Letter(s) to Ola (Sweden)

Letter 1

Hi Ola ,

how are you doing ? i am fine , so nice communicating with you at the database and to get your email address .You know i went through your profile that captured my interest and i am interested in knowing you . I will like to further this communication with you so i am inviting you to join me at yahoo IM so we can talk live if you wish , it remains the best form of communication so we know more about each other .

About me. I am partly south African and Benin , i was in Canada for a program month back but i am back home at Africa. I am mixed south African and the peoples republic of Benin in Africa. My Dad a British south African , British descendants to south African his family migrated to south Africa in late 18Th century . Mom from Benin , I live with my single parent my mom and my younger sister here in peoples republic of Benin presently , city Cotonou .

I moved on to the next adventure in my life....Benin! I moved out here almost a year ago after the death of my father to be with my mom here, because dad other wife my step mom in south Africa , after taking over my fathers properties treating to kill us . We decided to travel to Benin where mom relocated to , her home land for security reasons for some while .

Mom relocated back to Benin as she gets older and she have always wanted to be buried here after her death, apart from that she is a true christian woman that hates trouble and believes she have a lot to give to the people of Benin being a christian woman. I have more to tell about me and i also believe you have things to tell about you too , i will write you in my next letter more , telling you why i seek a man from over seas , my work as a volunteering worker in this region , helping humanity as much as i can b4 relocating .

Attach are some of my photos for you , i know we are on same page here seeking same thing some one to spend the rest of our lives with , so lets go for it , i will be looking forward to hear from you , have a nice day .

Regards .

Lundi .

Letter 2

Dear Ola ,

how is life treating you today ? i am fine and i feel so good to read from you again , thanks for the email and the photos , you are a good looking man and i like what i saw . I am single and i seek a soul mate , this i am serious about , finding a man who will love me for me and we build a home together , i understand Ur English is not that good but i still understand you so we don't have a problem with that .

I think Sweden is just an hour ahead of us here , my yahoo time is not correct. I want to know you more as we seem to be looking for same thing . I am using this opportunity to write telling you more about me . I work a social services work as a social worker , working for the government of Benin with the assistance of some NGO. I work as an educator teaching here and also in a first aid team as a practicing nurse helping in taking care of the needy . I am a single christian lady seeking and serious about finding my soul mate , a friend , lover , husband. I am a cheerful woman, fun loving woman, God loving chest kind romantic. I love cooking reading and traveling.

Am caring person i care for people mustily aged. I am patient,generous, kind, and loving. And like to do many things as sport, camping, go to the cinema, theater. I am always upbeat, have a positive attitude about most things and I like to have fun. I enjoy music,theater, movies and art . I am very affectionate, and love to walk hand in hand and cuddle. Very spontaneous. To me the most special aspect of a relationship is the secrecy and uniqueness of being alone together, when we can whisper to each other in ways that represent our own oneness to which no -one else will ever be privy.

I can't stand the idea of living a 'normal' life: I feel this is wasting my talents. I prefer extremes to normality, but this is more a romantic ideal than an actual way I might live! I love Jesus Christ more than I can say, and have been blessed with a deep knowledge of the scriptures and this does not mean i am religious. The more reason why i seek a foreign date is because its been a problem here to find a true man , matured and reasonable who knows the value of a woman and love me for me.

Men here are all selfish because of their tradition and custom even the so called christian , polygamy is part of their tradition ,that was why i broke up with my last date when he told me that after we must have been married he will some day get another woman for a wife as the tradition here allows it , i broke up with him as i don't want to fall a victim like most women here do , after marriage the husband will end up having a second wife or more under one roof.

If i may ask do the white men there have the same belief in having more than 1 wife? or rather keeping too many woman ?. Apart from that men here don't regard woman , take women as a second class people this is a way of life in African , i seek a man with a different culture and tradition , where men respect and see woman as a team a partner , not just a wife , lots more to talk about how women were been handled here.

I am a matured christian lady and i know what i want in life , i cant live with such man as my husband under a roof , that's why i seek a Good loving man to spend the rest of my life with. You , what do you do for a living ? how soon do you intend to get married? what is your idea of the first date? tell me what you think attracts you to ladies? do you think we could get started to have a fulfilled relationship? do you like kids ? .

Will be so glad to further this our communication to the next level where we will chat talking directly , will be looking forward to hear from you , have a wonderful day .

Regards .

Lundi .