Letter(s) to Vladimir (Canada)

Letter 1

Hello Vladimir,

Thanks for the responds and am glad that u got back to me when i contacted you on the lavalife date site. well am writing this email to tell u more about myself,But there is one thing i want to let you know. well first of all age and races are not so much important to me.besides age is just a figure and its what in the person that count.Age and races has nothing to do with friendship,love or marriage.The the most important thing is trust,honesty,love,loyalty,patient and understanding. do u agree with me ? There is not much of an age distance between us,just thought i would let u know what i think about that subject.

Well below are few info about me.

My full name is Sofia Bjorg,but my family and friends call me Sofie.I'm 46 and work as an assistant manager for a Plastic manufacturing company in a town called Takoradi in the western region of Ghana.The name of the company where i work is JAASI PLASTICS COMPANY LTD. I love my job becos it enables me to meet new people each and everyday. I'm of mixed races,Am half Norwegian and half Ghanaian,.My dad is from Oslo,Norway whilst my mum is from Ghana,,but i currently live and work in Ghana.Please do not be discourage about where i live presently,becos i am making arrangements to move back to Oslo very soon,also i do love travelling and will very much love to fly over for a visit in the future after we get to know ourselves better.I'm a very hard-working and kind-hearted christian lady with good manners,I am very loving,friendly,easy going,open-hearted,open minded,caring,responsible,reliable,dependable,good listener,I've Got a great sense of humour,very romantic.My friends consider me to be very honest,trust worthy and an open book.I currently live on my own in a one bed room apartment which i rented 2 years ago and i visit my mum atleast ones in every two weeks.my hobbies are reading,swimming,dancing,listening to music, watching movies and hanging out with my friends.My Height is 5'6" and i weigh 155 lbs.I have red shoulder length hair,brown eye,medium size breast,my bust size is 36 DD,waste is 29,hips is 38 and average in body shape. I have never smoke in my entire life and drink occasionally. I am a practicing Christian and attend church at THE CHURCH OF GOD OF PROPHECY..I think I like you and i really want to keep in touch with you and to exchange mails with you everyday in order to get to know ourselves better and to build a lasting friendship or relationship which will eventually end up in something really great.you seems to have some of the traits i'm looking for in a man.i read little about you in your profile and loved it.so i want to be very serious with you and get to know you better...what do you think about this ? i am seriously looking for my true life partner,someone i can love and be loved back,someone i can trust and spend the rest of my life with..i have been looking for my life partner on the net for quiet some days now,but it seems to be very difficult to find it on the net.

Anyway,i have attached pictures of me with this letter and i hope you will like them..

how many kids do u have and how many times have u been married ?
tell me more about yourself and what u do..
can you send me more of your photos ?
so do you have yahoo or msn messenger ? i will very much love to meet up with you online and chat with you as frequent as possible on daily bases,becos this will help to get to know ourselves better and more.

How long have u been on the date site and how many Ghana girls or Norwegian girls have u chat with or made contact with ?


May God bless you and keep you..

kind regards

Letter 2

Hello Vladimir,

Thanks for the nice responds email and am so happy to hear from you. Yes i do know that we live so far away from each other,but like i said,do not worry about that becos i do love travelling and will love to fly over for a visit after we get to know ourselves better,,i also dont mind relocating in the future..so dont worry about the distance at all ok..

Well I joined the dating site days ago and you were the first person i contacted on the site.In fact i found you 10 minutes after i joined...If you could check my profile from the site,i have deleted it,i deleted my profile before i started writing this very email,,this is becos i am one man's woman and i dont like the idea of writing to more than one man,so i deleted my profile from the dating site just becos of you,i want to exchange mails with you alone and get to know u more..i pray and believe that things will work out for us.please do not let me down as i am putting a lot of trust and hope in you.

In fact i am happy that i have meet you and i pray that things will go on well between us so that we can keep in touch on regular basis and build a lasting and strong relationship which will eventually end up in something really great.,hope u know what i mean. You seems to be very genuine,you are my kind of man and i am very happy that i have found you.i know and pray that things will work out for us when we eventually meet.

I live and work in a town called Takoradi in the western region of Ghana. I live about 60 kilometers away from home and i visit my family ones in every 2 weeks..i have 2 brothers and one little sister and i am the eldest.As you already knows,i am Norwegian by nationality,was born and raised in Oslo,Norway and only came down to Ghana few couple of years ago after my dad passed away.my dad passed away when i was 38,he was a banker and work with Nordea Bank in oslo for many years,but had a fatal accident on his way home from work one everning and died at the spot,i was so lonely and sad out there in oslo after he died as i was the only one living with him,so i came down to Ghana to live with my mum for some sort of comfort,but i moved out when i started this job and rented my own apartment.I am single,have never been married and have no kids.

Anyway I have been given a bitter heart broken by my ex-boyfriend and it's a year and 2 months now since we split,but i thank god that i have healed from the ordeal i went through and can look for a new love again. A friend of mine was very successful in finding her life partner on the dating site and she introduce me there,,she now live in USA with her husband and daughter. i have been praying everyday that i will also find someone who will be honest and love me..so i thank God that i have found you and hope things will work out for us in the nearest future..

