Letter(s) to Mike (Netherlands)

Letter 1

Hi my dear friend, What is your full name?
As I promised I have tried to write as soon as possible.
I am very glad that you have answered my letter to you.
I looked announcements and have casually seen your profile.
I have decided to write to you and I was pleasantly surprised when you have answered me.
I used the Internet for the first time to search for happiness.
Therefore I did not know whether you write to me or not.
So it has turned out that I have not found the man of the dream yet.
Men in Russia drink a lot of alcohol. Many Russian men do not respect women, Count women silly. I do not love it.
I heard that in your country men are very good and decent, it is not enough to drink alcohol to respect women.
Probably all this forces me to search for the man in internet.
I live in Russia in Cheboksary town, Chuvashia.
It is very beautiful there, clean air you know.
Well, probably you want to find out about me more.
My growth 5,7, weight 52kgs.
I am 26 years. I was born in November, 20 1978 in Sevastopol city on Ukraine.
My mum the Ukrainian girl. father Russian.
My father was the militarian and in 1985 my family have gone to serve to the Far East in Russia in a small city Slavyanka.
we live in the other place. As in city Cheboksary it is very beautiful also a good ecological background!
After Disintegration of the USSR we wanted to come back on Ukraine but then we have decided that we shall live better in Russia.
The big tragedy has happened at us recently. Daddy has died in 2002 of a heart attack.
It was irreplaceable loss for us.:-((
We have remained alone: my mum and me. Unfortunately all relatives live on Ukraine.
I do not have brothers and sisters of mine. I am the only child in family.
At school I studied very well.
At school I wanted to be an economist. Therefore after school I have entered and finished The Economic state university.
After university I have entered a postgraduate study.
Now I work as the financial manager in affiliated company Lukoil.
I do not know what to tell.
I love east dances, classical music, prepare tasty meals, play the piano.
Very often at leisure time I read History of Russia and Foreign countries.
Yes by the way I write you from Internet cafe. So it has turned out that in our small city not everyone has a computer.
Girlfriends have advised to search for the man in internet to me.
I search for happiness. I want to have loving husband.
I have never been married and I do not have children.
Many men are afraid to tell the woman that they have got children.
I love children very much and I would be a good stepmother.
Children are not guilty that they do not have mother.
I think that lonely father who has children is obliged to find the wife and mother for children.
Children can not live without mum. Therefore I would be a good mum and a stepmother.
I worry about your attitude to the women from Russia.
It is far enough. Some problems probably can arise.
I would like to find out whether you could become interested and fall in love with the Russian woman?
Certainly not at once, gradually. Are you interested in correspondence with the Russian woman?
What relations you expect from our acquaintance? I would like to find out you better.
I hope that you will like my photo.
Probably you are interested with my English.
I know well colloquial English language.
But to write the text in English I am at a loss.
Therefore I use the computer program of the translator.
I hope that this English is clear to you. Though certainly it is not ideal translation.
I think it is good enough for the first time.
ok, I think that it is necessary to finish. I have written big enough letter.
I wish you successful day and that everything would fine today.
Please tell me about itself.
What are you searching for and what are your dreams?
What has forced you to search for the girl in internet?
I shall wait your letter. Please answer my questions.
Irina.
p.s. Probably you worry about a difference in the age of?
My grandfather was more senior than the grandmother for 25 years. And they lived long and happily.
They spoke me that the difference in the age of should not hinder for happiness.
Therefore I done not frightened with the big difference in the age of between me and you.

Letter 2

Dear, today bad weather, all time it is raining.
But I have all the same come in internet cafe.
I decided to write to you a pair of words that you did not think, that I forget you.
Simply I now had a free time and I with pleasure write you this letter.
In general to write to you letters and to read yours it very pleasantly.
I receive from it pleasure.
Probably we may meet and consequently at me very good mood!!!
At you now morning.
I think, that when you receive my letter you in the morning will smile.
Well please smile.:-))
Ur!!!!, have smiled.:-))
I wish you very good day and more happiness.
I want that you today all time smiled.
That today for you sang birds and that today at you all your affairs turned out very well!!!
You should understand that I not always have a free time to write to you letters. I try to write to a is more often.
Yours Irina.

