Letter(s) to Ricardo (Brazil)

Letter 1

Hi, How are you and how is work? Hope all is well with you?. why did it take you long before replying my mail? Its my very great pleasure to read from you and it really made my day when i read your mails and i like the way you answered my questions and i now know that you are really for real and i hope things will work out well between us.
This is more about me. I like watching stormy weather, going to educational lectures, beaches, watching movies, musical concerts and sometimes go for dinner and taste a little coffee. I am ambitious, imaginative, kind, sensitive, self-confident, generous to a fault, and loyal. I'm not a Vegan, I love to cook. I am also interested in trading, technology, engineering, or working for myself. I believe I am intelligent and that i have the capacity to be a great friend and lover and open to possibilities with the right playmate because i grew up to love and to care for others.
Yeah, i am for real, because i don't think i have time for playing games around, because its very bad and sad when someone hurts another persons good feelings and i don't think i am here to do that and i won't like that to happen to me also............ Well to my understanding, relationship can mean two things:
1) It can mean that we have a connection, which I think exists because we have gotten to know each other better.
2) Relationship also means to be romantically and sexually involved and I think we are not at that level. So, I think at this point, given the few amount of time we have e-mailed each other, we definitely have a friendship formed based on some external and internal similarities that are developing into a relationship that will bring us a little closer with good intentions, and the potential exists for the relationship to evolve into something more significant and i pray and hope that what i am thinking is right because i won't like to be taken for granted.
I've been in several rapports where I was not fully appreciated and it hurts especially knowing that i have been dumped by a man before. In fact, many times I felt I was taken advantage of and that hurts. I'd like to meet someone who recognizes the little things I do for him and knows how to be appreciative. For instance, if I were to make breakfast in bed or draw a bath for my man, he could thank me by giving me a hug or a kiss.Or perhaps sending me a card for no particular occasion just to tell me 'thank you.' I'm very appreciative of what people do for me and i reward them in my own little ways. To me, it's the little things that mean a great deal to me.
What does it really mean to be affectionate?. I love a man who can display his affections for me any time and anywhere without having to be shy and even if he is shy he should be able to show his love for me anywhere though. And a person who knows how to be affectionate is a big plus. I love being affectionate. This may be an odd one, but I've learned that there are many man out there that are set in their ways. They have one way of doing things and are never open to suggestions or advice Stubborn man are a major turn off for me and i hope and pray that you are not one of them. I like a man who is open to ideas, thoughts, and basically open minded I think being receptive brings about sensitivity as well. A man who is ignorant, mean, and just plain insensitive is difficult to get along with and i don't need such a man in my life. I would say that I'm not afraid to display my emotions. I'd like someone who is sensitive and caring. If I'm sad, I'd like for him to be able to comfort me and cheer me up and most of all for him to be there for me. He doesn't has to do much, but just knowing that he's there for me is more than good enough.
Have you ever had someone not stand up for you? I was deeply hurt when someone I once knew wouldn't stand up for me, even after he told me he loved me. I would never allow someone to hurt my boyfriend or my husband, and I would always stand up for him and would like him to stand for me too no matter what. One thing I will always do for my man is to protect him and what i need from my man is for him to protect me too.
Why did you divorce your wife?
PS-I hope i have met the right man?

Thanks.,
Helena.

Letter 2

Hello Richard, How are you doing and how is everything going with you and how is work and everyone around you i hope all is well as i am fine here also. I got your mail and i am so happy with your views and i am so glad to know that we share the same views and that we are moving well and i mean so well together, It's not up to a year i lived in SP, I must confess, My spoken Portuguese is too bad lol... I only speak English fluently. I hope you will teach me more of Portuguese when i am back. I am so glad you understand all i wrote and you are always ready to read from me and also write me too. I want you to know that i am so happy i met you and we are writing each other because i now believe that we are meant for each other and we might be together real soon. From what you wrote, i am sure your marriage was a mess. A third party must not be involve in a Marriage. Marriage is meant for husband and wife alone and no other family member should interfere into their affairs.
Ric, I would like to talk this time on what i feel is the basis of a strong and steady relationship . These are my views on a strong and steady relationship. I know for a relationship to be at its best the parties involved must be willing to sacrifice for themselves and stand for each other. I mean to be able to go the extra mile for each other. The main point in a relationship is Honesty, Trust and they are as important as much as the other which we have been able to discuss in our other mails we have sent each other. As you know i would like my dream man to have trust for me and for him to be honest with me and i am sure that where there is trust and honesty then that will be the right relationship for anyone to be in or do i say perfect. For a relationship to be steady then both the man and woman should know that they are to become one and therefore hide nothing from themselves. I will do anything i can to make sure that all is well with him and he is happy because if my man is not alright or is feeling sad then i will also feel it too and if i am feeling bad then he too will feel it so it is better when two heads are together to solve or make amends. i hope you write me soon. I am glad i met you...
Yours,
Helena

