Letter(s) to Steven (USA)

Letter 1

Hey Steven ,Good to hear from you Like I said I want us to know each other well but these are some basic things about me that I want to disclose to you. .On that note I would like to express myself,i am black woman age 31 years,from Ghana still single , no kids and I would love to have one and even if me and partner are not able to make babies I still prefer if we can adopt them,I am 5"9 ft tall,weighing 128 lbs.,I have black hair and chocolate coloured skin .I live in the capital city of Ghana - Accra and in a suburb called Accra Newtown,anyway the Accra region is along the coast of Ghana and this has let me love the beach so much .My lifestyle is somewhat healthy lifestyle, exercising and some sort of jogging, 3-4 days a week and eating healthy, (trust me, I love sweets and pastries, but try not try to over eat them). I would also like to find a like-minded male where we can participate in activities together and encourage each other to pursue their interests as well,I hope so. I have several hobbies (and wish I could find more time to pursue those) such as swimming, playing computer, dancing, and reading, and more,and would like someone to share that with, as well as their sharing their interests with me... I am generally an optimistic person with a sense of humour, fairly easy-going, and I don't think that I'm too critical about things, but I also believe that it takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work out. As I mentioned earlier, I like to do things with the other significant person in my life, but I will also encourage him to go out and spend time with friends and pursue his own interests and hobbies as well will want him to have some privacy. I believe that time spent apart helps keep things fresh in a relationship and makes the time we do spend together even better.What do you think? I'm not one who cheats in a relationship; one man is enough trouble lol; I don't have the time or energy to juggle 2, 3, or 4 at the same time - haha thats bad I dont think I will encourage any form of extra marrital affairs. But I also want to be in a relationship where I can totally trust the other person and not dwell on how the relationship is NOT working... I DO NOT expect a man to be a servant to me, spending all his time working and and cleaning; I believe there is give and take in a relationship, and I realize that at times it's more convenient for me to do laundry, cook, clean, and I have no problem doing that. I consider myself to be a fairly honest and truthful person and expect the same in return; I'm not wealthy and don't expect someone to attempt to deceive me or "play" me. Everybody makes mistakes and I usually give people the benefit of the doubt, but if the same pattern keeps emerging, it's over. I do not want to meet someone who may think that they will take advantage of me or lie to me and cheat on me under false pretenses. Sorry if that sounds harsh, and I'm not accusing anybody of any wrongdoing, but I'm being upfront and honest about that, so you know where I stand from the beginning. With all due respect as well, I hope that you are upfront and honest with me, as well. I realize that I am 31 years old and that you are somewhat Older than me,But i do believe that age is just a number . if you would still like to correspond, That's fine...we'll see how things go after we get to know each other. Well, I hope that this lets you know a little about me, and I hope I don't come across as being too cynical, harsh, or meansounding. I will give anybody the benefit of the doubt (we're all human, we all make mistakes), but I also don't like being takenadvantage of. I'm just asking you to keep it real and be honest from the beginning; that way, nobody is wasting their time or getting their feelings hurt. I also realize that at times two people are just too different to be in a relationship together; it doesn't mean that it's anybody's fault, it's just that they're too different to be compatible. and moreover I have learned many things, many of them about myself. I now know that I am stronger than I thought I was. You can only turn the other cheek so many times before you get whiplash Money isnt everything, and it certainly cant buy happiness One in which the lines of communication are OPEN! There must be mutual respect, passion, compassion and honesty.Hope this finds you in good health and that things are well with you. Hope to hear from you soon and hopefully you can tell me more about yourself .I want to end here.Take care and stay blessed .
Tracy xoxoxoxoxoxox