Letter 3

Hi dear mike, You know we so are poorly familiar with each other but I have already get used to you. It is very pleasant for me to read your letters. I would be glad if you send me a lot of the photos. They should be small on the size, or my computer will not be able to receive a mail. I want to learn through these photos you and your way of life. I search my beloved for the man on the Internet because there I can find the man to which I really dear and necessary, the man which will love me as the happiness and hope for the happiness, the man which will want to meet the old age with me. The majority of men in Russia are egoists and do not respect women. They love only themselves and alcohol. I want the only,who - will love me and respect. That i would be wanted not only as the beautiful woman, and as the beloved. I want that my man likes and wants only me, that when I go to bed of mine my beloved is waiting for me there. He would embrace me and we would fall asleep in embraces. When i wake up he kisses me and say "Good morning my dear, i love you." It is my dream I want it and i aspire to it. I want such a man which would like to be only mine. That we spend all free time with him. I would like such a man to which I will trust and would not be afraid that he will leave to other woman. I think that if the man and the woman have concluded a matrimony in church that they should be true the promises before the god and people. In internet I have chosen you because I think that you are a man of this kind. It is difficult to explain it, this female sixth feeling or an internal voice is possible. Probably it is destiny or the god wants that we have got acquainted. In our life everytning occurs not casually. If it has taken place it means that it was predicted by destiny. There is a legend that once God created the creature, but one day that creature decided that it was stronger, better and wiser. For such fault God divided it into two parts into woman and man. Since that time people looking for their own halves which belong only them. I believe in my happy destiny and I believe that I will find happiness and I will have family. Otherwise life is meaningless. It is very difficult to be the lonely person. At such person all life turns in a small monotonous way of life. You spend all time for work and do not aspire home. Because nobody waits for you there in the house . In the morning you hurry for work because it is boringly at home. Nobody waits for you at hime and after work you sit to watch TV till the late evening. Then you go to sleep and so it Repeats day after day. Sometimes you try to change something in the life but not always it turns out. With each year of loneliness it is more difficult and more difficult to find a loved person. Slowly you you turn into the homebody or hardworking person. And already anybody is not necessary for you. With each year of loneliness you become the self-sufficient person and the egoist. I do not want to turn into such person. I want to have love, fun, pleasure and happiness. I want to love and to be loved. I want to know you better. It seems to me that we are similar with you. Both of us aspire to become happy. Both of us use the best efforts to find the love and to find composure with the loved person. Probably we can have serious relations, but for the present it is early to speak about it. I need in my husband not only as in the partner in sex, but also as whom i can talk to as the close friend, the partner of my life, and to the beloved person. For this reason tell me about your life. Tell me as your usual day passes. Please tell to me more in detail about a place, where you live. I want to find the man which would love me as the woman, as the person, but not as a beautiful doll, Which he can show everyone and be proud of it. I am the woman who wants to love and be loved, and I do not want to be played with. The wife should be proud of the husband. Wise wives should tell to the husbands the most confidential and personal ideas and nothing to hide from the husband. I think, that the husband should support the woman in it, respect her, not criticize her in the companies of the friends thus keeping self-respect of the favourite wife. I think that the good husband always pays a compliment to the wife on the occasion of the new dress, a new hairdress, will be grateful for dinner which she cooks for him. And it is necessary to kiss her when she leaves for work. I think, that home life should consist of mutual respect and understanding between the husband and the wife. Both the husband and the wife are resposible for happy life of the family. I think, that the good wife should create a cosiness in the house with maximal tenderness and beauty, care and fidelity. I shall respect, I shall like and I shall caress my future husband. Probably you have already got tired to read my letter. well, let me finish the letter just for now, I should go. I shall wait your letter very much. I wish you successful day. Your Irina.

P.S. I shall write the following letter as soon as possible.
If I have not answered some your questions I shall try to respond on them in the following letter.

Letter 4

I am very glad that you do not forget me!!!
Now I have gone to tell not for a long time to you that I think of you, but unfortunately I now have not enough time to answer all your questions and to write to you longer letter. As soon as next time I shall leave on a line all I shall tell.
I ask you that you have sent me of more photo.
I shall be glad them to see. It is very pleasant for me to see you, you are very beautiful.
I to send you pictures of the childhood. I hope that you love it.
Irina.