Letter 3

Hi Richard, Thanks for the lovely mail you sent to me. I read the mail over and over again and i must say you are a very lovely person. Also, i read the amazing love history link you sent to me, although i didn't understand everything at first but i read and read carefully and i later understand more. I must say it's really an amazing real life story and a good testimony to the power of love. Ric, I like to always receive emails from you. I am beginning to think about you. I have not met you in person but my heart is already thinking about you. I believe that liking someone is not by the appearance of the person but by the heart that will really care for you. I hope i am making a right decision by liking you. I will also want you to let me know if you truly want me as your girl because i am so happy i met you and i think about you so much that i want to make you the man of my life. I hope you will be willing to make me your girl. I never tried online dating but when i met you, your words usually make me happy and my heart always tell me some words that, this might be the beginning of a great love. I am shy and don't know how to express how i feel about you now. I hope soon i will have the courage to write it out to you so you can know how i feel about you. I will be waiting to get an email from you before i tell you how exactly i feel about you. I wish you a splendid day. Thanks Your's, Helena.

Letter 4

Hi Richard, Thanks for the lovely mail you sent to me. I read the mail over and over again and i must say you are a very lovely person. Also, i read the amazing love history link you sent to me, although i didn't understand everything at first but i read and read carefully and i later understand more. I must say it's really an amazing real life story and a good testimony to the power of love. Ric, I like to always receive emails from you. I am beginning to think about you. I have not met you in person but my heart is already thinking about you. I believe that liking someone is not by the appearance of the person but by the heart that will really care for you. I hope i am making a right decision by liking you. I will also want you to let me know if you truly want me as your girl because i am so happy i met you and i think about you so much that i want to make you the man of my life. I hope you will be willing to make me your girl. I never tried online dating but when i met you, your words usually make me happy and my heart always tell me some words that, this might be the beginning of a great love. I am shy and don't know how to express how i feel about you now. I hope soon i will have the courage to write it out to you so you can know how i feel about you. I will be waiting to get an email from you before i tell you how exactly i feel about you. I wish you a splendid day. Thanks Your's, Helena.

Letter 5

Hi Ric, Thank you for the mail you sent to me. I like to receive emails from you. I was waiting all the time to get your email and when i finally got the mail, i was so happy and i smiled. I always think about you. You are a wonderful man and you seem like the man i want to be with. I am shy but i will do my best to express how i feel about you. I apologize for not been able to write you yesterday I was quite busy. I hope my apology is accepted. Ric, I am sire this is a beginning of a wonderful relationship. there is so much I want to tell you, a lot has been running through my head lately. I'm having trouble putting my thoughts into words so you will have to bare with me through this. I keep thinking about the future, about life, and what I want out of it. I keep thinking about us and what this relationship means to me. I keep thinking about these things and I realize they go hand in hand. I want you to know that this gradually growing relationship is my future; it's what I want out of life. I want to grow old with you. I want to experience this love forever and ever, and I really think I'm going to get to. I want to see you walk around our house while i watch you at how gorgeous you are. I want to you to know that love is so important tome and i have been single for long. I want you to pull the covers off me at night and i get closer to you to keep warm. I want to see you laugh at me when I do stupid stuff and know i have a loving and caring man. I want to have a child with you and go through the experiences of parenthood with you. I want to see you and me chasing our little kid around the house, all three of us laughing our heads off and having fun. I want to hold you when you cry and smile with you when you smile. I want to fall asleep every night with me in your arms. I want to fall asleep on your chest listening to the beat of your heart and know it beats for me. I want you to be the first thing I see when I wake up and the last thing I see when I go to sleep. I want to see your early morning hair; I think it will be so cute. I want to sit on the beach with you and watch the sun set, and I want all the people who pass us to envy the love that we obviously have for each other. I want to see you walk down that isle and I want to take your hand for the rest of my life. I want to spend all night, and maybe the next day, making love to you with an undying passion (sorry to be so blunt). I want to be thirty years old and still make out with you like a little schoolgirl. I want to cook a meal with you. I want to sit there talking to you for hours about nothing at all but in the same time everything or maybe we won't talk at all and just grin at each other realizing how lucky we are. I want you to get mad at me for doing something stupid, and I want you to bust out laughing when you try to yell at me. I want to lay with you in front of a fireplace and keep the heat going long after the fire goes out. I want to take trips with you to places we've never been and experience them together. I want us to go skinny-dipping in a hotel pool and get caught and streak back to our hotel room waking everyone up because we're laughing so hard. I want to hold your hand and let you scream at me while you bring our child into this world. I want our friends to come over and get totally jealous because they don't share a love like we do. I want us to run outside in the rain and act like total kids getting completely soaked and return inside to have fun.