Letter 2

Hi Steven,

I am glad to hear from you again..You sound like a very nice man and i like that.Yes i made a mistake while creating my profile and i guess i was the one who told you about that .I saw it and i couldn't edit that so i left it like that .Something inside told me to send you a flirt which i did .I followed my heart .I am not here to play games and i am not like those women .I know what i am loking for and i respect myself .I believe Good things comes to those who wait .I am very confident and positive in anything that i do because i have this in mind. Anything becomes possible when you put it the effort required. Long distance will work out between us, if you do have possitive mind about it, show concern, affection and faith. Will the help of communication, we can surely make . Well ,To tell you more about Ghana ,Ghana is located on West Africa's Gulf of Guinea only a few degrees north of the Equator. Half of the country lies less than 152 meters (500 ft.) above sea level, and the highest point is 883 meters (2,900 ft.). The 537-kilometer (334-mi.) coastline is mostly a low, sandy shore backed by plains and scrub and intersected by several rivers and streams, most of which are navigable only by canoe. A tropical rain forest belt, broken by heavily forested hills and many streams and rivers, extends northward from the shore, near the Cote d'Ivoire frontier. This area, known as the "Ashanti," produces most of the country's cocoa, minerals, and timber. North of this belt, the country varies from 91 to 396 meters (300-1,300 ft.) above sea level and is covered by low bush, parklike savanna, and grassy plains. Ghana, in West Africa, is a land of plains and low plateaus covered by rain forests in the west and Lake Volta in the east—one of the world's largest man-made lakes. The precious metal that once gave its name to the Gold Coast lured Portuguese, Danes, Dutch, Germans, and British.And to tell you more about myself ,I am a simple woman and i dont need any drama in my life .I prefer living a quiet life ..When it comes to matters of the heart I dont take anything for granted.I will be so much hurt to be in a relationship which I might be deceived,because the best thing about loving and being hurt is that you get to know what true love really is. For as gold is tested in fire, and so will love be perfected in pain.I have been in a relation which I almost lose my life at a point I thought there is no need to marry or even accept any proposal from a man .I devulge details of that particular relationship later as we know ourselves better okay .Well to tell you more about myself i am very friendly and I am sensitive and self confident .I'm loyal I'm down to Earth and I like people. I'm smart and fun, I believe in family and I hold my very small circle of true friends very close. I treasure those quiet moments with someone special and I haven't had that in a really long time. I love movies .I am a woman with little time for games, I enjoy hanging out with friends and family, movies, bike riding, group outings, etc........ I am always open minded to other things and have no problem saying whats on my mind! I HATE GAME PLAYING AND I WILL DISMISS PEOPLE BEHIND IT.i am looking for A man that is confident, yet humble, that appreciates every day of life and enjoyes travelling. Someone who enjoys going out in the city,a man older than me who will love me for me and treat me like a lady .a good kisser ,a man who loves to cuddle .caring honest man .someone who is not into headgames .Remember,we are in a small world right now and u should know that people go to the corner of the world to look for that true love i am out there looking for a mature person because i have been through relationships that Guys take me as their trophy others dont even know the sentimental reason why they love me -you are so cute- that wont do for me. i will like to be loved for what is in my heart my actions and gestures things that i do that is so natural so connect so ....that chemistry....i sound like a talkative but its due to how much i feel that is why i am being so emotional in what i am writing i think if i were in a courtroom i can make a good case for myself. Please judge me honey.i am going to fire some questions at you in attempt to get to know more about you. Feel free to ask me anything you want as well. So, here goes...what you'd like to do on a first date, and what is your idea of a perfect date? What do you think of piercings and/or tattoos? What is your fashion sense, is style important to you? What is youur favorite men's fragance? Womens fragrance? How important is diet and fitness in your life? What kind of movies, music, books do you like? Your best feature. Are you a flirt? What are 3 things you can't live without. Worst pet peeve. Morning person or night owl. Always on time or always late? That's probably more than enough for now, huh?. Like I said, feel free to ask me anything. I'll wait to hear from you soon. .Take care and stay sweet
Tracy xoxoxox

Letter 3

Hey Steven ,
Good to hear from you.I don't have skype .I have never use one .My goals ?Find a good job ,Buy my own house .Buy a car for my mother .My dreams?To meet a man who will love me for me and to get married and have kids .I hope i have answered your questions .Now answer mine .
Tracy xoxox

