Letter(s) from Olga Bausheva to Corbett (USA)

Letter 1

hello,its the lady that send you message on yahoo personals before and now i see your response in my email...Well,first of all i am not from United States and even never been there,do not get me wrong but yahoo is not popular here and it gave me no chance to put the right location,i am from Ukraine, the name of city i live is Cherkasy.
Have you ever correspond with lady from an other country ?
because it is something different than to talk to someone in your city :) are you agree with me ? coz there could be many surprises,pleasure and un pleasure for both who start correspond like that.Do you really need it ?
Please stop to think above,it is not the easy way.
Well,i just do not want to make you bother talking a lot,i am not sure if that is really you are looking for,but i know what i want for my self,sure,.so i am looking abroad,in US..
do you travel ? where have you been if so ? I do travel.
if you are healthy and open for relations,but not for virtual sex,nude chat,and other nasty things,belive me i just do not have any time and i am not about it at all, because few men asked to send them my nude picture and i am little bit scary now, i hope you can understand how i feel :)
i am not scary that someone want to see nude pictures, it is normal interest,but just why do they looking on dating site ?
if there are a lot of porno sites and many ladies ready to help :)
my name is Alena,i am 28 years old,5'7 tall, 120 lbs weigh,extremely beautiful with sense of humor, no kids,just recently divorce last year.
My ex cheated on me with some chicks,sad story, may be the main problem was alcohol,but it is not important for me any more-because he never tried to take off.
I have no bad habits i mean smoking or drinking too much.
I work as psychotherapist for 5 years in private clinic, my birthday is 16 of November,yes this month.
when is your birthday ?
what is your favorite season ?
send me some pics if you have,i wish to look.
i have a picture to attach, it is from my last vacation.
what do you do for living ?
are you single with your heart now ?
sure ? please only the truth, i promise the same from my end

Let me know if you feel it could be destiny, if you are not interested, i wish you the best of luck

best regards and warm hello

Alena

Letter 2

Hello there,its Alena.i am glad to get your response,i thought will you answer or ignore and now i see your note here.
How are you doing there ?
I am fine,have finished my work for today and have no special plans for the evening, what about you ?
About our age difference,does it make you bother or do you have any problems in relations with young woman i mean younger than you ?
I hope not,i think that for man it is normal when there is an age difference because i belive the man should be more clever and have more experience and should teach lady all the time.I have no problem and i do not see any barrier to date the man who is older than me.
I can say that most of young man do not know how to treat lady and think about themselves the most of all.
But every lady like when man take care,are you agree ?
Do you like to take care of lady ? I mean to treat lady as your best friend and not as only sexual partner, but any way the harmony in relations is impossible without harmony in sexual relations,do you think so ?
I do know how to treat man and how to make him feel special and i have experience being married,not only words.
Now my aim is not just to marry-i have went throw this already.
As you know every woman wish to marry and could be blind, and people make a lot of mistakes when they are young, and we have to pay for our mistakes later,i have paid by my nervous and health.
Any way nothing has been changed inside of my heart and it is able to love and i am ready for true love, i never loose hope and i belive there are a lot honest man in this World.
I do belive in Destiny and i know it has something for me also, so i look on things around me and i put attention on what is going on.
Do you belive in Destiny ? I have one picture to send now and i will send some with the next letter,i write from Internet cafe because my ex took the computer and car after divorce.
I lost my dad in auto accident when i was 20 and i have only mommy and cousins,they live not far from Cherkasy and sometimes we get for a meeting but not too much often because every one is busy.
I have few girlfriends here also and i proud of them.
Do you drive ? i have licence but no car now.
What kind of music do you prefer ? do you like to read ?
what is your favorite kitchen ? i mean kind of food you like the most.
do you cook ? :) Do you have a dream ? something you wish in the close future.I enjoy popular music,Madonna,r&b,house music.
Well,i need to go

take care :)

Yours Alena

Letter 3

Hello there its Alena here, how are you doing ? i am very glad to hear from you,you make my evening,thank you.
Sorry for that i can not come here more often, it is only because i am just busy with my work or sometimes i can be tired too much also.
By the way i have international diploma that allow me to work psychotherapist almost world wide include United States.
I am not sure how difficult it is to find work for psychotherapist in your area and how much does it paid, but here i work for private clinic and does not paid good.
It is not only my work is paid not good, it is because of low level of salaries in my country in whole.
The most of my patients are kids with Down syndrome, and it is not easy to work with them also.
I have to give them more than just doctor can.
Any way i can save something sometimes, but the most i earn is enough for food and clothes.
Well,i want to describe what is the right relationship to me, i mean they way of my family based on.
First of all i do belive in God and i agree with some positions of relationship the Bible give it to us.
By the way i am not too religious and i go to the Church on special holidays only,any way i see the power of Prayers doing my work.
So the bible tell us that all relationships have to be based on love toward God,and love toward neighbor "They have to be based upon the law of God,spiritually applied.
So love toward God would lead us to keep His law with respect to our neighbor, and to love our neighbor as we love and take care of the self.
The Spirit-led mind is going to be seeking the good of the other.
It is not going to abuse the other person by manipulation for selfish ends.
It is not going to be trying to use the other person.
It is going to be unselfish. It is going to be patient "
What does the right relationship means to me, i would explain it in few words and very short.
I try to put my heart in what ever i do and it is in relationship also,so we can always find compromise and avoid conflicts.
The right relationship for me is when you give a lot and do not need to ask something for "returning" from your partner, it just happens by their own way and this is the balance.
When people can understand each other without words and when they do feel each other spiritual.Also i am sure that right relations build on good sexual relations and it is necessary to give to partner a lot of respect,are you agree with me ?
I always try to give a lot to the man i am in relations with and i am agree with opinion of German famous psychotherapist Zigmund Freid that there is never psychological problem for adult without conflict of sexual relations,that means if you have good sexual relations with your partner you are protected from stress I have been hurt before,but i did not loose the hope to find good man,and i will never loose it.You just became stronger every time when you are hurt should never loose hope and the happiness will bell the door someday.
What is your opinion about money and how do the important in your life ?
I love to watch discovery channel and i have a pet, i got it only 2 weeks ago from mother's of my patient.
His name is Pepel,that means "Grey" in English.
I will attach the picture :) Yes,it is the pussy cat, born two and half month ago only,but very clever already.
Sometimes i ask my neighbors to feed it when i am at work.
Well,i need to go home now,we are going to take a short trip to Psychotherapist Meeting to an other city with co-worker and it is short meeting of doctor's and i will be at home the day after tomorrow, so i came here and send you some pictures,we will go there by train and i will ask my co-worker to take some pictures.

I love to travel very much, i have been to Europe : France,Spain,Cyprus and Philippines.
My last trip was to Cyprus and i have some pictures to send to you, we go there last winter

Looking forward to hearing from you

With kiss
Yours Alena