Letter(s) to Bertrand (Belgium)

Letter 1

Hello there

How are you doing today and thanks for the mail respond on the site and am glad to hear from you...I think i would like to see if you are the type of man i have been looking for all in my life and i think you deserve to have someone like me because i am a very sweet and caring woman, passionate and honest person who doesn't like games and don't like to be played by any man ..I am single and no kids yet,looking for an understanding and caring man and if you think you are that man i have been searching for let me know if you can make me the happiest woman on earth so i can be yours forever. Get back to me and tell me more about you and what are the qualities things you are looking for in a woman?


Letter 2

Hello Bert

Good day how was your day going hope you having a sweet day with your self and how did your weekend went, Am glad to read from you today and thanks for telling me some little things about you..I am a true Christian woman and I have very high moral values.My true name is Angela Sparrow,31 years old,am originally from (Los Angeles) but right now i live in Malaysia for the past 15 years.My mom is from Malaysia while my dad was from United states...I and my mom relocate to Malaysia when she divorce her husband, thought is good to be back home after she has lost her marriage .Though i never pray for such marriage lol...I want to get married to my man forever.And am willing to relocate with my right man to where ever he choose to live on this earth

I am a very good woman and have many qualities that any serious men looking for a good woman would want.....I am very romantic…. If you were mine, I would bring you flowers sometimes with a little poem or note letting you know that I am thinking about you. I might surprise you at times with dinners by candlelight with some soft romantic music playing. Or surprise you with breakfast in bed on a weekend (only in marriage would this happen). I would love to take walks with you in the park or along the beach or down city streets shopping together. These kind of romantic things I do because I love romance and I guess you could say that I am a hopeless romantic! And for the rest of my life, I would never let a day pass that I did not say "I love you" to you.

I am sensual… I would love to do things like make you a hot bubble bath, bathing together with you (not all the time of course), washing and brushing your hair and many other things that I will leave to your imagination! I believe that when a woman loves a man with a true love she will do anything that will bring him pleasure and make his life more enjoyable and exciting! That would certainly be my goal with you!

I am very affectionate…I love the physical part of a relationship…. Like holding hands, hugging and kissing. I would always be putting my arms around you and hugging you so as to never let a doubt enter you mind, nor forget just how much you mean to me!I would love to cuddle together on the couch with some nice warm popcorn and maybe some ice cream and enjoy TV together or a movie… maybe a funny movie so that we could laugh together or maybe a romantic movie or even a scary movie so that I could feel he hug me tight when i got a little frightened!

I have a great sense of humor….I love to laugh and joke and be playful and sometimes just get silly. Have you ever just gotten silly and couldn't stop laughing? There is not a better feeling on earth! Laughter is a medicine the Bible says, so I try to find humor in every day life and hopefully bring a little laughter to people.

I am a sensitive, caring and thoughtful person…I am not ashamed to get teary eyed at sad movies or from a sad story in the newspaper, although at the movies, it is dark so no one can really see me! (lol).I try not to hurt people’ feelings. If you needed shoes and so did I, I would sacrifice and go barefoot so that you had shoes. If you wanted a new dress and I needed clothes also, I would go naked so you could have that dress.There is nothing that I would not do for you short of something sinful. It is the responsibility of a woman to take good care of her man not as some kind of duty but out of appreciation and love for him. And the good man that you are, I would fully always appreciate you!

I am very loyal and faithful…I would never think of ever cheating on you and I would never give you a reason to ever doubt that or my love for you! I have no respect for a man who cheats on his woman! Marriage is sacred in my eyes! If a woman wants more then one man then she should stay single and uncommitted! I have never wanted more then one man, only one for me, who I can love for the rest of my life.

These qualities that I have mentioned to you are only a few as I have more. But the qualities I did mention I feel are the most important! These qualities I would love to share with my future husband! Is there the chance that he could be you?

