Letter(s) to Dan (USA)

Letter 1

Good Morning Dan,

How are you doing and how was your night? thanks for taking your time to write me, Can you please tell me a little more about yourself?...How long have you been single and how long have you been on the dating site any luck yet, what do you do for a living and what are you looking for in a woman and when last have you been in a relationship?... ever since you joined the site have you communicate with anyone and how did it end?

Nancy.

Letter 2

Hello Dan,

Thanks for contacting me and i see in your profile on match that we share some common goals that i will like us to explore together should there be a sparked chemistry. Just so you know some things about me, I am a very open minded person, someone who accepts people as they are, I am a fair individual who adapts to changes in life and enjoys life to the fullest, and looking to meet a man that i can spend the rest of my life with in good times and in bad times as well, A man that I can love, cherish with all my whole being, my heart and I pray to God that he will provide me with that kind of man someday in my life. (Are you the one?) I pride myself of being honest and most trustworthy, I seek that in a mate, someone who is compassionate yet understanding who has a calm behavior and a great personality. And am looking for a partner and a lover and best friend who I can share the most intimate dreams with. A well rounded individual and a spiritual person. A first, second date for me does not constitute a perfect date, Nor a perfect person. I am an easygoing woman that seeks an easygoing man in her life as well.

I believe there is no ideal relationships, Be honest a relationship is hard work and compromise, It is as good as you make it, What makes a relationship ideal to someone is how much time and effort one puts into it and how committed two people are to it.

I want to meet a man that his tolerance level and how far he can go in life , If he is willing to stick around when the going gets tough and he will be there for me and I will be there for him too when the going gets tough on us. If he will still love me when I am falling apart. Well I generally try to live a somewhat healthy lifestyle, exercising and some sort of jogging, 3-4 days a week and eating healthy, (trust me, I love to keep fit)

I would also like to find a like-minded male where we can participate in activities together and encourage each other to pursue our interests as well have several hobbies, and wish I could find more time to pursue those, such as swimming, playing computer, dancing, and reading, and more, and would like someone to share those with, as well as their sharing their interests with me.

I am generally an optimistic person with a good sense of humor, fairly easy-going, and I don't think that I'm too critical about things, but I also believe that it takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work. As I mentioned earlier, I like to do things with the other significant person in my life, but I also encourage him to go out and spend time with friends and pursue his own interests and hobbies as well.

I believe there is give and take in a relationship. I consider myself to be a fairly honest and truthful person and expect the same in return; I'm not wealthy but I don't lack anything in life though so and don't expect someone to attempt to deceive me or "play" me. Everybody makes mistakes and I usually give people the benefit of the doubt, but if the same pattern keeps emerging, it's over I do not want to meet someone who may think that they will take advantage of me or lie to me and cheat on me under false pretenses. Sorry if that sounds harsh, and I'm not accusing you of any wrongdoing, but I'm being upfront and honest about that. So you know where I stand from the beginning. With all due respect as well, I hope that you are upfront and honest with me, as well.I am very relationship oriented and I believe life is too short to waste and age don't really matter to me as i believe it's just a number when it come to relationship. When I am in a relationship I am committed, honest, and loyal. I think falling in love is always a good thing, even if it doesn't work out. There is always something to learn from being with someone, and happy times and memories should be cherished. Friendship comes first for me.

Well I hope that this lets you know a little about me, and I hope I don't come across as being too cynical, harsh, or mean sounding. I will give you the benefit of the doubt (we're all human, we all make mistakes), but I also don't like being taken advantage of.

I'm just asking you to keep it real and be honest from the beginning; that way, nobody is wasting their time or getting their feelings hurt also realize that at times two people are just too different to be in a relationship together; it doesn't mean that it's anybody's fault, it's just that they're too different to be compatible. I hope with this you can understand who i am and what am looking for.

I look forward to hear back from you ASAP.... Less i forget, i am presently on a short business trip in Asia Malaysia, but i will be back to the states in 2 weeks. I hope that's not a problem?....

Warm regards,

Nancy.

Letter 3

Hello Dan,

Its nice to read from you again, and i must admit you sound very down to earth. One of the qualities i seek in a man. getting into a relationship, should be something of the right mind at the right time knowing the strategies of building a long lasting togetherness. for me, this is what i want from my man ;I'd like to meet someone who is smart, creative, ambitious, funny, and balanced. I am looking for my equal partner and playmate. He is young at heart, genuinely happy, appreciates the little things and understands the point of balance between work and play. I think that together we should have a blast, inspire one another, explore our world and enjoy ourselves every step of the way. Ideally you will share some of my interest as I will yours but not so much as to sacrifice our individuality. I don't believe a relationship can be successful if one person loses their sense of self, if so they're no longer the person you were attracted to in the first place. Someone who believes that life is not a spectator sport and that a long-term relationship may at times require work but can ultimately be successful and need not ever become boring.

