Letter(s) from Zuwieratu Abubakari to Lance (USA)

Letter 1

Hi Lance,

Thanks very much for your concern and message, I will like to get to know you more better and hope this tells you more about me. I'm Doris a 30years old, decent race female, single , no kids, 5''7'' ft tall, 128 lbs., black hair , I'm originally born and raised in hernando,fl but now in Ghana working as a Missionary. I generally try to live a healthy lifestyle, exercising and some sort of jogging, 3-4 days a week and eating healthy, (trust me, I love sweets and pastries, but try not to over do it). I would also like to find a like-minded male where we can participate in activities together and encourage each other to pursue our interests as well. I have several hobbies (and wish I could find more time to pursue those) such as swimming, playing computer as chatting, dancing, and reading, and more, and would like someone to share that with, as well as the person share's his interests with me... I am generally an optimistic person with a sense of humor, fairly easy-going, and I don't think that I'm too critical about things, but I also believe that it takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work. As I mentioned earlier, I like to do things with the other significant person in my life, but I also to encourage him to go out and spend time with friends and pursue his own interests and hobbies as well. I believe that time spent apart helps keep things fresh in a relationship and makes the time we do spend together even better.I'm not one who cheats in a relationship one man is enough trouble I don't have the time or energy to juggle 2, 3, or 4 at the same time - haha. But I also want to be in a relationship where I can totally trust the other person and not dwell on how the relationship is not working.

I do not expect a man to be a servant to me, spending all his time working and and cleaning I believe there is give and take in a relationship, and I realize that at times it's more convenient for me to do laundry, cook, clean, and I have no problem doing that. I consider myself to be a fairly honest and truthful person and expect the same in return I'm not wealthy and don't expect someone to attempt to deceive me or "play" me.Everybody makes mistakes and I usually give people the benefit of the doubt, but if the same pattern keeps emerging, it's over. I do not want to meet someone who may think that they will take advantage of me, or lie to me and cheat on me under false pretenses. Sorry if that sounds harsh, and I'm not accusing anybody of any wrongdoing, but I'm being upfront and honest about that, so you know where I stand from the beginning. With all due respect as well, I hope that you are upfront and honest with me, as well. I realize that I am 30years old and that you are some how Older than me, if you would still like to correspond, that's fine...we'll see how things go after we get to know each other. Well, I hope that this lets you know a little about me, and I hope I don't come across as being too cynical, harsh, or meansounding. I will give anybody the benefit of the doubt (we're all human, we all make mistakes), but I also don't like being taken advantage of. I'm just asking you to keep it real and be honest from the beginning that way, nobody is wasting his or her time or getting their feelings hurt.

I also realize that at times two people are just too different to be in a relationship together; it doesn't mean that it's anybody's fault, it's just that they're too different to be compatible. I know how to and enjoy treating a man like a gentle man and enjoy pleasing and spoiling him. I am the kind of girl that still enjoys opening the door for you, pull your chair out or help you put your coat on, holding your hand as we walk through life. I like to laugh. I'm am told that I am kind, compassionate, a loyal friend and lover, romantic and sensitive. I don't go to bars to meet men, but do enjoy going out now and then. I consider myself sensitive to the needs of my partner and his emotions, a good communicator. I like to call him in the middle of the day just to tell him that he is on my mind. Giving a small gift or flowers for no reason other then that he is special to me. I enjoy kissing that special someone, cuddling with that special someone is the best way to show you care and need him close, I enjoy public affection, flirting should always be a big part of a relationship, spiritual but not religious. I love to please and spoil and be spoiled by my lover. I believe good communications will enable us to express our needs and wants. I am very passionate but with one man only. I have many interests and always willing to try new ones. During my free time, I enjoy relaxing doing many things like listening to music, watching a good movie or going to a sports event. I enjoy most physical activities, walking, and some working out.Also enjoy playing pool, shooting darts and trying new things.I do enjoy reading a book or magazine when the mood strikes me, hope this tells you more about me and have attached pictures of myself. Could you tell me more about you and what you looking for in a woman, until then take care and hope to hear from you soon.


Letter 2

Hi Lance,

This are the pictures you requested for and hope you would like them, I will like to see more of you too. GOODNIGHT !!!