Letter(s) to Douglas (USA)

Letter 1

First of all Am Lissy Johnson Born Sept 7 1979 so am 28yrs from Sherman,Tx.USA but now in Nigeria, 5ft 6inches Tall, 120 lbs, Brown Eye, Brown Hair,Born and Raised in Texas am single with no kids and am seeking a nice and caring, man to love and cherish and to be with for the rest of my life and i want a honest,kind, caring and understanding man and that is ready to be loved and i've been alone and lonely for the past 3 yrs and am tired of being lonely and now am ready to be loved and i like anything outdoors like...... dinning out, fishing, swmming, going to the movies and other stuffs.....

You really sound so nice and different, well there are somethings i want you to know about me, i am a very deep person, i love to take very deep reflections on things going on around me so i will be sure of the next thing to do or the next step to take, i love to read,also love to write poems, journals and a whole lot of different stuff, most times when i am alone, i can just pick up a pen and paper and start writing on different things, love to learn new things but i am very shy and very very emotional, i am very protective about my feelings and emotions because i wouldn't want people to take advantage of me, i have gone through a lot in my life and i have also been hurt many times.its really nice to know that you enjoyed learning more about me and would really love to get to know you much better. there are some questions i would love to ask you and i want you to answer then from your heart.
Question 1: what really do you think is the reason for your existence?
2: what do you want from life and what do you want from a woman?
3: how would you treat your woman?

I have just finish my degree but worked as an Asst. to my mom in her Shop selling fabrics, i came down here to lagos Nigeria not that long now, i came down here when i lost my Dad back in the state.
my father was a reporter working for a company called delaymoore salt company the company always do a charity to orphanage in most country and my father was sent to Lagos Nigeria for report on what going on with the charity campaign in Nigeria where he met my mother and before his assignment was due he impregnated my mother and he left back to report to his company, later came back to Nigeria to pick my mother and both of them travel down to United State where my mother gave birth to me
when i was 15 year old , bad things which my parent didn't planed happened when my father died it was a hard time for, my mum struggling here and there to feed and train me, well my mother really tried on for me a lot i can't lie she really try her possible best to just make sure i become something in life, after i graduated and i started working with some company but never did they pay me well,so i had to leave there. ,since then i have been looking for another job now...

they say you can tell a lot about a person by what they are interested in, i think you will find that my interests (quite accurately) depict the disintegration of my mind, i enjoy singing, though i don't really do it in public anymore. I also like to try to write, i say try because it seems that lately i only turn out crap, reading is also a lovely form of entertainment, as are movies, i cross-stich, when I have the inclination, and i love glue guns. (I don't know why, but I just love to glue stuff together.)

thanks for taking a chance and just showing who you are, so i should probably tell you a little more about me, i consider myself to be very simple, i believe that men needs to be treated with respect and as a equal partner in a relationship but all i seem to find is the ones that does not know how to respond to that or is untrusting to it, i feel like u should treat somebody with respect and like they are a person not a peice of meat or whatever, i am the type of person who wants somebody to feel wanted not just as a trophy, i am a very affectionate person and I love to cuddle, i like to show somebody how i feel not just telling them, i love to be close to somebody whether it is in the bed on the couch or wherever, i guess my dreams would be is to be happy and have a family my goals in life I want to go into business for my self oneday but that will be a while from now, i guess i want to work on my love life and be happy first, i have always wanted a child of my own and to have a family but i guess when the time is right it will happen, i like to play sports just as much as i do watching them, most of all i like to spend time with who i am with and cuddle up and watch a movie. It is my opinion that we all want the same thing in regards to a partner, and that most of us either do not know how or is scared to and sabotage themselves from getting it, ok, i like the outdoors, but i don't care about hunting or fishing, well i will fish with an un-baited hook if it means i will get to spend some time with someone i care about, there are a lot of things i like doing as in dancing, cooking, camping, etc, my ultimate goal and what i think would make me happy is to get back on my feet and have a man by my side that i love and loves me and children that i can raise and have fun with, i am very relationship oriented and I believe life is too short to waste, when i am in a relationship i am committed, honest, and loyal. I think that falling in love is always a good thing, even if it doesn't work out, there is always something to learn from being with someone, and happy times and memories should be cherished, friendship comes first for me, that is not to say i never get hurt because i do, i have been burnt so bad, my last relationship ended on a very sad note for me but I do not believe in regrets, i tell you this because i cannot predict the future, for some people a relationship has to be all or nothing...I don't feel that way, it is obvious that i don't know how to keep a good man since I am young and never married, but I never in the past nor do i intend to intentionally hurt someone by cheating, mistreating, or abusing them. Ok, for my questions to you. What are some of your goals, hopes and dreams? How long have you beens single?How old are your kids and there name,What your Race,Religion,How old are your parent?How close are you to them,Do you Smoke Or Drink, Got any Tattoo or Piercing on your body,what kind of Music,what do you do for Fun and do you like Dancing e.t.c If there is something you want to say but you think you might be rambling or it is not important, it is ok, to me it is important.