Letter 4

Wow,Do you know how I call your email? its a stimulant.....Its has given me an impression about yourself I think I like that .you are somebody whom hanging out will be so much of fun.I like the way you are open minded.Keep it up.I wish you were with me at this moment.I want to have you around meI am glad that you have never hesitate to reply any of my emails.I also like how you are responding to my emails .You appear to be faithful and have a good perspective on life I am saying this is because you are not into game playing .Let me quickly answer you questions .What would be a good job Tracy?An accountant .What’s your favorite color?Pink is my favorite color.Do you own any pets? (if yes…how many) Yes i do .I do have a Dog and a cat .Do you own any children? (if yes…how many, what ages and how many living at home?I don't have kids .What’s your favorite food? Rice with grilled chicken .Are you living with anyone?Yes i am living with my family ,Mom ,Unlce and sister .Do you own a vehicle? (preferably a car) I used to .It's now in the garrage .I need to change the engine .Where do you sleep? I.e. car, under bridge etc Funny question lol .I sleep in a house .How many men have you dated in your life?3.If money wasn’t an object...what car would you drive?X5When’s the last time you kissed someone passionately? It has been so long .I can't even remember .Has your picture ever been displayed at the post office? Never ,Do you like cats?Yes i do love cats .I have one .How tall are you? (without heals or standing on a box) 5.9 .Where do you live and how long?I live in down town Accra and i have been here since i was a little girl .Do you like the heat? (if so…how hot) No i hate heat .I always sleep in the aircon .Are you straight? (sexually speakingSure.I am straight.Do you like to cook? Yes i do love to cook .What do you expect most from your lover?He should care a lot about me .Do you have more that one picture of yourself? Yes i do.Do you enjoy sex? (making love) Which one or both? I enjoy both ,What’s your favorite time of the day/night?Day .Do you like to kiss? Yes i enjoy kissing .What type of music do you love?I like country ,R&B,Classical .Blues ,Jazz.Do you like love music?I love music.If I needed to borrow $1,000 would YOU be able to loan it to me without borrowing it from someone else? I would if i have the kind of money .Can you sing?Yes i can .Do you own a computer?Yes i am using a laptop computer .Are you spiritual? I don't think so .What’s the most money you’ve loaned someone?$630 USD.Did you get it back?No i didn't .Have you ever been arrested? (if yes…why) Hello No .What’s your favorite time of year?Can you juggle? Yes .What’s you favorite pastime (Beach, sex, reading, sewing, etc) Beach .Do you drive? Yes i do .How many lifelong friends do you have? (over 20 years) Only 1.What do you do for a living?I am sales rep.Do you have goals? (if yes…please explain) I am well educated.What’s the nicest thing you’ve done for someone? I

Do you like to have a lazy day and do nothing?No I always stay busy .I don't like to stay lazy doing nothing .Are you a hippy dippy airy fairy tree hugger? Be more specific .Do you want to be rich? (if yes....why)No because more money more problem .Have you ever been boating on a boat bigger than 20 feet? Never .What’s you best feature? (i.e. brain, body, personality)My body .People tell me that i have a sexy body .Where did you live before this? I lived in the uk for 2 months when i was in the college and we wer're on vacation .What type(s) of music can’t you tolerate? I can tolerate any music.Do you like dogs? Yes i do .Do you drink? (if yes…how much and often?Yes i drink but i don't drink alcohol only soft drinks.I drink when i am in the mood.Have you even been abducted by aliens? (if so, how many were there?)Never .What time do you typically go to bed?11 pm .When’s the last time you sat in a hot tub?Last week .What do you look for in a mate? Someone who is honest ,caring ,open.Just someone who is not into games .Is making food over ? hour each day a waste of time?Yes it is .Do you speak any foreign languages? (if yes…which ones) I onl speak my local language and English .What’s the most money you gave someone? (real money…not monopoly money?It was real money .Do you where your heart on your sleeve? (which sleeve) no.Have you ever traveled outside the US? (if yes…where?) I have never travel to the States .Do you like the cold? Yes i do but not too much .Who’s you best friend and why?Sandra .She has always been there for me .And we have been friends since we were young .Have you ever picked up a hitchhiker? (if yes…why) Never?How do people refer to you as..(i.e. funny, shy, loud…etc) Shy .Do you like to hold hands? Yes .Are your parents still alive? My father died when i was 28 years old but my mom lives .Have you ever kissed someone to make them feel good? Yes .What’s the meanest thing you’ve done to someone? I can't remember .Do you think you are old? No i don't think so.Have you even made love on a sandy beach? No.What’s your favorite body part of men?Arms .Have you ever been caught in a time warp? Be more specific .Do you love your job? Yes i do .It helps pay the bills .When traveling via car…do you like to drive or ride? Yes i like to drive .Have you ever ridden on a motorcycle? Never.Do you like to snuggle? Yes i do .How long have you been friends with your best friends? 28 years .What’s the farthest you’ve walked at one time? (why?30 minutes because i had flat tire.Have you ever been hot air ballooning?Be more specific .Do you like snow? (if yes…why.I do because it's Cute .What’s your best quality?