I have attached more pics of me with this email and i hope u will like them....

what is your favourate food ?
what is your likes and dislikes ?
do you like swimming ?
do you smoke ?
do you drink alcohol ?
do u have msn or yahoo messenger ? i will love to chat with u if u have any.

Ask me any question u like and i will answer them..

Letter 3

My dear Vladimir,

Thanks for the nice responds email and am happy to hear from u.thanks also for your photos,,you sure do look much younger than your age,do u realise that ?

Well its 6:00 pm here and i just got in from work and thought i will email u as i am already missing u,,the first thing i did when i walk in is, switch on my computer and quickly checked my email to see if u have emailed me..i dont know what is really happening to me,but you have been on my mind all day today and just couldnt concentrate on any other thing..what have you done to me? do u think i am crazy ? we just met and i have not even spoken to you on the phone yet,,but always thinking about u...what do u think is wrong with me ? am i getting crazy ?

I told all my friends and colleagues at work about you and they were so happy for me,,they are happy that i have been able to find someone again.

I just thank God that i have found you,because i know god is gradually answering my prayers as i always pray to find a loving,honest and caring man soon who will like and love me for who i am and not what i am. i think u have most of the traits am looking for in a man and am really thankful to God for that. i hope and pray that when we meet in the nearest future that we will like each other. all my life i have been so sad and lonely and i really want to change that,,i know we will both make ourselves happy when we finally get together,,i also know that we will be happy together as we both look for the same thing,i mean true love.

One thing i want to let you know is,,i am not so much into material things or fancy things,,i just like the normal way of life,,i look for an everyday working type of man to love and be loved back,,trust and spend the rest of my life with,,Not someone who will always want to buy me fancy material things to make me happy..well i thought i will let u know.

I am going to get in the shower now and will get something to eat afterwards, will check email when i finish eating and hope i will hear from you then.

i have attached couple more of my photos with this email and i hope you like them.

Kisses and hugs,

Letter 4

Hello Vladimir,

Thanks for the nice responds and must confess i really do feel happy whenever i open my email and see a new email from you..

I will like to share my likes and dislikes as well as my favourate foods with you, i think it's one of the needed steps to get to know each other better.My likes and what makes me happy are : animals,honest people,my partner giving me flowers,an everning alone with a partner,wining and dinning and cuddling up on the couch while watching tv or movies,kissing and walking hand in hand in public with the one i love. etc

My dislikes are : Arrogant people,Liars,men who beat women,dishonest people,people who tak drugs,violent people etc.

My favourate foods are : chicken and chips,steak,Norge food,italian,chinese,sea foods and american.

I believe that people meet people every day of their lives and everything in life happens for a reason.As you already knows,i am christian and i believe that i met you for a reason,i found you on the date site 10 minutes after i joined and i think that's really a miracle,dont u think so ? I am kind and sometimes an over generous person with a heart of gold. I am intelligent and passionate.. I love life and try to live it in such a way that each day has a new meaning. I am romantic by nature and loving by soul. I love to help others and love the laughter of children. I believe in love and all that comes with being in love. I am not your usual lady in thinking that love is how many men you sleep or slept with, but believe that being loyal and loving to one man is what makes love special. I believe intimacy is special in both forms. So many make the mistake of thinking intimacy is the simple act of sex.Yes i do Love sex very much with the right person but to me intimacy is the touching of two souls and the beating of two hearts as one. Romance is a lost act these days and a lot of people often forget that the simple things in life are often the sweetest. How special it can be when two in love can simply swap a kiss, or share a walk hand in hand under a full moon or at the beach. I do not pretend to be the answer to lost love, or the answer to everlasting romance. But l love with my heart and feel with my soul. I know what it means to love and to have lost. But without the feeling of pain we can never become the wiser. I truly believe that for each of us we have someone out there ready to win our hearts. But without the risk there cannot be victory. Comfort is my watch word and i am comfortable in my own skin . I take pretty care of my self and i will do the same for my man.I hope i havent bored you to death expressing my inner thoughts and desires.
I am going to get something to eat now,,will check email later and hope i will hear from you then.

Kisses and hugs

Letter 5

My dear Vladimir

Thanks for your email.

Well there is something i have been thinking about all day today,but i am just wondering if u will accept it as this may seem too soon in our relationship.

well my vacation from work start on the 27th of this month which is in a few couple of days and i have been thinking of flying over and to spend a week or 2 with u,so that we can have the chance to sit and talk face to face,wine and dine together, have real nice fun together and then see how we get on..we will then be able to tell if we are really compatible or not,,but i am just wondering if u will accept this or not as this may seem too soon in our relationship. but please do let me know what u think. if u will accept this then i will start making all the necessary arrangements towards this,but if not then i will have to think of going somewhere else for my vacation.

To answer your questions : some examples of Nordic foods are lutefisk and lefse,,i am a good cook and i will cook nice nordic foods for us when i get there.
About my education background,, well i attended university in oslo and have a degree in accounting and business managements.,my first language is Norge,but i only learnt english in the university.

well i will be waiting for your responds with the greatest anticipations.

kisses and hugs