Letter(s) from Deborah Boateng to Jonathan (USA)

Letter 1

I'm a 30year old Black African female, single , no kids, 5-4 ft tall, 124 lbs., black hair and chocolate colour.I live in the capital city of Ghana - Accra, which is along the coast of Ghana, and have been studying accounting full-time student for 3 years at the University of Ghana..I graduated from the university and now looking for a nice job to do , I generally try to live a some what healthy lifestyle, exercising and some sort of jogging, 3-4 days a week and eating healthy, (trust me, I love sweets and pastries, but try not to over do it).

I would also like to find a like-minded male where we can participate in activities together and encourage each other to pursue their interests as well. I have several hobbies (and wish I could find more time to pursue those) such as swimming, fishing, dancing, and reading, and more, and would like someone to share that with, as well as their sharing their interests with me... I am generally an optimistic person with a sense of humor, fairly easy-going, and I don't think that I'm too critical about things, but I also believe that it takes two people
contributing to a relationship to make it work..

As I mentioned earlier, I like to do things with the other significant person in my life, but I also encourage him to go out and spend time with friends and pursue his own interests and hobbies as well. I believe that time spent apart helps keep things fresh in a relationship and makes the time we DO spend together even better. I'm not one who cheats in a relationship; one man is enough trouble ; I don't have the time or energy to juggle 2, 3, or 4 at the same time - haha.

But I also want to be in a relationship where I can totally trust the other person and not dwell on how the relationship is NOT working... I DO NOT expect a man to be a servant to me, spending all his time working and and cleaning; I believe there is give and take in a relationship, and I realize that at times it's more convenient for me to do laundry, cook, clean, and I have no problem doing that.

I consider myself to be a fairly honest and truthful person and expect the same in return; I'm not wealthy and don't expect someone to attempt to deceive me or "play" me. Everybody makes mistakes and I usually give
people the benefit of the doubt, but if the same pattern keeps emerging, it's over.

I do not want to meet someone who may think that they will take advantage of me, or lie to me and cheat on me under false pretenses. Sorry if that sounds harsh, and I'm not accusing anybody of any wrongdoing, but I'm being upfront and honest about that, so you know where I stand from the beginning. With all due respect as well, I hope that you are upfront and honest with me, as well. I realize that I am 30 years old and that you are somewhat Older than me, if you would still like to correspond, that's fine...we'll see how things go after we get to know each other.

Well, I hope that this lets you know a little about me, and I hope I don't come across as being too cynical, harsh, or meansounding. I will give anybody the benefit of the doubt (we're all human, we all make mistakes), but I also don't like being taken advantage of. I'm just asking you to keep it real and be honest from the beginning; that way, nobody is wasting their time or getting their feelings hurt.

I also realize that at times two people are just too different to be in a relationship together; it doesn't mean that it's anybody's fault, it's just that they're too different to be compatible. Hope this finds you in good health and that things are well with you. Until next time (and I hope I didn't scare you off), Reply soon

I did a letter search on Stop and got 16 hits with the following phrase. ‘I consider myself to be a fairly honest and truthful person’. None of the women used the same photos as this person. I also did a search of the Ghana data base and didn’t find the pics either. Guess I’ll write and nicely challenge her and see what happens.

Letter 2

hello i dont know wat you are talking about decietfulness here.i am na african from ghana..i used to live in ohio,columbus when i won a ticket to the usa through a lottery..you hve to get that..im hoping to hear from you soon....
take care and stat blessed...

Letter 3

i think iu have explained everything to you.i would like you to tell me wat plans you have for us?..

Letter 4

how are you doin once again my dear?..i understand what you are saying..you hve to accept me on yahoo so that we talk fi see that you are seriouse with me then you can see me on cam because i dont hve a cam ..its my firend who has it and i can take if from her if we get more seriouse i hope you understand me ...