Letter(s) to Adrian (USA)

Letter 1

Hello how are you doing this is Amanda from Mate1 i got your email add in your profile and i would really love to get to know you better...I want you to know that i am here to find my soul mate am not here to play games cos i am tired of being single i need the right man to come settle down and have a happy home with him and spend the rest of my and grow old with him....Pls i would love to read back from you as soon as possible.
Amanda

Letter 2

I hope this will take us to the next level and we could build a relationship that will last forever.Distance between us does not bother me as I know we could meet.I really enjoy reading your mail thanks alot.You have qualities in a Man that I would treasure and yes I would love to have a meal with you..I would like to continue this with you.I believe that the most important 'key' to a successful relationship would have to be 'trust'. I believe that with trust, love will follow. However, what I have noticed is that many people think trust, or expect that trust is to be earned by the other person, when in all actuality it is something that comes from within yourself. All too many times people will say they don't trust due to past experiences. What they don't realize is that they have built up those proverbial walls to protect them from the very thing they are searching for... yes, there is a risk in trusting someone, but when you finally find that 'right' person, it makes all the past experiences and lessons learned very much worth the risk. All of life's little lessons do not have to be painful... even when they seem so at the time. You just have to chalk it up to experience and move on. Nothing is worth closing your heart. Nothing is worth living in a world of fearing what bad 'may' come to you. Without trust, you close your heart to the happiness and joy that true love brings. It's only my experience... and it's what I believe has given me the wonderful gift of 'true' love. It's a hard thing to do, a scary thing, but very much worth it. This is not to go without saying that some people may betray your trust... that's the risk... but why allow past betrayals to prolong the pain by building a fortress around your heart that not only protects you from pain/betrayal, but also denies you the ability to experience happiness and joy? Most have been hurt enough by one person, why allow them and their actions to stop us from finding what we search for? I say open your hearts to trust and ask in the beauty, happiness, and joy, of the true love that will follow. For everyone there IS a someone, you just can't find them if you hide away all your life...but i still try not to brake my vow...i am really a very sincere person when it comes to sharing feelings and emotions with that special person and i really am down to heart honest about the things i say and do cause i don't like hurting peoples feelings,cause everyone has a chance to laugh,so why do i make them sad..i am really very easy to get along with,fun to be with and am very adaptive and communicative when it comes to conversant conversation.and my life is based on the truth and honest of self personality. i will like to tell you that i will do anything to make u Happy since we have Know more about each other and have Much in common and i know something corresponding will come out of it..Hope to hear from you soon..i wud really like to get to know alot about you and learn somethings with you cause u seems to be kind of ready in getting to know my kind of person and hopeful we can meet in person soon..with time we will get to know each others feelings,motives and intentions towards each other and it will help us grow knowing each other and trusting each other.Can I Trust You With My Heart?I've found a new love full of passion Which has come to make me blind When I found a special someone In a love that's hard to find. You've swept off my feet From the very start, But before we go much further Can I trust you with my heart? With all this time we've had together I've learned to trust you completely, Before I've asked anything from you You've already given yourself to me. You've combined fantasy with reality Even though we're miles apart,But what I really need to know Can I trust you with my heart? Can I share my worries with you? Can you handle my fears I bestow? Can I count on you to walk with me Down a long a winding road? I don't want a promise Of which there's no guarantee Can I trust you with my heart, Without you breaking it on me? My heart's vowed never to fall in love again But it's weakened & has come to surrender, To be held in your tender hands And mended back together. But I hope you can understand That I don't want to go too far Without knowing just one answer . . . Can I trust you with my heart?and How do you think we can meet???I cant wait to hear back from you. I would love us to talk on phone so we can communicate and hear our voice to take this to the next level.. Take Care.
Amanda.

Letter 3

Glad to read from you. You alright! I would like to know more about you. Kindly, I am Open minded and i Love sharing my leisure time with my man...its sicks to be lonely...I am seeking for that i could spend the rest of my life with and grow old with...I will tell you a little about myself..my real name is Amanda i am 30yrs I was born in the U.S,Alabama. But relocated back to the Germany with my Mom after Her separation from Dad when i was 7 years old. I had my education in the UK. College degree in Engineering (University of manchester),am a construction engineer,we carry out construction project in different countries so we do travel,we build roads,bridges,companies and so on, currently right now me and my team of workers are running a construction project here in africa,Nigeria i am the only daughter of the family, my parent got married to each other in the state....i am happy i have a wonderful parent like my parent but unfortunately i didn't grew up to know to know my parent more better,.I am very outgoing,communicative,easy going, outspoken, I am also a very Romantic type,love to cuddle,hold hands while walking,I'm trustworthy so far as people tell me maybe I'm just laid back,loll...this is my first time to travel to Africa and i don't really know much about this environment but i am so adaptive so i get used to a lot of things so easily and i get to understand how things are been done in the environment too as well..which we get done with any moment from now.I was engaged with my ex for 2year his name is (Ronald) but i broke up with him after i came back from my journey and found him sleeping with my best friend, i lost my mother to breast cancer. I am not perfect and no one on this earth surface is perfect.
I dont know how online dating works but i know it is a medium where two people can surely get to explore each other's mind without sentiments. I know it is good cos it allows us to cut blabbering and really speak our minds without intimidation of beauty and soul stealing smiles I' m not looking for a perfect man!!! However, We cannot get this far in our life without one or two issues to deal with. I need a really good and kind hearted man, that knows himself, loves himself and willing to love me just the way he loves himself, Someone i can get an honest answer from when i need one.

whats your favorite color?
Types of movie ?
what do u do for living?
whats does love mean to you?
Type of music?
Do you like to dance ?
type of food?
Do you prefer to eat out or at home?
How old are you?
What's the nature of your Job?
This will do for now....
Will be waiting to hear from you.
I must admit its been great writing to you!!!! I can't remember when I talked so much about myself and to have the chance to read it back, it might sound weird but I am proud of myself and hoping for the day I can make more and better memories to share with someone special like YOU!!! I Think i can told you more about me and i hope this leads us to a Good way...I can see that this is the better way to get to know more about each other.Love to read back from you as soon as possible

Happy thoughts,
Amanda Jay