Letter(s) to Gary (South Africa)

Letter 1

Thanks for your chat on badoo Gary as it will be great to read more from you. i am new to internet dating as i am giving my best out even though i have been hurt in life before but that does not mean that i should stop loving or be loved once again in life by someone special to my heart.
Anyway,i hope I also do get to know something about you too after reading mine.It's hard to actually describe oneself as i am sometimes shy at first but all the same i do get along as we communicate more with one another
Funny though as my present field of study in my Career was nothing close to what I studied at the University. I completed career program Nursing but later opted to do Management and Administration before leaving to Ghana as I find it interesting interacting with people . This program was introduced to me by family friend who was also in the same profession .I could not reject it but to opt for it ,thereafter I began to get knowledge ans in-sight of the whole thing, I love this establishment because it interesting..I think I am only trying to be self explanatory so that u could have a deep glimpse into my kind of person I will really love to come to you, as it will be so lovely that we get more communication. In-fact ,in every relationship you need trust to love, but first you need to love in order to trust.To love someone is to understand each other, to laugh together, to smile with your heart and to trust one another.
my goals and dreams are to live a balanced life in all aspects, to be the half of a love relationship,to keep growing in what I do as a professional activity, to live in a place full of love and joy. i welcome a person who has learned from the past and is willing to explore a new relationship filled with honesty, caring, loyalty, and respect. I'm not looking for Mr. Perfect, just a comfortable man who has a special place in his heart for a new friend and more.
I'm the type of lady that get on well with people of all ages.I am very honest and care for what is happening around me and have a lot of patience..I like to learn and explore new ways in life.I enjoy most kind of sports on Tv, i do looking listening to music,dancing and also reading wider to broaden my Horizon I'm good at cooking and i cook some meals that are not too complicated.Life is good and i intend to take a lot of pleasure from it.I would like to share my life with someone so that it is meaningful to both of us.I want and need that happy unique person to be the major part of my life.
I'm seeking a serious long term relationship and more. Someone who is responsible, respectful, can take care of themselves,and who is employed.special to capture my heart and knows how to handle it with care, one who will cherish me and be willing to share life's greatest joys and sorrows. Someone who's willing to spoil, pamper and love me unconditionally, whom is kind, sincere, honest, passionate, loyal, sense of humor, loving and wants a lifetime of passion.and also knows how to have fun but can be serious when needed., so only serious inquiries will be accepted.I hope to hear from you soon I'm looking for a soul-mate....a best friend for life! Someone I could talk to about anything.....A good listener, smart and funny! I'd give the same to the ONE !! Who knows - may be you are my twin-soul please i hope that u will also take this chance to tell me some thing vivid about u then so that we can get acquainted with one another and send me photo's of you as well please..i hope to hear from u again....Take care and looking to hear from you soon the best of the day to u..
Forever yours Ernestina

Letter 2

thank you so very much for your mail my dear Gary i am really happy hearing from you as it really show how concern you are to have more communication with me so that we can build a lovely relationship together my dear as the clock ticks.
so how are the electoral process going on out there in South Africa ? My dear i am so happy that you do have a believe in God the same way that i do as this will really have a positive impact on this our relationship as we both grow in it together Gary. woow we have the same Surname my dear what a surprise this means that we really have a lot in common Gary and i really thank the Lord Almighty for making us to meet each other and that He (God) will always guide and protect our lifes together .
My dear Gary,do you know that faith is what you hold on to.Trust is what makes everyone realize that you are always there for them. Faith is what makes everyone realize that you are always there to help them in case they need some help. Love makes not everyone, but the only one in your life who is special, think that you are always there for her, to be with her, to cherish her, to fulfill her dreams, to share with her and most of all, to make her realize how much you really love her as distance doesn't matter if you really love the person, what matters most is your honesty and trust for that relationship to work out.
there is a saying that goes that without romance, love gets dry. without respect, love gets lost. without caring, love gets boring. without honesty, love gets unhappy, and without trust, love gets unstable.Love is a wonderful gift; trust in it, believe in it, give it, and it will be returned to you to give again and again.There may be many people that are trustworthy, but only a few are worth trusting with your heart; choose wisely.To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved. For you can love many, but without trust you have nothing.The heart already knows what the mind can only dream of. Trust your heart as Love means never doubting anything. It means trusting and being honest with each other.
Do you know that love is patient and kind. It does not delight in evil, but rejoices in the truth. It always protects, trusts, hopes, perseveres.Love takes many things: trust, hope, wishes, dreams, and everything you've got, even when you know it's not going be enough.Love is not always fireworks and shooting stars; sometimes it's a simple understanding and trust between two people......
Do take care and have a lovely day as i hope that u can send me some photos please Forever yours ........Ernestina