I want to mention a little about sex! Not for any purposes other then to let you know how I stand about it.. I am uninhibited with sex, and I believe that any sex act not forbidden in the Bible is blessed by God in a marriage and should be explored and enjoyed by a man and woman. I love sex and oral sex especially and I hope that you are open to it. Two people must be compatible sexually for a marriage to be everlasting and many people have cheated in a marriage because they were not being satisfied at home with their spouse. Sex is the ultimate expression of love that two people can have for each other. Sex without love is just plain lust and has no real fulfillment. And if two people love each other enough to want to express themselves so intimately, then they will want to spend the rest of their lives with that person, and that can only mean marriage where sex is blessed by God! I don't want sex to ever be an issue in my marriage, so that is why I had to mention sex just for a little while here. I hope you understand?

Some of the things that I like to do are sports… I love to bowl, play tennis, basketball, swim , golf just about anything sports wise. I love nature… like camping, going on a weekend picnic, hiking in the mountains, water skiing, sight-seeing, roller skating, traveling, bike riding. I like to go to the gym and work out. I try to stay in good shape and eat healthy. I love animals very much. I don’t like going to night clubs but prefer to have a family and spend my time with them! I would love to dance ballroom, as it looks like a very fun dance to do!

I love children and I would love to have as many as the Lord wills. I don’t put limits on God as He is the giver of life and knows how many children we can bear! I hope that you are open to having a big family? I have never been married and have no kids

I am a woman who loves the simple things in life, like those previously mentioned. Material things are nice to have but all I need is the Lord Jesus Christ first and a good man second to be completely happy in this life. The Bible says that finding a good woman is like finding precious jewels and I could not agree more! I cannot be totally happy in this life without a good man! Not one to walk behind me or in front of me but beside me! A man who could be my companion, my best friend, my lover and my beloved husband.....I will love to hear from you again


Letter 3

Dear Bert

Good morning from here how are you doing and how was your night going hope you are enjoying your dreams and hope you really enjoy your weekend, You sound like all i want , you are my perfect match . I am really going to put a lot of effort into writing this letter to you in hopes it will provide you with a good understanding of who I am,what I am all about, and what has made me the person I am today. The reason I am going to write a letter rather than just send a message is because I am serious about wanting to establish a quality friendship with you, and because of the fact I rarely contact anyone on here, so when I do you can be rest assured I am serious about my intentions.

I want you to know that Love is free from the heart, its not for Money and true love doesnt require money,am not Looking for Money in my relationship ,all am Looking for is true love i want someone to love me for who i am , I have been Lonely for a long time and am tired of Loneliness, I want an honest caring and loving man that will cast away my loneliness ,am also tired of sleeping on the bed all by myself alone, i want to lie next to the right man on bed.

I am looking for a man that will be able to listen to me , communicate his feelings to me ,make me laugh, hold and comfort me in need,stand by my side, respect me,passionate lover in every way, support me in everyday, love me and only me, make me smile, protect me when needed, romantic time to time ,conservatively, and treat me right.... I know you will think what is a pretty lady like me doing on here .. Yes the reason I came on to the internet to find the special person who deserves all the love and passion that makes up my heart and soul is because I do not have the time to meet others out in a public setting, and the fact I feel you can learn so much about someone through letters, as a person has to take there time and think about the words they want to express, so it allows you to gain a better understanding of someone than you would probably otherwise .Dear The very reason I am interested in establishing a friendship with you is because I feel I have alot to offer you in the way of a friendship and I know I have allot to share with you that will be of interest to you and even some things that will surprise you. I am very much a woman of substance and I am very unique in todays society because I live my life through my spirituality and through the word of God and because I have such a strong understanding of what I feel my role in life is suppose to be. I am a woman of integrity and my word is my honor!.. I have very high standards for myself and my life is all about providing love, peace and happiness to others.For you to get a better understanding of me picture a waterfall in your mind and instead of all the water overflowing it is all the love and passion I have in my heart to give to others who are deserving, as the love and passion has an endless flow coming out of my heart.

Where others write many people and keep there messages short because they are all about how many they can write, I am the opposite and very selective in whom I choose to write and I like to give them my very best even if it is in a long letter such as this. I know the type of person who I want to build a friendship and a long term relationship which could lead to marriage too.with so I am willing to put the time and effort in my messages to show that to you.