I will like to get acquainted with you, I really would welcome the chance to getting to email more and often until we finally meet in person when i am back from my trip and see how the chemistry is (hopefully it will be there). You must be a true man with the heart of gold. I believe in God and i follow it all the Christian line. I want you to know that i am woman with all Qualities and i know how getting hurt is like. I need a man whom i can call my friend, my love, someone i can spend the lovely blue night with. I love going to the beach and have some fun. You sound like someone i want to go into a relationship with and i will welcome any question from you which will aid in learning more about me. I am sure my last email has made you know what i am seeking and looking for in a man/relationship. My heart is open and welcome you into it for a loving cool and calm rest:). I want you to know that i mean all i'm writing to you and i really want to meet you in person so that we can talk while we both take a walk along side the beach/drive together or take a walk in the park. I want someone to be with all my life, Could that be you? if its how God wants it. I understand the need of freelance. Everyone deserve the chance of being Independent in a relationship. Do you know relationship is all about commitment? I am a giving person, I would give the shirt off my back if someone needed it. I treat others the way I like to be treated. I love to hold hands, cuddle and I love to kiss, but haven't done that in a long time, hope it still feels the way it did... I use to also love the bedroom, but there again, have not done that in a long time also, because I don't believe in one night stand. I love cooking, and having candlelight, music dinners.

I give the full 100% of me to my man. I am not going to let him down. Age is not on my side; either it is on your side. What i seek is true love, understanding, honesty and affections. I want a true man who is beautiful on the inside than on the outside. The beauty from the inside is what matters most to me. I know meeting a true and honest woman is what a man like you is seeking, someone that will be there for you at all times. I so wish we can be able to meet now but this is still a better way of communicating and expressing each others feelings as i am on a business trip to Malaysia, but i should be back in few days time. I will be looking forward to communicate more with you and letting the words out straight from our hearts to make and help develop a better understanding between us. ( - )i want you to know that i am not here for mind games nor either here to hurt anyone. I know we both seek to be loved and cherished in life and to be happy. All this are what i have within me to share and give to the only man who will have my heart forever and keep it safe . His children are mine too because i have no kids of mine but i love kids, I will love and care for them just the same way i'll do to him too. He will find Joy, Happiness loving and being there for me. One family.I love animals especially cat and dogs but no chance for me to keep one because of my business.

I run a private business and i am not working for anyone. I have travel to many countries and getting to meet different people with different cultures. This is my first time of visiting Asia ( Malaysia), I sell Gemstones such as Diamond, Sapphire, Ruby,Tanzanite, Topaz etc. I could tell you more about my business if you wish to know . I believe in making things work out for the best and nothing but the best. Whatever it is that borders our minds should be spoken out for proper treatment. That will help us arrange our self and keeps us in good shape and i don't support the idea of sharing relationship status with friends. Relationship is based on two special people who love, care and understand each other. I look to learn more about what you think, i will have to stop here for now. Till i read from you,

PS: Do you have a yahoo account for us to chat much more better on yahoo instant messenger?.

Cheers and God bless

Nancy.

Letter 4

Good Morning Dan,

I just want you to know that I very much appreciated receiving your letter every moment i check my mail. You are a very special person who I SERIOUSLY want to explore the possibility of building a long term friendship with, that will in time turn into a marriage and family. That is my dream, and I hope to make it come true with you!. In my heart I feel you have all the qualities it takes to make me very happy...

Am looking for a man that will be able to listen to me , communicate his feelings to me , make me laugh, hold and comfort me in need,stand by my side, respect me, passionate lover in every way, support me in every way, love me and only me, make me smile, protect me when needed, romantic time to time ,constant relative, and treat me right.... I know you will think what is a pretty lady like me doing on here .... Yes the reason I came on to the internet to find the special person who deserves all the love and passion that makes up my heart and soul is because I do not have the time to meet others out in a public setting, and the fact I feel you can learn so much about someone through letters, as a person has to take there time and think about the words they want to express, so it allows you to gain a better understanding of someone than you would probably otherwise.the very moment i gave up on match.com was when i found you,deactivate your profile on match and let's start a good life..