Letter 5

Hi my dear,
It is very pleasant for me, that we with you continue our dialogue.
It seems to me, that I know you as myself.
My dear excuse, but I have many questions:
I believe this part on marriage; do you?
The common faith of spouses who are members of the body of Christ is an essential condition for truly Christian and church marriage.
It is only the family that has one faith that can become «the church in the house» (Rom. 16:5;
Phil. 1:2), in which husband and wife together with their children grow in spiritual perfection and knowledge of God.
The lack of like-mindedness presents a serious threat to the integrity of a matrimonial union. That is why the Church considers it her duty to urge the faithful to marry «only in the Lord» (1 Cor. 7:39), that to marry only those who share their Christian convictions.

do you believe this? I do.

While appreciating the social role of women and welcoming their political, cultural and social equality with men, the Church opposes the tendency to diminish the role of woman as wife and mother. The fundamental equality of the sexes does not annihilate the natural distinction between them, nor does it imply the identity of their callings in family and society. In particular, the Church cannot misconstrue the words of St. Paul about the special responsibility of husband who is called to be «the head of the wife» who loves her as Christ loves His Church, and about the calling of the wife to obey the husband as the Church obeys Christ (Eph. 5:22-23; Col. 3:18). These words are not of course about the despotism of husband or the slavery of wife, but about supremacy in responsibility, care and love. It should not be forgotten either that all Christians are called to «submit themselves to one another in the fear of God» (Eph. 5:21).
Therefore, «neither is the man without the woman, neither the woman without the man, in the Lord. For as the woman is of the man, even so is the man also by the woman; but all things of God» (1 Cor. 11:11-12). I believe this also.

Tell me of your spirituality, in detail please. What does salvation mean to you?
Why do you believe you are going to heaven? Do you read the Holy Bible, how often?
How much do you pray? Would you read the Holy Bible with me every day?
Would you pray with me?
Excuse, that I ask there much. I understand your belief differ from Russian, but all the same at us the general bases of morals slightly.
You do not think, that I am crazy about religion! No. Simply to me interestingly your attitude.
Observance of these canons in our life is not necessary. It is simply ideal variant.
In life all is much more difficult and ideal observance of these canons impossible. I simply speak, that I agree with these canons.
If you not so the believing person do not hesitate of it to tell. It will not change my good relation to you.
In the sacred bible interesting things which are written are simply necessary in life.
There many the moral moments without which the mankind will sink in criminality and immorality.
I earlier not so trusted in the god, but in due course understand, that the religion is necessary for mankind.
Unimportantly what it is religion: Moslems or Christians or the Buddhism......,
without religion the society may not exist.
Us from the childhood teach precepts do not kill, do not steal, do not lie....
And so on. If to this did not teach for us probably it would be very simple to take and that that to steal or kill! You so too think?
Recollect the pagan. The pagan considers, that having killed persons or whom that still he receives blessing from the god or gods. I that that have taken a great interest.
ok, Probably you already have got tired of mine a question.:-)

My Mather to transfer you Hello!
In the beginning she not so seriously concerned to you and to our correspondence, but now mum consider, that at you very serious intentions. Mum very much trust you and consider, that you will give me happiness!!!
I should finish the letter. I think of you always. Remember it.
like you, Yours Irina.