Well I have a few questions for you so I can get to know you better.. Do you mind if I ask them and you respond? What are some of your dreams and goals for life?(not about me but your personal dreams and goals) Where do you see yourself in 5 -10 years? (with me, but what else?) What are somethings you would do on a typical date? What would be your dream date, if money and time were not restricted, where would you go and what would you like to do? What do you do in your free time? What would we do in our free time? What is something that you haven't done that you would......like to do? What do you usually do on weekends? What makes you laugh? What makes you cry?What is your greatest guilty pleasure? How important are friends to you? What kind of things to you do with your friends? I know this sounds like an application, but I just want to know all about you. The more I know, the happier I can make you.Please tell me these things, because I want to know you intimately right now cus i really like what you write on your profile and i have to wait until we are together. I hope you are having a good day..

Am waiting to read from you soon.
I care to be with u .
peace onto you


Letter 4

Dear Bert,

Good morning how was your night hope you are having a sweet dream, Am so glad to get your prompt response to my email . You impressed me so much with all I read in your email and it would be my pleasure to get more acquainted with you. Thanks for being honest in your words . I believe being analytical in my email would let you know some things about me and possibly meeting in person someday if God says we are truly meant for each other. The day I saw your profile,..it was brief and straight to the point.I could see that your intention of finding REAL love is somewhat True.

I have had some disappointments in some past relationship though I believe someday somehow what Goes up would surely come down. Thesedays, one must be very cautious before choosing a life partner in order not to regret eventually .The Chemistry of relationship could be related to a Computer term (GIGO)- meaning (Garbage in Garbage out) lol! It is very compulsory one takes a good time to study each other, learning about each other to discover some compatibilities.I believe through this medium we could only learn few things about each other but when we get together and meet in person we should be able to hit it off and see if the Chemistry would work out .

I will like to tell you some things about me and would love to know some more things about you .I love the out doors, I like bike riding, walks on the beach. I love to cook and also like to dine out. When I do cook I like to share it with someone, throw in a DVD and just enjoy the company. I like to travel as well.

Meanwhile what I look for in man is what he has inside. You can be the most handsome, the Richest or the healthiest in the world but a bad heart can make you ugly and get you disqualified. My man must like the outdoors and share some of the things I like, and bring something different into mine. I want to share what he likes and do what he likes to do Im I for real? This time I don't want any Game or adventures. Am a simple and easy going lady but what turned me off most is UNFAITHFULNESS AND DISHONESTY in the side of my partner.

I'm real in knowing what it is I want out of life. Games, that's something that people who are not sure of what they want to do. I know what I want so games is a part of my life that I do not touch unless were talking about Checkers, Monopoly or Shoots and Lander lol. I'm single though I've once get my self engaged with a player which end up unhappily. I consider myself single, YES but now I'm ready to make a change to that with the right person though no one is perfect but we all have to live life the way we see it and with God leads and assistance ones dream and mission would get accomplished someday.

I would be pleased to see some more photos of you in your next email...I would have loved to send some of my photos to you but have most of them stored on my laptop. I will try to check my folder to see if i still have some but would prefer to send you some recent photos provided you can exercise patience till i get back. About my interest, I like to go out for dance when I get a chance. I love sports, Ive played softball in leagues and just tried to keep myself busy....it would be my pleasure to get your answer to this question: 1.What have you been up to today? I would have to stop here for now my dear. Hear from you real soon and take good care of yourself..!!!

Remain blessed,


Letter 5

Dear ,

Good morning how was your night hope you slept well?It is my very great pleasure to hear back from you. And am so happy that you dream of me...Again i have to let you know that am not on here for any games and am not for your money, money is not everything! this money stuff that happen online dating is always making me sad cos why i said so is that i met a man on teh dating site i think two or three days befor i met you the first thing he asked me is that hope you won't ask for money i was so embarrassed why will a man like this talk to me that way since then i stop talking to him i mean it makes me feel so bad any way i would love to tell you some more things about myself but my email would have been long for you to read..... ...I live with my mom hope i told you that befor and have been doing things by myself.

I believe only God knows the future outcome of meeting online . I must confess that i like who you are and my mind has never been negative about you ever since we meet online. It would be my pleasure if we can keep mailing each other as started, i think this will give us full understanding about our self and we will be able to share everything together as well.

