Letter(s) from Kathy Lee James to E. P. (Canada)

Letter 1

Hello Dear,

This is little i have in mind that want to express to you what I desire in a man and what I do not desire. First I am a serious Christian woman and I am Guided by my relationship with Jesus Christ ( the son And Same Msnger Of God ) I say that up front because my faith is very important to me.I will touch on that more later. so I want a man Of faith who Has principles and values. we have all made mistakes in life but need to be guided by something. i want a partner in life some one to care for, someone I can respect. I want a Best friend someone I can share anything with and see what that can lead us too next.I need a partner not a judge or someone to tell me what to do. I had a loving and caring father who died years ago and gone may he rest in perfect peace and i do seek to replace him. I do not need a man to cook and clean if that was my desire I would hire a maid.I believe That household chores should be by a couple.

My name is Kathy and i am 29 years old single, 5-9 ft tall, 132 lbs, I was born and brought up in Yukon, Canada and i am presently doing my masters in Economics and computer technology here in Nigeria, i moved here shortly after the demise of my both parents to join my grandma who is working here with an engineering company and she is the one seeing me through school but i will be coming back to Yukon, Canada in less than few more days because that's when i will be done with my masters in Economics and computer technology.I am ready for a serious relationship and I really look forward to starting that with the right person. I am an honest,loyal, passionate, generous, giving, affectionate, sexual, supportive, sensitive, and a good listener who is easy to get along with. I am outgoing and very spontaneous.

I am generally an optimistic person with a sense of humor, fairly easy-going, and I don't think that I'm too critical about things in my life, but I also believe that it takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work, since we all do believe in Almighty God the savior ooops so you do? As I mentioned earlier,I like to do things with the other significant person in my life, but I also encourage him to go out and spend time with friends and pursue his own interests and hobbies as well. I believe that time spent apart helps keep things fresh in a relationship and makes the time we do spend together even better.

I am here looking for some one honest,truthful,god fearing and i good listener, and I realize that at times it's more convenient for me to do laundry, cook, clean, and I have no problem doing that.lol I consider myself to be a fairly honest and truthful person and expect the same in return; I'm not too wealthy and don't expect someone to attempt to deceive me or 'play' me..
I do not want to meet someone who may think of taking advantage of me or lie to me and cheat on me under false pretenses,i do never lie,deceive,play games or cheat in my life and never wants to be cheated,deceive,lie or been played games with in my life, mistakes and no one is 100% perfect..I usually give people the benefit of the doubt, but if the same pattern keeps emerging, it's over.I am sorry if this sounds harsh, and I'm not accusing anybody of any wrong doing, but I'm being upfront and honest about that, so you know where I stand from the beginning.In relationship i do believe there should be trustee,believe and understand because this are all the most important thing relationship have to go with and without all this between the two couples i don't think the relationship will work and last forever which i do always pray to Almighty God to have such a person who have all this in his heart in my life...With all due respect as well, I hope that you are upfront and honest with me, as well. I realize that I am 29years old and that you are somewhere Older than me, if you would still like to correspond, that's fine...we'll see how things go after we get to know each other by Almighty God's name...

Well, I hope that this lets you know a little about me, and I hope I don't come across as being too cynical, harsh, or mean sounding to you? I will give anybody the benefit of the doubt (we're all human beings with the same red blood in out bodies,We all make mistakes in life and i want to learn more about life in a relationship more and more),I'm just asking you to keep it real and be honest from the beginning; that way, nobody is wasting his Or her time or getting his or her feelings hurt.
I also realize that at times two people are just too different to be in a relationship together; it doesn't mean that it's anybody's fault, it's just that they're too different to be compatible.Hope this finds you in good health and that things are well with you.lol Have you ever felt loved before with anyone in your life before ? and can you tell me what love means to you?
I think love is caring about someone in spite of their faults not just desiring the Yes I have loved, I am not really sure that i have been loved in the way people talk about though, I have always felt something was missing.love to me Is putting someone before yourself. It is desiring their pleasure more than your own. The bible says a man is to love his wife as Christ loved the church, to me that means he should be willing to give his life for her.As a friend used to say God said it, I believe it, and that settles it good. I think Love is trusting,I think Love is Kind,i think Love is listening and i think Love is giving. I think to be in love is to want to spend time with someone more than anything physically,mentally,chemically from heart to heart,soul to soul,body to body,mind to mind and everything in your life with him.

I think being in Love is wanting to pleasure someone in the way you conduct your life and wanting to please them physically weather that be staring into their eyes or a long walk or an understanding touch or providing their material needs or satisfying their sexual needs. but most of all I think it is just being there no matter what good or bad..
I'm seeking a serious long term relationship and more. Someone who is responsible, respectful, can take care of themselves, and who is employed.special to capture my heart and knows how to handle it with care, one who will cherish me and be willing to share life's greatest joys and sorrows.I have added some of my photos here for you to see and i am hoping you will send some of yours back to me.Someone who's willing to spoil, pamper and love me unconditionally, whom is kind, sincere, honest, passionate, loyal, sense of humor, loving and wants a lifetime of passion.and also knows how to have fun but can be serious when needed.,
So only serious inquiries will be accepted.I hope to hear from you soon I'm looking for a soul-mate...a best friend for life! Someone I could talk to about anything....A good listener, smart and funny! I'd give the same to the ONE !! Who knows - may be you are my twin-soul What is your idea of the perfect first date. Here We Go .. Hope It Seems So lovely for You To know a Little About Me Thanks Much !!!I guess i have really say much about me i need to end it over here.