Letter(s) to Grant (Canada)

Letter 1

My Dear Mat,
Thanks for the chat..this what i wnat you to know about my life....

My full name is Betty Thomas
I am 30yrs Old,some few month 3th of Jan, I am Aries in Horoscope, I am 130lbs, 5"7ft
I am honest, caring, understanding, loyal, intelligent, romantic, lovely, obedient,respectful,passionate,Open minded never married or divorced with any man since when i was born in my life, I dont have kids, I will be so happy if i could find the right man to settle down with and work harder with him to plans life , love and have kids together as Outstanding Father, and be a Good Future Husband and wife for the rest of Our life together with love, peace and harmony in lovely and peaceful Home..........Well i am a still a student in University, Studying Sales and Marketing.. I do go to school from monday till friday sometime on saturday not often,I dont have bad habits attittude,character, I dont smoke and I dont drink Achololic. All in moderation. I try to take care of my self and keep healthy .I like doing alot of things right here for fun, when i am less busy at home or have no assignment from school , I like going to beaches, haggout with my best friends, listen to different kind of nice and cool musics, such as R&B, Hip Hop, Jazz, Blues, Etc, Like watching movies , Comedy, Drama, Action movies at home or cinemas house, like going to swimming pools, Dancing, cooking...I Like Kissing, Cuddling,Huggs, Sex ,cuz i realise and believe that sex is so much important and necessary in relationship withing man and woman it keep the relationship more stronger and solid in hearts of 2couples man and woman, beside sex is like a fun of life ,I think being sexual is a giant part of a relationship. Knowing each other is knowing each others wants and needs but most be well sure to get yourself protected and safe not to contact any sexuall transmission deasease such as HIV/AIDS, reading Novels, like to play with kids as well cuz they keep me away from not to be alone, lonely, and bored right here sometimes, Etc. I am Originall from US, I"m presently living With my mother in Nigeria since when i was 4Yrs Old, About 25Yrs ago my father died in a Plane Crashed when Travelling to Holland together with some of collagues at Work, his death lead to our way to relocate back to Nigeria together with my mother cuz most things went so hard and difficult for me and my mother after the death of my late father, he is an auto mechanic he died on his way travelling to meet his client on contract bases, around 8:44am early tuesday morning, I really missed him so much in my Life.........my father is originall from US while my mother is from Nigeria I am living together with my mother in a room rented.could u imagine that i was not told then when my father died in an auto accident, my mother keep this secret till when i was 18yrs old of age, when i asked her why she didnt told me about my fathers death since all this years back, she said this was beyound what she can told me, moreover she realise how i really love my father so she thought of not to let me know then , cuz she thank that anything can happened to me if i was told that my father died, i can get fainted and this can lead to another death from me that is the reason why i was not told when my father died about some years ago....i was shocked and scream alot , cried when i was told but nothing i could do than to keep heart and always pray for him to rest in Peace of God......

I’m searching for my life long partner to share a Great Life of Love with; romance, long slow kisses, feeling very special, intimacy, spirituality, pleasurable communication, dancing, meeting of the minds, opening a door for you, flowers, traveling and other exciting interests and adventures, A GREAT LIFE of LOVE! I am one who strongly believes in respect and that without respect, you can’t experience true love and generate a healthy relationship. I believe in a smaller “wow” when it is first a friendship and then a larger “Wow” later as it evolves into a Beautiful Loving committed relationship. I believe it’s not just what you are like on the outside, but more about what you are like on the inside. I’m seeking friendship first, (no game playing please) with someone who appreciates some of the same temperaments and interests I enjoy.That special someone is a man with integrity, is spiritually compatible with me, having similar beliefs - New Age and is responsible, intelligent, has a sense of humour, positive, is clean and neat in habit and appearance, romantic, passionate about living and loving. I would prefer that someone to show interest and be supportive of my spiritual work. He should be well responsible , and has 'been there, done that'.I like an adventurous person who likes travel, nature and enjoys being home. He is a man who is at peace with himself. I am hoping to connect with people of like minds to form friendship first and then leave the rest to God to see what comes out of the friendship .I'm just a regular lady who is trying to get eternal life and who's waiting for Jesus to return. I'm not a materialistic individual or vain. I respect this world as I know it, realizing that I'm called to be a citizen in the kingdom to come. I'm not a religious individual or anything like that, I'm just trying to gain eterlal life. I don't go to church or anything like that, I just follow Christ. I understand that ones possessions do not determine the individual. So I don't seek someone because they have niether do I avoid someone because they don't have. I'm just seeking someone who beleives in unity, co-operation, truth, love, dedication, partenership, trust (not in me but in God). Someone who knows love and is able to recognize it when it's present. Someone who is not caught up in beleiveing that they exist only to be entertained, and won't see me as a "source of entertainment". I guess basicly,someone who truly lives for God. Everything else after that is cool. I am simple lady that enjoys living and having fun. It is great to be alive, so many things life offers to experience and be a part of. I want to find a simple man that can smile about life because he too sees all the great things about life. I want to find somone to build an everlasting friendship with, one we'll both value until our end.... So if you think smiling and living life too...I am very outgoing and spontaneous like to have fun and travel alot. I like to cook but also like fine dining. the rest you will have to ask maybe its you!Do you Mind My age? How Old are you?? Do you Mind the Distance between us?? what do you have to Offer when you meet someone that is serious in a relationship as You?? What is Your Full Name?? what state and City are you Presently Now?? why are you still single, what are your short and Your Long term Goals??? what Kind of a woman are you really Looking for?? How Life has been Treating you without having a woman in your life???, Well I Think i have asked alot Questions, I will Like to stop here for now and i will be looking forward to read back from you... Let me Know what you think about this and do you think We Could start from here... I Believe God Knows what Right for Us..Hope to read back from you soon. StayBlessed

Betty

Letter 2

Helllo mat,

Goodafternoon ,how are you doing?Well am just trying to get online....hope you are feeling fine.Well have been back from church more than 5hrs ago...i pray for you at the church...

My personal habits are organized, neat, and clean. I'm comfortable in any situation...socially, I present myself as warm, confident, and professional....a complete gentleWoman. At home I'm warm, confident, and comfortable...a complete gentlewoman. I'm more "domestic" than most woman..I'm a great cook....I clean, do laundry, ironing, sewing, decorating/designing, entertaining....you name it...there is no "your job - my job"...if it needs to be done, I just do it. I'm very much an "outdoorswoman".
Love to be in the mountains...hiking, camping, fishing, hunting, or just napping under a great shade tree. I work hard, always striving to be and do my best. I've been successful in most everything I've done. I am most satisfied and fulfilled when in service to humanity....always looking to do good, even if only a kind word or smile to someone who needs it. I'm serious about my future. I'd like to enjoy with a lovely man that i can trust But, my primary focus is on sharing every day of the rest of my life with the most wonderful and beautiful "love of my life....I am looking for someone who is sincere, honest, faithful and more than anything romantic. Age is not really important to me because age is only a number but I suspect that if I was to fall in love then it would probably be someone of similar age as me but one never knows what tomorrow will bring. I wish to meet someone that enjoys getting out and doing things in nature like walking, hiking, canoeing, camping, skiing or even something new for me would be fun... Is that you? I hope you write to me

stayblessed

betty mat

Letter 3

hello mat,

Where are you ?Am back home...why did you leave me alone now?well am now online..hope to chat with you soon..

betty mat