Have you even gone fishing? (for fish…not men)Yes i love fishing .How many lifelong friends do you have? (over 10 years ?1.Do you consider yourself to be high maintenance?Yes i do consider myself high maintenance .Do you do windows? What do you mean by that?Have you ever been afraid to say no? No i say no when i have to .I always say what's on my mind .Are you a gold digger?Hell no.What time do you usually wake up? 6.30 .Do you like to dance? Yes i do ,When’s the last time you were drunk? I don't drink .What’s your second best feature? My lips .What age do you consider someone to be old?70/What Zodiac sign are you? (don’t lie…I’ll find out) I am not much into signs .Do you know your rising sign? I don't know much about signs .How much do you weigh? (naked and dry 127.What’s your favorite choice of clothing? (i.e. casual, dressy?I dress casual when i have to but i love fashion.New dresses etc .Are you a clean person?Very clean.Do you want children? (if yes..how many?Sure .2 or more .Name five great things about yourself?I am open ,Very loyal ,Down to earth ,Well educated .Fiendly .I will answer the rest whever i can .It's very amazing that someone like you have come my way and always in a good mood to reply to my emails .To me I thought dating online was something entertainning and of not so much value or even real .As Christian I found it so hard to even sign up this dating site because a lot of men are just interested in watching the nude appearances of women .I wish we could continue this way.If everything that you expressed about me is just what you want then this is where I will stop and be so serious with you .Your answers to my questions is that type I will always expect an Ideal man to to provide .Anyway those answers seem to be your view but me on the other hand will like it in a different manner but still know that we will blend.I prefer it that On the first date, I like to go out to a dinner with my man somewhere quiet so that we can talk and even explore our feelings and how we can be understanding to each other. My idea of a perfect date would be to enjoy the company and conversation with that man.If we cannot talk to each other, what's the point in going out again? As far as piercings and tattoos go, I have four holes in my ears only. The first set I had no control over since infancy when I got them. The other three have a history behind them. When I was 15 one of my bestfriends wanted to get his ear pierced and the lady told him that he couldn't get just onedone gt the other piercing.When I was in college, my teammates on the track team decided to get their ears peirced I ended up having another pierce this wasnt that I always like to follow the crowd but it makes me look extra beautiful maybe you have a different way or perception for a beatiful woman . I have no tattoos nor will I never have one because I hate needles.I do have a birth mark though. The ears were hard enough. So mine would have to be sticker tattoo. Maybe. like different colognes on men. Draakar Noir was always my favorite. But every man has a different chemistry so what might smell great on one, may stink on another. I do like Crush by Curves. I tend to bend toward the Victoria Secret "Heavenly Angels" line myself. I like all of them. But normally I get the essential oils because they last longer without all of the chemicals. Oxygen is my favorite.Diet and fitness is VERY important to me. I'm up at 7:30 am working out every day and I try to watch what I eat. But I have a love of good food and worse than that, sweets so I have to struggle to be good sometimes Movies I like: I like Action, horror, comedy (as long as they're actually funny), drama...pretty much anything. I especially like court room dramas and thrillers. . I'm a HUGE fan of James Patterson, John Grisham, Terry McMillan, E. Lynn Harris, BeBe Moore Campbell, Lawrence Sanders and Sydney Sheldon...My best feature is either my calves or my mouth. I'm blessed with nice lips and really white teeth or so I'm Told .Am I a flirt? I don't think so..not anymore. I used to be but now i think i'm just friendly :-) It's been a long time since I've met or seen anyone I want to flirt with.3 things i cant live without .God ,food ,love .Worst pet peeve - I can't stand for anyone to NOT do what they say they're going to do.I am always a morning person and i am always on time.. .,I love reading your long emails . I have some few questions for you.
1.What do you like most about your personality?
2. Do you enjoy hugging people? Do you like receiving hugs?
3. In what ways do you feel really blessed?
4. On which topics do you feel qualified at giving advice?
5. What meal would you eat most often if you could? Do you have a favorite meal?
6.Do you believe in Ghosts ,Angels or extraterrestrial beings ?Why ?
7.Have you ever date someone Just because they had (or you thought they had )money ?
Well that is enough for now.I hope you will give me an instant reply that what makes up Steven,interms of emailing.Well take care and i hope to hear from you soon .
Tracy xoxox

