Letter(s) from Jessica Pullen to Glenn (USA)

Letter 1

My name is Jessica, I am 28, Single and never been married...I would describe myself as a confident,very easy to get along with,I try to avoid drama and crisis at all cost.There's a lot to be said about "peace of mind",both yours and mine.I'm honest,warm hearted, and considerate of others feelings.I like to laugh and have fun.I'm well mannered,well traveled,I haven't dated in a long time.Though I don't come from a perfect world,I have learned a lot in my life and it has given me a clearer view to life.I am creative and independent personality.I'm an hard working woman who puts in a lot of hours,but I think It's time to work less and start enjoying the things life has to offer,BALANCE is the key,having a partner will bring everything more in to balance.I actually enjoy communicating within a relationship,I’m not afraid of commitment,I can engage in an intelligent conversation,and I always try to do the right thing—especially when no one is looking.I know I am not perfect,and I’m very aware that I still make plenty of mistakes.Most important though,I have a great sense of humor,I try not to take anything too serious,most especially myself,and I laugh as often as I can.I have checked my baggage a long time ago so there will not be any baggage drama lol,Went to Europe 2 years ago. Barcelona,Milan,Paris and here I am in the western part of Africa,Nigeria on a business trip.What a blast! I'm not getting any younger so it's time i settle down with the man of my dreams.I am gentle,nice and caring and i do the normal things such as going to the cinema,dance,sing and i also love reading.I hope to meet someone nice,caring,responsible and smart.A man who will be there for me at all times.He should be willing to be there when the ship sails in a stormy weather and will still be there when the sea is calm.A man who will listen to me when the whole world does not wanna listen...I'd like to meet a well mannered man who is understanding and enjoy the simple pleasures in life.I don't like people who are loud,arrogant,self-centered,dishonest or mean.I want a together and forever type relationship...I was born in San Diego,California,but i lived in the Great London,UK all my life, My college education was at Brunel University - West London.The reason behind me been brought up in England is because my parent died when i was only 6 years old and my aunt in the United Kingdom was the one whom nurtured me and she also died in 2006 after her third child bearing...Well i am alive today and glory be to God,I graduated from college with a BA in Marketing in May of 2007.I believe in God so much and also working hard,not only did i graduate,I graduated with and overall GPA of 3.9, but i finished my undergraduate degree in two years as opposed to the usual four! I love everything about life and i am currently in the western region of Africa and i am here to resolve an important issue concerning my business.I am sure you will be wondering what is it i do....Well i am into buying and selling of African attires (Fabrics),I have two pictures of myself attached with this message for you to see...I will also describe myself as an adventurous and out-going person.I enjoy trying new things and meeting new people. I consider myself to be very open-minded, honest, compassionate, and humorous person.I also have a good sense of humor as my friends will say...I am new to this online dating scene,I consider myself to be a caring,loving,confident,smart,sweet and very kind human being. I value honesty and good manners.I'm a very simple person but at the same time, I have style and presence.My Height 5'7" Dress 9 Bust 34B Waist 28 Hips 36 Shoes 7 Hair Brown,Eyes Brown.My outlook on life is ambitious, practical and virtuous and my goal are career,family and knowledge.I like house parties and creativity. Dinner at a quite restaurant will suffice.My favorite place to visit will be the Bahamas, or new horizon.I have always wanted to go to Egypt to see the big images...LOL,I like to hang out with Intellectuals, Professionals or Cultured people and I enjoy eating Health foods, French and BBQ food.I prefer to listen to blues, soul and easy listening music.I read two books at the time "A book by Toni Morrison...key phrases: billy boy, monachy street." And the other by Richard Templar and it's The Rules of Life: A Personal Code for Living a Better, Happier, More Successful Life.The qualities i look for in a mate are, Honesty, caring and a gentle spirit.Simple lifestyle and a loving personality.I don’t chew tobacco,I respect good values and hard work. I do believe in true love, and the commitment that it takes while you are in one. I love to travel and have fun,I'm passionate and loving.... I believe that trust and open communication can prevent misunderstandings in a relationship and prevent pain, which I'm sure we all have experienced one or many times in a lifetime. I'm not looking for perfection, but instead I'm looking for someone perfect for me. I'm ready to love someone not just anyone. I don't know whom this will be, but I'm ready not like i am desperate but i do need a man that is kind, sweet, strong,caring and honest...I seek for someone that will work hard for what he wants,Someone that won't be scared to be reborn from the ashes and build a new and a better life.Someone that doesn't run when love appears at his door; A man, a child at heart, someone that likes to smile, play, live life to his fullest and also love and respect himself and family. I want a strong and gentle man that I can be proud to call him my man,my companion,my friend, my lover and also my husband.It's easy to find beauty,it's hard to find true love.I have learnt to value what is inside of the box,I'm not saying the outside does not carry it's importance, but one without the other does not complete its purpose.I want a good and understanding man that I can talk to without words,that i can let myself go and feel protected and cherished i am not ready for any head games as i am tired of been deceived.I need a straight forward man that would understand me and also listen to me so we can talk things out and sort it our way.I'm looking for a serious relationship with someone special who can help make each day special.Believe me i have learnt so much about life both in hardship and also enjoyments,I leave a very careful life and also been honest because i figured life is to short for any kind of dishonesty.There is nothing so special about me really i am just a simple lady that loves everything about life...I am simply looking for a well mannered man,caring, loving, trustworthy and easy going he should also be understanding.Honesty matters to me a lot,I believe before a good friendship is earned it requires a lot of trust.I would like us to start as a friend then we see where it leads too.My name is Jessica Ann Pullen in full and i am currently in located in West Africa (Nigeria) to be precise.I don't have kids but i love been around kids so much and i believe i am going to have mine someday,I consider myself well mannered and open minded,easy going and very affectionate.I know that anything earned out of dishonesty does not last so i wont choose that part.I have been told that I am an extremely passionate person that has a magnetic personality.Well i long to have a best friend again.seems that's hard to find this days...I enjoy late night talks and believes Waking up in the middle of the night and knowing you can roll over and hug someone during a thunderstorm is the best!!!!Do you agree with me???I enjoy drinking wine, touching fingertips,Sitting on a park bench and just staring at the water.I appreciate a full moon and eating an ice cream cone on a hot summer night..I enjoy dining out but would really enjoy to have an intimate dinner for two at home. I enjoy going to the movies,and also listening to good music like i said earlier....I possess an unquenchable thirst for knowledge...Well i hope you are physically fit..lol....and have an outgoing personality...Hopefully you are someone that wants a Wife ??A man that looks at the woman in he's life as the person he wants to escape with rather than from.... I also enjoy the finer things in life, restaurants, theater, opera, the beach....do you ??Please send me more photos if you do have i would love to see more of you.Before i end this message i would like to say , Age is no barrier for me,age is just a mere number to me,Maturity is at heart. What maters most is the love and feeling we share between each other that makes us happy, Lest I forget, I'm willing to relocate for the right man if the need calls for it...Love can touch us anywhere.I just believe in Commitment, Honesty, Loyalty, sincerity. we can make anything work if we set out do it the right way...,Just somebody to be thinking of when I'm lonely at night...I want to build a happy home where me and my family would all support each other to achieve our individual goal,I am looking for a warm,thoughtful,loyal,caring,reliable,understanding,romantic man to share my life with.If you feel that we have much in common, what we need to each other, what you'd like to get know more about me, I'd like my future husband to give me a wonderful feeling - to feel a woman being with him. I'd like him to love my children and look forward to their birth. I'll give something special to my husband: affection, home warmth and care.I'll do my best to be understanding and forgiving wife because family's life demands much patience. If it is necessary I can collect all my strength and support my husband. I would create warm and cozy atmosphere in my future family with great pleasure. I'd like everybody to feel nice and happy...I hope I have not scared you off with more information.If there is something you want to know just ask!

