Letter(s) to Alain (Canada)

Letter 1

Hi Alain ,

It is nice to hear back from you again. I am at work at the moment, it's not easy for someone to write about his or herself but would try to tell you a little about me for now ok.

I'm Mabla Janocha , I am single never been married with no kids. I was hurt seriously in my last relationship and I am seeking a serious long term relationship and more on here. I am seeking for someone who is honest,loving,caring,faithful,trustworthy,God fearing and someone who will be there for me in good and bad times and I will do the same to him. I will be with him all the time and plan the future with him and also build a better foundation for a long lasting and eternal relationship.

I was on a vacation in Ontario when a good friend of mine singned me up to match to give it a try because she met her dream man on there. I was born in Berlin Germany but was raised in U.K - Scotland after the loss of my parent in a car accident caused by a drunk driver. I am RN and currently in Togo - Lome. I was posted here to work as a volunteer nurse in an orphanage home for some weeks. I joined the dating site because I am searching for a serious relationship and I am ready to relocate when I find the right person and meet him in person after my assignment is over for some few weeks here, it's really wonderful to have this wonderful poor children around me.

I am a cool minded person , I love being straight forward in my activities with people,in fact the reason why my folks like me is just because of my policy of being simple as I believe Greatness Lies In Simplicity don't you think so ?. I hate lies, I hate dirty people , I don't like loquacious men ,I also don't like greediness because I believe in giving and its only when you give you will take its a natural law of creation. Tell me about your likes and dislikes and what you do for fun.Tell me more about the person you are seeking for in a relationship and more about you and also send me some photo as well. I will be looking forward to hear from you real soon. smile



Letter 2

Good morning Alain ,

I did enjoyed our chat yesterday, but you went away without letting me know. Did I said anything wrong? I hope everything is alright with you and your son as well, what's his name if I may ask?

It seems we are getting on well and know much about each other now... You sound so interesting. I have learnt that nothing is impossible on this earth and we can make it if we really want to, always remember this and there are people that believe if things are meant to be then they will be. You can't force things and you can't turn people into what you want them to be. I think we all meet many interesting people in our lives and I think that we should take the time to get to know them, because you never know when you will meet that special someone. Actually your message really impressed me so much well I just wanted to let you know the kind of person I am, I am a lady that is in need of real and perfect love, I need a man that can take me through. I have been hurt so many times by different men and wouldn't want that to happen to me again that's the reason why I said that I need love. I am not out for anything but love from someone. Having someone that loves you and supports you in your life through good and bad times and won't give up on you is what I am looking for. Honesty and trust are what makes a relationship work. I prefer to watch a movie or attend the theater rather then read a novel and also enjoy travel, experiencing different geographies and people. I do not smoke. I do drink on social occasions. Concerning sexuality, I am not a promiscuous woman. My desire is to be sexually faithful to the man I marry. If two people love each other and will communicate what they like and do not like about their partner's sexual behavior, I believe many problems can be resolved. I have a strong sense of who I am and how I should live my life. I am pretty stubborn when it comes to doing the right thing. I think in this wish-washy world we live in, you have to stand for something or you will fall for anything' (old saying & wise words they are) I am looking for a man of the same mettle as myself. I love to laugh, have fun and go off and then there is a time for seriousness too. I have seen a lot in my life some if it hard, and it's not judge me or made me bitter.

You are really a wonderful man and it occurs to me you might also have a warm heart, very loving and caring and I am happy to meet you. I want you to know relationship does not matter with the distance or age, what matters most is for us to be true, honest and loyal to each other. I am willing to spend my life with a man like you and loving and to take care of you as well. I want to tell you more about me. I am your typical easy-going lady. Much more of a listener than a talker. But can speak my mind when its needed. I like to have fun and I am always up for trying something new. I think life should be taken somewhat serious, but at the same time you shouldn't worry and take it too serious or you will never make it out alive. There is a time to have fun and a time to to to get stuff taken care of. Finding the equal mix is the best way to live life. Looking for someone to have fun with whether it be something that could become serious or something short term, doesn't matter to me.

I like visiting exhibitions, theaters, cinemas, museums. My favorite holiday is my birthday, because I like getting presents (as far as I am the only child in the family, I got used to attention, but nevertheless I don't consider me to be selfish Smile) and also giving them, because they give a lot of happiness. I like Chinese food, sweet dishes, ice- cream and some fruit. Also I like cooking and I will do my best that you will find my cooking very tasty. My favorite color is blue, because it is classical, stylish, elegant color. My favorite seasons are winter and summer, because they are contrast by their nature. Winter because of snow and winter view. Summer because of summer rest near the warm sea. Oh my God!!! I think I am writing so much now and hope you do understand me. I hope this helps to let you know more about me for now. I am at work at the moment. I wish you a blessed day and take care.... Attached are photos of me in Miami, that was last two months, I was there on a vacation trip,I had so much fun.

Yours Truly


Letter 3

Good morning my dear,

I waked this morning with your thought on my mind. I am getting ready for work, but want to send you this email to let you know you were the first thing on my mind this morning and I have been thinking about you. How are you and the family as well? I hope everything is alright with you all? I have learnt that few people come into our lives and make the whole world seem bright. Alain through tears and smiles, laughter and heartache, you have been a part of my life. I look forward to the the time we share, and I never want to live a single day without you. You are such a nice man and I admire and like you for that. I have attached some of my recent photos, I took when I was in Miami with my Tity. I have to leave for work now, I wish you a blessed day, take care.

Yours Truly

Mabla Janocha

Letter 4

Hi Alain ,

I am doing good and thanks for asking. I hope you're doing good for me as well and the family too? I am sorry for not been able to meet you online, I was at the hospital to check up on the little kid. I am still with her at the moment. She is getting better now. I am pleased to know you love your classes and hoping your boss spare you some time when we meet for some vacation. Oh well we are planning to host a program for the kids, to exhibit their talents and also to help raise some funds to help pay for three kids who have been admitted at the hospital and need to be operated. The fee is so huge for the agency because it's a non-governmental, non - political and non - profit making venture set up purposely to help in alleviating the affected children such as orphans, abandoned and distressed street children, and children of both Lunatic & amputated parents. We are hoping to raise such fund to help save the lifes of this poor children. I have not taken new pictures yet and as I told you earlier, I am looking forward to purchase a new digital camera to take some new pictures here, because I will need them for my project which I am planning to do when I leave here, I will have a story to tell. I have attached some of my recent x'mas photos which I took last year. I start work from 8:00am and close by 9:30pm, I don't work nights.

I am always happy to hear news from you too. I just can't stop smiling when I read that you told your son about me ( US ) and also the entire family, I hope they will like me and accept me as I am when we meet. Your son will get to see Tity and I know they will be great friends together. You seem to be a hard working man who is doing so much. I thank you for having time to write to me always and want you to know you have been on my thought always as well. I will surely let you know about your flight number. I will about to send you the email when I saw your new email came in again and that put a great smile on my face, that means we have been writing to each other at the same time now. I promise to take care of myself for you. I wish you a blessed beautiful Sunday.

Take care... smile

Your favorite German Girl ,