share together. God bless us sweetheart. May the love of God make us last forever.
I adore you with all my heart and I always will Love, your princess wife, Evelyn I love you,Hans

Letter 5

Hello sweetheart... Thank you a lot for your interesting email... You have nice things about you , and I can't wait to be with you forever. Allan,how long do you want me to stay with you ... for some month,years or forever
Respectful: oh that sound great dear,my darling, my sweet love of my life. I am writing to you because I wanted to let you know, Sweetie, that with you by my side makes my whole life complete.Hans.the way your sweet words come out from your loving heart means the world to me. Yesterday you made me feel so high in the clouds when you told me that I am your whole life. Baby, how you said this and the soft whisper and tenderness of your voice make me weak kneed. My love, you’re an angel from up above. My love I have in my heart is filled with joy and happiness because I have you as my husband and nothing in this world is more precious and sincere as your love. I swear by god you and only you can make all my dreams come true.........I will end here , Bye Evelyn

Letter 6

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Letter 7

Good Afternoon Hans,,,
I am just sitting on my pc and wanted to write you this letter,because i miss you. I wish I didn't have to miss you. If only you could be with me always. I know I could never be any happier. But then again, I know that the day will come when I will be able to spend my every waking moment with you. I even miss you when I am sleeping! I love you, babe. You are my first and my only love, and I thank you for be so kind with my heart. Hopefully, soon I won't have to hate missing you.Love Always,