Dear the very reason I am interested in establishing a relationship with you is because I feel I have a lot to offer you in the way of a friendship and I know I have a lot to share with you that will be of interest to you and even some things that will surprise you. I am very much a woman of substance and I am very unique in today's society because I live my life through my spirituality and through the word of God and because I have such a strong understanding of what I feel my role in life is suppose to be. I am a woman of integrity and my word is my honor!. I have very high standards for myself and my life is all about providing love, peace and happiness to others.For you to get a better understanding of me picture a waterfall in your mind and instead of all the water overflowing it is all the love and passion I have in my heart to give to others who are deserving, as the love and passion has an endless flow coming out of my heart.

Where others write many people and keep there messages short because they are all about how many they can write, I am the opposite and very selective in whom I choose to write and I like to give them my very best even if it is in a long letter such as this.. I know the type of person who I want to build a relationship with so I am willing to put the time and effort in my messages to show that to you.

Thank you again for giving me the opportunity to build this special friendship with you!. You will be rewarded for it through the passionate love that makes up my heart and soul!. I am so excited to be able to do what I do best and that is romance you with all the passion that makes up my heart and soul!. My special friendship with you is something I want to make permanent and eventually build into a family to call our very own! Directly from my heart to yours!...Hope to chat with you soon.

Your Future Queen! (I hope!)

Nancy

PS: My yahoo account is (nancyboblett@yahoo.com) let me know when you can get on yahoo messenger

Letter 5

Good Morning Love,

There is so much I want to tell you, a lot has been running through my head after your last letter to me. I'm having trouble putting my thoughts into words so you will have to bare with me through this.

I keep thinking about the future, about life, and what I want out of it. I keep thinking about us and what this relationship means to me. I keep thinking about these things and I realize they go hand in hand. This relationship is my future; it's what I want out of life. I want to grow old with that man (you). I want to experience this crazy love forever and ever, and I really think I'm going to get to. I want us to walk through new houses picking the one that would be just right for us. I want to see him walk around our house in a big t-shirt and catch me staring at how gorgeous he is. I want him to pull the covers off me at night and then I have to get even closer, if it's possible, for him to keep warm. I want to see him laugh like crazy at me when I do stupid stuff. I want to rub lotion all over his body because he laid out in the sun too long. i want us chasing each other around the house, laughing our heads off and having fun. I want to hold him when he cry and smile with him when he smile. I want to fall asleep every night with him in my arms. I want to fall asleep on his chest listening to the beat of his heart and know it beats for me. I want him to be the first thing I see when I wake up and the last thing I see when I go to sleep. I want to see his bad morning hair; I think it will be so cute. I want to sit on the beach with him and watch the sun set, and I want all the people who pass us to envy the love that we obviously have for each other.

I want to see him walk down that isle and I want to take his hand for the rest of my life. I want to spend all night, and maybe the next day, making love to him with an undying passion (sorry to be so blunt). I want to be seventy years old and still make out with him like a little schoolgirl. I want to cook a meal with him and us totally ruin it and end up doing take out. I want to sit there talking to him for hours about nothing at all but in the same time everything or maybe we won't talk at all and just grin at each other realizing how lucky we are. I want him to get mad at me for doing something stupid, and I want him to bust out laughing when he try to yell at me. I want to lay with him in front of a fireplace and keep the heat going long after the fire goes out. I want to take trips with him to places we've never been and experience them together. I want us to go skinny-dipping in a hotel pool and get caught and streak back to our hotel room waking everyone up because we're laughing so hard. I want us to go and pick out the hot tub we want with the biggest grins on our faces the whole time. I want the sales rep to get embarrassed when we sit in them and make sure we have enough room to do the things we want to do. I want to hold his hand always. I want our friends to come over and get totally jealous because they don't share love like we do. I want to be walking into a store with him and trip and fall on my face and turn around to see you rolling on the ground laughing at me. I want us to run outside in the rain and act like total kids getting completely soaked, and when we come back in stripping down to nothing as we stumble into the bedroom, or the kitchen counter, or the balcony, or the dining room table, or an office desk, or the shower, which ever one we feel like at the time.

I want to take his breath away every time I say, "I love you" because he know it's coming from the heart. I want to love him and be with him for at least forever if not a little longer. I couldn't really express in words what I'm feeling right now so I decided to share with you SOME of the images and thoughts that have been running through my head.

I just want you to know that I had never found someone I wanted to spend the rest of my life with until I met you. I am really crazy about meeting you, everything about you as i can't wait to meet you in person.