Letter 6

Hi my dear mike!!!!!! Lovely, and as your native people will concern to to that I shall arrive to you? sweet, I would not like to create for you any inconveniences. sweet, today I visited the agent travels. He has told, that their firm can prepare for me travel. It will require approximately about 2,5 weeks. They will be to prepare for me the passport and insurance, then they will be to order for me the visa. The agent has told, that behind the visa I owe to reach in Moscow in your embassy. He has told, that now uneasy to receive the visa of the tourist to you, but they can care of, that I could receive the visa without problems. Then, a little sweete will be required to reserve for me the ticket and to develop more convenient route of the plane. I have told them, that probably I shall conclude with them the contract for my travel, toon. Tomorrow I shall learn from them full details rather cost and necessary documents. Today I had small free sweete from my work also had not sweete in detail all to learn. So i shall talk to my mather to ask them, to help to me to pay this contract. I very much hope, mine lovely, that at us all will be good also we can be speed beside with each other. I very much frequently I think of it. I have various imaginations concerning us of a two. and you, mine favourite? Dear, I wanted to learn from you, if cost travels will be large, whether you can help me with some by part it? My mather cannot be named as the rich people, and I not wanted very strongly to worry their finance. I hope, that some money for our meeting will not be a problem for you. But if yours financial position now heavy, I shall try itself to find any the decision for this purpose. Please write me about your dreams. If we have met the first thing I shall make when I shall see you I shall embrace you and kiss you!!! I feel to you something unusual, unusual feeling. I have never had such feeling. I think of you every minute, I want to see you, I can not sleep, eat... In my head ideas only about you. My heart is broken off from idea that we are now not together!!!! It seems to me that you are the angel gone down with heavens and inhaling in me forces to life . You are as a spark which fired in my soul, fire of like!!! Without you I did not live, I existed. Earlier I did not have pleasure in life, I simply lived the life. You, when you have appeared,my life has changed!!! I began to think of that the god has given me hope fortunately!!! The god has given me chance to be happy and I am not going to miss this chance. I am grateful to destiny that we have got acquainted. my like you are my unique man!!! I do not understand why such good man is still lonely?!!! Women in your country are silly. They do not see invaluable riches of your kind soul. I am very lucky that I have got acquainted with you. I also shall thank people which have thought up this Internet. Due to this internet we have got acquainted with you. I do want to meet you. I will find out what is necessary for me for our meeting. My feelings and words in relation to you always were fair and sincere. I never told lies to you and I shall never tell lies to you. I absolutely trust you. I know that such a man as you are never will deceive a woman. I already present myself as I have arrived to you, at the airport I look around for you. When I shall see you I shall run up to you and I shall embrace you!!! It will be the happiest day in my life. My mum and my best girlfriends are very glad for us. They wish that our relations develope and nothing prevente us to be happy. I very much want to get acquainted and to make friends with your relatives and friends. I do not want to hide the feelings to you. I want all the world know how you are necessary for me. I very much regret that now between us thousand kilometers of water and a land. And our dialogue is limited only to letters. But I believe that the day will come when we shall meet. This fine day we shall talk about all!!! I every day learn the English language and that is why we will not have problems in dialogue. Therefore do not worry we shall understand each other very well. Unfortunately I should finish the letter. If you do not want to be with me and to love me then be to me the friend. I hope I have not frightened you this letter. Simply I have written today that that I feel. Probably it shocks you a little. Probably my words unexpected for you. But accept these words as a a reality also think I am necessary for you as loving woman or not. I with impatience wait news from you. I wish you all the most good and successful day to you.

Your Irina. p.s.Not be shocked, think and tell me that that you think.
If you do not want to have me as loving the woman we can meet as friends.

Letter 7

Hi my Love! Today I was slightly Is injured. My has told the mums, that she will not help me to pay for the passport, insurance and visa. She has told, that a payment for these things we should think out together. She has told, that when we shall pay it and I shall receive the passport and visa, she will care of my tickets to you. She has told, that the tickets very expensive and consequently they with them will help us. Honey, the agent of travel has told, that contract includes the price of the passport, insurance, visa and services of agency. It is possible to pay for the tickets money after I shall have all documents for travel. The price of all documents and works of a travel company, 450 $ it about 387 euro. They want so much money because now very difficultly to receive the visa in your country and them it is necessary to do for this purpose many efforts. Honey, lovely I have no many money and I have told them, that while I shall talk to you I shall do this contract. Favourite, I today was injured by all these things. I did attempts to borrow this money at some people, but nobody could to me help. I hope, that you can help me this money and that it is not for you a problem. I very much want to feel you beside. Favourite, I wait with impatience your answer and I hope, that at us the Honey together will be speed. I shall arrive to you in the November for two weeks as I will have holiday from work! We all shall discuss and consider our plans for the future! If such money it is not so difficult for you and it does not become a barrier to us, tomorrow I shall go in a travel company and to conclude the contract. Please do not forget to write to me the correct full data! I shall find out in what airport of your city I shall be capable to fly! You may transfer me money through systems of monetary transfers (western union) or (money gram). I to write to you the full data which will be necessary for you by transfer of money through these systems of money transfers! My full name: Irina Tselischeva. My home address: Chuvashia, Cheboksary city, Lomonosova street 3-35, Russia. You may transfer me money in any branch western union or money gram to Russia. I shall be capable to receive money from myself in city. I very much hope for your help. I shall wait very much and to hope, that we shall be together. I love you. Your Irina.

P.S. Western union addresses and money gram where you may transfer me money also! 1) Money gram: SVIAZ BANK; 44, YAROSLAVSKAYA STR.
CHEBOKSARY, RUSSIAN FEDERATION 428000. 2) Western union:
RUSSIAN AGRICULTURAL BANK; URITSKOGO, 12. CHEBOKSARY, 428032. RUSSIAN FEDERATION.