Letter(s) to Christian (Mexico)

Letter 1


So let's start to talk. I hope we will come to something good to the end of our conversation. It's always hard to introduced myself. I feel like strange talking about myself, because I don’t want to sound egoistic.
Let’s talk just about the facts, which, probably, you would like to know.

First of all my appearance. My height is 167 cm, my weight is 50 kg. I have grey eyes and light brown long hair. I'm 32 years old, I was born in 1976, on October, the 28th.

I have looked at the Internet and I see that you are so famous, but I don't understand Spanish so I can't understand what is written.

I live in a small town. It is called Ternopol, it is situated on the Western part of Ukraine, near Lviv. I live with my parents now. I was married (you may not like it, but I just say true facts) I think it’s normal when woman Of my age has something in her past, at list it’s my opinion. I hope I don’t sound like a teacher now. I work as a teacher of physical training, that’s why I may sound boring like a teacher. Actually, it’s also the reason why I’m keen on healthy life style. I don’t drink and don’t smoke.

I also have a elder brother, his name is Nikolay(Nicholas). He is 36 years old now. I love him very much. He is a reserved man, but he's very kind. He always tries to protect me. I feel loved and protected in my family circle, I may seem strange but I just want to find a man with whom I feel the same.

You know, I'm tired of my loneliness. I don't want to be alone. I want to find my only one. I guess you have a question, why I'm alone. Two years ago I got my divorce and I became more cautious with men around me. And the Internet seems a more safe place, than bar. I’m not talking about cinemas and theatres, because we don’t have them here. I'm sure that I need a sensitive partner, and he also should be loving and caring. I don't say that Slavonic guys are bad or don't know how to treat a woman. But they are not used to show their feelings. And I need to see what my man feels for me.

I guess that's all for this time. Please, feel free to ask me anything you want. And wanted to ask you what do you think about the Internet as a way of meeting people.


Letter 2

Hello, my new friend!

First I want to thank you for your answer and your interest to me. And thank you to accept me in your world... I really like talking to you and I hope you like me.

Let's see what else I could tell you about myself. I have never had Children, because my ex didn’t want children. But you know I would like to have children, though I guess it's a mutual decision, two people should both decide whether to have children or not.

I guess I haven't told you yet, that I don't know English. I would like to learn it, but I haven't such a chance till now. You may ask why I write to you if I don't know English, I mean it would be right for a woman to learn English if she is looking for a man abroad. I want to tell you that I'm going to learn it, because I'm sure that it would be useful for me and another reason is my desire to understand my man. As I already told you, I feel that the love I seek I could find only with a gentle and sensitive man. Russian and Ukrainian men are not bears, but one could never call them sensitive. I miss tender love, tender hands hugging me, kisses in public, whispering secret gentle names, which man and woman use to call each other.

That's why I decided to start correspondence through the Internet. I went to a firm. This is a translation firm which make translations in written form and it also deals with the Internet correspondence. And I was very surprised to know that some women in my country make money from foreign guys writing to them through the Internet. Manager of the firm asked me whether I'm going to earn money. At first I didn't understand anything, then he explained to me everything about those women, who earn money using foreign men. And then he said that if I would do something like this, he will report to the police. Actually, the manager was the first who told me about those people. Now I understand that it might be difficult for you to trust me.

I believe in being truthful all through my life, because if you don't lie you never get in trouble with anyone. I truly don't believe in arguing, I think it's just pointless and negative, much better to talk something through and agree on a conclusion or a compromise to a certain situation! I mean, why waste time arguing when you can enjoy each others company? Sure life isn't perfect, but why not try to make it perfect? Being with someone means being there for them through the good and the bad, to support them, love them and help them through any situation, whether it's their fault or not! I guess I give so much of my thoughts and emotions to my friends, sometimes I feel I'm not getting anything in return, that's when you realize that you're alone in the world sometimes, seeking that special someone that you could , I don't know how to say it, look after, care about and be interested in but then get that in return!

Don't know what else I could add. If you still read this letter, it means you like me or you’re a polite man. I like both variants, but the first is more pleasant for me personally.

It would be great to meet you in real someday, really... I wish you a good day! And don't forget to write me a letter, because I'll be waiting!

Take care,