Letter 5

Hey Steven ,
Good to hear from you .You sound like a very nice man .You sound amazing .Thanks for the answers to my questions .I think at this moment I have gotten to know you externally and there are more things that we have to learn from each other for that matter I want to suggest if we can talk as well on phone because I also want to know whom I am dealing with as our hearts are concerned .Henceforth if I cannot make it possible to send you an email I can be rest assured to be talking to you on phone?.Do you a cell phone number? Let me quickly answer the rest of the questions .Are you obsessed with clean?Sure ..I obsessed about cleaning myself .I try to clean myself or i try to look very neat .Have you ever driven a motorcycle? Never .Have you ever been afraid to say yes?I am always open and i don't have problem saying what's on my mind .I say yes when i need to.DO any of the men you dated have their picture at the post office?No.Can you leave the pizza box n the table al night without freaking out?Sure.Do you own a house?No .The house belongs to my late father .If money weren’t an object...where would you live?The same house with my family .Do you mind standing in a line at the grocery store.I don't mind standing in line .I am simple woman.Can you leave dirty dishes in the sink overnight? (without freaking out?I always make sure i get rid of dirty dishes .What’s the best car you have even owned? BMW .745LI .Do you consider yourself to be a patient person? kind of .I am patient when i have to.Are you glad this is the last question?You can ask more if you want to.I guess i am not yet done .What kind of car and what’s wrong with the engine? How do you get to work?It's Bmw .I used it for so long so i have to change the engine .how do i go to work ?I take a taxi .Please tell me more about your job. Who do you work for and what do you do?I am managing my mother's supermarket down town Accra . Was this the first picture you sent me when you were at the office? Yes i was in the office by then .…if you fell in love with me would you tell me and how would you tell me?Ofourse i will let you know that .I am open with my feelings .How did your father pass on Tracy?He died in an accident.He was working with a minning company and he died down when they we're deep down minning.Do you have a phone line at home that you can talk on? Also…do you have Internet at home and if so...is it dial up or high speed?Yes i have a phone line at home and i also have a cell phone .My number is 233-243-72-71-61 Yes i do have a computer at home and i am using the broadband service .where do you want to live? Do you want to live in South Africa, the states or both? I will move to the states with you when things get on well with me and you .Time will tell i think.When did you learn to speak English?Since i was a little girl .What’s your favorite time of year?I have no idea .What’s the nicest thing you’ve done for someone?I bought roses .Below are my answers to the questions I asked you 1. The thing I like most about my personality is that I am a sensitive and very Loyal and I genuinely care about others more than myself. I will not hurt anyone and don't want to be hurt by anyone.2.I like hugging and receiving hugs although it rarely happens to me now. I can be an extremely affectionate person, but the opportunity must present itself. I prefer to show my affections in private. I do not hug or kiss for show or to impress others. I guess my desire for privacy prevents public displays of affection on my part. If I care for someone, my love and affection towards them is broad and they know how I feel about them. I don't hide that 3.I am blessed in that I have good health, strength.and physical abilities. I have my family. My mother, Uncle , and sister are still living doing fine. I am blessed to have a good education. I am blessed in many ways, My dear. Thank God 4.I can give advice relating to common sense and general questions about life. As I am a close observer of human beings, I can share my conclusions and experiences related to the actions of others. I know as much or more about Africa and its' economic development than most People.I Can give advice in this area. Can advise young people on paths to success. Not an adviser on true love and happiness (viz a viz the opposite sex), as I too am still searching in this area 5.I Don't eat much meat. Have peculiar likes and dislikes in food. My favorite meals are Potatoe chips ,Fried yam with fish 6. I definitely believe in Angels. For ghosts, not sure. I believe in the strong possibility of extraterrestrials. I believe that man does not necessarily know everything related to the unknown or the mystical. I do not knock what others believe, they might be right.
7.I dated a Guy once because my friends at university said he had money. I didn't believe he was rich. Turned out that he was. The date didn't work out and that was the last time I dated for money. I look for inner and outer beauty in a man .I hope i have answered all the questions
Well,I will like to let you know that i am a Godly woman with a strong faith in Jesus Christ. I believe in treating a man with respect and honoring him as the gift that he is to me. I do not believe in dating for fun but rather for the possibility of marriage.And i am open to the idea of having children if my Husband wants them but I am also okay if he doesnt want any. I am very loyal, honest and caring woman and would like to spend the rest of my life with someone who shares my values I hope that the someone is you . I will adore him and treat Him like the prince that he deserves to be . I am single because I choose to be single because I know what i am looking for and know what i deserve in my life. I need someone that will treat me with as much respect as I would treat him . No yelling at one another, no calling eachother names, communicating to one another and know when to listen and when to give advice. Trust is an extremely big issue. No hidden lies and no hidden agenda. For someone to ask me how my day is going, not because that is what you feel that you should do but ask because you want to know and want to be there for me. And vice versa. Someone who does not drink too much . I am looking for someone who also have a love for God as I do. I always have and always will be with only 1 person at a time and will only accept that in return ,who knows if someone will ever snatch you from me...lol ?I want us to talk more to explore our feelings and everything about us okay.I have some few questions for you.1.Where did you grow up ?2.and what about your family? is it big or small ? 3. what physical or personality trait do you think makes people first attracted to you? 4. What do you think are your optimum hours of sleep to be fully energized? 5.Are you an activist for any causes?
this is just a little bit. I hope perhaps you may think that we have things in common and can continue to communicate.Hope to hear from you soon ..Take care and God bless you.
Tracy xoxoxoxoxoxoxo

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Letter 6

Yes i do .They are my pictures .Where did you get them?

Tracy xoxo