To be realistic am bored with things right here just trying to keep myself up with Novels and Internet. I will like to tell you some more things about me am doing this because i have been developing some interest in you . I like going to beaches putting on Bikkini, watching, movies shows, and musical concerts and sometime go for dinner and taste a little coffee. Hmm! Am for real, because I don't have time for playing games around, its very awful when someone hurt another good feelings... Besides, To me relationship can mean two things:

1) It can mean that we have a connection, which I think exists

2) Relationship also means to be romantically and sexually involved and I think we aren't at that level now.

So, I think at this point, given the amount of time we have e-mail one another, we definitely have a friendship forming based on some external and internal similarities that might be developing into a relationship that will bring us a little closer with good intentions, and the potential exists for the relationship to evolve into something more significant.

In the past I've been in several rapports where I was not fully appreciated. In fact, many times I felt I was taken advantage of and that hurts. I'd like to meet someone who recognizes the little things I do for him and knows how to be appreciative. For instance, if I were to make breakfast in bed or draw a bath for my man, he could thank me by giving me a hug or a kiss. Or perhaps sending me a card for no particular occasion just to tell me 'thank you.' I'm very appreciative of what people do for Ill reward them in my own little ways. To me, it's the little things that mean a great deal to me..

What does it really mean to be affectionate? I love a man who can display his affections for me anytime and anywhere without having to be shy. And a person who knows how to be affectionate is a big plus. I love being affectionate.

This may be an odd one, but I've learned that there are men out there that are set in their ways........ They have one way of doing things and are never open to suggestions or advices. Stubborn men are turn off for me. I like a man who is open to ideas, thoughts, and basically open-minded. I think being receptive brings about sensitivity as well... A man who is ignorant, mean, and just plain insensitive is difficult to get along with.

I would say that I'm not afraid to display my emotions. I'd like someone who is sensitive and caring.. If I'm sad, I'd like for him to be able to comfort me and cheer me up. He doesn't have to do much, but just knowing that he's there solacing me is more than good enough.

Have you ever had someone not stand up for you? I was deeply hurt when someone I once knew wouldn't not stand up for me, even after he told me he loved me. I would never allow someone to hurt my boyfriend or my husband, and I would always stand up for him. One thing I will always do for my man is to protect him.

Well, you should be able to get few of my likes and dislikes from all I have mentioned above and you should be able to make some analysis on these and come up with yours as well … I can't wait to hear from you soonest...

Hope you are thinking about me ?

Hope to hear from you soonest..


Letter 6

Sure you can go to bed sleep well and have a wonderful dreams i will return to bed now just woke to have a cup of water and i check my mail to see maybe you mail me and it was nice i saw your mail so pls let me understand what you mean in your message ok i love you kiss and hug

Letter 7

Honey how are you doing and how was your day going, Honey all i have to know now is that hope i will have your own child for you and you will be there when i need you, You should know what by when i need you all am trying to say is sex ok...........Honey i don't want to lose the love i have for you i want to love till the end and be the mother of your children and be there for you all the time i wanna be by your side any time you want me i always wanted to make you happy and make you feel good all the time so honey i have to tell you this i told my mom about you and i showed her your pics and she like you and all she asked me is that did i really love you from my heart cos she will never be there for me when i have problem with my man that's her own way so honey what did you think about me been with you i mean living with you in your own house as your house wife?

Letter 8

Dear Bert,

Good morning how was your night hope you slept well and did you dream about me and it is my pleasure to read from you today.. You are such a wonderful person. To be honest I have started developing some feelings for you ever since we started exchanging emails but I often get scared when I recall my past experience with men. I hope I will not experience the same from you .Please understand that am not a time waster and about how i feel i feel the same way as you and my feelings is as strong as yours and i would love to be with you soon if you will like that i love you and i can't wait to be with you as soon as i can

Am for real about you and I guarantee you that you wont regret on me. Am the type that keeps to promises and rarely look back once I get committed. I am the only daughter of my parents..I have some relatives but most of them have not been kind to me that's why i chose to live my life ,struggle all alone and lean unto God. Please let me be rest assured that you would never let me down.

You should be able to ask me any question you think you want to know about me and I will answer be honest with you in my answers. Kindly let me know If you are really serious and determined about establishing a relationship with me . I would have to stop here for now my dear. Hear from you real soon!! Stay safe and blessed.

