Letter(s) to Colin (UK)

Letter 1

Hello Sweetie,

Thanks so much for your mail. To start off my name is Deji Smith, I am Mixed Both Asia and also British.I am currently in Malaysia Asia now with my mom who is kinda sick and i hope you are not discouraged But i will be coming back to the UK in Two weeks time.To tell you a lil more about myself .I was Born and Raised in MANCHESTER .I lost my Dad when i was Ten (10).My dad is a British while my mom is an Asia...My Dad met my mom when he came to Asia on a Business trip so he decided to take my mom to UK and they both got married then they gave Birth to me.Am the only child in the family.My mom moved back to Asia when i was 25 she went there to settle down and leave a new life.
And i have a son his name is john and is 5yr and i lost his dad in car accident when my son is 2yr. Ever since i lost the father of my son i have been single and am loking for a man that can love me for who i am .I am a wonderful, single lady with a heart of gold, a woman you would love to meet and even spend the whole rest of your life with as am also willing to meet that special man God has sent to me,that i will be with from now till death do us part.I just need every thing i ever wanted is one man only,am ready to spend both my day and night with that special man.I'm my own woman and I am comfortable with my own life.. I'm beautiful, kind and respectful, well-spoken, and. I am extremely passionate and affectionate...I'm just an everyday, ordinary, average, normal woman. Nothing special about me. I consider myself to be very simple. I believe that men needs to be treated with respect and as a equal partner in a relationship, but all I seem to find is the ones that does not know how to respond to that or is untrusting to it.I feel like u should treat somebody with respect and like they are a person not a piece of meat or whatever. I am the type of person who wants somebody to feel wanted not just as a trophy. I am a very affectionate person and I love to cuddle, I like to show somebody how I feel not just telling them. I love to be close to somebody whether it is in the bed on the couch or wherever. I guess my dreams would be is to be happy and have a family my goals in life I want to go into business for my self one day but that will be a while from now. I guess I want to work on my love life and be happy first and to have a family, but I guess when the time is right it will happen. I like to play sports just as much as I do watching them.
Most of all i like to spend time with who I am with, and cuddle up and watch a movie. It is my opinion that we all want the same thing in regards to a partner, and that most of us either do not know how or is scared to and sabotage themselves from getting it.Ok, I like the outdoors, but I don't care about hunting or fishing, well I will fish with an un-baited hook if it means I will get to spend some time with someone I care about. There are a lot of things I like doing as in reading,watching Tv,cooking, camping, etc. My ultimate goal and what I think would make me happy is to get back on my feet and have a man by my side that I love and loves me. I am very relationship oriented and I believe life is too short to waste. When I am in a relationship I am committed,honest, and loyal. I think that falling in love is always a good thing, even if it doesn't work out. There is always something to learn from being with someone, and happy times and memories should be cherished. Friendship comes first for me. That is not to say I never get hurt because I do. I have been burnt so bad. My last relationship ended on a very sad note for me but I do not believe in regrets. I tell you this because I cannot predict the future. For some people a relationship has to be all or nothing...I don't feel that way.But I never in the past nor do I intend to intentionally hurt someone by cheating, mistreating, or abusing them. Okay, for my questions to you.
What are some of your goals, hopes and dreams?Are you really single?
How long have you been single? Do you have any brothers or sisters? Do you have any kids? If yes,How many? cos i love kids and i like to play and be with them so i don't mind if you have many cos i will be more then Okay with them.What do you do for a living?How old are you really?Do you want more Kids? If there is something you want to say but you think you might be rambling or it is not important, it is ok, to me it is important. Well...I see I wrote a novel here, I am looking forward to getting to know you better. I guess I will go for now hope to hear from you soon.

Karen

Letter 2

Hello Sweetie,
Wowoooo am so happy to hear from u today babe. tell me it hard now for me to believe that u still single? well if you really are still single them why aren't you getting a woman in your life? any way tell me again now what you really looking for in life? date, relationship, friend, business partner, or you came to play games here course i really need to know your mind before going further with you.
I am still on my knees begging for love, not to a stranger but to one I wanna know ... since you did reply me back. I've been in love with and know it's not a fun. Each night and day I hope and pray that i found the rightful man that will be mine forever . I know it's hard to find the right man and trust a woman - giving your heart, body and soul, but know it's me that's on my knees swallowing my pride, begging you, please ... once again I say please, If you really serious about me course am badly in pain in the pass and i want it to go away ........i really need to be loved and not to be disappointed , I hope you understand were am coming from and were am going. hope to hear from u again.Or am i too fast?And less i forget babe age does not matter to me as its just a number and am ready for something serious babe!!

Karen

Letter 3

Hello Sweetie,
How are you! That email you sent me was quite a response. You seem like you are very down to earth and laid back, and that is good. It's good to see you are affectionate and like showing your feelings. I am the same as well. I believe that partners are 100% equal in a relationship and both should be able to feel they can trust each other 100% at all times. I feel that any woman who ever disrespects a man is not a woman at all. I am affectionate also and I have no trouble showing it for the right man in public or private. I love to cuddle while watching a good movie, when were in bed, I love to hug and kiss my man at anytime and anywhere it could be a store,mall or just on a sidewalk. You are looking for long term, I am looking for something permanent :-) and I know it takes time and a lot of good effort to form a good relationship. I want a man to be my best friend at all times, my sweetheart, love of my life, my partner and my soul mate all wrapped up into one lovely man. I would be all of that for him and more,I would love him with all of my heart and have nothing but good feelings for him. he should be a very caring person, with a lot of good feelings, be honest, reliable,pleasant personality and have a sense of humor.
I am trying not to ramble here for you but I am looking for the "One". What does that mean to me? he is the person that you can't wait until he comes home from work so you can kiss him and sit down and relax in front of the TV or go out and spend an evening together. The person that just calls to see how your day is going but knows that it just got much better because you are talking to each other.he gives you a lift when you are down and can always make you laugh because you know each other so well. The person that can simply lay in bed with him head on my chest and our legs interlocked for hours and talk about what's on your mind.He is your best friend, your lover, your equal and if lucky your husband and father of your children. If I didn't scare you by being so serious and this sounds like something that would interest you then we could probably hit it off if you are up for it.
I'm not afraid to go for it and this is what I want from life because I deserve the best. I am opening up to you because I read what you had to say and I think you could be the best. You have high standards and that's usually because you expect to get what you give from a relationship.This is almost a page long already. I feel that we have broken the ice and have found some very common grounds between us.Thanks hope to hear from you.

Karen .