Hope to hear from you soon.

Letter 2

I am currently facing a serious issue here with the new government rate of VAT(value added tax),The vat as automatically changed the cost of everything and as you know i am in out here in West Africa purposely for business reasons.I am into buying and selling of African attires and i major in Adire and Lace fabrics,These clothing materials are very nice and affordable to my customers.The adire are hand made clothing materials here and the Lace are very good clothing materials too but more expensive than the adire,The Lace materials are used partially for anything,Major native wears and also underwear's and a lot more.I have attached with the message the photos of this clothing materials and the first 3 are adire and the last 3 are called lace fabrics.I have gotten these clothing materials in bulk and it's ready for shipment to various country where i have demand from but since the cost of the Vat has affected things here and the charges of the shipping and other documents that has to be pasted on this goods before it been shipped as increased and it's normal sometimes in business for such issues to arise,So it was nothing to me because i have some money orders i could cash to get things sorted and even have enough left,When i filled out this money orders to cash them in exchange for cash and the banker told me that these payments are valid payment and can only be cashed in the United states because they are domestic united states payment and advice that when next i am getting money orders to cash in any country am to pick up international money orders or traveler's check that i wont have any issues cashing them,Well i have tried possible ways i can get them cashed or raise money and nothing has happened have even been to the embassy to get some help and i was told it's some personal issue i can resolve myself.I was advice to contact friends or relatives to help me with funds to get ticket and then when i get back to the states i should cash them and send funds to the shipping agency here to control the shipment to the various buyers,Well it's a good idea but i don't have any relative i can contact for assistance or any friends who can help right now,I have gone out of my way to ask the 2 old friends i have and they understood but cant help right now so i am just in a fix.Honey do you believe that that for any relationship to work , we must work together through anything , that we experience. No matter , if it is a problem with money, with beliefs, or feelings. When one of us is lacking in one area, I believe the other one is there to help out the other or pick up the slack for a time. This doesn't mean we do it forever, but just while the other person needs help with money problems, stress, feeling, worries , or even doubts. For us to work as well as our feelings we have for each other are we must compromise . I adore you so much, and i know you care about me so much and once i get here I know it will be so much easier for you to know how i feel towards you....I am needing a financial support and i will be paying back when i arrive the states,I don't know how you feel about lending me money since we just met but i want you to give me the benefit of doubt cause i believe the journey of a thousand miles begins with a step and I'm trying to take a step of meeting you in person and see where we go from there...My outlook on life is Ambitious, Practical and Virtuous and my goals are Career, Family and Knowledge.I feel like have known you for years that was why i came out straight to tell you what I'm facing here cause i believe problem shared is half solved,Even the tough-hearted, I figure out those who believe people should solve their own problems, might come to admire your tenderness which they don't find in themselves,So the people you help will be grateful, and the people who see your balance between self and others will admire you. Certainly, balanced is not bad at all as a way to be known among your friends.So kindly find a place in your heart to assist me and i promise I'll pay back when i come over and I wont let you down.

I look forward to hearing from you soonest

Very best regard's