Letter(s) to Haytham (Canada)

Letter 1

I am from a good background, I am a very good Christian and I am born into a Christian family, I am very faithful and honest and under no circumstance will I be unfaithful to my partner or anyone.I am well brought up and i know what i am required of as a wife.I my culture, I am to love, care ,and respect my husband, I must make sure I do everything possible to make him happy as well as please him even if I have to leave my own way to do so. My roles as a wife are to be carried out by me accordingly..I am mixed race Asian and African by decent i was just in the states seeking for greener pastures so i can be able to take care of my family..I am Philippians and Ghanaian by race and decent but residing in Ghana with my son and mother now after the flood disaster that happened in the Philippians ..I will like to know if race,distance and religion would be a problem for you in finding that special woman in your life?
You know Coco Chanel once said that "There can be only one woman in every mans life and the others are just her shadows. "Well I think the same should be said about a man in every woman's life and I believe that I will find this man no matter what. I am a cheerful and charming girl who you will never get bored with. I like to watch the sunset at the seaside and breathe in fresh air, I enjoy having fun with kids and invite guests to my place, I think it is great when I can truly say that I have close people in my life, and there is always someone who I can trust and always rely on. This happens in my life cause I am always the same with my friends, and the same as I value them a lot in my life, they value my presence in their lives too. I know I can be a good wife, the best lover and the most sincere friend in your life and, when we are together, you will know that there is a woman in your life who is always behind you and will support and care for you no matter wha! t.
I can name you some certain character traits I think I would like to see in him. Especially it concerns appearance. I am pretty sure that a man becomes a real man when he is with a woman who can make him like that. I am in some way against emancipation and I do not think it is a good thing when you have relations with a man, when he does not know that he is the one and the only who can make decision for both of you and that he is responsible for your family then why would a woman need him? There is a very thin line between being a MASTER but at the same time being wise enough to know that your second half - the one like me - will always wish the best for our family and sometimes it is good to listen to her also. Well, I can talk about this more and more, but I have not enough space for that.