Love always


Letter 9


Letter 10

Hi love,

It's really a great time for me to get sited here reading from you.I am so excited right now and i am so much happy for you giving me hope in our relationship.I love you with all my heart honey.You are all i care about.I am thinking of you so much.I wanna be there with you in good and bad time.Yes you are right with all the documents but i have to get all the documents .All you have to do is for you to just write a letter of invitation to me.You will try and get it arranged with a Microsoft office word.I will download it and print it out here...That's all about it.So then once i get there and we get married and i will never hesitate to be with you for the rest of my life...I love you so much honey...You are all i care for and i will be there for you always...For richer and poorer so shall it be.Yes i will accept your son as mine.He will be first in my heart before anything...I love you with everything around you.You know how much i love you.I will need to get a Visa out here..That's another thing my love...So well we need to work on getting me there with you my love...I have been to the Embassy and i got all information i needed so is just for me to get all the documents with the letter of invitation ...So get back to me darling so we could work on getting me there with you....I love you now and forever. And happy Father's day


Letter 11

Thanks for being there when I needed a shoulder to lean on.. Baby, I just want you to know how happy am I to have you in my life and I thank God for that. Thank you for the love and the joy you bring. You've changed my life, Baby.

You're the only Man who gives my heart some excitement and thrills. When I here from you I feel like I'm out of control! You taught me how to handle life seriously, you taught me how to solve my problems and to face it without any fear... when i hear from you, I feel no fear, not even a single one.

I know that when you say you love me and I admit that I've fallen for you, I know that I wouldn't shed any tears from now on. I love you and that's what I want you to bear in your mind, and it's for keeps.I got all the documents and the pictures and i can't just wait to be there with you dearest love.I think about you in all my life.You are my man...You are my one and only love.Now we need to move forward in getting me there to be with you for the rest of my life.Honey i will be needing some money to get there with you.I am kinda broke my love and i work with the Mc Donalds and i don't get paid that much my love....So it goes with a lot of things and it's hard to get good job.So well my love i hope i can work once i get there...I can't afford to go get the Visa..I will be needing some money to get my Visa and if you could assist in sending me the money for the Visa and the papers to get things fixed i will surely get it done and then we can work things out my love...Please reply and let me know soonest.I love you with all my life.

Yours and only yours,


Letter 12

My love,i want you to know this that,I think Commitment is the greatest key to a successful relationship. If you are committed you will always find a way to work things out I think Communication... talking and open honest communication about how you feel. What makes you happy and what upsets you. If you don't tell your partner then they can't do what makes you happy and vice versa.I felt really bad reading your email,It's a very sad moment for me but i have nothing to say.So now you are telling me that i have scammed you before and now i changed my email.Between i will like to let you know this that i am a real Christian.I am deeply in love with you and it's making me feel real bad that i am losing you.I never felt like asking you for the money,but i am madly in love with you and i want to be with you.I am not and never the materialistic kinda and i am not for anything else than to make us happy together for the rest of our life..Honey,I feel that a relationship should always be based upon honesty and acceptance. When you can fully accept yourself, honesty will come naturally. This in return will leave your partner feeling comfortable with you, knowing there is nothing to hide.

If two people can see each other in full view with complete acceptance, they can build a successful relationship from this.I believe that the most important 'key' to a successful relationship would have to be 'trust'. I believe that with trust, love will follow. However, what I have noticed is that many people think trust, or expect that trust is to be earned by the other person..Don't let your past to work on us my love...when in all actuality it is something that comes from within yourself. All too many times people will say they don't trust due to past experiences. What they don't realize is that they have built up those proverbial walls to protect them from the very thing they are searching for...My love Most have been hurt enough by one person, why allow them and their actions to stop us from finding what we search for? I say open your hearts to trust and bask in the beauty, happiness, and joy, of the true love that will follow. For everyone there IS a someone, you just can't find them if you hide away all your life..I love you and i am crazy about you...I know this is just an obstacle of love and i will surely do my best for us to overcome this obstacle....i love you so much honey and i will be there for you for the rest of my life...Let me know what you think after you read the letter..Love you forever.