Letter(s) from Illiana Fox to Jim (Canada)

Letter 1

Hello BC,

I have some questions for you again and i hope i can get to know more about you before we meet..

What is your ideal woman like again
do you like to dance - i know a stupid question
What kinds of thing do u like to do
What do you do for fun
Do you believe a women should stay at home or work?
How often do you think u have to see someone whom u are dating, or talk to that person?
How do you think a internet love relationship will work out for US
How long do you have to talk to someone before you meet them in person

I know some of these question probably sound stupid but i guess you can say i ask some weird questions and what is it they say "no question is a stupid question the only stupid question is the one that goes unasked"

I look forward reading from you soon.

Letter 2

Oh let me see...... my ideal man is one that is respectful, kind, stands up for himself, loving, honest, says whats on his mind yet is not mean or hurtful. he is independent but not so much that he drives his woman away and will still let his woman do and give all of herself to him. of course i hope that he is good looking with dark hair, but the most important aspects of her are the qualities inside. her attitude. her will. her desires. her dedication. her loyalty. his selflessness. And along with all that is the return of all those attributes from me. love is a two way street and i dont expect anything that i wont give or be in return.
Let me see..... i am not much of a dancer cause i have never danced, but i am willing to learn and try.
Things i like to do..... well, i like to ride horses, watch sports. i like to hike, swim, i like to watch movies. i like listening to music. like to hang just by myself. or for that matter with that special man whenever i find him.
I would like to see who i am dating as often as possible but i think that each person needs space and time away so they can appreciate each other that much more. i know id like to see my man as much as i could.
I think talking for a little bit is good before u meet but meeting in person is the only way u really get to know each other and really see what u are getting into. so all these questions are good and not stupid. i think internet dating could be hard to deal with cause im a hands on lady. i like to see, touch, and know that my man knows i love him and loves me back.

With Lots of kisses and hugs from me Kate.

Letter 3

After the chat session we had and cultivating of the past conversations and emails I felt something I haven't felt with men before. I've loved before, I've gotten my heart broken and shattered. Usually I feel strong about someone after I've talked with them and spent time with them. We haven't met and I feel like you and my feeling is surreal. It's almost unbelievable to me. I hope it's real as you do. I hear and feel your words and hope it's everything it can be. If you are what you say you are and everything you talk about and say you are I will feel like I'm luckier than any other lady that's ever lived and will live.

I can be with someone in the good times and the bad times. I realize if we are together there may be some bad times as every relationship has some.

I'm nervous right now, and I have knots in my stomach. This guy doesn't get nervous, I wasn't even nervous jumping out of plane or nervous about taking a risk of coming to Nigeria. I don't know what my heart's going to feel if this isn't real. We have a lot in common, I feel there's the potential to be great together in everyday and everything we do. I would hope us being together is natural. I feel it's important to be natural in a relationship and not force any feelings or anything on a person. I'm a unique person and the last of a dying breed. It's extremely hard for me to find a man I have things in common with let alone what I want out of life.

I really hope you are everything you appear to be. Things are a lot different once two people meet, but I'm confident I'll still feel the same way. I'm in awww right now, you popped out of no where and it was unexpected. I wanna meet you so bad. Trust is everything and it's always hard for me.
My heart is trembling and this all feels unreal. You have put me in a state of vulnerability; very impossible to do. Talk too soon Kate.

Letter 4

It was nice to read from you in this rainy and lonely day and i am glad you wrote me and that restore my heart and i was so happy with myself....I really hope what we are planning to start will be worth the dream we both want for our future and i hope we will not regret every single moment spent with one another because that is one of the major motive of a relationship....Like i told you i have had so many hurt and disappointment lately which make me stay away from Love but you can run away from happiness and i am happy you are also looking for the same which makes us compatible and i feel it God wish for us to meet this way and i hope at the end of the tunnel we will both find Light of Happiness...
With Lots Of Love From My Heart And Soul.

Letter 5

Love I was thinking about my taught on our Chance Of Meeting soon if this will be for real...On my screen you came out of the blue, Awakening my heart from pain to feelings before I never knew We are both scared of the road fate has shown Two souls paired to a destiny still unknown Should we choose to meet and tempt these hands of fate It would take two, for the odds to be beat
To lead us to eternity and heavens gate Should we choose to not would our minds constantly wonder, Was that the one I always sought On that do we dare to ponder? For you have touched me deep I long to hold you for all time To be mine, forever to keep For us to share a lifetime I want your passionate kiss to take my breath away Never want to miss your touch while in each others arms we lay So now the decision is ours to make I'll treasure you whatever may be My heart is here for you to take Loyalty I'll vow should you give yours to me.

With Lots Of Love And Kisses From Me Kate.