Letter 3

so what time can we chat on line today please as i think Republic of South Africa if ahead of Ghana with time dff with 2 hours .
so give me the time in your local time to that i can relate that to my time here so have a lovely and blessed day Gary
hugs from Ernestina

Letter 4

thanks for your mail quick mail to me my dear Gary
please i hope that you can also send me some photos of you as well
can we chat in an hours time please?
do take care and have a blessed day
lots of hugs from Ernestina

Letter 5

No Gary i do not have any middle/second name any way,i am trying to write to you a long mail as when i am done i will mail it to you please
hugs from me to you Gary

Letter 6

thank you so very much for your mails today as this really show how concern and dedicate we are to one another to have more communication with each other so that we build a lovely relationship together as the clock ticks my dear as i am really happy that we are really getting along in knowing one another as i think the true chemistry between us I will do all that we can both be happy.
My dear,please my dear ,can i ask u this Questions too please ?
1. What is your favorite color? Blue like the sky and the ocean, to me it makes me calm and represents the air and water that gives life
2 What is your occupation my dear Gary ?
3 When is your birthday?mine is 17th of May 1981 and how about you my dear
4. What are your favorite types of food? means is mostly healthy meals
5. Are u a Christian and do you believe in a God? and do you attend church? mine is Yes
6. What type of music do u listen to? i do listen to gospel,country,soul and R & B
7. If you were giving three chances to make a choice in life what would you choose?For me it will be Family,Career and Goal
8.What are your hobbies ? mine are cooking,reading,swimming,listen to music and dancing.
13.Do you live in a House or apartment ? i live in an Apartment and you ?
14.Have you any pets ? i love pets but do not have one currently
15.what excites you ? formally my work but now having you Gary,in my life excites me
16.what would be your idea of a night out ? candle night dinner
18.What is your favorite sport ? mine is Swimming
19.What is your ideal for a holiday? having a family trait together either at home or at the beach
20.what is your favorite -movie? i do like adventure,thrillers,romance and action
21.What is your favorite all time movie ? mine is Titanic
22.What three words best describe you? i am Trustworthy,romantic and self discipline
23..What do you want most from life?mine is having a passionate family life(caring husband, loving children) and career .
24.. Can you drive a vehicle? i don't know how to drive as i hope that you will teach me anyway what brand of car do fancy or use ?
25.. Do you smoke cigarettes or drink alcohol or do drugs?for me i don't do any of the side mentioned
26..How many brothers and sisters etc. you have?i'm the only child of my Mum
27..Do you believe that true love and a great relationship needs a good sex life as there is a poetry saying that goes like this "Without romance, love gets dry. without respect, love gets lost. without caring, love gets boring. without honesty, love gets unhappy, and without trust, love gets unstable.Love is a wonderful gift; trust in it, believe in it, give it, and it will be returned to you to give again and again"
Loving, trusting and respecting each other totally can bring you to true love and happiness.It is hard to love and hard to trust; but finding love and finding trust is a gift from me to you ,Gary hugs from me to you ,Gary
Forever yours Ernestina