Love always,

Nancy

Letter 6

Good Morning Love,

I hope your night went well and you're having a better morning. I do not know how to express the conflicting emotions that have surged like a storm through my heart nights/days since i got in contact with you. I only know that first and foremost in all my thoughts has been the glorious confirmation you gave me in your chat to me - without effort, unconsciously, of course - of all I have ever thought of your mind and heart. You have the greatest soul, the noblest nature, the sweetest, most loving heart I have ever known since i lost my hubby, and my love and admiration for you have increased so much since the past few days, that still amazes me.I pray this will last till death do us apart.

You are wonderful and lovely and my pride and joy and gratitude that you should love me with such a perfect love are beyond all expression. I hope your night went well, my day was hectic. I am actually having some issues financially based on some bills incurred that i never budgeted for with the Malaysia Customs that have my Gemstones, and this might cause me some delay if i don't have it fixed ASAP. I am exhausted and my credit card is maxed out dear. Dear, can you be nice enough to assist me with some loan? My apologies for any inconvenience this might cause you, please do not think otherwise as i guarantee you'll get your refund upon my arrival at the airport or when you come to my place, i just need to be out of here without any further delay.

I will be so grateful for your help dear.

With love

Nancy

Letter 7

Baby, things are not great with me but i never wanted to bother you until now that you have asked me, I had long and busy day with the customs and they are giving me headache and make me feel so worried because of the remaining balance of the customs clearance charges which is $23,850 and they have refuse to release my goods for shipment, and it is in their custody now, if i did not pay the remaining balance of the customs charges....I have a total of $14,500 with me, but i still need the remaining balance of $9,350 so that i can get my shipment done and get on the plane and return back home to the States in your arms....

Love you so much

Nancy

Letter 8

Hello baby,

I would really appreciate that baby. All you need is go down to the bank and tell them you want to make an international wire transfer down to Malaysia. You will have to send me the payment slip as a confirmation after sending the funds. I hope you understand?

Here is the account to wire the funds into.

Name: Norita Binti Mohamad Malena
Bank name: CIMB Bank
Acct No: 11130069906526
Address name: 12 lorong 1, jalan Abdul Razak, 96100 sarikei, sarawak Malaysia
Swift code: CIBBMYKL

I hope to hear back from you soon,

Your Love,
Nancy.

Letter 9

Okay baby. Thanks so much for being there for me. I'll be looking forward to your favorable responds!!

Nancy.

Letter 10

Good Morning Sweetie,

I want you to know that you really spark my interest..I am willing to spoil you with my love. I want you to know that I will always love and respect you ,And i will never take you for granted...I think you are such a good man, Your natural look really amazed me,and don't know man like you still remain on this earth,Because i thought angel live in heaven? But why you on this earth? Well i just guess maybe God had pardon you for a woman like me to love..As a matter of fact..I have been looking for a man like you...and the love Annaliese say's....You may been searching for your soul-mate over year's....but it's takes you just a seconds to meet him,so dear i hope you're the one for me,Because my heart do really caught you right....You touch my feeling's indeed.. I wouldn't mind to fall in-love with you,Because i think it's just a chance for me to love you,if you wouldn't mind to laugh and fall in-love with me..ok.. I really want you to be the one for me,I surely know you're the man made for me to love and cherish ,you may be thinking maybe this is what everybody will tell you... But my own is different from others,and if you can give me a chance to show my feeling's to you,you'll never regret meeting someone like me,this is not fiction,its surely a fact,So your uncountable natural look is killing me..

I would be so glad if you can let me be the one for you, ...I will always make you happy,I wont hurt you...I will never lie to you...I will be 100% honest and sincere to you but i will like you to do the same for me...I don't want to get divorce or been cheated on ..Because I will get hurt more and more...and that will make me not to trust any man again....but I know that i have found you, you wont hurt or cheat on me..Sweetie I am,very,Compassionate, Energetic,In sense,Passionate,Romantic,Affectionate,Funny,Easy going,Creative,Intelligent,Adorable,Caring,Sensitive,Respective And I got a very good sense of humor,I hate the bar-scene and love being out door's with my family and friend's..... I am a very correspond woman,and i love a great communicator,.. Well i am very funny and do jokes a lot...So i hope you won't find it difficult to know me,lol..Am just a very simple woman in basic,. I want to know you and i want you to consider me being the one for you..We are really a Good Match, You are the type of man i have been seeking for from the whole of my life.Everybody need happiness and love to live,and happiness is a state of mind,not a set of circumstance's...I will be looking forward to hear back from you..

Love always,

Nancy
PS: Let's chat on yahoo

Letter 11

That is okay baby, thank you so much for everything. I hope you have the information with you and the amount you're wiring.

Love you always,
Nancy.

Letter 12

Thank you honey, I can't wait to meet you too. Let me know when you're on your way down to the bank.

I love you so much,
Nancy.