About My Travelling:
This is my first time of travelling to another country. It has'nt been easy but am able to cope and realise am in another country but the people here are interesting and have know much of there tribes and culture, i bet Africa is a nice place to be and i Ejoy been here but am worried about the security here because it's not enough and alot to say here but this my first time of travelling and i'm enjoying it.

See i have been single for almost 3 yrs now due to the hurt my X caused me, i was even living in Sherman, Texas at my late fathers house with my ex-boyfriend before he cheated on me, i was very weak when i saw him and my best friend in shower room, since my friend cheated on me, i dont have any friend again and i dont wish to have any friend again, because they are not a better friend but i'm over that now cause its not fun being alone

About Me:
i believe that i have everything that any man could want from a woman, i know that but am not saying that am the best woman on earth but i still believe in me and in God almight father, i believe that one day my soulmate and dream man will surely come for me, i'm open, sensual, kind, gentle, romantic, a different lady, i'm a very family oriented, sensitive and tender person, i want to give all of my tenderness and care to my special man, i enjoy nature, seeing the stars at night, listening to the sounds of nature, being near the water, swimming, as i love the ocean and sea, i like traveling, diving, dancing, drawing, skating and bowling, billiards, i enjoy music so much, blues, classical and modern jazz

i am very understanding, open minded with a heart of forgiving, loving and caring with sense of humor, hard working with cheerful character, honest, sincere, kind, warm and intelligent with good looks, people can't believe it when they see my photographs because i look like my mom, i am a girl that like runing on staudays, i was raised with a strike christian background and taught from a young age to always respect myself and other people and learn how to give mutual respect to my man, i still maintains this value wherever i go, my favorite food are bacon, egg, plantain,meats, fruit and i eats plenty of fruits and vegetable, i also do like to eat french pizza and pasta, i never speak negatively about people, i talk less and listen more to people and does not jump into other people's affair, i am a giver when i have it, i give because i so much believes in the multiple returns, i have fully decided to be a role model to my children and a good, loving and caring wife to my husband but i don't want to mess myself with the wrong man, basically i decided to settle with a nice, good loving and caring man.

Who i am looking for:
am looking forward to meeting my special man, i would like him to be kind, attentive, caring, reliable, well-mannered man with a good sense of humor, he should serious in his intentions to find a right lady and create a happy family, i would like him to appreciate not only my appearance but my inside world as well, he should also be goal-oriented, self-established, not greedy and narrow-minded, he should know how to treat a lady, he should love children

For Fun:
i like watching movies, going out to dinner, walk, hold hands, read books about God, do constructive tasks around the house, hang out with friends i am honest, God-fearing, hard worker, making others happy

Last Read:
the last thing i read for pure pleasure was harry potter & the goblet of fire, if you don't think the harry potter books are just as or twice as entertaining to adults then prove yourself wrong by cracking one open, reading 'Family First' current

Where i like to go on Date:
I would like to go out for dinner and also know each other better...I would also like to go to beach and park and even walk in a long distance range and hold hands.

What i like in a man:
I like a man that is honest..humble..loyal..loving and caring...easily going..trust worth..dependable...respectful.....Open minded...A man that will always be with me in bad times.

What i dislike in a man::
i dislike a man that cheats like my exboyfriend, lie, disappoint, steal, take drug, smoke, drink and a man that like to stay until midnight.
I would like to hear good news from you......And would also like to know how many children you will like to have in our future life again,when will be together.I have to go now....Looking forward to hear from you again.

I really wanna let you know that i really appreciate your affection and the interest you have shown towards me....i am indeed very happy that a man like you is interested in me, it shows its gonna be a good year entirely.
believe it or not i am single and looking as it as been something that really holding me down, i wanna live my life, i want a family of my own, i want to make kids as i love to see kids around me, this is not to say that i hav not been into relationship before but God knows why i was not loved by them, i keep calm as i know God in his finite mercy hav a good plan towards my life, may be he as been keeping for a good man, that is loving caring and a guy with a big heart, i dont just want a man, i need good qualities it entails to be able to make up a good relationship and family.

in your conversations to me i have read it over and over again but what comes to my my mind is that "did he really mean all he hav wrote to me? well i will really wanna find out and know where we go from here, it is not about having the right man or that right woman that matters in relationships what matter most is the abilities to be able to build the kind of relationship one really want for his or her self is the ultimate.

Anyway i am an easy going kind of being i dont smoke but i am a light drinker especially when there is much cold, you will know much about me as we go on, I want a man that can really bring out the real person in me, a man that will really encourage my talent and boost my ego, this is really great having a guy like you wanting to get in love with me i feel so great and happy within my self, i read our conversation several times, it still baffles me but i still strongly believe this could work out for us, you know sometimes someone says something really small and it fits right into this empty place in your heart.

Now let us play hide and seek. Should you hide in my heart it would not be difficult to find you. But should you hide behind your own shell, then it would be useless for anyone to seek you,...i need to hear ur response and pls i need to see more of u send me some pictures of u.................

Lissy Johnson