Letter 6

Ola Aggelon, Como voce esta fazendo? Obrigado por escrever-me de volta. Meu nome e Helena Jones. Eu apenas registrado no site de namoro para que eu sou novo para isso. Gostei do seu perfil no site, por isso, entrei em contato com voce e voce e o primeiro que escreveu para mim a partir do site. Obrigado por escrever para mim. Eu quero dizer-lhe tudo sobre mim e porque eu registrado no site, para que voce possa me conhecer melhor.
Eu sou uma senhora forte, sexy, inteligente, independente, com muitos gols e lotes para conseguir na vida. Estou a procura de um relacionamento serio, que pode levar ao casamento, nao importa o que a idade, eu tenho uma crenca de que a idade e apenas um numero, mas sentimentos verdadeiros e carinho e o que realmente importa em um relacionamento. Estou a procura de um homem que esta de mente aberta para ter correspondencia com. Sou sexy, leal, dedicado e acima de tudo mulher temente a Deus que esta olhando para o mesmo homem para passar o resto da minha vida. Alguem para compartilhar momentos pessoais com, curtir a vida juntos e para segurar com firmeza as bencaos de uma felicidade duradoura e eterna. Eu nasci para agradar e nao para provocar o que e por isso que eu acredito que eu sempre tenho que colocar Deus em primeiro lugar em tudo que eu faco. Sou educado com metas elevadas, moral e integridade. Gosto de divertir-se com o homem dos meus sonhos e precisa de um homem de verdade ao meu lado para compartilhar em meus sonhos. Eu tambem preciso de um homem que vai cuidar bem de mim, como sua dama amorosa. Um homem que sabe como amar e como tratar uma dama. Preciso de um homem com uma boa conversa, inteligencia, um homem que e inteligente e que sabe como tratar uma mulher bem e acima de tudo um homem que teme a Deus e pode ser confiavel. Quero explorar o mundo e fazer coisas novas quando chego em casa ou quando estou com o homem dos meus sonhos. Eu amo o tempo quente, bebidas tropicais e areno-praias. Eu gosto de festa e se divertir e, principalmente com o meu homem. Eu nao quero mais drama na minha vida como a que eu ja presenciei. Eu gosto de noites romanticas e palestras quarto apenas entre meu homem e eu. Eu sou uma verdadeira dama procurando um homem de verdade, eu amo estar com minha amada sozinha e estar com ele para o resto da minha vida. Gosto de estar com os amigos e estar sozinho as vezes e acima de tudo para agradar o homem que eu amo.
Aqui e um pouco mais sobre mim. Eu nao sou um brasileiro, originada a partir de EUA, vivendo em Sao Paulo Brasil, mas agora na Africa em uma viagem de negocios. Eu vou estar voltando para casa (SP, Brasil), na proxima semana, entao talvez possamos marcar um encontro em qualquer lugar. Eu estarei disposto a mudar se eu posso encontrar um homem certo do meu sonho que e a razao pela qual eu estou aqui em um site de namoro. Eu nasci e cresci nos EUA, meu pai era um homem de negocios bem sucedido. Ele estava em design de moda e tambem para compra e venda de joias. Eu frequentou a Universidade, passou quatro anos la e depois que eu comecar a trabalhar com meu pai em sua profissao e eu tenho que saber muito com ele sobre joias e tambem sobre como obte-los crus ou seja aqueles que, como gemas e tambem a forma de transforma-los em joias e vende-los a uma taxa mais caro que e o que eu faco agora para a vida apos a morte dos meus pais em um acidente de automovel. Agora estou a viver sozinha e agora eu tenho que me virar para sobreviver e por isso que eu tenho que pegar estas joias cru aqui em Africa e, em seguida, leva-los de volta para casa para transforma-los e tambem vender alguns deles la. Estou a procura de um relacionamento serio, que pode levar ao casamento um dia e eu vou estar disposto a mudar-se para uma base segura talvez vindo para voce quando estou por aqui e saber que eu tenho um homem amoroso para o resto da minha vida, a idade nao e nada para mim, o que importa e o amor, cuidado e abertura de espirito. Acho que teremos de aprender uns com os outros mais e mais antes de podermos fazer qualquer coisa, eu vou te amar para o e-mail me diga-me mais sobre si mesmo. Espero que eu tenho sido capaz de dizer-lhe um pouco sobre mim e eu gostaria de lhe dizer mais depois de receber seu e-mail ........ eu quero lhe fazer algumas perguntas e eu quero as respostas honestas.
.... voce tem filhos? Eu nao tenho, mas eu adoraria ter filhos com quem eu amo
.... Qual e a sua experiencia ruim e bom em atender uma senhora na Internet? Estou recem-registrado neste site para que eu nao tenho nenhuma experiencia
..... o que voce faz para ganhar a vida [de trabalho]? Eu compro e vendo joias
...... voce e solteiro, casado ou divorciado? Sou solteiro.
...... voce e um jogador? Eu sou de verdade e eu tambem preciso de um homem que e real
Vou anexar algumas fotos para este e-mail para que voce possa ver como eu pareco. Eu quero que voce tambem me enviar algumas de suas fotos. Estou ansioso para obter uma resposta de voces para que eu possa saber se voce e realmente o homem que eu estava esperando. Alem disso, vou adiciona-lo ao meu contacto Skype, para que possamos, por vezes, bate-papo. Depois de responder meu e-mail, voce tambem pode adicionar-me no Skype via hellenajones@outlook.com
Espero que eu ouvir de voce.

Obrigado,
Helena